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Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#823 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text> Exactly!! It is a forum. For people to post with expectation that people will respond to it. If people don't want to hear others opinions or suggestions to their comments and complaints then they belong on a blog not a forum.
Not really. That is not what a forum is. It is a place for each person to post their own views. I don't post to read opinions, but to express myself.(I don't know how you can hear a forum unless the voices in your head read it to you.

Just because you are in a public place, it doesn't mean to join in every conversation. Some conversations are personal, but merely spoken in public, and others are usually polite enough to ignore it and realize it is not for them. They may enjoy or hate it, but most have the sense to not join in. I am sick of the "public forum" excuse. I come to share, never to debate, just like women go to parks to relax or exercise, not to be assaulted. "If you don't want to debate, stay out of a public forum" could translate to, "If you don't want assaulted, stay out of the public park." And no, I was never assaulted in that manner, it is just a convenient metaphor.

“*=* Always Thinking *=*”

Level 8

Since: Nov 12

Greensburg, IN

#825 Dec 18, 2013
(?) None of it makes any =sense= to me!

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#826 Dec 18, 2013
TenderTink wrote:
<quoted text>
Thank you.
<3<3<3
Long time no hear! I love your posts, and I hate that you have an icon stalker. That is much like Miranda rights I guess. "You have a right to remain silent. Anything you post can and will be used against you online in a court of your stalkers. You have a right to have a troll present. If you do not have your own troll, one will be provided for you free of charge. And you have the right to give up these rights at any time. Do you understand these rights as I've read them to you?"

Since: Dec 13

Location hidden

#827 Dec 18, 2013
A thought wrote:
<quoted text>I was wondering what Purple Spotted was rambling about! That was it? Add me to the loooooooog list of folks who think such posts are too loooooooog to read. Is SG Sublime?
here's a thought for you. Quit your whining everyday, month and year about someone else. You've beaten that same horse for years now. it's time you got over it and grew up. move on you are almost 60 years old, act like it

http://www.topix.com/forum/chicago/TI7DSM78U5...

IDK what 'her' endgame was. It might simply have been for the self aggrandizement of pulling off a big troll game on people, making them think she was a 'therapist' and having them take tests to see if they were introverts.. race admires 'her' troll capabilities and he kept up with her. Sub still does, as well. She's been doing this on several forums. I hope she wasn't stealing money from anyone but it's typical that after people are scammed they are embarrassed and don't advertise what happened to them. A lot of people quit posting after 'she' left. Ask EEE or teri or Garth if you keep up with them, if they really existed after all. I mean- she portrayed you as some sort of "kitten with a whip" for some reason. IDK why. Do you? I called Angelique770 on 'her' BS. She got pizzed and held a grudge. Does that HAVE to make sense? Or, do we just accept the story about the government not picking up her grant to study Topix and she went off to travel the world with her Secret Service husband?

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#828 Dec 18, 2013
SLY WEST wrote:
It took me 10 minutes just to scroll to the bottom of this page and I didn't even read the posts.....that'd take about an hour.
It is even worse in the Af. Am. forums. There is one spam troll who floods nearly every thread with nonstop posts all 4K in length about "Selorna Paden" being a White racist with over 50 screen names. And another accuses everyone of being some "MACEO." I don't know if that is her ex or what, but she is bitter and paranoid and believes everyone is him. Anyone she disagrees with must be him, and since most of the world disagrees with her on some level, he has to be quite omnipresent. He is everywhere, dripping down her walls, crawling through her hair, planting thoughts in her head, etc. Between these two nuts and a handful of racists making comments, it is impossible to hold a worthwhile discussion in there. And most of the regulars are trolls, and they accuse those who disagree with them of being trolls, being the other gender, of being a different race, etc. It is one big clusterf**k in there, and the f-word is mostly what the guys talk about in there, as well as the WW in there who shack up with BM (and they boast about the 14" they can take - TMI).

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#829 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
i would not be surprised if it was $80 worth of Fancy Feast and Meow Mix.
I'm crazy, but not a cat lady.

“"Trust no one"”

Level 1

Since: Jul 13

Drive it, like you stole it

#830 Dec 18, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
Not really. That is not what a forum is. It is a place for each person to post their own views. I don't post to read opinions, but to express myself.(I don't know how you can hear a forum unless the voices in your head read it to you.
Just because you are in a public place, it doesn't mean to join in every conversation. Some conversations are personal, but merely spoken in public, and others are usually polite enough to ignore it and realize it is not for them. They may enjoy or hate it, but most have the sense to not join in. I am sick of the "public forum" excuse. I come to share, never to debate, just like women go to parks to relax or exercise, not to be assaulted. "If you don't want to debate, stay out of a public forum" could translate to, "If you don't want assaulted, stay out of the public park." And no, I was never assaulted in that manner, it is just a convenient metaphor.
Views are nothing more than opinions. You contradict yourself constantly.
A public forum is a place for people to post their views and opinions where others can comment on them.
Sharing your views where others around and forced to hear or read them and then getting mad when someone remarks on what you said is censorship. Censoring others though expression is one of the greatest crimes against another anyone can make.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#831 Dec 18, 2013
Hoosier Hillbilly wrote:
(?) None of it makes any =sense= to me!
That makes at least two of us... ;-)
IRONY ALERT

Hoffman Estates, IL

#832 Dec 18, 2013
TeeHeeDoofus wrote:
<quoted text>
here's a thought for you. Quit your whining everyday, month and year about someone else. You've beaten that same horse for years now. it's time you got over it and grew up. move on you are almost 60 years old, act like it
http://www.topix.com/forum/chicago/TI7DSM78U5...
IDK what 'her' endgame was. It might simply have been for the self aggrandizement of pulling off a big troll game on people, making them think she was a 'therapist' and having them take tests to see if they were introverts.. race admires 'her' troll capabilities and he kept up with her. Sub still does, as well. She's been doing this on several forums. I hope she wasn't stealing money from anyone but it's typical that after people are scammed they are embarrassed and don't advertise what happened to them. A lot of people quit posting after 'she' left. Ask EEE or teri or Garth if you keep up with them, if they really existed after all. I mean- she portrayed you as some sort of "kitten with a whip" for some reason. IDK why. Do you? I called Angelique770 on 'her' BS. She got pizzed and held a grudge. Does that HAVE to make sense? Or, do we just accept the story about the government not picking up her grant to study Topix and she went off to travel the world with her Secret Service husband?
LOL!!!!

“Will cause trouble when bored”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#833 Dec 18, 2013
Oh my I see that poor logic is not her problem!!

Ugh dam u lol FTW;) for tricking me into reading that "funny" story. Grrr. That was like slipping into the mind of insanity. Lol

Ya know funny thing earlier in a pm I was given some unsolicited advice /help about her. It was very kind of the person to take the time to think of me and to offer assistance and it was totally appreciated. ;)
A thought

Hoffman Estates, IL

#834 Dec 18, 2013
Hoosier Hillbilly wrote:
!st thing I'd like to know is if she has a gun.
ME TOO!!!!!

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#835 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
No way I'm reading all of that sg. Lmao Especially if it gonna b a waste of my time. A bit wordy today huh?:) the first sentence is inaccurate a nice person is not someone who walks through life not interacting with ppl u run across in you day. You say ppl who help unsolicited are assuming u r dumb in need of help. Inaccurate also. But u then turn around and offer me unsolicited info of my mistakingly calling this a blog. Which was totally my bad because when I talk in rw of playing here I call it a blog so as to hide my playground don't want rw and Topix world to collide. ;). But since u found fit to correct what u assumed was a mistake? Do u feel better now that u corrected me. Did it make u feel superior. Tehehe. I guess it boils down to this a very confident smart person as myself doesn't mind if a stranger offers help I gladly accept n smile. But i guess someone who goes around waiting on ppl to typo or mis speak and then correct to inflate their own ego might have a bit of trouble accepting help without feeling inferior.
Bless your heart.
You don't have to read all that, but I enjoy posting to the Eye Lady.

I think you missed the "to me" part. It is not inaccurate, as different people define friendliness different. I'm friendly enough to leave strangers alone and interact with my family or friends. Being friendly is not forcing help on those who don't want it, but assuming others know how to handle themselves and respecting them for not needing you.

Nor am I "a bit wordy today." I could just as easily call you a "bit judgmental today," or a bit "disrespectful and labeling today," but I don't disrespect others by labeling them as you seem accustomed to. At least I don't have the negativity to mention what I see as flaws in others. Maybe someday you'll learn that everything a person does is just right for them and in the correct amount for them. I imagine individuality and each person being different are threatening concepts for you, but it doesn't have to be.

I only help those who ask and those I judge as inferior and too stupid and weak to do for themselves. You are only supposed to help the poor, the weak, the stupid, and anyone who ASKS for it. If they don't ask, don't do it. If they ask, do it. If you're not sure, ask for permission, and if they lie out of pride or pro-forma, they miss out.

It was not unsolicited information and I wasn't helping you. I didn't assume it was a mistake, but adding information for my own purposes. It was not about correcting nor feeling better.

I'm confident enough to not need help but to see it as the abuse it is and to assert myself and stand against it. Accepting such abuse rather than standing up to it tends to be caused by a lack of intelligence and confidence. Perhaps you like being called stupid by such actions and thus pretend it is a good thing, perhaps because at some level you fear it is true. Perhaps you lack what it takes to accept others as they are and believe it is good to "help" others to force conformity onto them. It's important to me to relate only to intelligent people who don't need others and who will never "care for" (control) me. Forcing help on someone is just a sick type of control. I don't seek out friends because most will turn and start trying to act like they own you, rather than treat you as a self-contained equal. If they continued to act like distant strangers, and never got close, and treated me like a stranger each time, I'd love that. My posts seem to keep you rattled, so maybe you should brush up on your confidence. I have a complete, deeply rooted philosophy and I'm confident in it and know why I believe what I do.

And I'm discussing this on a purely intellectual level. I don't mean to sound so personal or like I'm putting out ad hominem attacks - that's not my style, and I wish we'd get back to discussing friendlier topics. I respect you as a poster.

“"Trust no one"”

Level 1

Since: Jul 13

Drive it, like you stole it

#836 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
Oh my I see that poor logic is not her problem!!
Ugh dam u lol FTW;) for tricking me into reading that "funny" story. Grrr. That was like slipping into the mind of insanity. Lol
Ya know funny thing earlier in a pm I was given some unsolicited advice /help about her. It was very kind of the person to take the time to think of me and to offer assistance and it was totally appreciated. ;)
I thought it was funny. Especially the part where she says she wanted to commit suicide over it. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
A thought

Hoffman Estates, IL

#837 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text> I thought it was funny. Especially the part where she says she wanted to commit suicide over it. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
And then homicide against Ferrerman! YIKES!

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#838 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
Oh my I see that poor logic is not her problem!!
Ugh dam u lol FTW;) for tricking me into reading that "funny" story. Grrr. That was like slipping into the mind of insanity. Lol
Ya know funny thing earlier in a pm I was given some unsolicited advice /help about her. It was very kind of the person to take the time to think of me and to offer assistance and it was totally appreciated. ;)
That sounds degrading for others to discuss me behind my back. Probably some troll or liar. All information about a person should come from that person. I do appreciate help when I ask for it, like most women love to do certain things when they ask for it, not when it is forced. It is a lovely metaphor.

But I know you love slipping into a pool of insanity. It is nice and warm in the insane pool. I love going down the slide and going into the deep end. So join me, the water's great! The pool has a nice lunatic fringe around it.

Some think I need a frontal lobotomy, but I really need a bottle in-front-of-me. I guess I could finish the bottle of sweet red.

“"Trust no one"”

Level 1

Since: Jul 13

Drive it, like you stole it

#839 Dec 18, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
You don't have to read all that, but I enjoy posting to the Eye Lady.
I think you missed the "to me" part. It is not inaccurate, as different people define friendliness different. I'm friendly enough to leave strangers alone and interact with my family or friends. Being friendly is not forcing help on those who don't want it, but assuming others know how to handle themselves and respecting them for not needing you.
Nor am I "a bit wordy today." I could just as easily call you a "bit judgmental today," or a bit "disrespectful and labeling today," but I don't disrespect others by labeling them as you seem accustomed to. At least I don't have the negativity to mention what I see as flaws in others. Maybe someday you'll learn that everything a person does is just right for them and in the correct amount for them. I imagine individuality and each person being different are threatening concepts for you, but it doesn't have to be.
I only help those who ask and those I judge as inferior and too stupid and weak to do for themselves. You are only supposed to help the poor, the weak, the stupid, and anyone who ASKS for it. If they don't ask, don't do it. If they ask, do it. If you're not sure, ask for permission, and if they lie out of pride or pro-forma, they miss out.
It was not unsolicited information and I wasn't helping you. I didn't assume it was a mistake, but adding information for my own purposes. It was not about correcting nor feeling better.
I'm confident enough to not need help but to see it as the abuse it is and to assert myself and stand against it. Accepting such abuse rather than standing up to it tends to be caused by a lack of intelligence and confidence. Perhaps you like being called stupid by such actions and thus pretend it is a good thing, perhaps because at some level you fear it is true. Perhaps you lack what it takes to accept others as they are and believe it is good to "help" others to force conformity onto them. It's important to me to relate only to intelligent people who don't need others and who will never "care for" (control) me. Forcing help on someone is just a sick type of control. I don't seek out friends because most will turn and start trying to act like they own you, rather than treat you as a self-contained equal. If they continued to act like distant strangers, and never got close, and treated me like a stranger each time, I'd love that. My posts seem to keep you rattled, so maybe you should brush up on your confidence. I have a complete, deeply rooted philosophy and I'm confident in it and know why I believe what I do.
And I'm discussing this on a purely intellectual level. I don't mean to sound so personal or like I'm putting out ad hominem attacks - that's not my style, and I wish we'd get back to discussing friendlier topics. I respect you as a poster.
Forceing and offering are two different things Darlin'. Your just so paranoid that you think everyone is out to get you but at the same time don't want to do anything to stop those that are. You just like to have something to bitch about so you create a warped value system that allows you to bitch about everything regardless of what it is.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

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Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#840 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text> Views are nothing more than opinions. You contradict yourself constantly.
A public forum is a place for people to post their views and opinions where others can comment on them.
Sharing your views where others around and forced to hear or read them and then getting mad when someone remarks on what you said is censorship. Censoring others though expression is one of the greatest crimes against another anyone can make.
I don't contradict myself, you just miss the nuances. One action is required in one scenario and the exact opposite in others. Men tend to miss such subtleties. I use precise words for a reason. If something I say confuses you, ask yourself why I used one word and not a similar one. Every word is slightly different from similar ones. If you were a woman, you'd never accuse me of contradicting myself, but let it pass or actually see the fine nuances. Unlike most people, I have different beliefs per each specific issue. Peeing into a container is correct if that container is a toilet. Urinating into cereal or a baby bottle is not correct, though bowls and bottles are containers too.

I express my views, but only to express them because I am guaranteed that right. It doesn't mean I care for any back. Everything I say or do is only for me.

Not everything said in public is intended for replies by others. Everyone is entitled to respect the wishes of others, and especially in public. If you cannot do that, it is because of a lack of restraint on your part. I merely mentioned what I thought about a browser in a one-way fashion, and an intelligent person wouldn't have gone on and on about me needing to switch and your insane paranoia about Google, though I agree, Google is not your friend. They are mostly ex-secret service, and they do help Big Brother.

And posting to me is censorship, since I often only post when I am sure others will read without posting. Most here respect me in that manner when I make one-way vents, and they are smart enough to head the wishes of others and smart enough to identify which posts are one-way vents. Don't blame anyone else but you if you are unable to identify one-way vents and end up with a tongue-lashing.

And you have to take each post I say as stand-alone by itself, and only true for the given moment it is posted. Every situation I post about is specific to that event only, and each moment I post is specific only to that moment. It is like defecating. You do it, you flush it, you move on. You don't reach into the bowl to try to pull out what someone did last week or keep plunging until last month's excrement comes up. In other words, take each post as it comes, forget the rest before it, and stop trying to figure me out or get to know me. Just accept me as I am at whatever moment and don't try to tie me to anything in the past.

“Will cause trouble when bored”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#841 Dec 18, 2013
Ugh again just a few sentences in and a major prob. Uh fyi friendliness has a definition u choosing to warp that definition to fit in to ur non sociable personality does not make the definition change.

Lol no I don't swim in that pool im the lifeguard. I would throw u a life preserver but you haven't asked for one yet. I hope u have time to ask for help before u drown. Wouldnt want to offer unsolicited help to ya.
;)
I don't take posting here serious I hold no grudges if we agree on the next topic sg you'll b the first to know. ;). Happy posting girl.

“Will cause trouble when bored”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#842 Dec 18, 2013
Lol me get a tounge lashing! I wish someone would try I'd straighten them out real quick! hmm

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Spotted World

#843 Dec 18, 2013
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text> Forceing and offering are two different things Darlin'. Your just so paranoid that you think everyone is out to get you but at the same time don't want to do anything to stop those that are. You just like to have something to bitch about so you create a warped value system that allows you to bitch about everything regardless of what it is.
What I said was tailored specifically to Lylah. I tailor each post to the person I am posting to, and thus what I say to one is not intended for another. People often discuss things aloud in restaurants, and others are polite enough to not interrupt nor interfere. A good person will do the same online, and I only post to people who I judge as good.

Offering IS forcing. I was carrying the bike alone and she grabbed it for no reason at all other than to show her wh*ring, race-traitor a** as superior to me. I told her twice to stop, but it was forced onto me. I was powerless to stop her as she didn't listen to me. When someone refuses, you are supposed to heed the first refusal.

I don't think anyone is out to get me. It is YOU who refuse to stop those who are. Have you ever wrote an email to sites with abusive ads that force sound on you, etc., or force you to install stuff to stop them? I have. But you have warped values and project such filth onto me.

ALL women, universally speaking, merely need to complain to feel better. Complaining IS taking action to stop abuse, and serves the purpose of feeling better. It is a part of being assertive and standing up for yourself. That is what makes living through intolerable actions bearable, and as a member of the filthy male gender, you love stealing such tools from women to force a sick, filthy dependency on you. The superior gender can feel better just by talking about things, and a good man will listen without giving advice, and they will vent the exact same way a woman does on occasion too, if they are a good man. But most men have this sick need to change things that bother them rather than being content to just vent.

I will tell you how stupid men are. If a couple drives by a house, a woman may state that she likes it. That is all she is doing, stating her emotional fondness for what she sees, and it means nothing else. She is merely expressing herself. She has extra brain cells which give her an emotional need to say such things. Men are too defective to have those extra brain cells which are coded by the missing parts of the Y chromosome. In the original creation, both genders had XX. That seems to contradict modern understanding, but it doesn't. See, what triggers a penis and testes to show up is only coded in three genes. Those 3 genes could appear on an X (and the 2-3 corresponding genes could in theory work on a Y chromosome and still result in a female fetus). Anyway, back to the house, the woman is merely stating a reaction to the house and says she likes it. But the man will wreck the mood by saying "we can't afford that" when she wasn't saying she actually wanted the house. Liking and wanting are not the same. And it makes men jealous if a woman likes a rock star's body. She is not saying she wants to sleep with him. Men cannot understand the value of merely expressing thoughts and feelings just for the sake of expression without there being ANY goals (man's concept) behind them.

Since you see b*tching everywhere, it must be that the b*tch is you.

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