Well it's a wrong relationship,What can I do to get over her?
I think that I knew she wasnÂt the one after a few weeks.
She didnÂt meet any of the qualities I always said that I wanted in a girl, but I fell for her anyway.
However my family didnÂt like her and most of my friends thought I was crazy...... But the chemistry was there and I was starving for intimacy. She was like an addiction.
Stupidly I started to avoid old ties and drop out of my usual activities. People stopped calling or coming by........
There's a lot more to tell....but I guess now you know alittle more about me.
When you caught her cheating, you didnÂt want to believe it. But in spite of all the evidence, and even though you say you never want to see her againÂ you still think about her and miss her.
Here are some steps to help you move on:
Change the tapes in your mind.
Sometimes we can get over longing for someone when we are realistic and tell ourselves the truth about who and what she is. If you can get past the ÂÂ if only she would change, my life would be heavenÂ Â delusions, you can let go. All of our relationship misery comes from that one premise: if only she would be the way I want her to be. Try a new tape. Make it positive and upbeat, like: IÂm going to focus on making my life great. I canÂt change other people but I can definitely change my mind and my life.
Take the first step.
Take one step at a time to change one area of your life. Often, you canÂt get over someone because tackling the whole of your life looks and feels overwhelming. Where do you start when it seems like there is so much to be done? You may want to find a counselor to help you. Take the time and opportunity to learn from what you have gone through so you wonÂt repeat this pattern with someone else. Because if you fell for someone who was obviously going to be a Miss Heartache, some other parts of your life were probably not working also. Discover how to give yourself what you need so you wonÂt be as vulnerable to the wrong relationship.
You need to be happy move on you got to let her go.
I'm a bit confused with all this