Should I stay or go?????

Should I stay or go?????

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#1 Jun 11, 2012
Ok I have a question let's say someone your past who though the years you have always loved & he is in & out mylife & now he's back now I giving him a choose or get out of mylife I want him to decide is it me if not don't waste anymore of my time with make believe give me your take on this?????.....

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#2 Jun 11, 2012
Is what you're going through really what you want from love? You belittle yourself just by allowing someone to use you at their whim. Don't give him a choice, dump him to the curb and move on.

He's married isn't he? If not he's still into his wife, right?

Speaking from experience here, BTW.
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#4 Jun 11, 2012
I suggest she have a baby with him. That should take care of everything!

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#6 Jun 11, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
Ok I have a question let's say someone your past who though the years you have always loved & he is in & out mylife & now he's back now I giving him a choose or get out of mylife I want him to decide is it me if not don't waste anymore of my time with make believe give me your take on this?????.....
YEARS??
How many more years are you going to waste on this go nowhere part-time relationship?
Sounds like he's the one who's calling all the shots...

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#7 Jun 11, 2012
DazzleDat wrote:
Is what you're going through really what you want from love? You belittle yourself just by allowing someone to use you at their whim. Don't give him a choice, dump him to the curb and move on.
He's married isn't he? If not he's still into his wife, right?
Speaking from experience here, BTW.
no he's not married that's the thing I have given him a chose & if he does not answer im going with mylife

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#8 Jun 11, 2012
rubygoober wrote:
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YEARS??
How many more years are you going to waste on this go nowhere part-time relationship?
Sounds like he's the one who's calling all the shots...
yeah he was but not anymore

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#9 Jun 11, 2012
Sublime1 wrote:
I suggest she have a baby with him. That should take care of everything!
that's the problem he had a baby & that's the thing & im to old to deal with kids
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#11 Jun 11, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text>that's the problem he had a baby & that's the thing & im to old to deal with kids
Does he know this? Being a father with young kids, if i were single, I wouldn't even entertain a relationship with a woman who felt that way. Not that there's anything wrong with how you feel, but my kids would come first and I'd need a woman who didn't view them as baggage.

Friends with benefits, perhaps, but nothing beyond that.
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#12 Jun 11, 2012
I think given that you feel that way you should do him, his baby, and yourself a favor and don't even go down that road. Your differing life situations and outlooks make you two incompatible. It can be hard to walk away from that when you have strong feelings for someone, but it is the right thing to do. Timing is important and it's off in this situation.

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#13 Jun 11, 2012
Any time someone gives me an ultimatum, I do completely the opposite of what I know they want.

*shrug*

I guess I'm just noncompliant that way.

Toss the dork out on his keester, and watch the movie "He's Just Not That Into You."

There is someone out there who will appreciate and love you.

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#14 Jun 11, 2012
Sublime1 wrote:
I think given that you feel that way you should do him, his baby, and yourself a favor and don't even go down that road. Your differing life situations and outlooks make you two incompatible. It can be hard to walk away from that when you have strong feelings for someone, but it is the right thing to do. Timing is important and it's off in this situation.
he's holding on not me that's why I posted this he finds me its not me at all

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#15 Jun 11, 2012
-CatCiao- wrote:
Any time someone gives me an ultimatum, I do completely the opposite of what I know they want.
*shrug*
I guess I'm just noncompliant that way.
Toss the dork out on his keester, and watch the movie "He's Just Not That Into You."
There is someone out there who will appreciate and love you.
I agree so how do I get to leave me alone
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#16 Jun 11, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text>I agree so how do I get to leave me alone
Tell him you aren't interested and to leave you alone.

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#17 Jun 12, 2012
Sublime1 wrote:
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Tell him you aren't interested and to leave you alone.
I did but he says give it time & time I don't have anymore so I want talk to him on phone just text but for me this is safe so I want fall for him again

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#19 Jun 12, 2012
lemon hope wrote:
<quoted text> he's holding on not me that's why I posted this he finds me its not me at all
You are holding on, otherwise you would have moved on and not asked if you should stay or go. What if he chooses you? What about the baby. The baby should be first in both your minds. Since you don't want a baby on your life you need to leave because he has the baby.

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#20 Jun 12, 2012
One word: leave

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#21 Jun 12, 2012
I'd hoped this was thread created by Frank asking if he should go. lol

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#22 Jun 12, 2012
Ok I have left him but I still care but he tricks me with let's be friends this time I have even rejected his friendship but do men ever give up its been 22years & he's holding on & he knows what im about he wants to have us to be sexual & I have refused I want marriage why should I get the short in you lay with me it most. Be marriage in pay if not I will just be a virgin

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#24 Jun 12, 2012
frankxavier wrote:
<quoted text> you need to walk out gal! No man has the right to mistreat a woman! No man whatsoever!
I know but I a confused really im old fashion he remember when I was younger & I accepted him for what it was be im to old to accept dumb things he bags up off me but when he comes back he comes hard & I get weak & fall for his ear talk

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#25 Jun 12, 2012
I think this is bogus~~
I don't know what you're on, but post #24 is BS.
jmo...
But just in case it's real~~
You're not his woman, you're his doormat.

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