Falling in Love

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Curious

United States

#1 Jun 24, 2013
Is it ok to fall in love with someone who isn't your spouse?

Do you believe that you can be in love with more than one person?

I do!!! I have fallen in love with someone who is so perfect for me, but I love my spouse!!!!!

What do I do?

“If you're happy & you know it”

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Since: Feb 13

clap your hands!

#3 Jun 24, 2013
Well, you've taken vows so I would suggest you just wait and see if your spring fever passes before you fudge up your marriage.

“Don't harsh my mellow, man!”

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Since: Aug 08

Great State of Oklahoma!

#4 Jun 24, 2013
Dump Oki wrote:
And marry your twin
Let it go...
Curious

United States

#5 Jun 24, 2013
ShadyBits wrote:
Well, you've taken vows so I would suggest you just wait and see if your spring fever passes before you fudge up your marriage.
I don't want to leave my spouse! But this other person isn't just some random fling! I've known them longer than I have known my spouse!

“Clowns taste funny”

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Since: Dec 12

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#6 Jun 24, 2013
It's only a matter of time- not if, but when you hook up with this person. Play a little jungle sack with him/her and get it out of your system.

Your welcome
SLACK

United States

#7 Jun 24, 2013
clown detector wrote:
It's only a matter of time- not if, but when you hook up with this person. Play a little jungle sack with him/her and get it out of your system.
Your welcome
is that what you and ferrerman do

“Clowns taste funny”

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#8 Jun 24, 2013
SLACK wrote:
<quoted text>is that what you and ferrerman do
BEEP BEEP BEEP It goes without saying- duh

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#9 Jun 24, 2013
Curious wrote:
Is it ok to fall in love with someone who isn't your spouse?
Do you believe that you can be in love with more than one person?
I do!!! I have fallen in love with someone who is so perfect for me, but I love my spouse!!!!!
What do I do?
Dear confused:

Confess to your spouse, then walk away. They're both better off without you. You aren't mature enough for one man/woman let alone two!

Your welcome

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

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Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#11 Jun 24, 2013
Curious wrote:
<quoted text>
I don't want to leave my spouse! But this other person isn't just some random fling! I've known them longer than I have known my spouse!
OMG!!..ARE ya TALKING about SYBIL??...Cuz, YOU said THEM??

“Sing a song of 6 pence”

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Since: Jun 12

Pocket full of wry

#12 Jun 25, 2013
Curious wrote:
Is it ok to fall in love with someone who isn't your spouse?
Do you believe that you can be in love with more than one person?
I do!!! I have fallen in love with someone who is so perfect for me, but I love my spouse!!!!!
What do I do?
I think it is quite possible to be in love with more than one person. Love makes the world go round.
What you need to differentiate is whether you are feeling love or lust for this other person.
Then you need to think carefully if you are the perfect person for them.
Hum? Have you considered approaching your spouse to see if they love this person also?
Or to ask how either may feel about a multi spouse household?
Now before you get deliriously giddy over the idea of a perfect plural arrangement, think about how you would feel if both your loves find themselves perfect for each other without you.
Could you live happily ever after in that scenario?
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Since: Aug 12

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#13 Jun 25, 2013
Curious wrote:
<quoted text>
I don't want to leave my spouse! But this other person isn't just some random fling! I've known them longer than I have known my spouse!
Then why did you not marry/get together with them before marrying your spouse? Were there difficult circumstances preventing it? and were they Really, or just Excuses (reasons) as to why you didn't make it work with them?

Since: Feb 09

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#14 Jun 25, 2013
Curious wrote:
Is it ok to fall in love with someone who isn't your spouse?
Do you believe that you can be in love with more than one person?
I do!!! I have fallen in love with someone who is so perfect for me, but I love my spouse!!!!!
What do I do?
oh come on! just have ur threesome and get it over with!!
lol

seriously, No - u cant have ur cake and eat it too. ur married, u owe it to ur wife to love her and Only her.

“Geaux Tigers!”

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Since: Jun 12

Lexington Park, MD

#15 Jun 25, 2013
I refuse to offer you advice on this subject without payment up front.

“Mrs_E”

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Since: Apr 08

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#16 Jun 25, 2013
You have to let someone go.. your spouse or your love... its not fair to either one of them to continue..
period..
unless your looking for tre'kinky...
then its all fair game..
blah,, not in the mood for this this morning,,,
chances r

United States

#18 Jun 25, 2013
They will soon see your lack there-of
You will lose then both... Because , neither are Being fullfilled .
I want your full attention. & you, can reap the rewards.
Curious

United States

#19 Jun 25, 2013
Thanks everyone for your thoughts!!!

I do know that they wouldn't fall for each other!! Lol! It is not lust, it is love, and yes, there were crappy circumstances why we didn't get married years ago! We have been best friends for years!

There is no chance of a threesome! Not ever! Lol! I love my spouse and my friend! It's a fine line.....

Level 5

Since: Sep 12

Cadillac MI

#20 Jun 25, 2013
Colorado Chick wrote:
YOU took the Vows Chick..GET OVER IT!!
Temptation... Will ALWAYS be there... YOU just have to gave TOUGH LOVE with yourself and JUST SAY NO!!
Psssssst....THE GRASS IS NOT..GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE...
I beg,to differ.sometimes, that grass is a lot greener!!!

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Since: Apr 13

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#22 Jun 25, 2013
I don't believe that you can be "in love" with 2 people, but that's just my opinion. What do I know?

Level 5

Since: Sep 12

Cadillac MI

#23 Jun 25, 2013
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text>. BECAUSE... WHY??...ARTIFICIAL TURF!!!...Hah-Hah!!
LMAO!!!

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