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helloisitmeyouar elooking

Chicago, IL

#1 Sep 29, 2010
I recently encountered some off the wall comments that stated that lesbians hated men. So, Gay men hate straight women. And that is so not true. Most gay men bff are straight women. And lesbians can relate to most men. I understand men because we are both attracted to women. And Lesbians understand the frustrations men feel with women. Men are easier than women in so many ways. Men understand they are not perfect, they are human, they understand themselves, however, they are physical people, different from women on that level.
If I do not want to sleep with a man, he leaves. Purely and simple. Easy. Men are less manipulative than women. However, I do not have any male friends because men are men and men are biologically, completely physical people. So my sexuality does not stop them from hitting on me.
However, I think straight women hate men. Straight women do not value themselves as women and do not respect men as men. Straight women do not realize their power, control, or their true value in our society. They have no clue. The stronger the woman, the stronger the man, period.
I think straights should look at themselves before blamming gays, les for hating them. That is simpley not true.
progressive

Lamoni, IA

#2 Sep 29, 2010
helloisitmeyouarelooking wrote:
I recently encountered some off the wall comments that stated that lesbians hated men. So, Gay men hate straight women. And that is so not true. Most gay men bff are straight women. And lesbians can relate to most men. I understand men because we are both attracted to women. And Lesbians understand the frustrations men feel with women. Men are easier than women in so many ways. Men understand they are not perfect, they are human, they understand themselves, however, they are physical people, different from women on that level.
If I do not want to sleep with a man, he leaves. Purely and simple. Easy. Men are less manipulative than women. However, I do not have any male friends because men are men and men are biologically, completely physical people. So my sexuality does not stop them from hitting on me.
However, I think straight women hate men. Straight women do not value themselves as women and do not respect men as men. Straight women do not realize their power, control, or their true value in our society. They have no clue. The stronger the woman, the stronger the man, period.
I think straights should look at themselves before blamming gays, les for hating them. That is simpley not true.
that is a comment with a lot of elements.
Many straight women are friends with gay men, yes. I think that may be especially the case with women who despise predatory men, and or think they are goo good for most men, or find most men unacceptable sexual in some way, such as suspecting them of not being faithful types (maybe carrying a disease) or of probably being lousy ineffective selfish sex partners. I also think that high class intellectual and highly cultured women like high class intellectual and highly cultural men, and many of those are gay men.
I write as an older woman, with a strong preference for written or visually beautiful or brilliant eroticism (preferably straight), varying from the book The REader to Sons and Lovers, and from European classic movies to Latin Dancing done really well by experts, who are fine athletes. I did see one stylized dance scene in one European movie, with a beautiful blonde woman dancing with a beautiful black-haired woman, but it was not the relationship between them that was compelling - it was the dancing and the beauty of each woman in such a stunning contrast. I also think that a gorgeous horse running a mile race is often beautiful, or a person running a 440, so I think it has to do with a beautiful healthy body in motion in a way that has a wonderful gracefulness to it. I watch a lot of the dance shows, and look for those who have that certain quality - partly beautiful and partly erotic. Patrick S, had it in dirty Dancing (only the dancing was not dirty) and Louie has it on Dancing with the Stars, more than the others. It sometimes seems to have something to do with choreography or skills as a choreographer, even, and sometimes with the music, and sometimes with the story line. I much prefer so you think you can dance, because of the choreography and the frequent story lines in the dances. Even with two men and no eroticism - as with Neil and Kent, I think his name was, the young man from Ohio who finished second to the sexy and athletic young lady who won, in their baseball dance and another one. And in the dance of the young slender (injured) white contestant - Billy I think - with the strong black all-star, when one was rich and strong and one was poor and wak. It is not necessary to have any eroticism at all in a dance, to still see the beauty of the human body in graceful motion. Or even brilliantlly awkward storytelling motion.

I wonder how many straight men have the love of beautiful dance and the beauty of motion - ice dancing with the Duchenets or Ilia and Ekatarina G, for example - that many gay men and many women have. I know that the Canadian Elvis S. was trying to get male ice skating to be more macho, not theatrical.
progressive

Lamoni, IA

#3 Sep 29, 2010
I actually feel far more skittish around gay women, if I think they are unattached and predatory, than I would around the gay men whom I know and like. But I know the sort of gay men who are beautiful, often students, cultured, creative, often bohemian types, intelligent, and wonderfully individualistic. I only met two women that I can recall who seemed to be openly gay and the predatory type, and I found them as annoying as predatory straight men, just in their mannerisms and attitudes. I suppose I do know some young women students who are gay, but I don';t inquire or have any interest in knowing or finding out. I am interested in who supports gay rights in the Gay-Student alliance, but that is because of supporting civil rights and human rights causes, not because of any personal interest.

Whereas I am very annoyed that Patrick Dempsey does not shave and is in a yukky medical series, because I think he was gorgeous in Enchanted and Made of Honor, and a couple of miniseries years ago - when he shaved! As I state candidly, it is a visual thing. and mostly the face, too - unless it is a dancer or runner or skater or rarely a beautiful diver at the Olympics. And then, it is less sexual or erotic, than it is the beauty and grace of the motion.

I think I would like to know whether anyone else has a similar attitude? I have always felt like this, I think. blessed low hormones, partly. and seeing Montgomery Clift and Alain Delon movies, and adoring the late great Michael Zaslow, personally, and in a couple of soaps.(that was sort of a soul thing - he eventually had Lou Gehrig's disease) Delon was definately not a soul thing! zingy. and Montgomery Clift had a beautiful face. with James Dean in East of Eden it was an acting ability and plot and pairing with the other actors, and interactions with them. I did not feel it at all for him in Giant or the teenagey one - Rebel Without a Cause.

I know this seems off topic, but for a woman with sublimated and visual tastes, it is not. One can read an interesting little book, called Goddesses in Every Woman, about Greek goddesses and psychology, and see the discussion of Aphrodite, and her raw sexual and erotic self on the one hand, and her highly sublimated artistic self on the other hand. The first annoys me, and the second is gorgeous and refined - and often more erotic, even, when appropriate.

Oh, how could I ever think anyone else with this sort of attitude could ever read anything on topix?But I do not like the hightoned elites who are rich and successful and go to the ballet to be seen being at the ballet. Stefanya, where are you? she and i used to discuss Russian skaters. She is very pro-Russian, but that is fine when it applies to Russian skaters. They deserve lots of praise and admiration. Even Pleshy.
progressive

Lamoni, IA

#4 Sep 29, 2010
As for the comment I replied to, I have no idea about the reactions of males , whether gay or straight, to some of the things written in that comment.

I do not think the comment is fair in its iimplications about straight persons hating gays. I think it is ridiculous to generalize that much.

It would be much more to the point to discuss what sorts of straight persons are hostile to gay persons, and what sorts are hostile to gayness, and for what reasons. I think one will find large amounts of rightwing religion explaining much of it, and with men, one will find stuff that I do not care to inquire into! really yukky attitudes toward sex, I suspect. so sorry that Alain Delon is no longer young and beautiful. If ever a man was likely to be beautiful and dangerous to both men and to women, he was it. Adam Lambert is beautiful to both maybe, but not dangerous! I love his singing of Dust in the Wind, and Mad World. He often acts like a nice guy.

Clay Aiken, both the young version, and the older version, is also a very charming person. His duet on I wanna know what love is, with one or other or both of his soprano tour partners, is just a delight. so is his humor when he plays word games with live audiences. This is another sort of sublimation and the joy of it is that it does not matter at all that he is gay, and it has nothing to do with age. Even the looks part has more to do with the personality and maybe even the character, that one seems to sense. Not to mention beautiful voices and beautiful songs.
anonymous

Old Bridge, NJ

#6 Jul 15, 2011
it should be like us straight men hate lesbians since these low life women are making it harder for good men like me meeting straight women today.
Florida Girl

Doerun, GA

#7 Jul 31, 2011
Well, helloisitmeyouarelooking, y is it that u get to stereotype women but as soon as someone stereotypes men its "women don't respect men"? You say that women don't respect men as men, we don't value ourselves and all that other BS but I bet as soon as someone says something negative about men you'd be the first one to defend them. Answer this for me, y is it that guys get to hit on you even though u don't like them, but they're not complicated? Its clear you're a lesbian but that doesn't stop the men because "men are men" right? A strong woman does NOT mean a strong man. If they're not as complicated as women are, if they understand so many things then y is it that a woman's sexuality doesn't affect them? How come they think they can do watever they want cause "oh they're just men" anf get away with it? U see, women are not better than men but guess wat? We're not worse than men either!! We don't go around murdering people, raping, kidnapping, exc unlike men. And I don't care if u and other people don't like those facts cause unlike u I can come up with statictics that prove that men are little b*tches.

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#8 Aug 2, 2011
anonymous wrote:
it should be like us straight men hate lesbians since these low life women are making it harder for good men like me meeting straight women today.
I 2nd that.Yet the Dykes wear our clothes. Cut their hair. Buy our toys. Then say they hate us. I thought imatation was the highest form of flattery.
I so laugh at the Dykes. Lesbians well thats differant they usally are not trying to push their lifestyle on me.
thisGuy

Stephenville, TX

#11 Sep 1, 2011
just -J- wrote:
<quoted text>I 2nd that.Yet the Dykes wear our clothes. Cut their hair. Buy our toys. Then say they hate us. I thought imatation was the highest form of flattery.
I so laugh at the Dykes. Lesbians well thats differant they usally are not trying to push their lifestyle on me.
I definitely agree with this. If lesbians hate men so much, why do they date women who look/act like them? Not only that, but all dykes seem to have ALOT of problems with men. Many of the lesbians I have spoken to have told me they have had bad experiences with men, which is why they become lesbians.

Lesbians shouldn't be allowed to use dildos, they made their choice
very true says

Clarksburg, NJ

#12 Sep 1, 2011
all lesbians are diseased, infested, dirty low life pigs, that should be put into barrels of acid to burn.
ouch bug

United States

#15 Jan 17, 2012
why would lesbians i wouldnt know why because the man part in women to women relationship listen here its not what people think or what people the gays and lesbians have the same GOD we do and GOD does not approve of these relationships these gay men and women can say what they want and believe what they want but im telling you got hates these relationships he made man and woman to mupitly how on GODS earth is a woman going to mupitly with a anotjer woman how are men going to be trueful husbands and daddy children with another man explain this one to the world and see what it has to say well these men and women should get a real relationship and do wha GOD said according to his word he said he made ADAM and EVe not EVE and STEVE well listen little fellows take those little tight fit jeans and put the cock tale dresses away and show the world and GOD what kind of man you can really be do you know how disgusted it is to see these men in public dressed like a woman and buying cocktale dresses and make up on and eyelashes long as your finger and false nails looking like broom straws hanging from their fingers and they say oh im going to see my boyfriend how do i look baby oh my you look so beautiful how do you think this makes a real woman feel that these men are trying to image their self as us this would make a dog vomit if they really knew really what was going on ive got two boys that was raised in church and they never did come home and tell me they were gay and my daughter didnt come home from church and tell me that she was a liesbian this is all in peoples mind they like this been lead on by disgustful people like this it dont matter wht this relationship speak or do GOD said he would never forsake you or leave you but you leave GOD to do all the wrong things and than try to convince the whole world that this SIN is ok well dream on HONEY not true the word of GOD said his word would set you free but theres alot dont want to be all they want is satan way ill be praying and keep everyone in my prayers
LIZ

Allentown, PA

#16 Jan 19, 2012
anonymous wrote:
it should be like us straight men hate lesbians since these low life women are making it harder for good men like me meeting straight women today.
Wow, That sounds like a personnel problem to me. What does a lesbian woman have to do w/ u meeting straight women. Make me understand? Personnally w/ an attitude like yours, I being a straight female would choose to go w/ the lesbian instead. Grow up. Maybe your rap is strong but your words are wrong.........
very true says

Point Pleasant Beach, NJ

#17 Jan 20, 2012
LIZ wrote:
<quoted text> Wow, That sounds like a personnel problem to me. What does a lesbian woman have to do w/ u meeting straight women. Make me understand? Personnally w/ an attitude like yours, I being a straight female would choose to go w/ the lesbian instead. Grow up. Maybe your rap is strong but your words are wrong.........
as a straight man, i do blame these pigs. i go out a lot and always seem to meet the nastiest women with their no good rotten attitude today. if your so dam smart, what the hell is up with that. i certainly cannot blame myself, for these type of garbage women that are out there today. i am not doing anything wrong on my part to be rejected. you women suck today, with your no good attitude now. can i blame myself, like i have said before?, of course not. for your information, i know other men like me that have the same problem. of course, meeting good straight women is hard for us men now, since they became low life trash now. by the way, women were much more educated years ago and meeting them would have been much more easier. so don't go blaming me, for the way i feel now. take a good look around you, women have certainly changed over the years. i guess you women must have had a horrible past, and been so very badly abused by the men at one time, and of course hate men now. i am a sincere man by the way, and i am not playing games. oh by the way, i was married at one time and my wife cheated on me. i did not do anything wrong on my part for this to happen to me. she cheated on me with a friend that i knew that was twenty years older than her, go figure. then again, she is the filthy whore that i never knew.

-Kevin-
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#18 Jan 20, 2012
Dumb

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#19 Jan 20, 2012
Wow! Bitter much? There is one commonality between all these bad experiences you’ve had with women. That would be you.

My favorite line of this diatribe is:“i am not doing anything wrong on my part to be rejected.” Gee, for the life of me, I just can’t figure out why women wouldn’t be all over you.
so true says

Point Pleasant Beach, NJ

#20 Jan 20, 2012
Sublime1 wrote:
Wow! Bitter much? There is one commonality between all these bad experiences you’ve had with women. That would be you.
My favorite line of this diatribe is:“i am not doing anything wrong on my part to be rejected.” Gee, for the life of me, I just can’t figure out why women wouldn’t be all over you.
drop dead, you low life piece of shit.
so true says

Point Pleasant Beach, NJ

#21 Jan 20, 2012
-Kevin- wrote:
Dumb
the sad thing is, he is right.

Level 8

Since: Aug 08

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#22 Jan 20, 2012
so true says wrote:
<quoted text> drop dead, you low life piece of shit.
The funny thing is, even if I dropped dead, we'd both be getting laid just as often, Mr. Nice Guy.

<rim shot>

ArtGal

“Operation Duck Face”

Since: May 11

Quackers 4 You

#23 Jan 20, 2012
It isn't just lesbians who hate men like these dudes....
lesbians suck

Point Pleasant Beach, NJ

#24 Jan 22, 2012
the definition of lesbians means, skanky, gutter, sewer pigs.

-Kevin-
Level 10

Since: Nov 09

Smirk .. ;-)

#25 Jan 22, 2012
Lesbians probably do suck. If you are female, and ask nicely.

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