Was this punishment too harsh?

Was this punishment too harsh?

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#1 Nov 22, 2013
My 12 year old son kept peeing on the toilet seat at home. I told him time and time again to lift the seat, but he continued to do it. I even sat in it once! I made him clean the whole bathroom as punishment, he stopped for a while and did it again. I told him next time he did it I was going to take away his bathroom privlages for a day and he would just have to hold it. Well two weeks later I come in and there is pee on the seat.

I told him starting the next day that bathroom door would be locked and he would not be allowed to go. I let him go when he woke up, but told him he would not be allowed to go again until bedtime. Well he was in tears by 3 pm that day having not gone since 9 am. I stuck to it and told him he was not going and if he peed himself or went any other way he would have to repeat it the next day. I ended up giving in and leting him go after dinner a little after 6. I did not want to cause any harm to his bladder. That was a month ago and he has not done it since.
Call CPS

San Antonio, TX

#3 Nov 22, 2013
Child abuse.

I just pee all over the seat. Problem solved
too lenient

Singapore, Singapore

#4 Nov 22, 2013
You should have made him use his tongue to clean it up. Oh wait the dominatrix will make him do that in 10 years, he'll call her mommy.

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Since: Sep 12

Placentia, CA

#5 Nov 22, 2013
666?

really?

all I need to hear - maybe you can abuse the kid into medical school. Dominatrix are expensive
Carl Bad

Oceanside, CA

#6 Nov 22, 2013
Once again Rose you made me LOL.

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Since: Sep 12

Placentia, CA

#7 Nov 22, 2013
Carl Bad wrote:
Once again Rose you made me LOL.
Carl - these people scare me

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Barbi and Baron

#8 Nov 22, 2013
I've been reading her post and wonder if she's for real? Poor kid...

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#9 Nov 22, 2013
Karin666 wrote:
My 12 year old son kept peeing on the toilet seat at home. I told him time and time again to lift the seat, but he continued to do it. I even sat in it once! I made him clean the whole bathroom as punishment, he stopped for a while and did it again. I told him next time he did it I was going to take away his bathroom privlages for a day and he would just have to hold it. Well two weeks later I come in and there is pee on the seat.
I told him starting the next day that bathroom door would be locked and he would not be allowed to go. I let him go when he woke up, but told him he would not be allowed to go again until bedtime. Well he was in tears by 3 pm that day having not gone since 9 am. I stuck to it and told him he was not going and if he peed himself or went any other way he would have to repeat it the next day. I ended up giving in and leting him go after dinner a little after 6. I did not want to cause any harm to his bladder. That was a month ago and he has not done it since.
If you're serious, I'll give you some advice: get your son into therapy.
After you told him "time and again" about the toilet seat, you should have stopped after the "again," and introduced your son's father to your son.
Assuming there is no father, your son was clearly demonstrating passive aggressive behavior and it's stupid that you do not see this has nothing to do with pee on your toilet seat.
Get help for your son now before you ruin him beyond repair.

Tehee Candor

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#10 Nov 22, 2013
Pizzz on the seat is easy to cure since you've consider the measures you have, just have him go outside until he can do it right. Do you have woods in back yard? Build an outhouse.

How does he manage with number 2?

Build an outhouse. There are medical reasons no one should hold their bladder.

How do you like your feedback so far miss?
-Kevin-

Oceanside, CA

#11 Dec 1, 2013
Karin666 wrote:
.......Well he was in tears by 3 pm that day having not gone since 9 am. I stuck to it and told him he was not going and if he peed himself or went any other way he would have to repeat it the next day.....
Mommy?

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