Question for Transsexual's or straight men who like TS

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Since: Feb 12

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Feb 3, 2012
 

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I need some help understanding. Can someone please explain to me if a straight man likes to have sex with a transsexual... what is most normal for them to do during sex?

Is it more common for the straight male to "give" or "receive" orally or anally?

The reason I am asking is because I found out my Fiancé has had sex with a transsexual escort in the past. He also has a profile on Tsdating site.

So I'm wondering if when he is with the TS is he s**king c**k and getting f**ked in the a**? Or is he the one doing the f**king?

what's the norm?

And also does this make him Gay? Or Bi?

I know he loves women because he has hired MANY female escorts & is on dating sites for females too.

I know he LOVES big tits. every girlfriend he has ever had is blonde with big tits. I'm super tiny, blonde, very pretty face with 32F cup. So it's not like I'm gross and don't F him cuz I do. We get freaky. Another weird thing is when we have sex he always wants to talk about me getting f**cked by another man. And he wants me to describe the guy to him and how big his c**k is and what I'm going to do to the guys c**k. Is he imagining the guy?

Someone please help me out here! I just want to understand. Should I leave him? ugh!

And I'd appreciate to only hear from TS or guys who like them. I don't need straight men giving their opinions, calling him gay ect. Thank You!

Since: Jan 09

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Feb 3, 2012
 
My married BF is straight! When we make love, I'm the girl and he's the boy! Clearly, I'm giving him something he's not getting from his wife. When he comes over, I always wear a skirt or dress, usually high heels, makeup, jewelry etc, Guys like that! I would never ask him to do to me what I do for him. He's the guy! I'm the girl! He's an "admirer", that's a guy who likes TSes. He's attracted to our Fen side, not our boy parts. Good luck!
Regards, Terri

Since: Feb 11

Sedalia, MO

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Feb 14, 2012
 
I'm a TS and men like what they like I've all ways like st men and st men have all ways like me. I've been dressing like a women for a long time and I'm on H and there's nothing wrong with it I've all ways been a bottom I will never be a top never have never will be. And gay men I do not date at all we can be friends the same gos for women it's who I am and always will be.

Since: Feb 12

Newport Beach, CA

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Feb 16, 2012
 
Thanks for your replies.

I'm just trying to understand. I actually confronted him about it and OF COURSE he denied it. I knew he would do that.

But I know that he did. There was just too many things I saw in his email that proved it.

I guess I can understand him denying it to me. It bothers me and I'm still not sure what to think about it.

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Feb 18, 2012
 
TerryE wrote:
My married BF is straight! When we make love, I'm the girl and he's the boy! Clearly, I'm giving him something he's not getting from his wife. When he comes over, I always wear a skirt or dress, usually high heels, makeup, jewelry etc, Guys like that! I would never ask him to do to me what I do for him. He's the guy! I'm the girl! He's an "admirer", that's a guy who likes TSes. He's attracted to our Fen side, not our boy parts. Good luck!
Regards, Terri
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Feb 21, 2012
 
TerryE wrote:
My married BF is straight! When we make love, I'm the girl and he's the boy! Clearly, I'm giving him something he's not getting from his wife. When he comes over, I always wear a skirt or dress, usually high heels, makeup, jewelry etc, Guys like that! I would never ask him to do to me what I do for him. He's the guy! I'm the girl! He's an "admirer", that's a guy who likes TSes. He's attracted to our Fen side, not our boy parts. Good luck!
Regards, Terri
Saying that he comes over and you wear a skirt and heels, makeup and jewelry is what I'd expect from a CD. Nothing wrong with crossdressing, just wondering why you call yourself a TS?
Also, how old are you two if he's a boy and you're the girl? 12 & 13 or something?
Admirer = Fetishist
He's married, and he's out messing around with a guy dressed up in heels and a skirt? Nothing personal, but I do feel bad for his wife.

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Since: Jun 07

Beaverton, OR

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Feb 21, 2012
 
babygirl711 wrote:
I need some help understanding. Can someone please explain to me if a straight man likes to have sex with a transsexual... what is most normal for them to do during sex?
Is it more common for the straight male to "give" or "receive" orally or anally?
The reason I am asking is because I found out my Fiancé has had sex with a transsexual escort in the past. He also has a profile on Tsdating site.
So I'm wondering if when he is with the TS is he s**king c**k and getting f**ked in the a**? Or is he the one doing the f**king?
what's the norm?
And also does this make him Gay? Or Bi?
I know he loves women because he has hired MANY female escorts & is on dating sites for females too.
I know he LOVES big tits. every girlfriend he has ever had is blonde with big tits. I'm super tiny, blonde, very pretty face with 32F cup. So it's not like I'm gross and don't F him cuz I do. We get freaky. Another weird thing is when we have sex he always wants to talk about me getting f**cked by another man. And he wants me to describe the guy to him and how big his c**k is and what I'm going to do to the guys c**k. Is he imagining the guy?
Someone please help me out here! I just want to understand. Should I leave him? ugh!
And I'd appreciate to only hear from TS or guys who like them. I don't need straight men giving their opinions, calling him gay ect. Thank You!
Some MtF transexuals are pre-op (Still have the male genetilia) and some are post-op ( now have same genetilia as a woman). If he is haveing sex with a post op, he is most likely having it the same way as he would with any woman. If you are in a relationship with him, I'd be leary of if he will be true to you. Just my opinion.
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Sep 4, 2012
 
What a great guy! He's surfing escort websites searching for natural born women AND chicks with sticks, and you are wondering about the type of sexual positions/oral sex with these Transsexuals? Unless you have a open relationship, I advised for you to think twice about marrying this guy but I guess you don't mind the cheating since you most likely "love" him. Yes, you should leave him (I hope you did) or else you'll find yourself replaced by a man who loves to wear heels and a dress.
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#10
Sep 16, 2012
 
As usual with these, plenty of unnecessary prejudice and discrimination. Please leave that out. TS women are humans with feelings too. To the OP, frankly the only bit that matters is "He also has a profile on Tsdating site." It is NOT acceptable for him to have a profile on ANY dating site when he is allegedly in a committed relationship with you. What are you thinking about? Challenge him, confront him and if he does not get rid of that (and prove it)dump him. It doesn't matter whether he likes TS women, regular women, other men or chimps--he's on a site to help him cheat on you! Are you so desperate you'd put up with that?
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Oct 16, 2012
 

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Im in a long term committed relationship with a guy that also likes Ts women has been open about it and has admitted to some sort of past experiences regarding sex with someone but won't expand on it.
In the day of light my boy says he loves me and is happy but some of his Internet behaviors and reading material says another.
He claims that he was just curious in his twenties and during his partying days.
I do love him very much, but is this someone who is going to wake up ten years down the road and tell me he s really gay and wants to explore being with a Ts or even a guy for that matter.
I mean if I strap one on once in a while will this satisfy the yearning?..
Hope

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Oct 20, 2012
 
I thought i was the only one living this situation. I found out the same in my year and 1/2 relationship with my boyfriend. Saw the emails. He also subscribe to a tg dating website as a regular dating website were he describe himself as "open" on the sexuality tab. I would never, not evenin my worst dreams imagine he would have this behavior. I dont judge anyone, but why lie to someone like that! Just be open and assume who you really are / like. We lived together and there i was thinking he loved me ...
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Oct 26, 2012
 
Hi im just see some of my gusband mails sending pictures of hus d..k to a ts and let that person know that is gonna be his first time and idk what tonthink us my husband gay?? Or bi? And what can i do!!
May

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Oct 26, 2012
 
I just cant belive it i mean if he like it ok im gonna respet him but why to lie... My question is why he wanna cheat with a ts and not with a girl
Hope

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Oct 26, 2012
 
I dont think there is an explaniation why they do what they do... I agree that the fact of lie and hide it iit makes it so even much hurtful
May

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Oct 27, 2012
 
Talk to him and ask him about it i did to my husband already..
Hope

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Oct 27, 2012
 
May wrote:
Talk to him and ask him about it i did to my husband already..
He wants to fix things with us now... Can someone really change???
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Nov 25, 2012
 

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Hi there,

I'm happy to say that I'm a straight married man with a baby and wife. We love each other. Thanks to the Internet and a lot of bordem and lack of sex after marriage and having kids in the first year I found myself turned on to ts or pre op as you call them. It's their feminine side I like, sometimes more female than female if that makes sense.
At first I worried and came out to my wife thinking I was gay or bi. She laughed it off (amazing woman) and said for a fact I wasn't gay. That made me feel better and maybe I was just kinky or bi curious. I'm not attracted to men but ts has something special I believe.
I would never go with a prostitute regardless of gender as I'm married now so everything else is a fantasy. I have had a sexual massage before though, hand job. Because I was desperate for action and wife was too busy. I draw the line there. Sorry if this offends.
I hope this opinion helps.
ash

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Nov 25, 2012
 

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People can't change know, especially about some sexual things. But sexual preference and what turns people on does eb and flow through ones life so he may settle down and realise his wife is the only one for him. Just to be honest is the main point.
Is he going to continue to step out to get his fixes and if so are you above everything ok with that?
If not then he needs to stop or give up wasting your time.
ash

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Nov 25, 2012
 
know should read no. Sorry.
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Dec 24, 2012
 

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Most of us that go to TS escorts want to be a bottom, because we dont get it at home

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