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#28
Aug 21, 2012
 
You got played by your wife. I'm sure she was aware of the uploaded photos and she is using this to openly cheat on you. Your comment on a dull sex life says it all. Confront her and act like you git the ip from the computer it was accessed from. Remember clouds keep that stored.

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Aug 21, 2012
 
jman wrote:
You got played by your wife. I'm sure she was aware of the uploaded photos and she is using this to openly cheat on you. Your comment on a dull sex life says it all. Confront her and act like you git the ip from the computer it was accessed from. Remember clouds keep that stored.
I trust my wife I don't think she would do something like that. Plus she had no idea about the cloud files. Our sex life has been dull thats why she suggested me taking pictures of her. The sex was hot that night after the photo shoot.
I'm not very computer savy...how do I get this ip info?
What concerns me about what you said is that she may be agreeing to do it as a convienient way to cheat on me. The way she talks about him concerns me too. I think maybe she finds him attractive or she may have had the hots for him or something. She seems mad at me but him not so much...wtf!

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This is the biggest bunch of bullshit I have ever heard. It's a carbon copy of a carbon copy of boring softcore erotica. If this was in any way real, we wouldn't just be getting sad, desperate updates.
I agree. Blackmail is severe and doesn't call for advice from people on a sex forum. Any man worth his salt would do whatever necessary to protect his wife, not be here giving us the gory details.
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#32
Aug 21, 2012
 
Zory - yeah, there's only been one such post to this effect that sounded legitimate. But most of these blackmail stories center around a vicious exec and a helpless wife. I think too may people have seen An Indecent Proposal and get off to the idea. If someone did this to my wife, I wouldn't even worry about confronting the dude. just let the cops and a jury handle it, get my the most out of my tax dollars. Not to mention the fact that most of these companies are on a company server, so it'd be easy to track or find where they came from, and anyone spamming the company directory with porn is going to get fired and sued.
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#33
Aug 21, 2012
 
Of course she finds him attractive or she would not have agreed to accommodate him. Id ahem were repulsed she would go to hr and deal with the blackmail threat. Also why should she be embarrassed by photos taken by her husband and feel it would cause her to be fired. Sex is suppose to happen in a marriage. She may have been unaware of the cloud but she was well aware of the photos. It is highly possible that the photos you took were agreed to for this purpose and allow her to cheat with your permission. You need to man yp and call her boss and address the issue. Failure to do so shows how much of a weak man you are and will likely result in you getting divorced. If she objects to you contacting her boss it shows who the instigator is.
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#34
Aug 21, 2012
 
So how does it feel knowing ur wife is about suck on another mans big hard c@ck
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Aug 21, 2012
 
Fuckles wrote:
Zory - yeah, there's only been one such post to this effect that sounded legitimate. But most of these blackmail stories center around a vicious exec and a helpless wife. I think too may people have seen An Indecent Proposal and get off to the idea. If someone did this to my wife, I wouldn't even worry about confronting the dude. just let the cops and a jury handle it, get my the most out of my tax dollars. Not to mention the fact that most of these companies are on a company server, so it'd be easy to track or find where they came from, and anyone spamming the company directory with porn is going to get fired and sued.
Fucktard, I mean Fuckles.

The cops and jury can not do anything without evidence, they have no grounds to record his conversations, search his house his office or his computers. So tell me what are the cops really going to do? Ask him some questions if he's nice enough to stop for them on the sidewalk? Because if that happens and this were true, then he'd release the photos. He'll be too smart to spell it out in the future, he can the first time because he has her off guard, in the future he'll be weary of her recording it. Hell you can record with a cellphone now, if your prepared to use it, but in 99% of the time the first meeting your not prepared.

Second he's probably not surfing PORN from his company workstation. He found it while at home or maybe his laptop is connected to the coffee shop across the street while he's at work. He showed her printed copies of the photos which suggests he did not have them in electronic format in his office.

Is this probably a BS story, yes, but your reason shows an incredible lack of imagination and how thing in real life work. Turn off your computer and go out and meet an actual human being sometime.

By the way, it was some idiot clerk in the mail room who confronted my wife with explicit photos of her. It also happened to be my wife who leaked them from her laptop not me leaking them from mine. Learned the hard way about having the wool pulled over your eyes and this entire thing IF TRUE screams of being set up by the wife, which means she's probably been fucking the boss for months and knows she's close to being caught so she's trying to create cover for it now. A boss wouldn't threaten to expose the pictures to everyone, he'd say that the photos call into question whether she meets the strict moral guidlines they expect out of management and given that it would be doubtful that she would achieve further advancement at the company and the best thing for her career would be to leave the company. If she's not high enough management to be on contract then he doesn't need cause to fire her, he could just threaten to fire her because she doesn't meet corporate morality standards.

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Aug 21, 2012
 
Well...I came to this site to get some advice. Who else can I talk to about something like this besides anonymisly here. Some of your comments were helpful...most were not.
After hearing everything and going over everything she said...I think maybe she set all this up. The little things she said like suggesting me to take pictures of her and the way she described him, her insistance on not going to authorities, not wanting me to confront him, not seeming to be very mad at him, the cloud site being gauranteed secure, and most of all her not seeming very upset to do it.....wow thats a lot. I think I will have a long talk to her when she gets home...this sucks!
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Aug 21, 2012
 
I'm sorry that you had to figure this out here. I suspect that she has been doing her boss for quite some time based on your previous post. You mentioned that she's the bread winner. Does that mean that you take care of the household chores? The reason I ask is if you do or even if you don't you should take a look at her panties and look for cum stains. Do you remember which pair she had on the last time you were intimate with her? If so look at your stain and compare them to the ones she recently wore if she's using a condom with him see if you can smell the latex on them. Also is she grooming differently or doing different things sexually with you. Best of luck to you and I hope you get through this.

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Aug 21, 2012
 
I'm afraid to ask her about this theory of her setting it all up. What if I'm wrong...she will recent me for not trusting her and get really mad for accusing her and adding to this horrible situation. How should I approach this?

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Aug 21, 2012
 
jman wrote:
I'm sorry that you had to figure this out here. I suspect that she has been doing her boss for quite some time based on your previous post. You mentioned that she's the bread winner. Does that mean that you take care of the household chores? The reason I ask is if you do or even if you don't you should take a look at her panties and look for cum stains. Do you remember which pair she had on the last time you were intimate with her? If so look at your stain and compare them to the ones she recently wore if she's using a condom with him see if you can smell the latex on them. Also is she grooming differently or doing different things sexually with you. Best of luck to you and I hope you get through this.
She always uses a panty liner after sex so it doesnt stain her underwear. I really cant say that anything has changed in her besides us not having sex very often.

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ClarkGriswold9246 wrote:
I'm afraid to ask her about this theory of her setting it all up. What if I'm wrong...she will recent me for not trusting her and get really mad for accusing her and adding to this horrible situation. How should I approach this?
I'm going to play along for a moment. Are you or your wife in possession of the envelope, with the photos inside, that was presented to her?

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Aug 21, 2012
 
That blackmailer is a real prick.
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#46
Aug 21, 2012
 
Has she been using more of them? Does she feel looser when you have sex? I know when my wife and I have extended periods between sex she tight as a vice grip. There is no "safe" way to approach it. You need to man up and tell her you suspect she's not telling you the whole truth and state your concern. If it were me I would just come out and ask. If she gets defensive or angry she not telling you the whole story. On the flip side when you see her just act angry and mention that you know what really going on. You can always back peddle and say she seems excited that this happened. Furthermore, you can always hire a pi to follow her when she goes out and report back to you. Fact is you're going to have to face this or lose your wife if that hasn't already happened.

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Aug 21, 2012
 
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I'm going to play along for a moment. Are you or your wife in possession of the envelope, with the photos inside, that was presented to her?
No she said he took them back...why?
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ClarkGriswold9246 wrote:
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No she said he took them back...why?
He printed them at home, he could print them a hundred times, he had no need to take them back if they actually exist. She's playing you the fool.
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#49
Aug 21, 2012
 
well how long has it been already has she told you she sucked him off yet?

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Aug 22, 2012
 
Ok...another long night with very little sleep. My wife came home from work at her normal time and told me that he never contacted her the rest of her work day and that we can talk later. We made dinner and spent time with the kids, after they went to bed we sat down to talk. I flat out told her that I don't want her to do this with her boss and that she needs to go to HR and report him. I said that we will just have to deal with the consequences together. She looked at me a long moment then she started to cry. She said "how would you like it if all your coworkers and friends saw pictures of you f%#king yourself with a dildo! I can't have that happen the humiliation would ruin me." She then said "this choice is an easy one, suffer incredible humiliation or give some hot guy a few blowjobs...That's right I said hot!..I'll be honest with you this guy is like the office stud, all the single  office girls want him, they all flirt with him...if the tables were turned and it was your dilema, you had to choose between letting everyone see pictures of you f#%king yourself with a dildo or having to eat some hot chick's pussy...what would you do?" I sat there for a moment...then I asked her..."so your attracted to this guy?" She said "yes he's very attractive...I've noticed him, checked him out on occasion." I said "wow!...if he is so hot and can get any girl he wants why is he messing with you a married woman?" She said she doesn't know..."maybe he's got a thing for married women, that whole forbidden fruit thing." Now I was getting angry, I said..."so you'll probably enjoy doing this with him?" She said..."well I wouldn't say that but it's not going to be torture...at first I was shocked and appaulled...I was going to report him, but the more I thought about doing it to him, the more I didn't mind the idea especially considering the alternative." So I said..."what about me, what will this do to us, our marriage, what about those consequences." She then said "look I'm being completely honest with you about what I'm feeling, we have an open and honest relationship. I think our marriage is strong enough to handle this...and it's not that big a deal...it's just a bump in the road in our marriage and it was your screw up that started it all, and me doing this is the consequence of your screw-up." I was stunned so I said..."so your going to do this even though it will hurt me and possibly ruin our marriage". She said..."look I still think you're making too big a deal about this...doing it is the lesser of two evils...soon it will all be over and I will still have my great job and friends and we can work tbrough any issues that arise between us...because these pictures must never be released...that's for damn sure!".

I don't know why I'm telling you all this...I don't really have any other place to go. Plus, writing it out helps me organize eveything going on and everything she's telling me. We talked some more...I tried to convince her that this was a mistake and who knows how long this guy will hold this over her head. She didn't seem worried about it. I told her I wanted to take a baseball bat to his head...and she said if I did that we would lose everthing and I'd be in jail. 

I look at this way...if she set it up - she's wants to cheat, if she didn't - she wants to cheat. I've always felt she was out of my league, especially since she has become so successful at her job. I kinda feel like she's out growing me. Whatever the case may be...I will let her have this and do my best to keep our family together. You may all think I'm a wimp..but I love her.

She called me since I've been on here...she said he wants to meet her after work today...
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Aug 22, 2012
 
GLOBAL AL wrote:
<quoted text>That is just not true. When my wife is telling a story about me to someone like where i have gone out to.ie someone rings up and im not home it goes something like this. Im sorry he is not here at the moment he has taken his 7 inch c@ck and sizeable balls which i was licking last night down to the supermarket and can i take a message and get him to call you back.
Isnt that what everyone does
finally an honest post, thanks Al. I know it's real, because if you were making it up you would have said 9" c@ck
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So, she finally called me...I asked what took so long...she said she was busy with work stuff. I asked what happened and she said not much. He came into her office as soon as she arrived this morning and closed her door. He asked for her decision...she gave him her terms and he agreed and would be in contact with her. She said as he was leaving she told him he was a real prick for doing this. Then he said careful, I've got nothing to lose here and then he left. She then told me she was really busy and had to go.
This whole thing is messing with my head. Why does she seem so obtuse about doing this. Part of me thinks she wants to do it. She did tell me he was single and good looking...wth! I'm scared that she thinks this may be fun or exciting. Our sex life has been a little dull lately and she is in her sexual prime. I'm really afraid I will lose her over this.
Busy with work stuff huh..... Why is she so obtuse? She doesn't want to do it. She already is doing it. Sounds to me like your wife is having an affair with him already, and used you're picture escapade as the ground work as a great excuse to get her off scott free should you ever find out about it. You won't lose her over this. You've already lost her, and she's pointing the finger at you.

Good job. You opened the door for her to have an affair and in turned she jobbed you into thinking it's your fault. In reality her boss never ever had any pictures of her, and you fell for her scheme hook line and sinker

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