Girls and Guys, should a guy give up his ass if he gets hers?

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tmmanus

Dublin, CA

#1 Oct 17, 2007
My wife and I swap anal sex roles, and we both enjoy it either way. I have to say that being fucked with a strapon has made me more sensitive and better at giving it to her, plus she likes that we can have the role reversal.

Girls, do you feel that if you let a guy have your ass you should have his as well with a strapon or a dildo (at least once), or is it ok if it just isn't his thing?

Guys, do you feel obliged to let your girl have a go at your ass (at least once) if she lets you have hers?
frankyapplesnipe s

Lexington Park, MD

#2 Oct 17, 2007
tmmanus wrote:
My wife and I swap anal sex roles, and we both enjoy it either way. I have to say that being fucked with a strapon has made me more sensitive and better at giving it to her, plus she likes that we can have the role reversal.
Girls, do you feel that if you let a guy have your ass you should have his as well with a strapon or a dildo (at least once), or is it ok if it just isn't his thing?
Guys, do you feel obliged to let your girl have a go at your ass (at least once) if she lets you have hers?
This is just too funny. If you do, get if on video and post it on youtube or something. We all need a good laugh. Have her slap your assss, pull your hair, and call you her dirty biotch.
Tex Gent

United States

#3 Oct 17, 2007
tmmanus wrote:
My wife and I swap anal sex roles, and we both enjoy it either way. I have to say that being fucked with a strapon has made me more sensitive and better at giving it to her, plus she likes that we can have the role reversal.
Girls, do you feel that if you let a guy have your ass you should have his as well with a strapon or a dildo (at least once), or is it ok if it just isn't his thing?
Guys, do you feel obliged to let your girl have a go at your ass (at least once) if she lets you have hers?
I don't obliged to let her do it because I'm more of a willing partner if she wants to do it. I accidentally discovered this while a former lover (female) was going down on me and she slipped a finger in my ass which sent me over the edge! I couldn't believe how good it felt and we explored further with dildos and vibrators. She wasn't into anal sex at all so it surprised me when she did it to me.

Since then, I had very few lovers (female) do that to me or for me. I had a lover (female) that really loved doing me with toys while going down on me or doing hand jobs. She was very anal and we'd do each other all night long.

Today, I'm married and she does every now and then to please me more than for herself...

Tex Gent

“Beautiful conundrum”

Since: Sep 07

Portland, OR

#4 Oct 17, 2007
If my boyfriend objected, I surely wouldn't make him do this for me, but I think it would be a wonderful thing to explore. I've done anal play with my boyfriend, but I haven't used a strap on with him yet. He trusts me, and would let me if I asked him to.

That being said, I'd really wonder why a man would not want to. He doesn't have an issue with the idea of anal sex, or he wouldn't be doing any of it at all. This would make me wonder if he was insecure about his sexuality, or if he had a trust issue. It would really make me hesitant to trust him completely with my body.
unknown__IL

United States

#5 Oct 18, 2007
wilted calluna wrote:
If my boyfriend objected, I surely wouldn't make him do this for me, but I think it would be a wonderful thing to explore. I've done anal play with my boyfriend, but I haven't used a strap on with him yet. He trusts me, and would let me if I asked him to.
That being said, I'd really wonder why a man would not want to. He doesn't have an issue with the idea of anal sex, or he wouldn't be doing any of it at all. This would make me wonder if he was insecure about his sexuality, or if he had a trust issue. It would really make me hesitant to trust him completely with my body.
I think that a guy who doesn't allow a woman to do something like that if she wanted to is either insecure with himself or wants to feel somewhat dominant over his girlfriend...which is somewhat of a "band-aid" for his insecurity to begin with, I suppose.
Heck, why not??? What comes around, goes around. Shouldn't we ALL have fun when it comes to sex??
goodhubby

United States

#7 May 6, 2008
biiguy wrote:
Why discriminate??? It's just as good to receive as to give.....
I would love the total submission to her....trusting her, knowing that she could hurt me if she chose to......and then feeling her push and push...and then telling me that she's next.......

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