black man and italian women

black man and italian women

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“believing is seeing”

Since: Jul 08

Newport, KY

#1 Jul 8, 2008
Why do italians have an issue with their women dating African American men? Is it the same way in italy as in america?
Rosco

Pendleton, IN

#2 Jul 8, 2008
In Italy they made a big fuss over Miss Italy a few years back being Black.

Since: May 08

United States

#3 Jul 8, 2008
Because if you knew how Italian men are so territorial, & most are racist, & ALSO have a huge(pardon the pun)penile issue w/their women being satisfied by a black man, over them....you'd know the whole story. I myself don't know that it is true about the whole "all black men have big wangs," deal. But, it is an obsession to alot of Italian males.
Of course, if alot of the guidos wouldn't act so damn possessive, obsessive, & want to be the boss of us, we wouldn't be looking at other races or creeds for relationships. I've had my fill of Italian men. They totally turn me off, even though many are very handsome, hot, or have natural good looks....their demeanors turn me off, just by my own personal experiences.

Since: May 08

United States

#4 Jul 8, 2008
Is probably why, when Eddie Murphy's Raw came out, I laughed myself silly, even though I was a teen. There is one part in particular where he parodies an Italian man in a candy or newsstand getting some Jujee fruits & gets all racist & tells the guy at the counter that the "mooly" is going to pay for it. I know it's on Youtube. Let me take a sec to go look for it.

“believing is seeing”

Since: Jul 08

Newport, KY

#5 Jul 8, 2008
So they dont like them to date outside their race period. Especially the black man, because of whats in in his pants. Why do italian men like black women. Its so confusing. Its ok for them to date black women but it not ok for black guys to date their women.

Since: May 08

United States

#6 Jul 8, 2008
shakspearen2heart wrote:
So they dont like them to date outside their race period. Especially the black man, because of whats in in his pants. Why do italian men like black women. Its so confusing. Its ok for them to date black women but it not ok for black guys to date their women.
Because they can be one-sided jerks when it comes to us women, sort of like we are stepping them aside for black men. It's their manhood at stake, not our womanhood. They themselves show an inferiority complex because of the size of a man's penis, not his intellect, & that for me is some guy who's too obsessed, & can't do with what God gave him. I'm not saying all are like that, but I have seen way too many, & am related to way too many that act like that. If they took more time & energy to treat a lady w/respect instead of a trophy, or bossing them, they might want to read Cosmo & see what's up. Then they could read about what we like, love, dislike, & need from them to co-exist in a relationship.

But, I digress....

“believing is seeing”

Since: Jul 08

Newport, KY

#7 Jul 8, 2008
I understand their point of view to an exent, italian women are gorgeous and make good wives because their opportive and family oriented, so I see why they dont want to let you all go. But you also have taste in quality, no matter whether it be fashion, food,and of course men, period. So I guess whatever your tastes maybe, its just your taste preference. However, are you saying italian date who ever they want. And just curious is the rumor italian people is that black guys have large pieces. Is that true even in italy.

Since: May 08

United States

#8 Jul 8, 2008
I am sure Italian men or Italian women date who they want. Is that the question you were asking, specifically? & rephrase your last one, because I don't quite understand what you are asking.

“believing is seeing”

Since: Jul 08

Newport, KY

#9 Jul 9, 2008
I am asking is the rumor about italian women dating black man because of thier "piece," true.
Is that the only reason. Also, You ever been to italy. I wonder if the italian women in italy differ from italian american women. I hope they are, because that rumor is pretty shallow. ya knw.
Lana

Philadelphia, PA

#10 Jul 11, 2008
I am a black american women that has been to Italy, and Spain for that matter.

Let's clarify something: this was mentioned in another forum and is completely true. Italian men are different then Italian Americans. That being said. Italians do not believe most Americans of Italian descent are truely Italian, they just have Italian last names.

I hope you are okay with the fact that black women are very desired in Italy and in Spain. Off the topic, but in Sweden, you are not considered to be a man until you have had sex with a black woman. I lived in the UK for 6 years so I traveled a lot and know a lot of Europeans.

Italian men (in Italy) will completely disregard their own women when they come across attractive black women. I have heard them say they love all women that are attractive, but it is definitely obvious when you visit what their preference is. A lot of Italian women, however, tend to favor rendevous with North African men to eventually marry. I don't see men in Italy particularly caring whether or not their women date black men, I guess because so many of them chase black women how could they. In Italy if a man is dating a black women he is considered to be very fortunate and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.(There are some rascist there don't get me wrong, that's everywhere, but for the most part this is true) Italians in this country have become "Anglo-saxonized" trying to fit in. Many have lost touch with their Italian roots and think being rascist towards blacks and speaking with a New York accent makes them Italian. I am not sure if you have been to Italy, but you will be shocked at the cultural difference and lies that you are being fed living here.

“Bernie Goetz is my hero”

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Since: Mar 08

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#11 Jul 11, 2008
The "TOE" of Italy is very close to Africa...A Canoe or dugout filled with very determinded Africans can make it easily.
This is why the Southern Italians have kinky hair and are "muddy" complected altho they will never admit it..LMAO

I find that most black men aren't all that interested in the Italian girls - instead they focus on the real albinos- the Swedes.

The Italians girls are called "mulangiani" - the Swedes are called BUTONA..
Lana

Philadelphia, PA

#12 Jul 11, 2008
Dear Phester,

It doesn't matter what you find most black men interested in. If he is interested in Italian women, then it is so!! And why do you think it is relevant to discuss these classifications?

“When Doves Cry”

Since: Jun 08

Raised in Cali live in N.Y.

#13 Jul 11, 2008
Lana wrote:
I am a black american women that has been to Italy, and Spain for that matter.
Let's clarify something: this was mentioned in another forum and is completely true. Italian men are different then Italian Americans. That being said. Italians do not believe most Americans of Italian descent are truely Italian, they just have Italian last names.
I hope you are okay with the fact that black women are very desired in Italy and in Spain. Off the topic, but in Sweden, you are not considered to be a man until you have had sex with a black woman. I lived in the UK for 6 years so I traveled a lot and know a lot of Europeans.
Italian men (in Italy) will completely disregard their own women when they come across attractive black women. I have heard them say they love all women that are attractive, but it is definitely obvious when you visit what their preference is. A lot of Italian women, however, tend to favor rendevous with North African men to eventually marry. I don't see men in Italy particularly caring whether or not their women date black men, I guess because so many of them chase black women how could they. In Italy if a man is dating a black women he is considered to be very fortunate and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.(There are some rascist there don't get me wrong, that's everywhere, but for the most part this is true) Italians in this country have become "Anglo-saxonized" trying to fit in. Many have lost touch with their Italian roots and think being rascist towards blacks and speaking with a New York accent makes them Italian. I am not sure if you have been to Italy, but you will be shocked at the cultural difference and lies that you are being fed living here.
Sorry Sista but I have to disagree with you on that one. Spaniards can be extremely racist. I've heard horrible things about Spain and the way they treat people with darker complexions. I know this brown skinned Puerto Rican guy who visited Spain and was treated terribly. They were very rude and disrespectful and called him names. Spaniards do not have any respect for Hispanics and calls their language broken Spanish. Now could you imagine how they treat Black people? If this Puerto Rican guy who isn't really that dark and is actually a little lighter than me gets mistreated Imagine how we'll get treated.

However I will agree with you on Italians. The really sweet Italians are in fact the real Italians who've come straight from Italy. They do love brown sugar lol. Not so much the Italian Americans they can be extremely racist as well. There are some Italian women who love Black men too and are in relationships with them. For the most part I do love the Italian look and would love to visit Italy one day not Spain.

“Bernie Goetz is my hero”

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Since: Mar 08

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#14 Jul 11, 2008
Lana wrote:
Dear Phester,
It doesn't matter what you find most black men interested in. If he is interested in Italian women, then it is so!! And why do you think it is relevant to discuss these classifications?
This thread is named:

Black men and Italian women....And you ask me THAT??
Lana

Philadelphia, PA

#15 Jul 11, 2008
Hi Heavenly,

I should have clarified on Spain. I traveled to Costa del Sol in the Torremelinos area and maybe it varies from area to area. I did have to deal with one rude old woman, but that was it. And I took excursions to Mijas, Rhonda, Seville, and was treated fine. Everywhere I went I had men trying to pick me up and they were fiiiiine!!! Normally, I barely get approached by white men here that's why I made the distinction.

I heard a lot of Dominican women are kept women in Spain and there is resentment around that. I personally have many friends from Spain, never had a problem with them, and knew other black americans that studied there, and experienced the same .

So far as prejudice, I don't think that is something you can escape. I've lived in London, Jamaica, and of course the US. It just is what it is.
Lana

Philadelphia, PA

#16 Jul 11, 2008
Phester O Boyle wrote:
<quoted text>
This thread is named:
Black men and Italian women....And you ask me THAT??
Yes, because who is called what has nothing to do with whether Italian women in Italy like black men, and what the differences are between Italian American women and women in Italy.
Lana

Philadelphia, PA

#17 Jul 11, 2008
One more thing Heavenly, you should consider going to Spain despite one persons bad experiences. That's one reason I normally don't share my experiences with people, because I want them to go and see for themselves. I had bad experiences in Jamaica, but many people go there and enjoy themselves. I would never tell someone negative things about it because they may go and experience something different. Just a thought!

“When Doves Cry”

Since: Jun 08

Raised in Cali live in N.Y.

#18 Jul 11, 2008
Lana wrote:
One more thing Heavenly, you should consider going to Spain despite one persons bad experiences. That's one reason I normally don't share my experiences with people, because I want them to go and see for themselves. I had bad experiences in Jamaica, but many people go there and enjoy themselves. I would never tell someone negative things about it because they may go and experience something different. Just a thought!
I Agree with you. I love to see my fellow Black Sistas broaden their horizons and keeping their options open. Well I did remember him telling which part he visited but I forgot. You're right every Continent, Country and Island has it's bad apples and share of close minded people. Sometimes they're not used to seeing people with a different look and to the rest they find these women exotic and different. I do like to hear other people's opinions and experiences so I can kinda have a taste of what I'm getting myself into lol. I've heard good and bad things about Asia too but I still plan on going there someday. I would love to visit Japan.

Another reason I think Spaniards are really racist is because of the show America's Next Top Model lol. I remember when the contestants went to Spain and had to shoot a commercial kissing the models they were assigned to. One of the Black contestants had a problem with her model. He didn't want to kiss her because she was Black. The sad thing is that this woman looked mixed. That was disgusting and had the model in tears. I don't know if you watch that show or seen that episode but it was pretty vile. So every time someone mentions Spain or Spaniards that episode pops up in my head.

Than you have sexy Italians who say and do the most sweetest things. I remember hearing an Italian guy say he is tired of Americans lying about Black women being unwanted or undesirable and we should come to Italy. Therefore some Italians would treat us like queens and make us feel wanted. I thought that was sooo sweet. As a Black woman I was very flattered by that.

“believing is seeing”

Since: Jul 08

Newport, KY

#19 Jul 11, 2008
Lana wrote:
I am a black american women that has been to Italy, and Spain for that matter.
Let's clarify something: this was mentioned in another forum and is completely true. Italian men are different then Italian Americans. That being said. Italians do not believe most Americans of Italian descent are truely Italian, they just have Italian last names.
I hope you are okay with the fact that black women are very desired in Italy and in Spain. Off the topic, but in Sweden, you are not considered to be a man until you have had sex with a black woman. I lived in the UK for 6 years so I traveled a lot and know a lot of Europeans.
Italian men (in Italy) will completely disregard their own women when they come across attractive black women. I have heard them say they love all women that are attractive, but it is definitely obvious when you visit what their preference is. A lot of Italian women, however, tend to favor rendevous with North African men to eventually marry. I don't see men in Italy particularly caring whether or not their women date black men, I guess because so many of them chase black women how could they. In Italy if a man is dating a black women he is considered to be very fortunate and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.(There are some rascist there don't get me wrong, that's everywhere, but for the most part this is true) Italians in this country have become "Anglo-saxonized" trying to fit in. Many have lost touch with their Italian roots and think being rascist towards blacks and speaking with a New York accent makes them Italian. I am not sure if you have been to Italy, but you will be shocked at the cultural difference and lies that you are being fed living here.
So you are saying in italy most italians dont have a problem with black men as american italians here in america. But is it commom to see black men with italian women in italy.
Lana

Philadelphia, PA

#20 Jul 12, 2008
shakspearen2heart wrote:
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So you are saying in italy most italians dont have a problem with black men as american italians here in america. But is it commom to see black men with italian women in italy.
I didn't notice it. It wasn't as obvious when I went, as say a place like London. But, I don't think you should have a problem. Europeans are actually more open to interracial marriages then in this country. Go for yourself! You'll see. I did hear from several other Italians in another forum that Italian women date black men and they don't have a problem with it. Of course, there are still some rascist people in Italy, but that is everywhere. And they were a lot nicer than English people that much I can say.

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