Why do women dress very provokably?

“I walk among you but”

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#1102 Mar 14, 2013
-Kevin- wrote:
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Great! You?
I have been busy. I am glad that you have been great. It is a good life.
Have you seen Frank? He was funny sometimes.

“I walk among you but”

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#1103 Mar 14, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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There are a lot of women who are no different.
I probably get bothered by women about 50% of the time when I go out. I have a family and don't make it out too often and when I do, I kind of want to hang with my friends ... Not get chatted up by some woman or women asking me to go home with them after bar time or have women touching me. The thing is I'm nice about it and politely decline, but given my choice I'd rather not be bothered most nights.
I have a ring on my finger too. Doesn't matter. Lots of women don't care, especially cougars. In fact many women actually do stuff that would get men thrown out or arrested, because guys are generally easy going about it and can just laugh it off. At least it makes for good stories I guess.
Hello Sublime.The same thing happens to me but in reverse. The guys all come after me. Like you, all I want is a girls night out. I don't have a ring on my finger but that does not make me fair game. I have all the dates I want and I didn't meet any of them in a bar.

“<3”

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Black Rock City, NV

#1104 Mar 14, 2013
Hello Bellah

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#1105 Mar 14, 2013
DC tells it like it is wrote:
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I agree with you wholeheartedly. I am what is called the "no woman". I go to my hang, been going there for nine years now. I don't go there to fool around. I go to be social. To talk to the bartenders and owner. As for the patrons, I leave them as they are.
One day I was up at the hang and sitting between two of the guys. Both guys were hit on by chicks. When the chicks went to the bathroom or walked away, the conversation was not in their favor. Guys really dislike chicks doing that.
It really depends on the guy. Single guys especially I donít think mind. Heck, I have some married friends who donít mind. I donít mind a little chit chat, either, but I generally like to keep to myself and the folks Iím there with.
DC tells it like it is wrote:
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I also agree, if you've a ring on your finger, you are with someone and should be treated with respect. Respect for you and more so your wife.
I donít blame them for that. My vows are between my wife and me. Itís up to us to uphold them. No one else took a vow to not try to steal me or her or sleep with us.
DC tells it like it is wrote:
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I would never want the man I was with having an affair. That stuff hurts like hell, thusly making me real hot headed. Chicks can get really wicked when crossed. So, I feel chicks that do this stuff to men with a ring on, do not care about themselves.
It depends what they want. If they are looking for a relationship, then yes, I agree they donít have much self-respect, but I think most of them are just looking for a good time for a night.
DC tells it like it is wrote:
<quoted text>When I fool with guys in public, I come across very blunt. Is a way of letting them know how it feels. They laugh me off, and shine it on. Would be a snowballs chance in hell to get with me...as my reputation has stated.
I laugh it off too. Iím nice about it.
DC tells it like it is wrote:
<quoted text>Over time, and I've had a bit on time on this here planet. I have found when a man wants to yoke up with you, he'll go through many things to get you. Not buy you a damn drink for sex.
Very true. And when he wants you for more than sex, heíll want to be in your company outside of sex and his actions will show this.
DC tells it like it is wrote:
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Bars are social places not whorehouses. Although as you and I both have found out...Could fool us!
I think of them as meat markets.
DC tells it like it is wrote:
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Thank you so much for you input. I sort of study humans. So is always an interest.
By the way. You are a good man. Good job! Kudos to you~
Oh, I dunno if Iím good, but thanks anyway.

“I walk among you but”

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Since: Feb 12

I am not one of you

#1106 Mar 14, 2013
-Persephone- wrote:
Hello Bellah
Hi Lady Perse, How have you been? I am glad you haven't forgotten me.:)

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#1107 Mar 14, 2013
Bellah wrote:
<quoted text>Hello Sublime.The same thing happens to me but in reverse. The guys all come after me. Like you, all I want is a girls night out. I don't have a ring on my finger but that does not make me fair game. I have all the dates I want and I didn't meet any of them in a bar.
It doesn't happen to me all the time, but enough that my friends call me a f'er cause I make it look easy, lol.

In terms of meeting folks in bars, I think it's best to meet folks other places too. As I alluded to in my post above, I'm not the most outgoing or social person until folks get to know me or I am amongst friends. Once that happens, I'm about as social as they come.

So, if I were single I wouldn't be the type to approach women I didn't know at a bar (part of the reason for that is that I don't have to ... women and girls have always seemed to approach me ... when I was in college I had girls giving me their number and telling me to call them if I broke up with Bambi, lol ... I had a few very attractive girls with trust funds telling my friends they wanted to date me, but I was with Bambi and wasn't interested).

Unless a woman approached me at a bar and piqued my interest, they'd have to get to know me in some other forum before I would express any interest. I'm somewhere between an introvert and an extrovert and can be kind of quiet until someone gets to know me or I am amongst friends. That's just my preference ... it's not out of shyness as I'm a good public speaker and good speaking in front of a room full of stangers.

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#1108 Mar 14, 2013
Nice to see you again, Bellah, btw.

:)

“I walk among you but”

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I am not one of you

#1109 Mar 14, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
Nice to see you again, Bellah, btw.
:)
It is nice to see you again too. I am sure you would have no problem meeting women. I am glad you are faithful to Bambie. How is she ? I think you have kids? How are they?

“I walk among you but”

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#1110 Mar 14, 2013
It is almost as hard to post for me as it was when I was new. I guess I am not very outgoing on Topix.
I was told I was to thin skinned to be here....... they may have been right.

“<3”

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Since: Jun 10

Black Rock City, NV

#1111 Mar 14, 2013
Bellah wrote:
<quoted text>Hi Lady Perse, How have you been? I am glad you haven't forgotten me.:)
Hi. Oh, I'm still good. How about you? I couldn't forget you.:

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#1112 Mar 14, 2013
Bellah wrote:
<quoted text>It is nice to see you again too. I am sure you would have no problem meeting women. I am glad you are faithful to Bambie. How is she ? I think you have kids? How are they?
She's doing okay. Class and work and home duties have been a bit too much, but we are planning on her cutting back. She's going to switch to PRN as soon as she can and only work one or at most two days a week. Three days a week (12 hour shifts), an anatomy class (she has the best grade in her class), and running a home with three boys is just too much. I try to help out as much as I can, but I'm away at work a lot of the time. She was taking a statistics class too for awhile too, but that was insanity. It was just too much. So she dropped that before the deadline.

I think if she works PRN one day a week and takes one class a semester, with the summer off from classes, that will be more manageable. She doesn't have to hurry to get her degree.

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#1113 Mar 14, 2013
Bellah wrote:
It is almost as hard to post for me as it was when I was new. I guess I am not very outgoing on Topix.
I was told I was to thin skinned to be here....... they may have been right.
You are kind of reserved on here, but that's okay and probably safer. You are likeable and fun to post with.

:)

The requisite thickness of one's skin on topix is in proportion to the amount of time you spend seeking out drama. Random drive-by trolls aside, you mostly avoid any problems if you don't seek out problems or contribute to their escalation, IME.

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#1114 Mar 14, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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There are a lot of women who are no different.
I probably get bothered by women about 50% of the time when I go out. I have a family and don't make it out too often and when I do, I kind of want to hang with my friends ... Not get chatted up by some woman or women asking me to go home with them after bar time or have women touching me. The thing is I'm nice about it and politely decline, but given my choice I'd rather not be bothered most nights.
I have a ring on my finger too. Doesn't matter. Lots of women don't care, especially cougars. In fact many women actually do stuff that would get men thrown out or arrested, because guys are generally easy going about it and can just laugh it off. At least it makes for good stories I guess.
LOL!

“I walk among you but”

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#1115 Mar 14, 2013
-Persephone- wrote:
<quoted text>Hi. Oh, I'm still good. How about you? I couldn't forget you.:
I am good, I wish I had more time for fun. I am glad to see that you are still you. I can't believe some of what I am reading. It is sad that some people are not friends now. I am glad you didn't forget me. It seems as if a lot have gone to some other place now. I read enough to know that Dazzle and Covas has changed. I liked them a lot. I didn't think they would turn on friends. I am afraid to go to Junkets thread.
You have a good day.

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#1116 Mar 14, 2013
Ferrerman wrote:
<quoted text>LOL!
I know!! AND, I don't even have to send them pictures of my junk!

LOLOLOLOL!

“I walk among you but”

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#1117 Mar 14, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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She's doing okay. Class and work and home duties have been a bit too much, but we are planning on her cutting back. She's going to switch to PRN as soon as she can and only work one or at most two days a week. Three days a week (12 hour shifts), an anatomy class (she has the best grade in her class), and running a home with three boys is just too much. I try to help out as much as I can, but I'm away at work a lot of the time. She was taking a statistics class too for awhile too, but that was insanity. It was just too much. So she dropped that before the deadline.
I think if she works PRN one day a week and takes one class a semester, with the summer off from classes, that will be more manageable. She doesn't have to hurry to get her degree.
I think you are right. 3 sons and a husband can take up a lot of time. In fact I think that would be a full time job. She will get there and it will be easier. Please tell her that I asked after her and wish her luck for me. It sounds like she is doing well without luck.

It was good to talk to you and a few others today. I will have more time this summer.

“My Bad! Just hold me. ”

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Orion's Belt

#1118 Mar 14, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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It really depends on the guy. Single guys especially I donít think mind. Heck, I have some married friends who donít mind. I donít mind a little chit chat, either, but I generally like to keep to myself and the folks Iím there with.
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I donít blame them for that. My vows are between my wife and me. Itís up to us to uphold them. No one else took a vow to not try to steal me or her or sleep with us.
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It depends what they want. If they are looking for a relationship, then yes, I agree they donít have much self-respect, but I think most of them are just looking for a good time for a night.
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I laugh it off too. Iím nice about it.
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Very true. And when he wants you for more than sex, heíll want to be in your company outside of sex and his actions will show this.
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I think of them as meat markets.
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Oh, I dunno if Iím good, but thanks anyway.
Once again, great post! I like the way you speak and the way you think. Thank you...just for being you.

Have a wonderful day.

“<3”

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Since: Jun 10

Black Rock City, NV

#1119 Mar 14, 2013
Bellah wrote:
<quoted text>I am good, I wish I had more time for fun. I am glad to see that you are still you. I can't believe some of what I am reading. It is sad that some people are not friends now. I am glad you didn't forget me. It seems as if a lot have gone to some other place now. I read enough to know that Dazzle and Covas has changed. I liked them a lot. I didn't think they would turn on friends. I am afraid to go to Junkets thread.
You have a good day.
Thank goodness for other places.

-Kevin-
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Smirk .. ;-)

#1120 Mar 14, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
<quoted text>I know!! AND, I don't even have to send them pictures of my junk!

LOLOLOLOL!
Not that that does him any good!!
Lol

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#1121 Mar 14, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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I know!! AND, I don't even have to send them pictures of my junk!
LOLOLOLOL!
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