How to confront someone's mom?

How to confront someone's mom?

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Since: Jun 11

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#1 Jan 18, 2013
my bfs mom is constantly ragging on me about everything and it's annoying. She is constantly in the middle of my relationship with her son..sometime I feel like she's the other woman. I have no clue how to confront her without being a bi***. She have no problem confronting me and ragging on me...idk why it's so hard for me to do the same.

I respect her because I do stay in her home but I can't deal with this anymore..and fyi we found a place of our own and suppose to be moving by the end of this month.

Any advice, I'm hoping to confront her today.
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#2 Jan 18, 2013
I feel your pain, I was in a similar situation...

2 answers to this very delicate problem..
divorce him... you are stuck with her..

or,,
walk up to her very politely, ask her to sit down..
then tell her she is an [email protected] psycho nagging interfering [email protected] who has sexual ideations of her son. you find her a sick freak of nature.. and you hate her stinking guts...
then politely remove yourself and go to the Walmarts..
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#3 Jan 18, 2013
in other words.. there is no answer to interfering mothers...
xo

“Are We Having Fun Yet???”

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If Not, Why Not!!!

#4 Jan 18, 2013
You are leaving in less than 2 weeks and it is her house after all.

Congats, you won, the guy chose you over his mother, why would you want to rub it in.

Be a good sport and get through the next few days and then it's on to your own place.

Who knows, maybe someday you might even need her help and then you would be on good footing to ask for it.

Who knows, the BF might even respect you for not giving his mother a hard time.
Don't

Laura Beth

Since: Aug 09

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#5 Jan 18, 2013
Write a hand written letter . Letters have a way of letting others absorb feelings slowly . I would not attack bit say things like .... Mom it hurts my feeling when you say things like this (give a truth). Add a positive statement about her to every negative feeling. I would also suggest backing away from telling her anything about you and her son so she does not try to assert her opinion . I would ask your partner to help in not telling Mom personal info so she can't but in . Maybe do a kind deed once a week (dinner ) at your new place . Gatherings in groups tend to make ppl behave .

“Are We Having Fun Yet???”

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#6 Jan 18, 2013
Dont know where that don't came from, except, don't try to talk and post at the same time.

;)
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#7 Jan 18, 2013
Tiger Lilly wrote:
You are leaving in less than 2 weeks and it is her house after all.
Congats, you won, the guy chose you over his mother, why would you want to rub it in.
Be a good sport and get through the next few days and then it's on to your own place.
Who knows, maybe someday you might even need her help and then you would be on good footing to ask for it.
Who knows, the BF might even respect you for not giving his mother a hard time.
Don't
geeeze Paula, I hate it when you are right :)
xo

“Are We Having Fun Yet???”

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#8 Jan 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
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geeeze Paula, I hate it when you are right :)
xo
As the English say, I have me moments.

XO
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#9 Jan 18, 2013
Tiger Lilly wrote:
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As the English say, I have me moments.
XO
K, lets have some tea n crumpets..
Poor girl, if this is legit.. shes screwed... no good answer for controlling mothers..unless.....
Dr Fill

Huntington, NY

#10 Jan 18, 2013
Take a dump in her pillow case, that'll straighten her out.

“Are We Having Fun Yet???”

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#11 Jan 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
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K, lets have some tea n crumpets..
Poor girl, if this is legit.. shes screwed... no good answer for controlling mothers..unless.....
Tea and crumpets sounds delightful.

Yeah, really if this is true she had better hope one of them gets a job transfer and that the mother doesn't want to relocate.....
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#12 Jan 18, 2013
Tiger Lilly wrote:
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Tea and crumpets sounds delightful.
Yeah, really if this is true she had better hope one of them gets a job transfer and that the mother doesn't want to relocate.....
LAUGH OUT LOUD ! ill give ya a prop when I get home....lolol

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#13 Jan 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
<quoted text> LAUGH OUT LOUD ! ill give ya a prop when I get home....lolol
Glad you enjoyed my post.

Thanks in advance for the prop!!!
The Paisan

Huntington, NY

#14 Jan 18, 2013
The son should talk to his mom and put her in place.....

....unless he isn't a real man.

“Don't harsh my mellow, man!”

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#15 Jan 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
I feel your pain, I was in a similar situation...
2 answers to this very delicate problem..
divorce him... you are stuck with her..
or,,
walk up to her very politely, ask her to sit down..
then tell her she is an [email protected] psycho nagging interfering [email protected] who has sexual ideations of her son. you find her a sick freak of nature.. and you hate her stinking guts...
then politely remove yourself and go to the Walmarts..
BWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAAA! You kill me, Reebie!
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#16 Jan 18, 2013
Hippichick wrote:
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BWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAAA! You kill me, Reebie!
:)

xo

seriously.....lol
Wide Eyed

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#17 Jan 18, 2013
The Paisan wrote:
The son should talk to his mom and put her in place.....
....unless he isn't a real man.
Absolutely. I didn't want to be the one to say it.

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#18 Jan 18, 2013
it's not about who won, I just want her to respect me as I respect her. She is sort of not right in the mind. The lady wear my bfs underwear then tell me I shouldn't wear them because they are compfortable and that she would like to have them. I meen seriously..she need to grow up and stop trying to make people feel unwanted. She also made a comment ti my bf that why do he always hae to leave out on weekends/weekdays to see me when I'm in school and never sped time with her.

He told her you aren't my gf, jocelyn is.(me) and that he cannot deal with more than one female emotions except mine.. she nearly blew her top off.
Punch Her

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#19 Jan 18, 2013
Uh.....where is her husband (i.e. your boyfriends dad)?
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#20 Jan 18, 2013
JDoll wrote:
it's not about who won, I just want her to respect me as I respect her. She is sort of not right in the mind. The lady wear my bfs underwear then tell me I shouldn't wear them because they are compfortable and that she would like to have them. I meen seriously..she need to grow up and stop trying to make people feel unwanted. She also made a comment ti my bf that why do he always hae to leave out on weekends/weekdays to see me when I'm in school and never sped time with her.
He told her you aren't my gf, jocelyn is.(me) and that he cannot deal with more than one female emotions except mine.. she nearly blew her top off.
you DO REALIZE,, you just said she wears his underwear right?
dump the boyfriend... this is twisted...even for Topix..
lol,,WOW!

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