Wife sharing

[Lysette]

I have a friend that has a Phd in Psychology, who has been doing research on this for few years. It's fascinating. She told me about one study in which married men were shown film clips of women having sex with men and told to imagine each one was their wife having sex with other men while their physical response were measured. There was only one man out of a study group of 3 or 4 thousand who wasn't aroused. They also examined their sperm before and after and found that sperm production tripled after.
A lot of them reported feeling pangs of jealousy during the experience but were aroused none the less.

[frogman]

Lysette wrote:

I have a friend that has a Phd in Psychology, who has been doing research on this for few years. It's fascinating. She told me about one study in which married men were shown film clips of women having sex with men and told to imagine each one was their wife having sex with other men while their physical response were measured. There was only one man out of a study group of 3 or 4 thousand who wasn't aroused. They also examined their sperm before and after and found that sperm production tripled after.
A lot of them reported feeling pangs of jealousy during the experience but were aroused none the less.

Hi Lysette
Where can I get a dedailed copy of this study? Thanks

[Jack]

Just curious here, How did you get started MrsBruce? How long have you been married when you had your first affair. Also can you say how young you are now-approx age is fine. And that of your husband's too - pls.
Was sex between the 2 of you getting less exciting when this started. Thanks

MrsBruce wrote:

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Just be careful who you chose. can be awkward if you pick someone she may get attached to. I work in a hospital so we have a few Dr s that are only here for a few months.last one was a failure because if a PE problem he had.First one I had sex with on and off for 3 months was great. more on than off lol this was mainly my husbands idea to start with.My fantasy is to be picked up by a guy a random guy in a pub and spend a night getting laid .I think we will try this soon

[berto]

i want share her but she won't so got her drunk one night and let my buddy take his turn on her she had no clue what was happening

[MrsBruce]

Jack wrote:

Just curious here, How did you get started MrsBruce? How long have you been married when you had your first affair. Also can you say how young you are now-approx age is fine. And that of your husband's too - pls.
Was sex between the 2 of you getting less exciting when this started. Thanks
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been married almost 23 years we are closer to 50 than I like to admit lol I is only 6 months ago since I first had sex with anyone other than my husband,Our sex life was pretty exciting as our youngest had just left home and we were kinda making the most of having the house to ourselves.
I really can't see this going on for long but it added a bit of spice to things and has let me see what another man is like. I did need a bit of a nudge to do it but I must admit its been great for me to think at my age other men still want me . Having sex with a dark skinned person wasn't what I was after it just happened. I liked the guy but the contrast is so sexy.First time we did it I orgasmed the instant he entered me. Just seeing it go in did it for me.I love my husband and he is still who I want to have sex with but this is fun for a change.2nd guy I had was a bit disappointing and I gave up on him.

[Jack]

MrsBruce wrote:

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been married almost 23 years we are closer to 50 than I like to admit lol I is only 6 months ago since I first had sex with anyone other than my husband,Our sex life was pretty exciting as our youngest had just left home and we were kinda making the most of having the house to ourselves.
I really can't see this going on for long but it added a bit of spice to things and has let me see what another man is like. I did need a bit of a nudge to do it but I must admit its been great for me to think at my age other men still want me . Having sex with a dark skinned person wasn't what I was after it just happened. I liked the guy but the contrast is so sexy.First time we did it I orgasmed the instant he entered me. Just seeing it go in did it for me.I love my husband and he is still who I want to have sex with but this is fun for a change.2nd guy I had was a bit disappointing and I gave up on him.

Sounds you are having the time of your life. All children gone, the home to just the 2 of you, did you christen each room again by having sex in each one of them LOL. OK so the first affair was with a black physician from the USA? and sounded like he was great. Was he about the same age group or ????. Are you more attracted to younger men as far as affairs or whatever happens happens. Also since you probably wont get preganant do you go "bare back" (no condom or ?). Personally I dont like them since for me it makes it less sensitive and I like the closeness w.o. a condom, but I understand some are worried more about the risks. I love hearing more from you.

[MrsBruce]

Jack wrote:

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Sounds you are having the time of your life. All children gone, the home to just the 2 of you, did you christen each room again by having sex in each one of them LOL. OK so the first affair was with a black physician from the USA? and sounded like he was great. Was he about the same age group or ????. Are you more attracted to younger men as far as affairs or whatever happens happens. Also since you probably wont get preganant do you go "bare back" (no condom or ?).
Personally I dont like them since for me it makes it less sensitive and I like the closeness w.o. a condom, but I understand some are worried more about the risks. I love hearing more from you.

He was in his early forties and first time he used a condom but then after a rest and we started again we forgot..I guess when you haven't used them every its not something you think of, Being in the medical field it wasn't to hard for us to get the checks done and after that we never bothered again. maybe a risk but he assured me he wouldn't do it with anyone else.I much prefer bareback as you put it. The thought that he was really cu$ming in me is better and could the feeling of him shooting in me always made me orgasm.I have always loved it when my husband cu$ms in my mouth and same with the other guy .never did it in every room but did it in shower and our bed (wow that was a buzz to have another man fuck me in my own bed lol ) and on dinning room table.
Age isn't really an issue but is easier with someone closer to same age. WE have more in common I think. He got on well with my husband too, which still feels a bit funny as they went off hunting and fishing together and I still wonder what they talked about. They both say they only talked about what was going on in general terms.And I imagined them comparing notes but they insist that is was just hunting and beer.and more beer lol.

[Jack]

MrsBruce wrote:

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He was in his early forties and first time he used a condom but then after a rest and we started again we forgot..I guess when you haven't used them every its not something you think of, Being in the medical field it wasn't to hard for us to get the checks done and after that we never bothered again. maybe a risk but he assured me he wouldn't do it with anyone else.I much prefer bareback as you put it. The thought that he was really cu$ming in me is better and could the feeling of him shooting in me always made me orgasm.I have always loved it when my husband cu$ms in my mouth and same with the other guy .never did it in every room but did it in shower and our bed (wow that was a buzz to have another man fuck me in my own bed lol ) and on dinning room table.
Age isn't really an issue but is easier with someone closer to same age. WE have more in common I think. He got on well with my husband too, which still feels a bit funny as they went off hunting and fishing together and I still wonder what they talked about. They both say they only talked about what was going on in general terms.And I imagined them comparing notes but they insist that is was just hunting and beer.and more beer lol.

He he he hunting and beer and more beer??? are you sure they arent comparing notes LOL hey it cant be bad if they do. I have lots of curiousity so I'll fire away and pls just answer the ones you feel is fine. Now, just wondering if your boy friend is also in a permanent relation and if so has your husband had sex with her. Sounds you are doing the affair in your own home, so is your husband present when both of you are doing it and does he participate heterosexually with you? Or does he just watch usually. Are you vocal in these sessions ;) Do you dress (or is it undress??) especially sexy and provocative on these occasions. Darn am feeling guilty asking all these questions (some - though not completely obviously ;). Just wondering if you consider an email if so let me know, I'll forward you mine. Looking forward to your response :) TY

[Judy]

What church do you again now ? ;) looks like a cool church.

james wrote:

my wife and I started going to church.we wonted to make our lives better.AND we did I wos 22 she wos 19 we met A cuple. she 33 he 28 we started doing things togather.after A while she ask me if I wood like to do hure.of corse i did she said your wife will do my husband.after the 2 time we found out the other couple wos bi.Iloved watchen to women but rember I said the other couple.shoid I give in and do him to. my wife wonts me to do it wood you

[RealityDealer]

james wrote:

my wife and I started going to church.we wonted to make our lives better.AND we did I wos 22 she wos 19 we met A cuple. she 33 he 28 we started doing things togather.after A while she ask me if I wood like to do hure.of corse i did she said your wife will do my husband.after the 2 time we found out the other couple wos bi.Iloved watchen to women but rember I said the other couple.shoid I give in and do him to. my wife wonts me to do it wood you

What language is this? Is that suppose to be English or is it a new language?

[Jean Michel]

Where can I get those kinds of careers, almost as good as having a research project in what is the most sought after breast shape on women LOL. And hey you are a very pretty woman and aha from Paris. Beautiful city, been only to France twice. Last time spent sometime in the Musee d' Homme and Musee d'Orsay. Lysette - voulez vous couche avec moi ce soir ;) LOL

QUOTE who=["Lysette"]I have a friend that has a Phd in Psychology, who has been doing research on this for few years. It's fascinating. She told me about one study in which married men were shown film clips of women having sex with men and told to imagine each one was their wife having sex with other men while their physical response were measured. There was only one man out of a study group of 3 or 4 thousand who wasn't aroused. They also examined their sperm before and after and found that sperm production tripled after.
A lot of them reported feeling pangs of jealousy during the experience but were aroused none the less.

[John]

RealityDealer wrote:

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What language is this? Is that suppose to be English or is it a new language?

It is the language of a church going couple ;)Maybe Ted Haggards church

[MrsBruce]

Jack wrote:

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He he he hunting and beer and more beer??? are you sure they arent comparing notes LOL hey it cant be bad if they do. I have lots of curiousity so I'll fire away and pls just answer the ones you feel is fine. Now, just wondering if your boy friend is also in a permanent relation and if so has your husband had sex with her. Sounds you are doing the affair in your own home, so is your husband present when both of you are doing it and does he participate heterosexually with you? Or does he just watch usually. Are you vocal in these sessions ;) Do you dress (or is it undress??) especially sexy and provocative on these occasions. Darn am feeling guilty asking all these questions (some - though not completely obviously ;). Just wondering if you consider an email if so let me know, I'll forward you mine. Looking forward to your response :) TY

I will give you a little info from the other side I'm mrsbruce"s other half.she mostly looks at this site but told me I should see what was written here. I don't know if you would call it an affair she had.well I guess it is in a way . yes she has had him at home .yes I ve watched and had sex with her before and after lover has had her.I doubt she told you that since this started she changed in a few ways. At work she found out 12 months that 2 guys she works with were on a higher pay rate than her.she always said she would tell the management she wanted at least the same pay but never did anything about it except moan at me .A month ago she told them either they fix her pay rate or she wouldn't train anyone else. Now her pay rate is above theirs as she is senior to them and she received a substantial back pay. She started dressing in sexier clothes. And she has lost 6 kgs in weight due to being back on her exercycle again . Amazing to see her confidence rise since she found that she is still wanted by other men .The fist time she did it with him I could tell she was guilty but still the next day she went back to his place again . That night she came home still flushed from having him and never said anything just dragged me off to bed and we were at it most of that night.

[Jack]

MrsBruce wrote:

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I will give you a little info from the other side I'm mrsbruce"s other half.she mostly looks at this site but told me I should see what was written here. I don't know if you would call it an affair she had.well I guess it is in a way . yes she has had him at home .yes I ve watched and had sex with her before and after lover has had her.I doubt she told you that since this started she changed in a few ways. At work she found out 12 months that 2 guys she works with were on a higher pay rate than her.she always said she would tell the management she wanted at least the same pay but never did anything about it except moan at me .A month ago she told them either they fix her pay rate or she wouldn't train anyone else. Now her pay rate is above theirs as she is senior to them and she received a substantial back pay. She started dressing in sexier clothes. And she has lost 6 kgs in weight due to being back on her exercycle again . Amazing to see her confidence rise since she found that she is still wanted by other men .The fist time she did it with him I could tell she was guilty but still the next day she went back to his place again . That night she came home still flushed from having him and never said anything just dragged me off to bed and we were at it most of that night.

Oh wow,MrsBrucem, I enjoy reading MrBruce's perspective. Sounds wonderful that you two are so in tuned on this. Usually one reads about this kind of relationship and rather one sided. MrBruce you must be one of the most fortunate husband, you are having your cake and eat her too {no pun intended but it ;)}.What's even more intriguing is that the men share a friendship beyond sex. Interesting to note the background of some of MrsBruce experience, and who can not appreciate a sexier dressed wife as a result of all that. As I said I was in NZ a few years back on holidays and was in Auckland as well (became friends with much older 2 sisters-they are in Papatoetoe-Auckland suburbs-not far from the international airport). Wouldnt I wish I had come across you two at the time, would have enjoyed some conversations on the topic at the very least. For now I can only imagine what that dining table scene was-LOL, Looking forward to either of your postings. I read several of your past postings very captivating.:)

[THEARTISAN]

this puts 'Wife Swap' the tv show to shame....

[Judy]

caleb wrote:

I share my g/f with younger guys. 20 to 25

And just how old are you caleb, does it excite you to share your g/f with younger guys? Do you do her after she's been with them? Do tell ;)

[Zagg]

MrsBruce wrote:

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I really can't see this going on for long

Sounds as if you're have the time of your lives. Why not keep at it?

[Judy]

THEARTISAN wrote:

this puts 'Wife Swap' the tv show to shame....

LOL yes that soap is just crap isnt it. All fake stuff. LOL

[J0dy]

Judy wrote:

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And just how old are you caleb, does it excite you to share your g/f with younger guys? Do you do her after she's been with them? Do tell ;)

You are so nosy Judy !

[MrsBruce]

Jack wrote:

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Oh wow,MrsBrucem, I enjoy reading MrBruce's perspective. Sounds wonderful that you two are so in tuned on this. Usually one reads about this kind of relationship and rather one sided. MrBruce you must be one of the most fortunate husband, you are having your cake and eat her too {no pun intended but it ;)}.What's even more intriguing is that the men share a friendship beyond sex. Interesting to note the background of some of MrsBruce experience, and who can not appreciate a sexier dressed wife as a result of all that. As I said I was in NZ a few years back on holidays and was in Auckland as well (became friends with much older 2 sisters-they are in Papatoetoe-Auckland suburbs-not far from the international airport). Wouldnt I wish I had come across you two at the time, would have enjoyed some conversations on the topic at the very least. For now I can only imagine what that dining table scene was-LOL, Looking forward to either of your postings. I read several of your past postings very captivating.:)

I guess part of the reason for posting this was just because I can't tell any of my friends about this but it feels so good I just had to tell someone..strange I guess but there you have it. A friend at work guessed at what was going on. At first I denied it but then as she persisted I finally admitted it was having sex with him . She was angry and amazed at me. She said "well you won;t mind if I go to your place and fuck your husband then. Made me think I must admit but said ok in end. For 2 weeks she said nothing then one night went out to our place while I was working on call and asked my husband if he really knew..She was angry at him to for allowing it as well