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#27 Jun 12, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text> I did but he says give it time & time I don't have anymore so I want talk to him on phone just text but for me this is safe so I want fall for him again
Wait a second, I thought you said it wasn't you at all, but him? If that's the case what's with all this safe talk and falling for him talk?

Sounds to me like you have it bad.

If you really weren't interested, you'd not have any contact with him.

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#28 Jun 12, 2012
It takes two to tango. It sounds like you like the drama even asking complete strangers what to do. What, you don't have any family or friends IRL?

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#29 Jun 12, 2012
Ok if u don't like u don't have to comment if I knew what to do I wouldn't ask I don't have all the answers so if this bothers u don't respond cause I am asking for advice if u don't know please stop responding please im trying to sort though this cause im loving this & why would I dare tell family & friends so if this is not for u don't respond atleast my words are tasteful if u don't like please stop responding thank u

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#30 Jun 12, 2012
*drops off a few white sheets*

“Incorrupta fides, nudaque veri”

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#32 Jun 12, 2012
*Gets tangled up in white sheets*

There's so many sheets!

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#34 Jun 12, 2012
DazzleDat wrote:
*drops off a few white sheets*
what does that mean ok I want. Post personal stuff anymore but some of u gave good advice but atleast he's sweating u men need us to not give to u & be strong minded cause if we are to nice u call it weakness so women win everytime

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#36 Jun 12, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text> what does that mean ok I want. Post personal stuff anymore but some of u gave good advice but atleast he's sweating u men need us to not give to u & be strong minded cause if we are to nice u call it weakness so women win everytime
You wanted to make him sweat? Lady you really really need to rethink yourself.

You don't want kids, yet he has a baby. Do you want him to not have his child in his life? What would happen if something happened to the baby's mother? Whenever you are with a person that has children, their needs should always come before your own. You need to realize that at some time in the future you may have to step to the plate and be a mom to that kid. If not a mom, then a good friend, but your attitude seems to be very self centered.

From what you have typed it seems as if you are playing a game to where you want to win at all costs, even at the expense of a child. Now if you are willing to throw a child under the bus, what type of person does that make you? I think you should re-think your motives.

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#37 Jun 12, 2012
DazzleDat wrote:
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You wanted to make him sweat? Lady you really really need to rethink yourself.
You don't want kids, yet he has a baby. Do you want him to not have his child in his life? What would happen if something happened to the baby's mother? Whenever you are with a person thatg to throw a child under the bus, what type of person does that make you? I think you should re-think your motives.
it's not about his baby its about her tell him if is with me she want let him see his baby that is why I gave him a choice that's why I asked should I stay or go because she's holding a baby over his head so I made the choice I was. Just asking for advice

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#38 Jun 12, 2012
DazzleDat wrote:
*drops off a few white sheets*
Thank heavens! I wondered where those where. Drops them over ANOTHER complete loon.

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#39 Jun 12, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text> it's not about his baby its about her tell him if is with me she want let him see his baby that is why I gave him a choice that's why I asked should I stay or go because she's holding a baby over his head so I made the choice I was. Just asking for advice
Try Carolyn Hax. I would LOVE to see what advice she'd give you.

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#41 Jun 12, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text> it's not about his baby its about her tell him if is with me she want let him see his baby that is why I gave him a choice that's why I asked should I stay or go because she's holding a baby over his head so I made the choice I was. Just asking for advice
You have already said you don't want the baby in your life though, maybe she is doing what is best for her baby in keeping the baby from someone who does not want a baby in their life. Maybe she has fears that someone who is too old for a child in their life would abuse her baby?
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text> that's the problem he had a baby & that's the thing & im to old to deal with kids


You are flip flopping. You are playing a game.

*white sheets*

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#42 Jun 12, 2012
Look how can I be selfish he brought this to me I was trying to get advice from topic why can't people be understanding im asking for advice sorry I asked somethings u can't see someone else case help im not breaking up no one's home I asking for people opinion but instead u have judge me instead of understanding this person has a real problem or maybe u have been were I am cause no one has all the answers but all u have done is judge me some people can be cruel

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#43 Jun 12, 2012
DazzleDat wrote:
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You have already said you don't want the baby in your life though, maybe she is doing what is best for her baby in keeping the baby from someone who does not want a baby in their life. Maybe she has fears that someone who is to
*white sheets*
no I did not I said im to old to have children I have grown children & no l don't want anymore children why is the subject being changed how can this be deleted please

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#44 Jul 10, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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Wait a second, I thought you said it wasn't you at all, but him? If that's the case what's with all this safe talk and falling for him talk?
Sounds to me like you have it bad.
If you really weren't interested, you'd not have any contact with him.
Nope!

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#45 Jul 10, 2013
Hey Ricky

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#46 Jul 10, 2013
_Susan_ wrote:
Hey Ricky
Hey Sue!

Still after my wallet?

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#47 Jul 11, 2013
Nah, I have it in my pocket book. Although it IS getting a little empty. Better trade it for one of your full ones.
Nancy

Mclean, VA

#49 Aug 6, 2013
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heartbreak for seven months and I was not tired of
loving him. So I take a bold step by contacting a spell
caster who help me bring my ex boyfriend back. He is
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Contact him via this email :(okudayomagictemple@gmail.com )?

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#53 Aug 7, 2013
Who cares
Sean

North Chicago, IL

#54 Aug 7, 2013
_Susan_ wrote:
Who cares
I do bb :)

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