memories

Jefferson, GA

#24 Dec 7, 2012
When you are in pain ,remember that they did that to you.... when you are happy, remember that they did not do it.

“WE WON TOPIX! YAY!”

Since: Jun 09

Schaumburg, IL

#25 Dec 7, 2012
memories wrote:
When you are in pain ,remember that they did that to you.... when you are happy, remember that they did not do it.
But, what if they did?
memories

Jefferson, GA

#26 Dec 7, 2012
Ferrerman wrote:
<quoted text>But, what if they did?
I haven't had that experience. I hang in there a long time. If I've given up and moved on, they have no redeeming qualities.:)

“WE WON TOPIX! YAY!”

Since: Jun 09

Schaumburg, IL

#27 Dec 7, 2012
memories wrote:
<quoted text>
I haven't had that experience. I hang in there a long time. If I've given up and moved on, they have no redeeming qualities.:)
Well, yeah, but, at some point they did make us happy. We have to admit that. It's weird but, it happens.
memories

Jefferson, GA

#28 Dec 7, 2012
Ferrerman wrote:
<quoted text>Well, yeah, but, at some point they did make us happy. We have to admit that. It's weird but, it happens.
I can't admit what isn't true and the harm that they have caused and continue to cause have killed any possible good feelings. Sorry. I am happy inspite of, not because of.

“WE WON TOPIX! YAY!”

Since: Jun 09

Schaumburg, IL

#29 Dec 7, 2012
memories wrote:
<quoted text>
I can't admit what isn't true and the harm that they have caused and continue to cause have killed any possible good feelings. Sorry. I am happy inspite of, not because of.
I think we are on the same page here. It's just odd that such people made us happy once upon a time and turned out to be so gawdawful. No, there's no good reason to feel good about them now. Feeling good is good enough.

“New & Improved..”

Level 8

Since: Oct 07

Formerly From Kenya

#30 Dec 7, 2012
Princess Hey said it on the first page..but to add to that..

You forgive, from there you are in control of your feelings...if you really can forgive, if not then the entire facade is just that...
When one learns how to forgive it is the same implicitness as love...and sometimes must be twice as absolute, because it carries pain..
Geno

Attica, OH

#31 Dec 7, 2012
Ferrerman wrote:
<quoted text>I think we are on the same page here. It's just odd that such people made us happy once upon a time and turned out to be so gawdawful. No, there's no good reason to feel good about them now. Feeling good is good enough.
You're not planning on leaving me, are you Snookums??????

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

Level 8

Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#32 Dec 7, 2012
memories wrote:
When you are in pain ,remember that they did that to you.... when you are happy, remember that they did not do it.
PUT that FREAKIN' pipe down...DUDE...
LMAO

Jefferson, GA

#33 Dec 7, 2012
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text> PUT that FREAKIN' pipe down...DUDE...
I am NOT a dude!!! lol

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Level 8

Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#34 Dec 7, 2012
LMAO wrote:
<quoted text>
I am NOT a dude!!! lol
WELL, Excuuuuuse me, Chick...Put down the BONG...then...LADYLIKE... enough for ya???
LMAO

Jefferson, GA

#35 Dec 7, 2012
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text> WELL, Excuuuuuse me, Chick...Put down the BONG...then...LADYLIKE... enough for ya???
Nah... I get low on life. No need for drugs! lol
Interpreter

United States

#36 Dec 7, 2012
Ferrerman wrote:
<quoted text>I think we are on the same page here. It's just odd that such people made us happy once upon a time and turned out to be so gawdawful. No, there's no good reason to feel good about them now. Feeling good is good enough.
attagirl, kicked to the kerb like yesterdays trash. pick yourself up, wank yourself off. and,
find love in the arms of yet another homo.
but it's a hard to determine who's the femme.
you or geno?

Since: Mar 08

Location hidden

#38 Dec 8, 2012
Randa wrote:
I don't know what to say,I loved a person who I though will will be every thing to me but I guess I was wrong. HE broke my heart with my best friend and none of them remembered me. They walk in front of me like nothing happened between us. I don't know what to do I need help.I tried to forget him but I couldn't and I cried everyday just to get him out of my mind.I'm only 16 years old and I loved him for 4 years.
Funny, you were the same age as I was with my first boyfriend, we went out for almost 3 years. So with that said, I'm going to give you the advice my mother gave me while I was having a cry fest in my room. She walked in, I told her to get out, and she said to me that there was nothing she could say or do to help me with what I was going through, she then said that in a year I'm going to ask you how you're doing, and you're going to say fine, and mean it. After that, I threw a pillow at her and told her she was crazy, to get out, and to leave me alone,, she did,,, but.... a year passed (she musta marked it on her calendar or something) and she did ask me how I was doing and I told her fine, she asked again, and asked if I'm really fine. I said yes, you're crazy, what's up? and she laughed and reminded me of what happened a year ago.

All I can tell you, is that she was right!

Soooo when someone asked you how you are a year from now,, you will say you're fine, and from experience, I can almost promise you, you're gonna mean it. It's going to hurt until it doesn't, and Randa, there's going to be a time when it doesn't..... lets just say a year from now.....
Tweety

San Diego, CA

#41 Dec 8, 2012
Every time I read one of your posts R C, I like you more. :)

“My Little Star Fish”

Level 9

Since: Mar 12

.....I Love You.....

#42 Dec 8, 2012
Hope everybody is enjoying their morning..have a great day...

“look up and laugh”

Level 9

Since: Jun 08

guess, where

#43 Dec 8, 2012
I have found that when I stopped thinking about the harm they did to me and forgave them it helped me.

“... lazy, hazy, crazy...”

Since: Aug 08

... daze of summer ...

#44 Dec 8, 2012
... there must be at least 50 ways to lose your lover ...

“My Little Star Fish”

Level 9

Since: Mar 12

.....I Love You.....

#45 Dec 8, 2012
yes Mike you can lose them cant forget them..

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Level 8

Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#46 Dec 8, 2012
GMGMIKE wrote:
... there must be at least 50 ways to lose your lover ...
. YOU ...lost them..When they WALKED out the door and NEVER came bacccck!!!

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