Trucker learns of son's killing on ro...

Trucker learns of son's killing on road | The Columbus Dispatch

There are 50 comments on the Columbus Dispatch story from Nov 9, 2008, titled Trucker learns of son's killing on road | The Columbus Dispatch. In it, Columbus Dispatch reports that:

Truck driver Paul L. Beatty Sr. was on the road when he received a call telling him that his son was dead.

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ERNESTINE ANDERSON

Columbus, OH

#28 Jul 27, 2010
nd i ,live in col ohio.

“Fire in my Bones and”

Since: Apr 10

The sweet taste of Kerosene

#29 Jul 27, 2010
ERNESTINE ANDERSON wrote:
to ashes 82 the fact are very wrong and the dipatch had made a few false statements like i said no of you even no the true fact and are blaming the wrong people and should know what you are talking about before you judge anyone because my two boys did go to college and yes my sisters kids had lots of problem and was only with me for two years and was sent back home due to me because they had problems that i could'nt deal with. but people have no rights to wish my family dead and as ugly that you are thank god looks can't kill because everyone that you know would be dead and if you have anything else to say to me find me and i will show you a thing or two because no one has the the right to talk about my family dead or alive.sincerely go to hell!
Really did I talk about your family, Did I "wish them dead"? Or did I ask you to set the record straight. Take your anger where it belongs. I was unaware that women threatened other women that way. Are you gonna beat me up? Oh no, please don't, lmao. I really was trying to be nice about what I said earlier (hence the no disrepect), but you want to turn ugly on me. thats fine, I understand, If I raised children as fucked up as you have I would be mad at the world too.
R U SERIOUS

Columbus, OH

#30 Jul 27, 2010
ERNESTINE ANDERSON wrote:
to ashes 82 the fact are very wrong and the dipatch had made a few false statements like i said no of you even no the true fact and are blaming the wrong people and should know what you are talking about before you judge anyone because my two boys did go to college and yes my sisters kids had lots of problem and was only with me for two years and was sent back home due to me because they had problems that i could'nt deal with. but people have no rights to wish my family dead and as ugly that you are thank god looks can't kill because everyone that you know would be dead and if you have anything else to say to me find me and i will show you a thing or two because no one has the the right to talk about my family dead or alive.sincerely go to hell!
So, even though it barks, walks, and acts like a dog; it's not a dog??!!! B.i.t.c.h. please. YOU KNOW your sister was a flaming, d.i.c.k. sucking addict. You wasn't woman enough to take on those kids who already had a f'd up life. So why did Children Services pick you to take those boys? They don't PICK people to take the kids when a family member steps up and decides to. You can spew that b.s. all you want, but outside looking in; ALL of these occurances may have been deterred if you had been an AUNTIE to these boys. Their momma wasn't s.h.i.t. and supposedly you were doing such a great job with your kids, why couldn't you stick it out with them?
Sincerely.... shut the hell up!
R U SERIOUS

Columbus, OH

#31 Jul 27, 2010
Ashes82 wrote:
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Really did I talk about your family, Did I "wish them dead"? Or did I ask you to set the record straight. Take your anger where it belongs. I was unaware that women threatened other women that way. Are you gonna beat me up? Oh no, please don't, lmao. I really was trying to be nice about what I said earlier (hence the no disrepect), but you want to turn ugly on me. thats fine, I understand, If I raised children as fucked up as you have I would be mad at the world too.
My sentiments exactly. Isn't is a trip how "family" will try to defend someones honor when they have none and don't deserve it anyway? Seems to me she has that whole "it wasn't me/it wasn't my fault" syndrome. TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY LADY. YOU HELPED TO CREATE THESE FUCKED UP MEN!
Jackster

United States

#32 Jul 27, 2010
R U SERIOUS wrote:
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My sentiments exactly. Isn't is a trip how "family" will try to defend someones honor when they have none and don't deserve it anyway? Seems to me she has that whole "it wasn't me/it wasn't my fault" syndrome. TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY LADY. YOU HELPED TO CREATE THESE **** UP MEN!
You and Ashes are so right. I never understand the anger and always directed at the wrong people. I have family members with alcohol problems that have just ruined everyone around them. But boy if you call them alcoholics- the blood relatives will cut you a new one. Go figure - I guess it's the cycle of dysfunction. The lesson is stay clear of toxic people.
ERNESTINE ANDERSON

Columbus, OH

#33 Jul 27, 2010
just like i said all of you can go to hell because you don't know what you are talking about and that shows just how fucked up you are trying to judge peolple you don't know and hiding behind a website. i was a good auntie for taking them in when i was working trying to take care of my own until i seen it was going no where because the was already gone and they was sent back home and other aunties tried there best you cannot help someone that does'nt want the help.
ERNESTINE ANDERSON

Columbus, OH

#34 Jul 27, 2010
Jackster wrote:
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You and Ashes are so right. I never understand the anger and always directed at the wrong people. I have family members with alcohol problems that have just ruined everyone around them. But boy if you call them alcoholics- the blood relatives will cut you a new one. Go figure - I guess it's the cycle of dysfunction. The lesson is stay clear of toxic people.
just like i said your not god and can't judge my family. the anger is when your making commets and don't know the whole story you have bite and pieces!and i gave the kids back to save my own two son and they was not allowed around them because the way there mom had them all living you can't save everyone trust me i have tried when it comes to my family.
ERNESTINE ANDERSON

Columbus, OH

#35 Jul 27, 2010
R U SERIOUS wrote:
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My sentiments exactly. Isn't is a trip how "family" will try to defend someones honor when they have none and don't deserve it anyway? Seems to me she has that whole "it wasn't me/it wasn't my fault" syndrome. TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY LADY. YOU HELPED TO CREATE THESE FUCKED UP MEN!
i do have honor and respect and they was'nt my kids to keep trying to save and no i didn't raise those fucked up boys as you say so no it not my responsibility my was to my own two kids and no it was'nt me my sister lead a bad life on her own not due to me, her sibilings or her parent, you raise a child then they go off on there and do there own thing and all you can do is advise them and its up to them to take that advise!
ERNESTINE ANDERSON

Columbus, OH

#36 Jul 27, 2010
R U SERIOUS wrote:
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So, even though it barks, walks, and acts like a dog; it's not a dog??!!! B.i.t.c.h. please. YOU KNOW your sister was a flaming, d.i.c.k. sucking addict. You wasn't woman enough to take on those kids who already had a f'd up life. So why did Children Services pick you to take those boys? They don't PICK people to take the kids when a family member steps up and decides to. You can spew that b.s. all you want, but outside looking in; ALL of these occurances may have been deterred if you had been an AUNTIE to these boys. Their momma wasn't s.h.i.t. and supposedly you were doing such a great job with your kids, why couldn't you stick it out with them?
Sincerely.... shut the hell up!
for #1 the dog is yourself and when children services tells you they have to go back home because they think the parent has gotten better you have no chose but to go alond with it and hope they are right. the bs is what you are saying and don't know the facts to the whole story that shows how stupid you really are. and when someone is hurting your kids then you keep your kids far away and thats what i did you can only help people or family so much until its out of your hands.
Anonymous

United States

#37 Aug 6, 2010
I feel that everyone who is making comments about this topic should not be judging anyone or each other, God is the only one that has the right or will to do so.Hatred and speaking evil to each other will not solve anything. Who ever started these comments were being man spirited or they would not have started with the tirade about Paul Beatty Sr. What was the reason for this? This person does not know the entire family and it seems like what they do know is from someone who has a bone to pick with one or more of the family so they stated some facts with some lies and now it is all blown out of proportion with lies, hatred and threats that will not solve anything. Please put this to rest and leave the family only to grieve for their lost ones in peace. Your comments arenot wanted or needed by anyone in this family.If you want to be of any help then let this family deal with their problems and you deal with yours. Because God truly does not like ugly and things have a way of coming back on those who hold themselves above others. Sometimes you can make changes in someones life if they let you in and sometimes you cannot. Pray for those who choose the wrong path, don't wish harm to anyone that doesn't make you look to good in the eye's of the Lord. It makes you no, better than what you are trying to accuse this family of without any proof. So how can or do you feel you are any more moral of a person than this family? You can't so please do not sit in judgement of others when you are no, better. I just thought you would like to think about what you have said and what anyone else who has commented on this forum need to think about.This forum should be closed down now it is doing anyone any good service that I can see, how about you? May God Bless All of You
LOL

United States

#38 Sep 16, 2010
If I was as innocent and as 'family friendly' as Ernestine claims she is, I wouldnt waste time arguing with strangers over lies?

Did she actually say
"AND YOU BETTER NOT BE A FAMILY MEMBER " ?

Wow that says a lot. But yet the Dispatch Newspaper and Childrens services are liars? Hmm...intersting.
LOL

United States

#39 Sep 16, 2010
Jackster wrote:
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You and Ashes are so right. I never understand the anger and always directed at the wrong people. I have family members with alcohol problems that have just ruined everyone around them. But boy if you call them alcoholics- the blood relatives will cut you a new one. Go figure - I guess it's the cycle of dysfunction. The lesson is stay clear of toxic people.
EXACTLY! Leave them to their own devices, eventually they will destroy THEMSELVES. As evidenced in this forum.
Twisted

United States

#41 Oct 5, 2010
The quote "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." comes from Shakespeare's Hamlet, Act III, scene II. The phrase has come to mean that one can "insist so passionately about something not being true that people suspect the opposite of what one is saying."
WordsofThought

Columbus, OH

#42 Nov 9, 2010
I don't wish anyone ill in this whole scenario. I speak from experience and am simply to say that once you stop "being" the victim you can resolve how your life has come to this. Not saying you can control everything in life, but making excuses for wrongdoings does not help. It only perpetuates the repeating habits or actions in ones life that got them to the same point. I only say this to help you heal yourself and for all around you. Take a step back and really absorb what the Holy Spirit is telling you. Never mind the people on here and even me. Listen to yourself and you know what is right and what is wrong. I pray for you and all your family and those around you affected by this.
You are kidding me

Anonymous Proxy

#43 Dec 22, 2010
Send that Father and the rest of those bastard relatives of his straight to HELL !!
Get Involved

UK

#44 Dec 23, 2010
Call your congressmen and senators and ask them to uphold child protective laws. One call.

http://www.fdno.org/laws/abuse.html
djt

Columbus, OH

#45 Dec 23, 2010
Anotherparent wrote:
Interesting commentary that adds a lot to the story. I feel bad for all of these kids that obviously lived in a house of horrors.
I tend to blame the mother more as PaulSr. Was a monster and she did not protect her children. But why did she have all these kids?
My experience with truck drivers has been a lot of them have anger and abuse issues. Even the ones that are very successful seem to be very unhelpful fathers with their own agenda.
I take issue with the end of your statment about truck drivers. My father has been a truck driver his entire life and I have never once been abused and he was always there sometimes sacrificing sleep and other things just to make sure he was at my football games, basketball games, etc. He was always there to teach me how to throw a ball and how to treat people with respect. Having been raised around truckers my entire life the majority of them are decent human beings just trying to make an honest living. Are there bad apples? Of course there are but for the most part you can't find a greater group of people.
Mi Familia

Columbus, OH

#46 May 25, 2011
R U SERIOUS wrote:
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So, even though it barks, walks, and acts like a dog; it's not a dog??!!! B.i.t.c.h. please. YOU KNOW your sister was a flaming, d.i.c.k. sucking addict. You wasn't woman enough to take on those kids who already had a f'd up life. So why did Children Services pick you to take those boys? They don't PICK people to take the kids when a family member steps up and decides to. You can spew that b.s. all you want, but outside looking in; ALL of these occurances may have been deterred if you had been an AUNTIE to these boys. Their momma wasn't s.h.i.t. and supposedly you were doing such a great job with your kids, why couldn't you stick it out with them?
Sincerely.... shut the hell up!
EXCUSE ME I WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT IS MY GRANDMOTHER THAT YOU CALLED ``D.I.C.K. SUCKING ADDICT`` I'M NOT GOIN TO WISH BAD THINGS ABOUT YOU JUST KNOW U SHOULD WATCH WHAT U SAY UR AGENDA MUST BE TO HURT OTHERS BUT I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND ASK GOD TO FORGIVE YOU FOR THE IGNORANT THINGS YOU HAVE SAID AND HOPE HE TAKES MERCY ON NOT ONLY YOU BUT ANYONE ELSE WHO HAS SLANDERED MY FAMILY IN A TIME OF MOURNING. NOBODYS FAMILY IS PERFECT AND I KNOW MINE ISNT BUT THAT GIVES NO ONE THE RIGHT TO SLANDER AND CURSE OUR FAMILY. MAYBE YOU PEOPLE SHOULD TAKE A LOOK INSIDE YOURSELVES AND SEE HOW ``WONDERFUL`` YOU ARE. AND THANK YOU FOR THE PEOPLE WHO DID NOT MAKE RUDE COMMENTS I APPRECIATE IT GRATELY.
As expected

Columbus, OH

#47 Jun 17, 2011
Behavior such as what is referenced in this forum,is an indication of what happens when first cousins marry and produce children. I too, would be upset and ask people not to judge me if I was raised by Cousin Mommy or Cousin Daddy. No surprise that offspring ended up the way they did.
Free Bird

Hilliard, OH

#48 Jun 28, 2011
Paul Sr is a ungreatfull basterd.He abused Jr and through him in the street.He's also a limped dick
man that can't get it up.But thrives on the down
fall of other people.I am glad I was woman enough
to walk away from his sorry ass.

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