Why is Topix Viewership Shrinking?

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#845 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
Ugh again just a few sentences in and a major prob. Uh fyi friendliness has a definition u choosing to warp that definition to fit in to ur non sociable personality does not make the definition change.
Lol no I don't swim in that pool im the lifeguard. I would throw u a life preserver but you haven't asked for one yet. I hope u have time to ask for help before u drown. Wouldnt want to offer unsolicited help to ya.
;)
I don't take posting here serious I hold no grudges if we agree on the next topic sg you'll b the first to know. ;). Happy posting girl.
Again, what is friendly to YOU is specific to YOU, and what is friendly to ME is specific to me. EVERYTHING I SAY is true FOR ME. Most truths are specific to each person. I wave at people and smile to be friendly, and I RESPECT them enough to let them do things for themselves. I want the privilege to do EVERYTHING for myself, and I EARN that by doing that to others.

If you want to be friendly, then treat each person as they define friendly to mean. Mine is respecting the differences in others, never noticing strangers, waving, saying hi, smiling, etc. Any more than that is to be reserved for the people you ALREADY KNOW, who are your friends or family.You have your family, you friends, your ideas, and I have mine. That bothers some, that each person is different and has to be respected and related to in ways that are specific to each person. If I am a stranger, there is no way you can know me or to know my values or what is acceptable to me. I always walk on eggshells around new people and always do the least possible just to make sure I don't offend them.

It seems to bother others that I'm the expert on many things and they are not, and often their insecurity causes them to want to condescend to me and force help on me, and they often don't realize I am my own person and what I do is different from others, and never a mistake. I bend over backwards to not make mistakes, and I believe in ignoring mistakes others make. So anything you think you see is a mistake is deliberate on my part, and for reasons only I have a right to know. Like the woman who was too stupid to know I did my makeup in a gradient and assumed it was smudged, and she kept pestering me to fix it and pretending it was a flaw. It takes a highly negative person to see ANYTHING in another as a flaw (unless it was a moral issue like drug use, excessive sex, etc). Then when I called her on it, she said something about not being a social person. It isn't that. I simply socialize ONLY verbally. If I don't say it, I don't mean it, no matter what tone of voice, facial expression, gestures, manner of dress etc., that you think you see.

If I was drowning, I'd shout for help before getting too far under. If I don't well, that is my own tough luck. Everyone has to die eventually. There are undertows, but nobody can help you with those. The best way I hear to get out of it is to let yourself go, not fight it, since fighting it uses up your wind. And once you get thrown out, then worry about getting back.

Thank you, I don't take posting here seriously either. It is just venting and practice. It is therapy, self-expression, or a "White middle class game" and nothing more.

FTW Yall

“"Trust no one"”

Level 1

Since: Jul 13

Drive it, like you stole it

#846 Dec 18, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
Again, what is friendly to YOU is specific to YOU, and what is friendly to ME is specific to me. EVERYTHING I SAY is true FOR ME. Most truths are specific to each person. I wave at people and smile to be friendly, and I RESPECT them enough to let them do things for themselves. I want the privilege to do EVERYTHING for myself, and I EARN that by doing that to others.
If you want to be friendly, then treat each person as they define friendly to mean. Mine is respecting the differences in others, never noticing strangers, waving, saying hi, smiling, etc. Any more than that is to be reserved for the people you ALREADY KNOW, who are your friends or family.You have your family, you friends, your ideas, and I have mine. That bothers some, that each person is different and has to be respected and related to in ways that are specific to each person. If I am a stranger, there is no way you can know me or to know my values or what is acceptable to me. I always walk on eggshells around new people and always do the least possible just to make sure I don't offend them.
It seems to bother others that I'm the expert on many things and they are not, and often their insecurity causes them to want to condescend to me and force help on me, and they often don't realize I am my own person and what I do is different from others, and never a mistake. I bend over backwards to not make mistakes, and I believe in ignoring mistakes others make. So anything you think you see is a mistake is deliberate on my part, and for reasons only I have a right to know. Like the woman who was too stupid to know I did my makeup in a gradient and assumed it was smudged, and she kept pestering me to fix it and pretending it was a flaw. It takes a highly negative person to see ANYTHING in another as a flaw (unless it was a moral issue like drug use, excessive sex, etc). Then when I called her on it, she said something about not being a social person. It isn't that. I simply socialize ONLY verbally. If I don't say it, I don't mean it, no matter what tone of voice, facial expression, gestures, manner of dress etc., that you think you see.
If I was drowning, I'd shout for help before getting too far under. If I don't well, that is my own tough luck. Everyone has to die eventually. There are undertows, but nobody can help you with those. The best way I hear to get out of it is to let yourself go, not fight it, since fighting it uses up your wind. And once you get thrown out, then worry about getting back.
Thank you, I don't take posting here seriously either. It is just venting and practice. It is therapy, self-expression, or a "White middle class game" and nothing more.
If I can't hear you on a forum then you can't vocalize on one either.
PS
True Libertarians don't see drug use as immoral. Only drug prohibition.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#847 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text>Complaining does not solve anything. Complaining is just a cry for attention by a weak narcissist. Your just an lonely elitist bitch. Crying and complaining are flawed coping mechanisms we are supposed to leave behind in childhood.
For a woman it does. It permanently gets rid of the feelings. It is a form of bonding and expression, not a sick cry for attention. EVERY woman is supposed to complain.

Complaining is a highly evolved coping skill that most men are too proud and inferior to do. Most men think like rapists with sick need to turn physical. Once I thoroughly vent an issue, it is resolved forever. I merely mentioned something I disliked about a browser as a one-way vent, and you turned it into a sick cry for help, when it is the correct primary way for all women to bond. Women have needs men don't. You only think of eating something, destroying something, or raping something because you were born with a defective 23rd chromosome with most of it missing.

A man has this sick need to fix things, while a woman can vent to bond with other female friends and to permanently get whatever out and move on. Most men are too stupid, proud, and inferior to see it this correct way. Most men are too stupid and weak to vent, and too stupid to let the other person vent without saying ANYTHING. Everyone is entitled to get to vent without being judged or called names. Let them vent than never mention it. But a woman's emotions bother you. If they bother you this much, you should come out as gay and be around and someone with an equally abusive male nature.

Men love abusing women in public forums. Too bad there are few women-only forums, and with victim blamers and abusive anti-venters banned for life. Women only can have equality in speaking when men are not there to dominate. Like I said, any advantage they have needs to be systematically nullified.

Since: Jan 07

Location Shown

#848 Dec 18, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
since I often only post when I am sure others will read without posting.

.


I just caught on that you are purple girl, welcome back,...

FTW Yall

“"Trust no one"”

Level 1

Since: Jul 13

Drive it, like you stole it

#849 Dec 18, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
Again, what is friendly to YOU is specific to YOU, and what is friendly to ME is specific to me. EVERYTHING I SAY is true FOR ME. Most truths are specific to each person. I wave at people and smile to be friendly, and I RESPECT them enough to let them do things for themselves. I want the privilege to do EVERYTHING for myself, and I EARN that by doing that to others.
If you want to be friendly, then treat each person as they define friendly to mean. Mine is respecting the differences in others, never noticing strangers, waving, saying hi, smiling, etc. Any more than that is to be reserved for the people you ALREADY KNOW, who are your friends or family.You have your family, you friends, your ideas, and I have mine. That bothers some, that each person is different and has to be respected and related to in ways that are specific to each person. If I am a stranger, there is no way you can know me or to know my values or what is acceptable to me. I always walk on eggshells around new people and always do the least possible just to make sure I don't offend them.
It seems to bother others that I'm the expert on many things and they are not, and often their insecurity causes them to want to condescend to me and force help on me, and they often don't realize I am my own person and what I do is different from others, and never a mistake. I bend over backwards to not make mistakes, and I believe in ignoring mistakes others make. So anything you think you see is a mistake is deliberate on my part, and for reasons only I have a right to know. Like the woman who was too stupid to know I did my makeup in a gradient and assumed it was smudged, and she kept pestering me to fix it and pretending it was a flaw. It takes a highly negative person to see ANYTHING in another as a flaw (unless it was a moral issue like drug use, excessive sex, etc). Then when I called her on it, she said something about not being a social person. It isn't that. I simply socialize ONLY verbally. If I don't say it, I don't mean it, no matter what tone of voice, facial expression, gestures, manner of dress etc., that you think you see.
If I was drowning, I'd shout for help before getting too far under. If I don't well, that is my own tough luck. Everyone has to die eventually. There are undertows, but nobody can help you with those. The best way I hear to get out of it is to let yourself go, not fight it, since fighting it uses up your wind. And once you get thrown out, then worry about getting back.
Thank you, I don't take posting here seriously either. It is just venting and practice. It is therapy, self-expression, or a "White middle class game" and nothing more.
Thank you for admitting you see no flaws in me.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#850 Dec 18, 2013
A thought wrote:
<quoted text>And then homicide against Ferrerman! YIKES!
I will never commit homo-cide.
A thought

Naperville, IL

#851 Dec 18, 2013
Big Time wrote:
<quoted text>
I just caught on that you are purple girl, welcome back,...
Urine trouble now!

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#852 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text>If I can't hear you on a forum then you can't vocalize on one either.
PS
True Libertarians don't see drug use as immoral. Only drug prohibition.
I never said I was a true libertarian, but a blend, and vary my views on many things PER ISSUE.

Actually, I see it as immoral within a religious sphere but also see it as everyone's right.(No contradiction, just different aspects and different containers. What I said was only intended for the narrow scope of that one post, not as my own view - and nobody has a right to know my own views, since people only want to know you views to debate you or control you.) I support legalization of marijuana and most of the rest (and the rest won't need outlawed since most will be smart enough to try other options, since it would all be legal). They won't need Krokadil and other dangerous ones since they can just get pure heroin, and they can then buy a couple pounds of cocaine for the price of a 4-5 lb bag of sugar. So not much need for crack, though they can then get that too. So as it is legalized, most of the unsafe ones will lose popularity.

Like I've said elsewhere, prohibition is what makes things dangerous. When alcohol was prohibited, they only sold the strongest they could make (and they used lead Model-T Ford radiators as the condensers in their stills). But once it was legal again, most people who drank bought beer. Liquor was readily available, but only the serious drinkers bought that. But when it was just "white lightning," that was all everyone bought, a lead contaminated version of Everclear.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#853 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text> Thank you for admitting you see no flaws in me.
Not sure I said that, but you are welcome, girl!:-)

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

Level 8

Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#854 Dec 18, 2013
I find that it is NOT Shrinking...341 folks were tuned in.this afternoon!!!

How many posted??? Who knows?
Isn'T that Roboblogger's job???

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#855 Dec 18, 2013
Big Time wrote:
<quoted text>
I just caught on that you are purple girl, welcome back,...
Nope, two different people, so please don't start that rumor. If I was, I should have the right to cut all ties and start over. But I am not, so sorry to disappoint you. Maybe you could cry about it.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#856 Dec 18, 2013
It is funny here posting on this Toxic Topix Toilet and flushing down the trolls that keep bobbing their heads up. Then I just give them another swirly. I guess that makes me a virtual bully as opposed to a cyberbully. Just give pretend swirlies in a sea of bits an pixels.
hope this clears THAT up

Naperville, IL

#857 Dec 18, 2013
Purple Gurl was an awful, long-winded, Libertarian type who loved to argue about anything with anyone for any reason.

So, I can imagine how Spotted Girl would not want to be mistaken for that psycho.....

“I can see you”

Level 9

Since: Jun 11

Lookout Mountain

#858 Dec 18, 2013
Hoosier Hillbilly wrote:
<quoted text>
I'll have to say I envy your Avatar.
Mules and myself have a history together.
My grandfather was a mule trader.
We used mules on the farm into the 60's.
Thank you, Have a merry Christmas and Happy New year!

“Will cause trouble when bored”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#859 Dec 18, 2013
Oh my word so many problems..Ugh ugh ugh. Truths are truths they do not change. The remain the same.
All women do not complain. And this is a forum it is here to converse with ppl. No one needs permission to interrupt. Although its kinda hard to interrupt someone on a thread seeing as how they finished their thought before the pushed the post button.
Lmmfao show me where u gave someone a virtual swirly. One should not brag if they can't back it
up.

“Will cause trouble when bored”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#860 Dec 18, 2013
Ahem, A clever well spoken smart witty woman can so dominate a conversation in real life or here on offbeat.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#861 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
Oh my word so many problems..Ugh ugh ugh. Truths are truths they do not change. The remain the same.
All women do not complain. And this is a forum it is here to converse with ppl. No one needs permission to interrupt. Although its kinda hard to interrupt someone on a thread seeing as how they finished their thought before the pushed the post button.
Lmmfao show me where u gave someone a virtual swirly. One should not brag if they can't back it
up.
There were no damn problems with my post, just your filthy bigotry. Everything I said was specific to my beliefs. You are just a controlling bully who is too stupid to realize that for minor things, there are correct ways that are specific to some that are not correct for others. We are ALL individuals. Before giving advice, it is important to first make sure the other person doesn't know it - just tell the STUPID.

General truths stay the same. Specific truths are specific to the person or time. Maybe someday you will learn the difference between absolute truths (like gravity), and conditional truths (like my favorite foods).

All women are supposed to complain. That is how God made them, and women who don't are being what they are not. It is a female trait, and a woman should NEVER be condemned for a female trait, though that was specifically said to only one person and said that way for a reason that has nothing to do with you.

Actually, you should get permission to interrupt or to post to those who were not talking to you. That is called good manners. Even you are taking things said specifically to one person which I tailored to him and twisting. What I say is true ONLY in the context I say it, so taking out of context destroys and distorts the meaning - which you are quite adept in doing. And it is rude and immoral to gang up on someone in any context. Everyone is

I was not bragging, but using my imagination, a gift you seem to lack.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#862 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
Ahem, A clever well spoken smart witty woman can so dominate a conversation in real life or here on offbeat.
And that is what you are good at..

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#863 Dec 18, 2013
Speaking of rumors, lets set it straight.

1. I never claimed to be a Purple alien nor Black and have consistently said I was Caucasian.

2. I drink some. I don't think the other poster I am accused of being claims to be too good to drink.

3. I'm not the one who posted over and over about a made up purple planet, though I started a thread in recognition of her, and am still waiting for her to post there. If I am going to be accused of being her, I want to meet her.

4, There is a rumor about me possibly knowing her in real life. But don't believe rumors. The rumor says there is a "gang" of color-named girls such as a Purple Girl, a Blue Girl, and a Green Girl. I know I'm not the Purple one.

5. I'm eclectic in my views, while the other poster was Right Wing Conservative Fundamentalist. She said vile things about gay folks and was going on and on about transpeople. Maybe she is one. The bigger the denial...

6. The other poster, from what I read was in a speaking group, and on a HR board. I never was. How a wild homophobe could get in such a post is beyond me.

7. A rumor about PG that was PMed to me is that she is in jail right now in maximum security. I am clearly not in jail.

8. Many posters give long-winded posts, so that means nothing. Our grammar styles are different. They say I have the more correct grammar of the two, and a more polished writing style. I certainly don't use Ebonics. She rarely used contractions, calling it non feminine or something weird. I don't get that, though maybe that is what they say in crossdressing guides and she read that. And her posts were more angry and irrational, though mine are probably more racist. Didn't she wish a violent felonies on some who disagreed? Now that is inappropriate, and a line I won't cross in a public forum. Wishing harm on violent people is a totally different matter, though I try to refrain from that because of Karma.

9. I think I'm more assertive and outspoken than her.

10. She claimed to despise posters whom I don't.

11. I've borrowed her lines just to confuse people, and the sheeple buy it!

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#864 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
Ahem, A clever well spoken smart witty woman can so dominate a conversation in real life or here on offbeat.
Actually, I seem to be the Visine right now.

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