ruined ex-friend's lyf with gal last ...

ruined ex-friend's lyf with gal last year, he's mentl helth probz i feel sorry

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Anonymous

Netherlands

#1 Apr 3, 2013
dear readerz
i ruined the chances for my ex-friend last year. he went sectioned afta he fought with his parents over a girl he met on the internet. and i runied it for him by texting her lots and communicating with her without him knowing, behind his back.
he was an ok friend. he did a lot for me when i was down. he even gave me money a few times for my rent. now he doesnt want to know me and he's facing a legal battle becasue of me and a few of my friends who ruined it for him.
not that it was going to work out between him and her. what i do know, the girl was taking him for a ride by messing with his head. but my ex friend has a soft heart and gave in to her and her initial abuse of him - y'know things like asking him to satisfy her over the phone sexually and things like that.
anyway i promised him that id make things better so i decided to take his phone and txt her last summer without him rly knowing. all i promised him is that she would ring back.
i dint say anything horrible to the girl - ok, i might have, but only because i cud see how upset he was. she was leading him on deliberately, once threatening to call the police but then a few days lata giving him a call asking him to go visit her.
if it was me, i wud have told the girl to piss off. but poor guy think he refused to believe that the girl was a cheating bitch, playing the police, playing him,, and just drawing attention to herself.
anyway lesson i learned from this is that if u love someone so much, dont go out to TRY to make things better. because if u dont watch it youre only going to makwe things worse. dont nick ur mates facebook address, online dating account details, and txt off his phone. ur only going to make things worse.
now ive lost a pretty good friend out of this. but worst of all this fella who';s been unwell for a couple of years has been messed abt by a lot of people thru no fault of his own. wish i cud say sorry to him but now he's changed his phone numba and asked me to get out of his life afta i told him what i did. wish i had the guts to tell the police that it wasnt his fault, but the fault of the girl and me. me for communicating with the girl and the girl for playing him from the start.
just in case i get negativ feedback from here, i jst wanna say that am being honest and am admittin to ma guilt. so pls dnt make me feel worse than i already feel. yeh i lied i cheated i used ma friend but now ive cum out of all this wiser and no i will not be doing this again.
am glad i dnt liv in bradfor d anymore because i no it wud be awkward between me and ma friend. i hav a fresh start nr newcastle and no i wont treat new friends as badly again.
thankss for readin

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#2 Apr 3, 2013
And you're surprised he is mad at you...why?

“I looked, and behold,”

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#3 Apr 3, 2013
arctic wrote:
And you're surprised he is mad at you...why?
What's a BFF to do? She was abusing him by asking him to satisfy her over the phone!!1

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#4 Apr 8, 2013
Was he just a friend? Or were you doing it because you wanted more? Maybe I just never understood the phone sex thing....... But if that's all they had I mean they would have a history of emotion with each other. It could have become more and given the right people with the same intent they might be together right now in person. So I must ask again were you jealous or hurt because it was her and not you? Or you might have been right maybe she was using him. Or maybe you saw it that way because it helped you brake the relationship they did have. In turn hoping he would turn or find you for comfort in turn making a relationship between you two instead.

Maybe you need to learn savoirfaire.......maybe I do? Yes I do.......if you don't know what it means please look it up.

My two cents!

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#5 Apr 9, 2013
I met someone never plan on it. Just one of those chance meetings I don't believe in. I have someone and told him that. But he did to. When I found myself falling for him. So I gave him a goodbye PM and blocked all of my PM's. The idea was to not hurt him or I . I mean when he and she would get serious it would have ended anyway. I missed him only after a few days. I gave him the choice do you want to PM me anymore or not. He said NO.
He made me smile and made me feel like I could be myself. I guess I'm just stupid....The hurt is real no matter what anyone thinks or says

I miss him I miss my friend!
mr john

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#6 Jun 23, 2013
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#7 Jun 23, 2013
Sally Brown wrote:
I met someone never plan on it. Just one of those chance meetings I don't believe in. I have someone and told him that. But he did to. When I found myself falling for him. So I gave him a goodbye PM and blocked all of my PM's. The idea was to not hurt him or I . I mean when he and she would get serious it would have ended anyway. I missed him only after a few days. I gave him the choice do you want to PM me anymore or not. He said NO.
He made me smile and made me feel like I could be myself. I guess I'm just stupid....The hurt is real no matter what anyone thinks or says
I miss him I miss my friend!
i miss my friend also . Plzzzzzz call me princess ! Wont hurt you to talk to a friend. I am your friend , you may not realize it, but i am worthy to be. Js.:)

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