And im still looking for the famous preacher theologian who agrees with you and dan the man child.<quoted text>No? Really??? It took you this long to deduce that? OYG. Sweetie, Paul being a widower would mean that he had to have had been married at some point in order to become widowed. Jesus save us from some of your Christians, it's all too clear that they know not what they do. Look at this one.
Why not just admit it, you know what the bible says and you don't care. You want to believe what you want and nothing in the bible will change that. At least be honest about it instead of trying to force interpretations that couldn't stand up against any elementary study of scripture.