Thank you Robert! I get that people have to grieve in their own way, but this has all seemed like a grade school or trailer trash mentality going on here! It's a fact that in grieving, people need to find someone to blame... I seem to be the one that many people would like to judge or point a finger at. I can handle it b/c I know the truth & most or all of you don't. And, most of you are just so opionated & self-centered (not seeming to care how your comments may effect someone else). Why don't you stop attacking me or someone else here that you may not like what they have to say, and just deal with YOURSELF! I have sat back all these years and refrained from reading this BS. At this point, years later, it's sad to see how many of you are still keeping yourselves from making peace how you can so you don't walk around bitter and resentful in your own lives. My prayers go out to you.I agree with Kelley. NO, I do not know her and No I am not Kelley. But I have continued to read the comments here. The reality of this situation is that SHE is not the person who killed someone. And I believe it is wrong to blame Her for what Tom did. Tom is an adult. He is responsible for his behavior. No one else. I think people should quit blaming Kelley for what Tom did.
BTW, I'm sure some of you will have a comment (those who don't have a life) especially Katey. Go for it. Just makes me feel all the more sorry for you.