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Why do Asian men like white girls so much?

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The Rebberend

Los Angeles, CA

#1 Jul 20, 2008
Why do Asian men like white girls so much?
AsianFlavor

AOL

#2 Jul 20, 2008
Why do white men like Asian women so much? Some Asian American men like white women and some don't. I'll speak for East Asian American (Korean, Chinese,Japanese) men only since this is what I am familiar with. It's only natural for East asian men growing up in America to fancy white women since we are bombarded with this standard of beauty by the media. Also most of us grew up in upper middle class or middle class neighborhoods,attending schools where most of our classmates where white so again its natural to be attracted to white women. But not just any white women.
From my observation,East Asian American men have pretty high standards. We value education, morals and family so we tend to gravitate toward intelligent, family oriented women with high morals.
As more and more East Asian American men come of age and break from traditional East Asian family's taboo of dating out, you'll see more an more East Asian American men dating and marrying white women. I've already seen more of these couples with children in our local park we frequent with our children. Perhaps like 10 years ago it would have been rare but its much more common. Yes we are one of these couples.

Since: Jul 08

Canada

#3 Jul 20, 2008
I don't think Asian guys like white women...or at least they don't show it.

Since: Jan 08

United States

#4 Jul 21, 2008
AsianFlavor wrote:
Why do white men like Asian women so much? Some Asian American men like white women and some don't. I'll speak for East Asian American (Korean, Chinese,Japanese) men only since this is what I am familiar with. It's only natural for East asian men growing up in America to fancy white women since we are bombarded with this standard of beauty by the media. Also most of us grew up in upper middle class or middle class neighborhoods,attending schools where most of our classmates where white so again its natural to be attracted to white women. But not just any white women.
From my observation,East Asian American men have pretty high standards. We value education, morals and family so we tend to gravitate toward intelligent, family oriented women with high morals.
As more and more East Asian American men come of age and break from traditional East Asian family's taboo of dating out, you'll see more an more East Asian American men dating and marrying white women. I've already seen more of these couples with children in our local park we frequent with our children. Perhaps like 10 years ago it would have been rare but its much more common. Yes we are one of these couples.
I'm Chinese-American and I agree.
Joe

Alexandria, VA

#5 Jul 30, 2008
AsianFlavor wrote:
Some Asian American men like white women and some don't.
Some white women want security deposit to date outside the race and they want the Asian men to earn nearly a quarter million dollar more. These white women like the one shown in the video think they are safe with white men.



But, some do end up like this...

http://www.readthehook.com/stories/2007/06/07...

http://www.readthehook.com/stories/2007/06/07...

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25643775/

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25443664/

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25418693/

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20208...

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2007/11/01/48h...

Particularly the Alabama couple's case is very interesting. In their town there have been at least three cases of white husbands being charged with murdering their white wives. But I bet the parents of the murdered woman would rather have this murderous guy as a son in law than a decent Asian male,,such is the power of race in America that a white woman would ask a security deposit to date outside her race but the risk to her life is likely to be her white date or husband.

Since: Jan 08

Brooklyn, NY

#6 Jul 30, 2008
ilasianguys wrote:
I don't think Asian guys like white women...or at least they don't show it.
My guess is 50 50 in America. 1 out of 2 Chinese-Americans do like White women.

Your best bet is with Canadian-born ones.
Michael Ejercito

Los Angeles, CA

#7 Jul 31, 2008
Joe wrote:
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Some white women want security deposit to date outside the race and they want the Asian men to earn nearly a quarter million dollar more. These white women like the one shown in the video think they are safe with white men.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =vdjt-DyoU6sXX
But, some do end up like this...
http://www.readthehook.com/stories/2007/06/07...
http://www.readthehook.com/stories/2007/06/07...
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25643775/
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25443664/
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25418693/
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20208...
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2007/11/01/48h...
Particularly the Alabama couple's case is very interesting. In their town there have been at least three cases of white husbands being charged with murdering their white wives. But I bet the parents of the murdered woman would rather have this murderous guy as a son in law than a decent Asian male,,such is the power of race in America that a white woman would ask a security deposit to date outside her race but the risk to her life is likely to be her white date or husband.
I wonder if white people are more opposed to their daughters dating Asian men than their sons dating Asian women.

Since: Jan 08

United States

#8 Jul 31, 2008
Michael Ejercito wrote:
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I wonder if white people are more opposed to their daughters dating Asian men than their sons dating Asian women.
There's no reason to.

They want their children to have happy marriages.

They love their grandchildren either way.

I know many Asian/White marriages from either combination and it's all good.

Since: Jul 08

Canada

#9 Jul 31, 2008
mak from NYC wrote:
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My guess is 50 50 in America. 1 out of 2 Chinese-Americans do like White women.
Your best bet is with Canadian-born ones.
But I want ones that are born in Asia. I guess im out of luck then lol

Since: Jan 08

United States

#10 Jul 31, 2008
ilasianguys wrote:
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But I want ones that are born in Asia. I guess im out of luck then lol
The ones born in Asia is a lot more difficult for you to hook up with.

Even if a Chinese guy immigrated at a young age and speak English well and culturally a good fit for you. His parents most likely speak only Chinese. They need a daughter-in-law who speaks Chinese. The pressure is very great for him to marry a Chinese girl, even going back to China to get one.

Why don't you like handsome Canadian-born Chinese guys?

What's wrong with a Chinese medical student or an engineering student?
Keile

Brampton, Canada

#11 Jul 31, 2008
My parents are Chinese.

If I ever bring a white girl home, I need not explain.

Because if she isn't Chinese, she is not my girlfriend.

Since: Jul 08

Canada

#12 Jul 31, 2008
mak from NYC wrote:
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The ones born in Asia is a lot more difficult for you to hook up with.
Even if a Chinese guy immigrated at a young age and speak English well and culturally a good fit for you. His parents most likely speak only Chinese. They need a daughter-in-law who speaks Chinese. The pressure is very great for him to marry a Chinese girl, even going back to China to get one.
Why don't you like handsome Canadian-born Chinese guys?
What's wrong with a Chinese medical student or an engineering student?
So then i should be looking for a white washed asian guy? Lol

Theres nothing wrong with canadian-born chinese or japanese or korean guys but I guess I just like the ones in Asia alot better.

Theres nothing wrong with a chinese medical student or an engineering student I didnt say anything about that..haha
Asian Flavor

AOL

#13 Jul 31, 2008
ilasianguys wrote:
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So then i should be looking for a white washed asian guy? Lol
Theres nothing wrong with canadian-born chinese or japanese or korean guys but I guess I just like the ones in Asia alot better.
Why don't you teach English abroad. There is a craze to learn English in East Asian countries. I would check out South Korea, Japan or Taiwan as they are much more modern than China. The pay is decent and most of your housing is paid for by your employing organizations. Check out Dave's ESL Cafe. Or just join one of those Asian students club in college. There are tons of Asian students studying in Canada or America.
Asian Flavor

AOL

#14 Jul 31, 2008
Keile wrote:
My parents are Chinese.
If I ever bring a white girl home, I need not explain.
Because if she isn't Chinese, she is not my girlfriend.
Hey, my Korean parents used to say that too. But after series of white girlfriends parading through my parents house during high school they just gave up. So by college rolled around they couldn't careless:)
Now that I'm married to a white women with kids they love my wife and kids.I'm sure if your parents really cared about your happiness they would eventually give in. Especially if you're serious about the girl.
Stand up for yourself.

Since: Jul 08

Canada

#15 Jul 31, 2008
Asian Flavor wrote:
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Why don't you teach English abroad. There is a craze to learn English in East Asian countries. I would check out South Korea, Japan or Taiwan as they are much more modern than China. The pay is decent and most of your housing is paid for by your employing organizations. Check out Dave's ESL Cafe. Or just join one of those Asian students club in college. There are tons of Asian students studying in Canada or America.
I was aucutally planning on doing that. Im a little worried since I will be alone, and I can only speak the basics of Japanese and Korean. But its always worth a try right? lol
Asian Flavor

AOL

#16 Jul 31, 2008
Sure, adventure of a lifetime. Travel while you're still young. South Korea and Japan are very safe countries,NO WAY near the violence of North America.
Go on the website and ask around.
I'm sure you'll come back to Canada with an Asian boyfriend..lol!

Since: Jul 08

Canada

#17 Jul 31, 2008
Really? I was worried about korea... hopefully i would come back with one. haha
AsianFlavor

AOL

#18 Jul 31, 2008
Why do you want an Asian guy instead of an Asian Canadian? I think you'll be more comfortable with an Asian Candian guy due to his familarity with western cultures.
Check out kimchimamas.com site dedicated to white women married to Korean men in Korea.

Since: Jul 08

Canada

#19 Jul 31, 2008
um well i've experienced both asian-canadian and asian in asia, I found that the asian-canadian was more white washed then anything and didnt have any asian habits (shy, kind, family orientated) im not saying that only asians are that but its what i look for, and when i went to asia and found a guy, he was perfect for me so I guess the asian-canadian kind of tainted how I see other asian-canadians from now on. I tried the site it didnt work...
AsianFlavor

AOL

#20 Jul 31, 2008
Sorry its http://kimchimamas.typepad.com/

I don't think you should base it couple of Asian Canadian guys. Well, anyway go teach Emglish and explore.
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