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“Spring is here, ”

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#21 Jan 13, 2007
Just Thinking wrote:
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And always let your conscience be your guide.
What if someone doesn't have a conscience?

“"Eatin' Ain't Cheatin!"”

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#22 Jan 13, 2007
To tell my little sister that I loved her before she passed.

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#23 Jan 13, 2007
Vee wrote:
<quoted text>Everyone has regrets and guilt feelings in life when it comes to our relationships with other people. It is the not knowing when we will lose someone that should make us more tolerant and kinder in our actions and deeds, but because we dont sit and dwell on each second that goes by that leads us to the end of our journey, we put off that visit in place of something else, or the phone call we should make, or the flowers we should take, or the cake we should bake, or the visit long overdue, so if this is another day that goes by when you "CANT," make sure you HUG a loved one today and say "I Love You," because who knows???????
Yes Vee,
The fact that we are human, we intend doing these things but as the famous John Lennon once said, we have good intentions but 'Life gets in the way''
Thankfully, one learns from these experiences.. I try to remember to tell those I know and love, how I feel about them; some would think it is too sweet but I feel, emotions should be expressed [within reason Ha ha!]...

Also, when addressing people, either in person, or in most of my posts here, if not addressing more than one, I try to name the person, It is more intimate and shows a respect for people, that's my own thinking; and I like it in return.. folks who know me also know I have a ''hang up'' about this !! neurotic !! ha ha.

What you said re> telling folks you love them.. is well said..
Also, another good one to remember is,
if we have an argument with someone, do NOT - if possible go to bed without mending the rift.
Even the old adage has t >

"Don't let the sun go down on thy wrath''

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#24 Jan 13, 2007
Mexican Hillbilly wrote:
To tell my little sister that I loved her before she passed.
Perhaps so MH,
but You can be certain she knew that in your on going dealings with her
through the years....
and ... kind of comforting here would be the quote
"Actions speak louder than words''

It is strange, how we ALL challenge ourselves on what we SHOULD have done or said rather
than compliment ourselves on what we did... that applies to us all...

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#25 Jan 13, 2007
franko wrote:
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MAn, how MANY times I said that!!!
If only woulda, coulda, shouldas mattered.

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#26 Jan 13, 2007
dnb wrote:
As they say in the real estate world....location, location, location!
The heart shouldn't care about location...Love isn't about boundries..

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#27 Jan 13, 2007
La Sun,
On a lighter note I see beside your pic
a lovely motto>

''The Heart holds all the Answers''

but in my case I'm inclined to think my cheque book holds a lot of the answers...
especially after Christmas!! ha ha!

Cheers Lovely La...

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#28 Jan 13, 2007
Grace Nerissa wrote:
La Sun,
On a lighter note I see beside your pic
a lovely motto>
''The Heart holds all the Answers''
but in my case I'm inclined to think my cheque book holds a lot of the answers...
especially after Christmas!! ha ha!
Cheers Lovely La...
Its true. For myself, the heart does hold the answers. To me it's awake up call. Guard your cheque book...xxxx

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#29 Jan 13, 2007
La Sunshine wrote:
<quoted text>Well stop it Sweet Cheeks. You are a great person...xoxoxo
I've been helping her to be a lot happier than she's been in years, raised her self esteem, and her self worth. I want her to know that she's a beautiful, sexy young woman, and I just love her with all my heart. The only thing i'd ever want to change is that we've could have got to know each other even sooner than we did, or that I had lived closer to her. Not that it really matters now, since I'm planning on packing up, and being with her just as soon as I can...I LOVE YOU, my Beth!!!

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#30 Jan 13, 2007
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
I am trying to change how I feel about myself...Sometimes I can be REALLY hard on myself!!
I KNOW you can, and I'm trying to help you with that. Your hubby hasn't helped you at all in that department, either...
Just Thinking

Roseville, MI

#31 Jan 13, 2007
La Sunshine wrote:
<quoted text>What if someone doesn't have a conscience?
Well then they don't have a life either. At least not the kind that I would want to live. The only thing worse than that would be holding on to pain and not having a life as a result.

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#32 Jan 13, 2007
Groucho AKA Falcon 68 wrote:
<quoted text>I've been helping her to be a lot happier than she's been in years, raised her self esteem, and her self worth. I want her to know that she's a beautiful, sexy young woman, and I just love her with all my heart. The only thing i'd ever want to change is that we've could have got to know each other even sooner than we did, or that I had lived closer to her. Not that it really matters now, since I'm planning on packing up, and being with her just as soon as I can...I LOVE YOU, my Beth!!!
I'm learning the situation and Falcon, YOU are what Beth needs in your life. Y'all be very happy together!! I'm glad that y'all never gave up on love..xxxxx

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#33 Jan 13, 2007
Just Thinking wrote:
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Well then they don't have a life either. At least not the kind that I would want to live. The only thing worse than that would be holding on to pain and not having a life as a result.
So...true, JT. Why can't anybody have the best of both worlds????

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#34 Jan 13, 2007
Groucho AKA Falcon 68 wrote:
<quoted text>I've been helping her to be a lot happier than she's been in years, raised her self esteem, and her self worth. I want her to know that she's a beautiful, sexy young woman, and I just love her with all my heart. The only thing i'd ever want to change is that we've could have got to know each other even sooner than we did, or that I had lived closer to her. Not that it really matters now, since I'm planning on packing up, and being with her just as soon as I can...I LOVE YOU, my Beth!!!
Falcon, I'm gonna say something else, too. You are truely a good decent man. With the love that you have for Beth, you can do anything. You have stepped up to the plate from the get go and never told her anything that wasn't true. You were there for her. You followed up and followed thru on what you told her that you were gonna do. I'm so happy that you haven't played games with her. In my eyes you are one hell of a man!!! I have alot of respect for you.

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#35 Jan 13, 2007
La Sunshine wrote:
<quoted text>I'm learning the situation and Falcon, YOU are what Beth needs in your life. Y'all be very happy together!! I'm glad that y'all never gave up on love..xxxxx
I know that I could very well be the best thing to come into her life, and on the same token, I believe she's the best thing that ever happened to me too!! We DO need each other, and every day our love continues to grow and embraces both of us!!

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#36 Jan 13, 2007
Mexican Hillbilly wrote:
To tell my little sister that I loved her before she passed.
She knows you loved her..she knows!!

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#37 Jan 13, 2007
Grace Nerissa wrote:
<quoted text>
Perhaps so MH,
but You can be certain she knew that in your on going dealings with her
through the years....
and ... kind of comforting here would be the quote
"Actions speak louder than words''
It is strange, how we ALL challenge ourselves on what we SHOULD have done or said rather
than compliment ourselves on what we did... that applies to us all...
Grace, you are so very intelligent and kind. I was blessed to be able to tell my mama to go on to heaven because Jesus was waiting and watching. He just wanted her to come home.
I was planning on getting on here to cheer up but it went opposite...who cares? My son will be home soon and no one will dampen my spirits today!

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#38 Jan 14, 2007
I want my mama. I wish that she was still alive.

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#39 Jan 14, 2007
La Sunshine wrote:
I want my mama. I wish that she was still alive.
Ah Sunshine! Pet,
You sound like a little lost girl..
In spirit I put my arms round you and rock you gently..

Talk to her, it helps...

Don't be sad, we'll always be here for you dear Sunny.

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#40 Jan 14, 2007
if i could change one thing sbout my life,
i believe would not have stayed with my husband for 25 years. too, bad i can't nice to escape for that moment ha, ha,

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