I need advice!!
Lilwal22

Westminster, CO

#1 May 4, 2013
I need advice. All of my friends are really popular, and they are always nice to me and are really good friends so I guess that it makes me popular because I hang out with them alot and stuff. The only problem is that I don't feel like I belong with them!! I know that I sound stupid but when I'm with them I don't feel like I fit in and when I'm not with them they get mad at me for not being with them.... WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!???
the fourth kind

Owensboro, KY

#2 May 4, 2013
Lilwal22 wrote:
I need advice. All of my friends are really popular, and they are always nice to me and are really good friends so I guess that it makes me popular because I hang out with them alot and stuff. The only problem is that I don't feel like I belong with them!! I know that I sound stupid but when I'm with them I don't feel like I fit in and when I'm not with them they get mad at me for not being with them.... WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!???
stop being insecure n live it up. They wouldnt get mad if they didnt want u around.
Lilwal22

Westminster, CO

#3 May 4, 2013
But When I'm around it seems like they want me gone, but when I'm gone they come and find me then think I ditched them.. I'm just confused with what to do
Lilwal22

Westminster, CO

#4 May 4, 2013
:/

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Since: Mar 13

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#5 May 5, 2013
If they didn't want you around they wouldn't come to find you.

What do they do to make you feel like they don't want you around when you are there?
Corvus

Blacklick, OH

#6 May 5, 2013
Opala wrote:
If they didn't want you around they wouldn't come to find you...
They might if they need a stooge.
Lilwal22

Westminster, CO

#7 May 5, 2013
When I'm around them and were talking, I say something and nobody listens and they change the subject every time I talk :(
Corvus

Blacklick, OH

#8 May 5, 2013
Lilwal22 wrote:
When I'm around them and were talking, I say something and nobody listens and they change the subject every time I talk :(
Sometimes a group keeps a stooge around to take the blame if they do something wrong. I'm not saying this is always the case but you need to consider it as a possibility. It may be time to move on.
Lilwal22

Westminster, CO

#9 May 5, 2013
Corvus wrote:
<quoted text>
Sometimes a group keeps a stooge around to take the blame if they do something wrong. I'm not saying this is always the case but you need to consider it as a possibility. It may be time to move on.
If I move on, they will get really mad at me and they know all my secrets and who knows who they will tell!! And some of them I have been friends with since 1st grade and I don't want to leave them... I don't know what to do
Lilwal22

Westminster, CO

#10 May 5, 2013
:(

“PentatonicSuperS onic!”

Level 1

Since: Oct 12

Wherever the Music Takes ME!

#11 May 5, 2013
Lilwal22 wrote:
:(
Any college hours? OCS!
If not enlist! Air Force, Navy, Army, USMC, National Guard, Coast Guard!

Be your own person, and better your life. They sound like self involved rats who will just pull you down when you try to better your own life...SCREW THAT!
listenclose

Owensboro, KY

#12 May 5, 2013
-BucketHead- wrote:
<quoted text>
Any college hours? OCS!
If not enlist! Air Force, Navy, Army, USMC, National Guard, Coast Guard!
Be your own person, and better your life. They sound like self involved rats who will just pull you down when you try to better your own life...SCREW THAT!
good advice. Make new friends do u. Dont let others define u! Build up that back bone. Who cares if they tell ur secrets obviously they werent tru friends.
Paint

Bunnlevel, NC

#13 May 5, 2013
Lilwal22 wrote:
I need advice. All of my friends are really popular, and they are always nice to me and are really good friends so I guess that it makes me popular because I hang out with them alot and stuff. The only problem is that I don't feel like I belong with them!! I know that I sound stupid but when I'm with them I don't feel like I fit in and when I'm not with them they get mad at me for not being with them.... WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!???
Not sure how old you are.

what I am hearing,... you feel as if you don't meet your friends standards. But trust me, we all are popular in our own ways, I didn't finish School, But was popular. lol

On the other hand, you might not belong with them. Your interest might be of something different. I'm not anyway trying to steer you away from internet-social-sites. But for many, this is and has become a very normal way of life. Maybe join a yoga club, the WMCA and/or other group-settings / meetings that you enjoy.

Also, since your friends do enjoy your company, you might want to talk with them about ... how you feel.

wishing you the very best.
Lilwal22

Westminster, CO

#14 May 5, 2013
Thanks for all the advice :)
Jamie

UK

#15 May 12, 2013
True friends dont get mad at you and don't make you feel like that, they are proberly making fun off you behind your back
Derp

San Diego, CA

#16 May 12, 2013
Derp

:(

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