anonymous

United States

#24 Dec 25, 2012
I want to know the proper term for a man attracted to a transgender and eomrn and men?
Been There

United States

#25 Jan 10, 2013
My ex girlfriend is transitioning from male to female. I was definitely attracted to her feminine side. She was a bottom only and it was like being with a girl. She was beautiful and knew who she was. She was embarrassed by her male parts because she would get erections when we were together. She always went down on me, I did not go down on her. I'll admit that it was a turn on being inside of her bareback and watching her orgasm as she would ejaculate which usually caused me to orgasm inside of her. It was a good relationship, we just couldn't make things work out for the long term. We are even still friends.
ATTENTION

United States

#26 Jan 12, 2013
Hello im ah 28 y o chicano male from ca looking for a pre op tgirl who is near me i want the feeling of being with ah woman but want the part of the male to "play" with as i plz ive been told tht i am attractive but im much to humble to go around announcing it lol n e ways if this interests u then msg me at tbagger1984@yahoo.com
Wow

Murray, KY

#27 Jan 12, 2013
Been There wrote:
My ex girlfriend is transitioning from male to female. I was definitely attracted to her feminine side. She was a bottom only and it was like being with a girl. She was beautiful and knew who she was. She was embarrassed by her male parts because she would get erections when we were together. She always went down on me, I did not go down on her. I'll admit that it was a turn on being inside of her bareback and watching her orgasm as she would ejaculate which usually caused me to orgasm inside of her. It was a good relationship, we just couldn't make things work out for the long term. We are even still friends.
Sounds like it was a good relationship and it was enjoyable too
gp_83

Modesto, CA

#28 Feb 3, 2013
As a 29 yo male I am more Interested I'm giving oral to a ts rather than receiving. I consider myself straight with an attraction for transsexuals and/ TVs.

Since: Jan 09

Central NJ

#29 Feb 3, 2013
As has been said, most TSes are bottoms, we don't top. For that experience, you'd be better off with a CD. You are an "admirer" (With Benefits?) Actually, I'd rather not date someone like you because you'd want to do this and it would be a reminder to me of things I would prefer to forget. I like sex to be a magical wonderland of illusions (and delusions) and I don't want someone bringing me back to earth about things like that. During sex, a girl can forget all kinds of things, her braces, she's too tall, she's too fat, she's too skinny, she's too flat chested and or she's got a penis. The last thing she wants is someone reminding her of any of these things.
Regards, Terri
gp_83 wrote:
As a 29 yo male I am more Interested I'm giving oral to a ts rather than receiving. I consider myself straight with an attraction for transsexuals and/ TVs.
gp_83

Kent, WA

#30 Feb 3, 2013
TerryE wrote:
<quoted text>As has been said, most TSes are bottoms, we don't top. For that experience, you'd be better off with a CD. You are an "admirer" (With Benefits?) Actually, I'd rather not date someone like you because you'd want to do this and it would be a reminder to me of things I would prefer to forget. I like sex to be a magical wonderland of illusions (and delusions) and I don't want someone bringing me back to earth about things like that. During sex, a girl can forget all kinds of things, her braces, she's too tall, she's too fat, she's too skinny, she's too flat chested and or she's got a penis. The last thing she wants is someone reminding her of any of these things.
Regards, Terri
Very well said I must say. Very well said. I admire that.
gp_83

Kent, WA

#31 Feb 3, 2013
TerryE wrote:
<quoted text>As has been said, most TSes are bottoms, we don't top. For that experience, you'd be better off with a CD. You are an "admirer" (With Benefits?) Actually, I'd rather not date someone like you because you'd want to do this and it would be a reminder to me of things I would prefer to forget. I like sex to be a magical wonderland of illusions (and delusions) and I don't want someone bringing me back to earth about things like that. During sex, a girl can forget all kinds of things, her braces, she's too tall, she's too fat, she's too skinny, she's too flat chested and or she's got a penis. The last thing she wants is someone reminding her of any of these things.
Regards, Terri
The benefit of being with a person as a Ts is more than just sex though. Don't get me wrong I love sex. But it's not just that.

“Don't steal my happy”

Since: Aug 12

Shelbyville, Ky.

#32 Feb 5, 2013
I just watched this video, and found it pretty interesting. There's no real facts involved, just one persons thoughts on a very popular question, which I found fairly compelling, and it fits this thread. She rambles on a bit, but all in all makes a pretty fair point. Enjoy.

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gp_83

Kent, WA

#33 Feb 6, 2013
Angel Diva wrote:
I just watched this video, and found it pretty interesting. There's no real facts involved, just one persons thoughts on a very popular question, which I found fairly compelling, and it fits this thread. She rambles on a bit, but all in all makes a pretty fair point. Enjoy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =JxNgR8dkVQcXX&feature=pla yer_detailpage
Very well said.
Dre

Buffalo, NY

#36 Feb 15, 2013
I have also found similar emails of my boyfriend's. I can't quite figure out if he has actually acted on his curiosity. I know things haven't always been great with our relationship. I'm trying to fix that. I don't know how I feel about the fact that he may have gone outside our relationship to satisfy a need. But, I would like to at least understand. If things were better with us, would he be as curious and want to act on it? If I'm more attentive to his needs, will he want to do this less?
gallonoflove

United States

#38 Jul 12, 2013
When a man gets with a crossdresser or ts. It means he want to get done anal or he just in factuated of being with a men that looks like a lady. I'm a crossdresser and from my opinion that is what it is. It's all the same cds, ts"s, pre_ops,etc. Unless they have a sex change. When a man get with either it means he gay point blank. Bisexualality to me does not exist.
claire woods

Los Angeles, CA

#39 Jul 24, 2013
Hi I'm a transgender female I'm a bottom and love to please men and men only and I'm not gay I'm straight u like what u like but dont hurt ppl by going behind there backs just be open and live ur life
claire woods

Los Angeles, CA

#40 Jul 24, 2013
gallonoflove wrote:
When a man gets with a crossdresser or ts. It means he want to get done anal or he just in factuated of being with a men that looks like a lady. I'm a crossdresser and from my opinion that is what it is. It's all the same cds, ts"s, pre_ops,etc. Unless they have a sex change. When a man get with either it means he gay point blank. Bisexualality to me does not exist.
I'm sorry but do agree

“Peace”

Since: Feb 08

Earth

#41 Jul 25, 2013
some interesting facts from a study of gay men,,,
of course perhaps being with a transsexual might be much different, but:

In the Journal of Sexual Medicine, researchers from Indiana University and George Mason University surveyed nearly 25,000 gay and bisexual men in an effort to better understand how they experience sex. The study hopes to combat "the almost exclusive focus" on HIV in most academic research on gay male sexual behavior, as well as to increase understanding of the "diversity and complexity of these men’s sexual lives." To do that, they asked gay and bisexual-identified men ages 18 to 87 to chart their most recent sexual experience. Did it involve kissing, cuddling, masturbation, oral sex, anal sex? Did it happen with a boyfriend, spouse, stranger, or sex worker? Was it in a car, a home, a club? Were condoms used?

The results: Despite the popular perception, "sexual behaviors involving the anus were least common," researchers found. Around 75 percent of participants reported kissing their partners, giving oral sex, and/or receiving oral sex in their most recent sexual encounters. By contrast, only 36 percent of men reporting receiving anal sex and 34 percent of men reporting giving it.

http://www.good.is/posts/gay-sex-is-not-anal-...
Hannah

Alvarado, TX

#42 Aug 5, 2013
If he's getting with a legitimate transsexual not a cd or tv or any of that then there could be several reasons. A lot of guys do it because we appreciate our femininity much more than a genetic woman. We understand our man better and are more in tune with his needs. I am saving for the surgery, im on hormones and my fiancé loves me for the woman I am. He says I was never male (which mentally is true). He is definitely not gay, and like mentioned before by another poster; I too am so very ashamed of what is between my legs that it causes me much anxiety. Now having said that I believe there are different kinds of transsexuals. I was born with a disease that caused my genetic code to be xxy instead of xy. Basically I never developed as a male and make a better girl. Others however I feel are just really gay males living as women and giving true medically diagnosed transsexuals a bad rap. BTW I would never sleep with a guy in a relationship like some on here have mentioned that they do. It's not fair to lump us all in the same category.
anon

Stockton, CA

#43 Oct 12, 2013
Its a fantasy its different and "naughty" and sexual fantasies should be a little naughty. What are we going to dream about missionary with the misses. I find TS especially the pretty and very feminine ones very hot. I am sure everyone is different but I fantasize about TS but doubt if I would ever do anything in real life. Every female is different some believe if you fantasize about someone else you are cheating while others may bring someone aboard to fulfill your fantasy. As I get older the 2 consenting adults thing gets a lot more meaningful. Be open with your BF and not judgmental--maybe you 2 can come to arrangement that fulfills both of your needs
No-one

Brooklyn, NY

#44 Oct 15, 2013
So, if husband of 25 is looking for the TS adds, it is NOT just looking? It is something changed somewhere in his head?
I am so lost...... Don't know if I should confront him or leave exposed se male escort searches on my laptop, so he feels the pain? LOL
Actually not funny.....
Mon

Corona, CA

#45 Nov 19, 2013
My boyfriend (who is also my exhusband & father of my daughter) just admitted to me that he has gone to a ts escort to "be a bottom". He said he liked it in the a** and he even s**ked the d**k. I'm really bothered by it. I have found emails of him sending pics of his d**k to a ts. I've found it repeatedly over the course of 5-6 yrs. He also admitted to getting sexual massages. I'm really uncomfortable with it. He is open with it now and admits he loves it. He keeps trying to get me to have a threesome or watch him get f**ked by a ts. I really hate it and I refuse to. He says it's because "I don't put out" at home. It was hard to find the time and energy to do anything when I knew he was cheating on me and I worked ft and just had a baby. It has really made me disgusted towards him but I can't help but still love him and want us to work out. It's good to know I'm not the only one going through this. I don't mean to sound ignorant but all this has made me prejudice towards the ts population. I am usually never like this but I'm jealous that I'm not enough for him. I think this is going to be a breaking point for us. We've been together for most of the last 8 yrs and have a daughter. Idk what to do. I've told him I won't have any part in sexual activity with a ts but he doesn't seem to want to leave it alone.
Straight

Jacksonville, FL

#46 Jan 27, 2014
Is it just a label? I consider myself straight. I've never been attracted to a man physically. I have always dated and had sex with women and have always been attracted to their beauty and curves. With all of that said, I have been with several beautiful TS women. Many of them take better care of themselves than genetic women do. I have done it all: oral giving, receiving, anal: giving/receiving, kissing. Each person is different. I don't feel the need to label myself as 'bisexual' because there is still nothing about a man that attracts me. I don't like his body, muscles, face, hair, clothes, anything. But, a woman (who just happens to have something extra down there) is sexy to me. The way she smells, her hair, her clothing, her curves, her breasts.
My experiences with TS women have gone beyond sex as well. I have befriended a few and we hang out without sex just like I do with many other friends. I view TS women as people, plain and simple. Every person had their own personality, and style. That doesn't mean I am attracted to every TS in the world, just as I am not attracted to every genetic woman in the world. In my opinion, life is too short for the labels. Enjoy yourself, share the experiences with others, and have a good life as long as you are not hurting someone else in the process.

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