You're still attempting to justify violence against someone just because they don't disclose every single detail of their personal life on the first date.<quoted text>
Not if I am considering making them my other half. There are plenty of reasons for being honest and open about who or what you are. If a trans has no interest in sex or a relationship I couldn't care less about them or their right to privacy. Being up front about who they are could save everyone involved a lot of pain, or worse, later.
So are you upfront about being a racist homophobic bigot to everyone you meet? Or is it just so obvious you don't need to tell them?