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Is it weird to have sexual fantasies about older women? im 18, male.

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Since: Dec 10

Clarion, PA

#1 Dec 12, 2010
Im 18 and im a guy. I find myself thinking about it quite often. what it would be like to have sex with a woman anywhere from 20-35. i never had sex with an older woman and i would like to. am i alone in this? is there any girls out there that want to have sex with older guys? or older woman that want to have sex with younger guys? ha i would ask if older guys want to have sex with younger girls but we all know the answer to that.
Spencer

Mount Morris, MI

#2 Dec 12, 2010
Alone? Noooo. Ever hear of milfs or cougars????? Tons of my friends go prowling for older chicks (I'm 18 btw) and one of them ONLY likes women over 30 (and preferrably married!!! Ewww). Personally I'm not into it but have had sex with one chick 28 who was a mom. Wasnt reallly any different than a high school or college chick really.
david marr

Shrewsbury, UK

#3 Dec 12, 2010
SEX AS A Teenager With an Older Woman is the best sex you will ever have. i Loved Having my best friends Mum When i was Age15years old . i will remember it all my life

Since: Dec 10

Bronx, NY

#4 Dec 12, 2010
david why don't you describe the first encounter
Kacy

Riverview, FL

#5 Dec 12, 2010
Well...I am an "older female now"...I learned many "tricks and techniques" during a babysitting stint I had during the summer I turned 14...the man was 29 at the time. He actually turned me into a sex loving slut! I learned more from him about sexual pleasures in those 3 summer months than I would have if I would have stuck to "boys" my own age. I actually never found anyone that was sexually compatable with me again until my 3rd year in college...and that man was from Europe. Fact was...I spent my teen years mostly popping "male" virgins who were only interested in their own pleasure and not open to learning anything new because they thought they already knew everything! So if you are lucky enough to find an older more experienced lover...go for it. Your future lovers will appreciate it. I would love to find a young man eager and willing to learn...I would love to be the teacher this time!
bandito

Guatemala City, Guatemala

#6 Dec 12, 2010
david marr wrote:
SEX AS A Teenager With an Older Woman is the best sex you will ever have. i Loved Having my best friends Mum When i was Age15years old . i will remember it all my life
Come on Dave, do the tell us, give us the dope. Did she seduce you? That's a real turn on cause they're are not too subtle when they want IT.
bandito

Guatemala City, Guatemala

#7 Dec 12, 2010
Kacy wrote:
Well...I am an "older female now"...I learned many "tricks and techniques" during a babysitting stint I had during the summer I turned 14...the man was 29 at the time. He actually turned me into a sex loving slut! I learned more from him about sexual pleasures in those 3 summer months than I would have if I would have stuck to "boys" my own age. I actually never found anyone that was sexually compatable with me again until my 3rd year in college...and that man was from Europe. Fact was...I spent my teen years mostly popping "male" virgins who were only interested in their own pleasure and not open to learning anything new because they thought they already knew everything! So if you are lucky enough to find an older more experienced lover...go for it. Your future lovers will appreciate it. I would love to find a young man eager and willing to learn...I would love to be the teacher this time!
I wish I was 18 again, because I was seduced by a 33 yo woman who taught me things a girl my age wouldn't have a clue about.

Since: Dec 10

Clarion, PA

#8 Dec 12, 2010
yeah i have heard of cougars and milfs of course. but i guess what im trying to say is how do you even go about talking to an older woman like that like a friends mom or something without being completely awkward. and like kacy said it would be great to learn from someone older with more experience.
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Spencer

Mount Morris, MI

#9 Dec 12, 2010
to meet cougs and milfs: well its best if u can get a fake ID and go to nightclubs. But if u cant, then casinos are excellent!! Also conerts, all age clubs, shopping malls, parks, etc. If u know a friends mom who u like, then go for it. It COULD be weird lol, but it could be hott too.

Since: Dec 10

Clarion, PA

#10 Dec 12, 2010
Spencer wrote:
to meet cougs and milfs: well its best if u can get a fake ID and go to nightclubs. But if u cant, then casinos are excellent!! Also conerts, all age clubs, shopping malls, parks, etc. If u know a friends mom who u like, then go for it. It COULD be weird lol, but it could be hott too.
hahah very true thanks spencer i will next time i go over there. and ill be sure to post the story on here.

“Just takin' it easy”

Since: Mar 10

Owensville, Mo.

#11 Dec 12, 2010
Whether you’re str8, gay, or whatever, a young person (of consensual age, of course) really owes it to themself to try it with an older person. I’ve learned a lot from women that were older than me and, given the opportunity, would love to teach a young woman a few things but, at my age (63), that’s about as likely to happen as pigs flying. Still, some of my best memories are of my youth and older women.
Spencer

Mount Morris, MI

#12 Dec 12, 2010
Old Hoot wrote:
Whether you’re str8, gay, or whatever, a young person (of consensual age, of course) really owes it to themself to try it with an older person. I’ve learned a lot from women that were older than me and, given the opportunity, would love to teach a young woman a few things but, at my age (63), that’s about as likely to happen as pigs flying. Still, some of my best memories are of my youth and older women.
hey old hoot, i think its cool that ur posting on here and at ur age (tho not rlly rlly old) you'd still like to have sex with a younger girl. Your awesome! Curious, how young would you currently go? When did you lose your virginity? Has sex changed much over the years? Whats the main difference between sex now and 50 years ago? Whats yhour best advice on sex? Thanks

“Just takin' it easy”

Since: Mar 10

Owensville, Mo.

#13 Dec 12, 2010
Spencer wrote:
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hey old hoot, i think its cool that ur posting on here and at ur age (tho not rlly rlly old) you'd still like to have sex with a younger girl. Your awesome! Curious, how young would you currently go? When did you lose your virginity? Has sex changed much over the years? Whats the main difference between sex now and 50 years ago? Whats yhour best advice on sex? Thanks
Hey Spencer!

Thanks for the compliment. Personally, I don’t think of myself as being all that old but I’m sure my view of age is different than someone much younger than me.

As to your questions, I’ll answer them in the order given.

I won’t do kids. Beside the fact that it’s morally wrong, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life in prison. If she is of consensual age (which is 18 here in Missouri) I’d love a chance to teach her a few things.

I was 21 when I lost my virginity, which was consensual age back then, and to an older woman. It was great.

The only thing about sex that has changed is the way people view it. I grew up during the sexual revolution which started with the invention of “the pill” which gave women the freedom they never had before.

My best advice about sex is “practice sexual safety”. Be careful who you hook up with and always use protection if you aren’t sure that the person you are with isn’t sick or likely to get pregnant. Always make sure that your partner is of age so you don’t get into trouble.

That being said, enjoy yourself and make sure your partner has a good time too. Don’t be afraid to follow your desires and experiment. Keep in mind that your partner has a say in it too. Never try to force or in any coerce your partner into doing something they aren’t ready for or are hung up about (i.e. BDSM).

It’s my opinion that every young person (of age, that is) should have at least one experience with someone older than themself, like maybe old enough to be their parent. People are born with the inherent desire for sex but not the knowledge of how to do it. To be a good lover, one needs experience and the best experience is with a partner that already has it.

If you aren’t old enough, there’s nothing wrong with “taking matters into your own hands”. There was a man who walked in on his son masturbating and told him that if he kept on doing it, he’d go blind. The kid said,“Dad, I’m over here!” Willy Nelson told that joke in a movie called “Beerfest”.

I hope this tells you what you want to know. If you have any more questions, you can hit me up at [email protected] and I’ll be happy to answer them as best I can. Don’t hesitate to contact me; I won’t bite you (dentures don’t allow that) lol.

Old Hoot

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#14 Dec 12, 2010
I posted my experience in another thread a couple of months ago, but don’t remember the topic. It happened to me when I was 16, with a married friend of my parents, who I would guess was in her early 40's. This was in the mid 1980's, and I had just gotten my drivers license. My parents were having a party, and the husband of a couple we knew, got really wasted. His wife was not drunk, but was pretty buzzed, and my parents wanted me to drive them home so they wouldn't get arrested for dui.

By the time we got to their house, her husband could hardly stand up, and I helped her get him up the stairs and into their bedroom. We flopped him on to their bed, and she and I went back down the stairs. I was getting ready to leave, when she thanked me for helping her out and gave me a hug. As we embraced, my head was next to hers, and I can still recall the smell of the combination of cigarette smoke and perfume in her hair. To this day, I still don’t know how I got the nerve to do it , but I kissed her ear. She in turn, kissed me on the neck, and the next thing I knew we were lip locked and swapping tongue.

Now I had never thought of her sexually prior to that night, but she was quite attractive – she was a taller version of Patricia Heaton, and that combined with the passionate kissing and 16 year old hormones caused a boner that I know she could feel. Our hands were all over each other, but she suddenly pulled away, said “wait just a minute,” then ran up the stairs, leaving me standing there horny and confused. I later reasoned that she had gone upstairs to make sure her husband was still passed out. Also, her fourteen year old daughter had been baby sitting their eight year old son, and she had probably checked to make sure they were not still up.

When she came rushing back down, she grabbed my hand and led me down to the basement rec room, locking the door behind her. There were few preliminaries when we got to the basement. She started taking off her dress and slip and peeling off her pantyhose. As for me, I think I set a record in getting my clothes off. We were both totally naked, and just stared at each other for a few seconds, before embracing again with more passionate kissing. We kind of fell back on to the couch that was there, with me on top of her. Needless to say, I didn’t last very long, probably not much more than a minute, but with my teenage libido, I managed to stay erect, and was working on my second orgasm, when she suddenly stopped me. She heard someone walking in the kitchen above us, and made me get dressed and hurried me out the basement door.

I had written it off as a one time thing, until the week we were out of school for Christmas break. I was home alone, when Mrs. J showed up at my door. She explained that she had been avoiding me, because she was afraid I would say something to someone, and also for the first month, she was afraid she might have gotten pregnant. Her husband had a vasectomy and she had not used protection. Thankfully neither had happened. She had taken a half day off from her job, and had stopped by to apologize. To make a long story short, we spent most of the afternoon in my bedroom. She obviously had anticipated this happening, because she also brought condoms.

We managed to get together several times before I left for college, but I always waited for her to make the contact. I guess I was smart enough to know that. A word of advice to any of you young guys that might be lucky enough to have sex with an older woman, is to be discreet and keep your mouth shut.
Karl

UK

#15 Dec 13, 2010
Old Hoot wrote:
Whether you’re str8, gay, or whatever, a young person (of consensual age, of course) really owes it to themself to try it with an older person. I’ve learned a lot from women that were older than me and, given the opportunity, would love to teach a young woman a few things but, at my age (63), that’s about as likely to happen as pigs flying. Still, some of my best memories are of my youth and older women.
Well,'O.H' you'll recall I'm sure Mae West's famous quip (one of many)"You're only as old as the man you feel" - and I guess that goes vice-versa, as there's lots of hot ladies who could give you a decade in the age stakes (and probably would be stll able to teach you a few new tricks!lol)
I was lucky in that my father was a very broad-minded 'man o' the world' and when I was 15 he not only gave me a straight 'man-to-man'talk about the 'facts of life'- but took me over to Paris and introduced me to his mistress (a lady in her mid-forties)who set about giving me some practical tuition not just in the act itself, but all the 'preliminaries'(including the best chat-up lines of the time!) So I was well prepared by the time I went up to Uni (but in the meantime had seduced a number of other women older than myself (including my Aunt - altho' to be truthful, that was really the other way around!)It all served to make me more self-assured generally, as well as in bed - for instance at job interviews and dealing with subordinates in my first supervisory position etc.So I'd say to this (and any other young man)- "Firstly, stop 'fantasising' about older women - DO something about it - NOW; and secondly, don't worry too much about 'what to say', as these days, a lot of older women are only too pleased to 'make your aquaintance'- and very often will even take the initiative! Finally,resist the temptation to use the services of call girls/prostitutes etc.You might get 'satisfied'- but you'll LEARN absolutely NOTHING!Good luck"

“Bowing in the Wind”

Since: Dec 10

Location hidden

#16 Dec 13, 2010
Old Hoot wrote:
Whether you’re str8, gay, or whatever, a young person (of consensual age, of course) really owes it to themself to try it with an older person. I’ve learned a lot from women that were older than me and, given the opportunity, would love to teach a young woman a few things but, at my age (63), that’s about as likely to happen as pigs flying. Still, some of my best memories are of my youth and older women.


Actually it is pretty easy for a man your age to find a young lady to teach a few tricks as long as you have lots of money. If you are not rich, the4n you might be better off with women of your own age. I know at our age, a number of woman are no longer into it but at 65, I still can get it on and am still quite active.
skinny

Harrisburg, PA

#18 Dec 13, 2010
When I met my wife she was 31 and I was 19 we've been married 5 years now
Spener

Mount Morris, MI

#19 Dec 13, 2010
Old Hoot wrote:
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Hey Spencer!
Thanks for the compliment. Personally, I don’t think of myself as being all that old but I’m sure my view of age is different than someone much younger than me.
As to your questions, I’ll answer them in the order given.
I won’t do kids. Beside the fact that it’s morally wrong, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life in prison. If she is of consensual age (which is 18 here in Missouri) I’d love a chance to teach her a few things.
I was 21 when I lost my virginity, which was consensual age back then, and to an older woman. It was great.
The only thing about sex that has changed is the way people view it. I grew up during the sexual revolution which started with the invention of “the pill” which gave women the freedom they never had before.
My best advice about sex is “practice sexual safety”. Be careful who you hook up with and always use protection if you aren’t sure that the person you are with isn’t sick or likely to get pregnant. Always make sure that your partner is of age so you don’t get into trouble.
That being said, enjoy yourself and make sure your partner has a good time too. Don’t be afraid to follow your desires and experiment. Keep in mind that your partner has a say in it too. Never try to force or in any coerce your partner into doing something they aren’t ready for or are hung up about (i.e. BDSM).
It’s my opinion that every young person (of age, that is) should have at least one experience with someone older than themself, like maybe old enough to be their parent. People are born with the inherent desire for sex but not the knowledge of how to do it. To be a good lover, one needs experience and the best experience is with a partner that already has it.
If you aren’t old enough, there’s nothing wrong with “taking matters into your own hands”. There was a man who walked in on his son masturbating and told him that if he kept on doing it, he’d go blind. The kid said,“Dad, I’m over here!” Willy Nelson told that joke in a movie called “Beerfest”.
I hope this tells you what you want to know. If you have any more questions, you can hit me up at [email protected] and I’ll be happy to answer them as best I can. Don’t hesitate to contact me; I won’t bite you (dentures don’t allow that) lol.
Old Hoot
That's interesting info u passed along. Thanks! I may take u up on some follow up questions.

Since: Dec 10

Clarion, PA

#20 Dec 14, 2010
thanks for sharing your stories guys! this really helped out a lot! thanks for commenting everyone!
Spencer

Santa Clara, CA

#21 Dec 14, 2010
WTPaguy wrote:
thanks for sharing your stories guys! this really helped out a lot! thanks for commenting everyone!
well did u make a move yet??

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