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#21 Jan 18, 2013
Turn into Madea

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#22 Jan 18, 2013
Punch Her wrote:
Uh.....where is her husband (i.e. your boyfriends dad)?
They're divorced.

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#23 Jan 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
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you DO REALIZE,, you just said she wears his underwear right?
dump the boyfriend... this is twisted...even for Topix..
lol,,WOW!
Yea I know..he doesn't say anything until he realizes he ran out of underwear..and yea i guess before i came along..that's how they did things before i moved in..but u have to realize that it gets realllyyy annoying and sometime we argue. but anyway evr since i realized that my panties were goin missing..i told my bf and he told her to not do that and to stop messing with his things.

She just don't listen. So I say..moving out is the best solution. In our own home, she will not be doing none of the thingd she do that she do in her home.

“New & Improved..”

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Formerly From Kenya

#24 Jan 18, 2013
Ok...here is what ya do...first..WAIT..!!!!...this is the most important thing you will ever do...

Next...as soon as you and the son are legally married, take out a massive insurance policy on the mom...now...start having babies...lots & lots of babies...maybe like 65 of em...boys, girls,,,,the other...just keep ploppin' em out...Then the revenge starts...you get to play her back & forth with being able to come see em & the NO WAY ARE YOU GOING TO BE IN MY CHILDRENS LIVES..!!!...thingy..until you completely stress her over the edge and she just falls over dead...you get the money, you won the fight..and..well...you do have a whole bunch of babies to support...better be gettin' to it..

Wide Eyed

Crossett, AR

#25 Jan 18, 2013
JDoll wrote:
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Yea I know..he doesn't say anything until he realizes he ran out of underwear..and yea i guess before i came along..that's how they did things before i moved in..but u have to realize that it gets realllyyy annoying and sometime we argue. but anyway evr since i realized that my panties were goin missing..i told my bf and he told her to not do that and to stop messing with his things.
She just don't listen. So I say..moving out is the best solution. In our own home, she will not be doing none of the thingd she do that she do in her home.
I truly do hope that works but after being forced to move next door to my MIL, having her tell me what to name our children, being told by her that she didn't have to obey safety laws with our children.... like buckle them up....., enduring her telling our children that they don't have to obey our rules and don't have to tell us the truth etc etc .......... while her son remained silent to her and told me that I was wrong to be offended...... I can honestly say if you are not being unreasonable please give him up if he can not handle her. You will be happier in the long run.

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#26 Jan 18, 2013
justaguess wrote:
Ok...here is what ya do...first..WAIT..!!!!...this is the most important thing you will ever do...
Next...as soon as you and the son are legally married, take out a massive insurance policy on the mom...now...start having babies...lots & lots of babies...maybe like 65 of em...boys, girls,,,,the other...just keep ploppin' em out...Then the revenge starts...you get to play her back & forth with being able to come see em & the NO WAY ARE YOU GOING TO BE IN MY CHILDRENS LIVES..!!!...thingy..until you completely stress her over the edge and she just falls over dead...you get the money, you won the fight..and..well...you do have a whole bunch of babies to support...better be gettin' to it..
lmaoooooo..uhhhh no...but we pla n to have kids..i hope she change before that time come

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#27 Jan 18, 2013
Wide Eyed wrote:
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I truly do hope that works but after being forced to move next door to my MIL, having her tell me what to name our children, being told by her that she didn't have to obey safety laws with our children.... like buckle them up....., enduring her telling our children that they don't have to obey our rules and don't have to tell us the truth etc etc .......... while her son remained silent to her and told me that I was wrong to be offended...... I can honestly say if you are not being unreasonable please give him up if he can not handle her. You will be happier in the long run.
We would be an hour away well he agree with me sometime but i expect him to always be on my side ye know. I honestly do not do anything to hurt or offend her..if anything i try staying out of her way unless she ask me to watch something on tv with her etc. Sometimes i wonder if she's on meds or she's just a nut all together and like to see me squirm with agitation.

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#28 Jan 18, 2013
JDoll, I love the puppy in your avatar.

The way I see this is, unless you want to take over being more of a mom than a girlfriend or wife to that guy, you should run, not walk away as fast as you can.

Two women can not run one house.

He sounds like an immature flake.
Who would move an unmarried mate into his mothers house?
That shows total dis respect to you and she.
It also shows how he was raised without learning respect for females in his world.

He's a pussy and a loser.
Dump him and get yourself hooked up with a real man.

“Mrs_E”

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#29 Jan 19, 2013
JDoll wrote:
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Yea I know..he doesn't say anything until he realizes he ran out of underwear..and yea i guess before i came along..that's how they did things before i moved in..but u have to realize that it gets realllyyy annoying and sometime we argue. but anyway evr since i realized that my panties were goin missing..i told my bf and he told her to not do that and to stop messing with his things.
She just don't listen. So I say..moving out is the best solution. In our own home, she will not be doing none of the thingd she do that she do in her home.
This is starting to make me sad, because I think you are legit, which means there is nothing funny about this.
Tink summed it up nicely..
You seem young, if you are legit, this is a freaked up mess, and no matter where you move or what you do it will only get worse.
She will not change....but in all truth, you cant blame her, the blame lies with your boyfriend..
why give your entire life to a dumbass kid who has no strengh of character to take care of the girl he professes to love??
Dump him! there is some fella out there, waiting to love you the right way, but you will never find him as long as you are in this mess..and trust me,, the dumbass boyfriend will see to it that you stay trapped.. he will be happy, mamma will be happy,and you will be miserable...
on a lighter note:
ya'all need your own damm underwear!?!?!?!? who the Freak shares underwear????

“Mrs_E”

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#30 Jan 19, 2013
justaguess wrote:
Ok...here is what ya do...first..WAIT..!!!!...this is the most important thing you will ever do...
Next...as soon as you and the son are legally married, take out a massive insurance policy on the mom...now...start having babies...lots & lots of babies...maybe like 65 of em...boys, girls,,,,the other...just keep ploppin' em out...Then the revenge starts...you get to play her back & forth with being able to come see em & the NO WAY ARE YOU GOING TO BE IN MY CHILDRENS LIVES..!!!...thingy..until you completely stress her over the edge and she just falls over dead...you get the money, you won the fight..and..well...you do have a whole bunch of babies to support...better be gettin' to it..
Damm! Justy You are brilliant!! I think you just answered the burning question to the Adam and Eve procreate thingy, on another thread!!
:)
xo

“Are We Having Fun Yet???”

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Since: Jun 08

If Not, Why Not!!!

#31 Jan 19, 2013
JDoll wrote:
it's not about who won, I just want her to respect me as I respect her. She is sort of not right in the mind. The lady wear my bfs underwear then tell me I shouldn't wear them because they are compfortable and that she would like to have them. I meen seriously..she need to grow up and stop trying to make people feel unwanted. She also made a comment ti my bf that why do he always hae to leave out on weekends/weekdays to see me when I'm in school and never sped time with her.
He told her you aren't my gf, jocelyn is.(me) and that he cannot deal with more than one female emotions except mine.. she nearly blew her top off.
If she is not right in the mind, well then, logic is not going to work and you will never be able to "put her in her place"

In fact, she is in her place and so are you. When you move out things might get better. You won't know till you do.......

“Are We Having Fun Yet???”

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If Not, Why Not!!!

#32 Jan 19, 2013
JDoll wrote:
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We would be an hour away well he agree with me sometime but i expect him to always be on my side ye know. I honestly do not do anything to hurt or offend her..if anything i try staying out of her way unless she ask me to watch something on tv with her etc. Sometimes i wonder if she's on meds or she's just a nut all together and like to see me squirm with agitation.
Well, if you expect him to always be on your side, you are in for a terrible shock. No one but no one is right all the time and if you are wrong he should tell you so.

Sounds like his mother is lonely and has made him her entire life. She needs friends, lots and lots of friends to keep her busy and happy. Too many people try to cling to their grown kids when they should be making a life for themselves and having their kids as part of their life but not their whole life.

Right now, today, start searching for things in the area for her to do and clubs for her to join. This is a great site, Meetup.com . Meetup helps a person find clubs that are of interest to them.

Alot of what is probably going on, she is unhappy and she sees you and her son being happy. She wants that in her life, but has no idea how to go about it.

You might have to go to a couple of the meetings with her to help get her started but once she meets others who have like interests and sees all the fun they are having, most of your probs might be sloved.

Give it a try, you love the guy and I say, don't throw away the relatioship till you have tried to make it work. There is always time for that if he won't help you get this under conrol.

Good luck!!!

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#33 Jan 19, 2013
Tiger Lilly wrote:
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As the English say, I have me moments.
XO
Sounds like something a Northerner would say.

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#34 Jan 19, 2013
reebie wrote:
<quoted text>This is starting to make me sad, because I think you are legit, which means there is nothing funny about this.
Tink summed it up nicely..
You seem young, if you are legit, this is a freaked up mess, and no matter where you move or what you do it will only get worse.
She will not change....but in all truth, you cant blame her, the blame lies with your boyfriend..
why give your entire life to a dumbass kid who has no strengh of character to take care of the girl he professes to love??
Dump him! there is some fella out there, waiting to love you the right way, but you will never find him as long as you are in this mess..and trust me,, the dumbass boyfriend will see to it that you stay trapped.. he will be happy, mamma will be happy,and you will be miserable...
on a lighter note:
ya'all need your own damm underwear!?!?!?!? who the Freak shares underwear????
I don't know why she does that but I had to trash them when I found em and buy new ones and hide them. I'm hoping when we move that it will work..I love him and I don't want us to break up because of her issues and well, he has gotten better with telling her off..sometime.

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#35 Jan 19, 2013
Tiger Lilly wrote:
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Well, if you expect him to always be on your side, you are in for a terrible shock. No one but no one is right all the time and if you are wrong he should tell you so.
Sounds like his mother is lonely and has made him her entire life. She needs friends, lots and lots of friends to keep her busy and happy. Too many people try to cling to their grown kids when they should be making a life for themselves and having their kids as part of their life but not their whole life.
Right now, today, start searching for things in the area for her to do and clubs for her to join. This is a great site, Meetup.com . Meetup helps a person find clubs that are of interest to them.
Alot of what is probably going on, she is unhappy and she sees you and her son being happy. She wants that in her life, but has no idea how to go about it.
You might have to go to a couple of the meetings with her to help get her started but once she meets others who have like interests and sees all the fun they are having, most of your probs might be sloved.
Give it a try, you love the guy and I say, don't throw away the relatioship till you have tried to make it work. There is always time for that if he won't help you get this under conrol.
Good luck!!!
I know I'll be wrong at times, I just slightly joked about that part. I do and am going to give it a try with my bf and this situation because I love him and we've conquered a lot in our relationship. We've supported each other in our careers and school and we have fun times together. He's really supportive to me. We have to agree to disagree at times when he's in denial about his mother.

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#36 Jan 19, 2013
Tiger Lilly wrote:
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Well, if you expect him to always be on your side, you are in for a terrible shock. No one but no one is right all the time and if you are wrong he should tell you so.
Sounds like his mother is lonely and has made him her entire life. She needs friends, lots and lots of friends to keep her busy and happy. Too many people try to cling to their grown kids when they should be making a life for themselves and having their kids as part of their life but not their whole life.
Right now, today, start searching for things in the area for her to do and clubs for her to join. This is a great site, Meetup.com . Meetup helps a person find clubs that are of interest to them.
Alot of what is probably going on, she is unhappy and she sees you and her son being happy. She wants that in her life, but has no idea how to go about it.
You might have to go to a couple of the meetings with her to help get her started but once she meets others who have like interests and sees all the fun they are having, most of your probs might be sloved.
Give it a try, you love the guy and I say, don't throw away the relatioship till you have tried to make it work. There is always time for that if he won't help you get this under conrol.
Good luck!!!
Oh and about meeting people that she doesn't know..she is against that. I think it's BS because in order to hae new relationships and make friends, you have to meet someone you do not know. I've asked her to go out with me sometime and she would be like "uhh no..I don't do the internet thing or go out with people that i do not know." I just tell her you never know until you try and left it alone. Another thing, she said my mother isn't welcome in her home because their was an incident when she bursted into my room overhearing my convo with my mom about how i said that her son need to be open with me about participating in household chores and bills.

I was mad because my bf didnt tell me or dhe didnt allow me in the convo about who will do what and she went behind his back and told me what i needed to do..i didnt have a chance to choose or discuss what i could afford. His mom told me if im unhappy with her son then leave and then i told her to never burst into my room without knocking and to not jump to conclusions about something she misheard. So my bfs mom caled him while he's at work dramatizing how i was talking about him and saying hateful things which were untrue.

Then i told her that she does nothing but be nosey and gossip about things she dont know and always play the victim. The next day I packed my things and left back home and a new job. Then my mom called her and told her that she have no right in interfering in our relationship and she dont appreciate how she treat me...of course my bfs mom didnt answer, this was all on voicemail. So now that I'm back she told my bf to tell me that my mother isnt welccome in her home and that we would have to see my mom whenever in her own home.

I think my bfs mom is nuts, as if she's hurting me. My mom doesn't care because mostly every weekend we visit my family and his mom is aloine at home and blowing uo my bfs phone wondering what he's doing.
phaines

Big Bear Lake, CA

#37 Jan 19, 2013
JDoll wrote:
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Oh and about meeting people that she doesn't know..she is against that. I think it's BS because in order to hae new relationships and make friends, you have to meet someone you do not know. I've asked her to go out with me sometime and she would be like "uhh no..I don't do the internet thing or go out with people that i do not know." I just tell her you never know until you try and left it alone. Another thing, she said my mother isn't welcome in her home because their was an incident when she bursted into my room overhearing my convo with my mom about how i said that her son need to be open with me about participating in household chores and bills.
I was mad because my bf didnt tell me or dhe didnt allow me in the convo about who will do what and she went behind his back and told me what i needed to do..i didnt have a chance to choose or discuss what i could afford. His mom told me if im unhappy with her son then leave and then i told her to never burst into my room without knocking and to not jump to conclusions about something she misheard. So my bfs mom caled him while he's at work dramatizing how i was talking about him and saying hateful things which were untrue.
Then i told her that she does nothing but be nosey and gossip about things she dont know and always play the victim. The next day I packed my things and left back home and a new job. Then my mom called her and told her that she have no right in interfering in our relationship and she dont appreciate how she treat me...of course my bfs mom didnt answer, this was all on voicemail. So now that I'm back she told my bf to tell me that my mother isnt welccome in her home and that we would have to see my mom whenever in her own home.
I think my bfs mom is nuts, as if she's hurting me. My mom doesn't care because mostly every weekend we visit my family and his mom is aloine at home and blowing uo my bfs phone wondering what he's doing.
good greeeeefff....this isnt the place for "toxic relationships" ...

“Just a lil' humor there.....”

Since: Sep 12

OR NOT .... <[;-)

#38 Jan 19, 2013
Lots of interesting and enlightening and humorous and cWazy ideas in here, but may I offer the last one you may need to hear and pardon me if someone mentioned it first and I missed it.

I would most definetely wait a week or better,,, until after you're comfortable in your New HOME. It will make everybodies life easier during this transitional period you are experiencing. As one that is preparing to move right now ... I know a thing or two about a thing or two.

BTJMO *but that's just my opinion*
:)
PEACE

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#39 Jan 19, 2013
JDoll wrote:
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Oh and about meeting people that she doesn't know..she is against that. I think it's BS because in order to hae new relationships and make friends, you have to meet someone you do not know. I've asked her to go out with me sometime and she would be like "uhh no..I don't do the internet thing or go out with people that i do not know." I just tell her you never know until you try and left it alone. Another thing, she said my mother isn't welcome in her home because their was an incident when she bursted into my room overhearing my convo with my mom about how i said that her son need to be open with me about participating in household chores and bills.
I was mad because my bf didnt tell me or dhe didnt allow me in the convo about who will do what and she went behind his back and told me what i needed to do..i didnt have a chance to choose or discuss what i could afford. His mom told me if im unhappy with her son then leave and then i told her to never burst into my room without knocking and to not jump to conclusions about something she misheard. So my bfs mom caled him while he's at work dramatizing how i was talking about him and saying hateful things which were untrue.
Then i told her that she does nothing but be nosey and gossip about things she dont know and always play the victim. The next day I packed my things and left back home and a new job. Then my mom called her and told her that she have no right in interfering in our relationship and she dont appreciate how she treat me...of course my bfs mom didnt answer, this was all on voicemail. So now that I'm back she told my bf to tell me that my mother isnt welccome in her home and that we would have to see my mom whenever in her own home.
I think my bfs mom is nuts, as if she's hurting me. My mom doesn't care because mostly every weekend we visit my family and his mom is aloine at home and blowing uo my bfs phone wondering what he's doing.
You need to sit both of them down and lay the law down,she is over Possessive,this could ruin you're life.
You will always be underneath her and she will drag you down.
Sort her out pronto,if she wont listen to you then give him an ultimatum.
You or her,if he's not man enough to stand up to her and sort it out then dump him.

Good luck.

Since: Jun 11

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#40 Jan 19, 2013
revilot2 wrote:
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You need to sit both of them down and lay the law down,she is over Possessive,this could ruin you're life.
You will always be underneath her and she will drag you down.
Sort her out pronto,if she wont listen to you then give him an ultimatum.
You or her,if he's not man enough to stand up to her and sort it out then dump him.
Good luck.
I agree. Thanks.

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