how to forget a person u love but has hurt u?

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chikibaby

Fort Worth, TX

#1 Apr 27, 2011
Yes I've been hurt by this person alot.... N yes most of u guys r sayn yea but u can't love someone who has hurt u I know that but it's hard to forget someone!!! help me

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#2 Apr 27, 2011
Dr. Ruth can be googled for a good answer like this.

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#3 Apr 27, 2011

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#4 Apr 27, 2011
If you love someone, let them go. If they don't come back to you, track them down and kill them.

But, be nice about it.
open book

United States

#5 Apr 27, 2011
chikibaby wrote:
Yes I've been hurt by this person alot.... N yes most of u guys r sayn yea but u can't love someone who has hurt u I know that but it's hard to forget someone!!! help me
How long were u 2 together?
Gaybriel

United States

#6 Apr 27, 2011
chikibaby wrote:
Yes I've been hurt by this person alot.... N yes most of u guys r sayn yea but u can't love someone who has hurt u I know that but it's hard to forget someone!!! help me
I've been at your stage many times over the years. Currently, the one I love, just a little over 3 years, met a woman 1.8 yrs. ago and she gets all his love,hugs/kisses, sleeps with him many times during their relationship, while I only had 2 nights with him. They broke up recently,then 2 weeks later, together again. Yes, some of this is my fault for staying loyal to him. I told him I'm going to move on to find someone else,then he comes at me with all he's got to keep me from straying, gets upset that I will find another as if leaving him is an insult to him. As much as I love him, never will stop loving him, but wise enough, experienced enough hurt to move on and confident in knowing there is always someone out there just as worthy to love. I told him this and now knows he walks on "thin ice". I said "If you can't give affection, then I have to seek one who will,and it tears me apart knowing she gets all I want, and she often hurts you,where I never have and you lavish all emotion onto her. I don't want to leave,have no desire to leave. That she sleeps with you daily for those 1.8 years while I only had 2 nights. Enough." When I say that,he claims that I should be grateful for having him!! I replied- "The sex is great,the best I ever had, what I lack is the emotional support, and I'm starving for affection. You won't give it". Then he says -"I'm sorry, but I can't hug/kiss you." Then 2 nights ago, he says "Why did'nt you take advantage of me and(now lowers his voice) kiss? I said-"Because you put the restrictions on what we can do". I know how difficult relationships are. Being gay,and in a town where not much to seek in gay relations, makes for more desparation,less contacts. Then he tells me about his troubles with her and other females,deepens my hurt. my past struggles have helped me get through those times, never easy either. At least he knows I will move on, despite the intense love I have for him. And look inside yourself as to why you and I allow to be treated so shabbily. Mostly because love is highly emotional and those emotions are not about making sense, so we have to battle our rational selves to deal with it. An inner "tug of war".

“Always consider the dragon ...”

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If you live near her.

#7 Apr 27, 2011
Ferrerman wrote:
If you love someone, let them go. If they don't come back to you, track them down and kill them.
But, be nice about it.
After you shoot 'em,.... bury 'em deep so as not to be reminded of them.

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#10 Apr 27, 2011
GLEN CARTER wrote:
I know how to forget her.......I just want to know how to get rid of her ??
HER ??????? Your gay !!!!!!!!!! If not, you freak, you haven't touched a woman since you grew leg hair. Your awfully mean to girls...nutbag.Adrian ...how's that hate working out for ya ? ROTFLMAO

“My life in simple words”

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#12 May 1, 2011
distend, turn the key

should your curvature have a knot to tighten ?

tofu ty toffee candidate in black, stepping into a red ball,

distend, take another tack.

~DeVine.

“My life in simple words”

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#13 Aug 8, 2011
"HONESTY, IS SUCH A LONELY WORD."

I am not part of your life !

You cannot give me a place in your heart

If you could you would, I know it....definitely

And you know it too...

You have the right to live with the person you
like....even love,

You are genuinely an honest woman, who has all the
qualities I never knew,

I can truely understand you...

I think I am a kind of selfish person who tries to
get everything that I think I need,

I may not be as good as you....

So, until I give up my selfishness, I have to
suffer,

I need love.....that is the only thing I expect in
my life,

But it is not realistic,

My mind should be open to accept anything...

If I say I'm okay now......it's a total lie,

There is no shortcut to come to that state of mind soon.

Adrian.(DeVine.)
Sweetie Pie

Brea, CA

#14 Aug 8, 2011
Laura Beffy wrote:
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HER ??????? Your gay !!!!!!!!!! If not, you freak, you haven't touched a woman since you grew leg hair. Your awfully mean to girls...nutbag.Adrian ...how's that hate working out for ya ? ROTFLMAO
And, you're seeing dead people.
Sweetie Pie

Brea, CA

#15 Aug 8, 2011
Laura Beffy wrote:
<quoted text>
HER ??????? Your gay !!!!!!!!!! If not, you freak, you haven't touched a woman since you grew leg hair. Your awfully mean to girls...nutbag.Adrian ...how's that hate working out for ya ? ROTFLMAO
After you put on your glasses...your mouth, among other places, needs a good scrubbing out..Got it?
Randa

Birmingham, UK

#16 Dec 6, 2012
I don't know what to say,I loved a person who I though will will be every thing to me but I guess I was wrong. HE broke my heart with my best friend and none of them remembered me. They walk in front of me like nothing happened between us. I don't know what to do I need help.I tried to forget him but I couldn't and I cried everyday just to get him out of my mind.I'm only 16 years old and I loved him for 4 years.

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#17 Dec 6, 2012
Crude and rude but it worked for my ex-wife, get another guy and f*** him til you change your mind.

“M E R R Y C H R I S T M A S”

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And Have A Happy New Year

#18 Dec 6, 2012
you cant forget them but you can forgive them and move on..thats the best medicine..

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#19 Dec 6, 2012
Find someone better. Sure worked for me. I'm too happy to think about all that pain.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

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Rockin' USA ;)

#20 Dec 6, 2012
chikibaby wrote:
Yes I've been hurt by this person alot.... N yes most of u guys r sayn yea but u can't love someone who has hurt u I know that but it's hard to forget someone!!! help me
DO the FREAKIB' PRO and CON list...LIST their GOOD and BAD qualities...IF THEY...REALLY....DID LOVE YA...then WHY isn't There ANY communication BETWEEN the TWO of ya.??? It hurTs to realize THAT you cared MORE for this person THAN they did fer you... TRUTH HURTS....and that's WHY we overlook it and reflect on the HAPPY times we shared with them. BUT, IF they are WITH you now..YOU wouldn't be telling' all. LET HIM GO... take care of you and HEAL...

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#21 Dec 7, 2012
Hmm.. just think of what awaits. Think of other things, concentrate on what matters most...

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#22 Dec 7, 2012
Good advise QC.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

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Rockin' USA ;)

#23 Dec 7, 2012
QuiteCrazy wrote:
Hmm.. just think of what awaits. Think of other things, concentrate on what matters most...
Sooooo VERY TRUE...Need to let it giooo...if he/she AIN'T with ya...UT's BECAUSE they don't wanna be...MORE FREAKIN' FISH in the sea...WHERE'S my fishing pole???

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