Who

Bolton, Canada

#138 Oct 13, 2008
I've never done this to a guy but I really would love to... I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I'd love to try it with him because I know he'd love it... unfortunately he's left the country for an indefinite period of time but when he comes back it's definitely something I am considering haha.
For me it's not really about the control. I just really love seeing and hearing a man experiencing such deep pleasure... it drives me crazy even thinking about him moaning and coming as I fu ck him :)
BigSexy

El Monte, CA

#139 Oct 13, 2008
Who wrote:
I've never done this to a guy but I really would love to... I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I'd love to try it with him because I know he'd love it... unfortunately he's left the country for an indefinite period of time but when he comes back it's definitely something I am considering haha.
For me it's not really about the control. I just really love seeing and hearing a man experiencing such deep pleasure... it drives me crazy even thinking about him moaning and coming as I fu ck him :)
Yes the visual for women and men is awesome. I love getting on all fours for a lady! My ex said she liked to have me on my back that way she could see my face as she slide inside of my ass. She also said she loved to see my asshole stretch!
hardy boy

Lewis Center, OH

#140 Oct 14, 2008
What are some of the toys you use? I wanted to try it with my wife, and the thought gets her worked up too, but I'm still looking for a multipurpose a good strap on.
Of course, we're both a little bi. The same sex fantasies are really erotic.
CuriousStrapUser

Baton Rouge, LA

#141 Oct 15, 2008
juicygal wrote:
first we started with him wearing a butt plug while we were doing it. then i saw how much he was turned on so it was my idea to put a vibrator in him while i was behind it really starte turning me on more than i thought, i started squirting. so then i suggested we go to the toy store and buy a strap on so my hands are free and my strap on does stimulate me also so its not just him. now the size is quite longer than my husband, it might be 12 inches. he does take it all the way and loves it and so do i. if you want my email so we can talk further let me know. you have to be really careful how you approach your wife on this cuz it could really freak her out and she might think she is not doing for you. she will love it and if you 2 are happy itss ok to do these nasty things. keep i touch
I would love to trade e-mails sometime Juicy, talk more about how i can approach this..i would LOVE to try having a strap on pushed in me
CuriousStrapUser

Baton Rouge, LA

#142 Oct 15, 2008
Richard wrote:
My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 4 years and enjoy trying out new things when it comes to the bed. For the past year she has gotten me into wearing her underwear almost every day. She goes to victorias secret and buys every kind of underwear you could think of for me. I dont mind it and don't encourage her. but it really is fun to do. Knowing that were both wearing her underwear and trade sometimes. She loves it when i wear thongs and we always have sex in them. Now we just bought our first vibrator which i have used on her but we have never tried anything anal. we have just started talking seriously about it and she always jokes around about using a strapon. i tell her if you'll let me do you from behind, you can do me. So we are planning on using the vibrator on eachothers anal before we get into anything else. i will respond how it goes probably in a couple of weeks. And dont be afraid to ask your SO to trade underwear.. my girlfriend likes it because she knows im doing it for her and she finds it hilarious. Ive wondered if its a turn on. We have sex in them so im almost positive it is.
I too wear underwear with my girlfriend...it is the biggest turn on for me and her for me to walk around in just a thong...how did she approach you about this?
gordon

UK

#143 Oct 17, 2008
i'm here
voltexm

Prague, Czech Republic

#144 Oct 18, 2008
Hey!!! I love 2be strap on with a girl but i don't have any am 2 saad never mine.

my e-mail: voltexm@gmail.com
triniman

Saint Joseph, Trinidad and Tobago

#145 Oct 18, 2008
Hi,

I started anal play during masturbation only because I was so horny and wanted to get kinky. After a while, I got hocked on it. I am 32, started fingering my a** since about 17. I used every household item possible to pleasure my self when my figures could not satisfy me no more. When I got married to my girlfriend after dating for 3 years, for the first time on our wedding night she stuck her finger in my b*tt.(I almost fainted)

She realise I loved it and opened minded as she was, she continued. She got deeper and deeper and more and more fingers in over the months. She surprised me with a strap-on 7 months after on our first valentine’s night. We are married for 5 years now and do have some amazing sex sessions. She is not into anal by the way, only a little “rim-job” every so often, but I think she will give in one day. Most times I finish her off with a dildo, since she loves to lean over and wack me off while f*cking me from the rear.

I don’t know what she will say when she finds out that my latest fantasy is “to eat her out while my a** is being done either by another woman, she-male or both

(I am totally straight, so no men unless it’s what she would like. He must be tested though. The most is I will suck on a dildo when even forces it into my mouth)

Anyone out there share a similar fantasy?
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CuriousStrapUser

Baton Rouge, LA

#146 Oct 20, 2008
i share similar fantasies...i wear my womans lingerie (and have some of my own) and i love for her to bend me over and eat out my a**...i have not had her f*** me with strap on yet, but i would love for her to bend me over, move my thong out of my a** and eat me out, then slide a dildo in me and f*** me till i came....can i get some oponions from some ladies out there on this?
openminded

Ryde, Australia

#147 Oct 21, 2008
I have tried it with my wife and it was the best night of sex i had ,I was still tingling next day. I am hooked and i am completely hetro but now enjoy back door play . My wife and i have done it only 3 times in last 2years. I would like it more but i let her decide when she wants to do it ,she says it turns her on watching me receive for change.Guys try it before you knock it,you may be surprised, I discovered it when i was 50
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#148 Oct 22, 2008
People, let's be realistic. If you are letting your woman pound you in the ass with a penis-like strap-on, it is nearly impossible to not have though t of having sex with a man.

That you like and continually seek out to be anally pounded by a penis-like object, appears to be closet or repressed bi-sexuality.

It would be like a homosexual male that had his man dress up like a woman or only had sex with woman-like she-males.

Another interested angle of the argument is if you put a she-male into the mix.

Some questions I dare people on this thread to answer truthfully:

. Would a man that likes having sex with women who use a strap-on turn down an attractive she-male?

. If you are being anally penetrated by a penis-like object, do you never fantasize about having sex with another man?
seven and a half

Austria

#149 Oct 22, 2008
I want to try it but also I want to wear it and DP my wife all by my self from both side the view will just blow me away I think .
brian

United States

#150 Oct 22, 2008
My g/f and I do it all the time. We got a kit that copies your own c**k. We both love to wear it and get it

“I'm deployed”

Since: Oct 07

Roswell, NM

#151 Oct 22, 2008
its funny how people try to analyze it and make it sound like they are smart and know what they are talking about. whether its a strap on or a vibrator its really good for the prostate. so those that are doing something about it now will all laugh at those with prostate cancer.
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#152 Oct 22, 2008
brian wrote:
My g/f and I do it all the time. We got a kit that copies your own c**k. We both love to wear it and get it
This is funny in a way.

You made a copy of your own penis and then had your girlfriend f*ck you with it.

This gives a new meaning to the term, "go f*ck yourself".
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#153 Oct 22, 2008
Seems nobody is brave enough to address the questions I asked.

What is really the difference between being anally pounded by a fake penis strap-on and having a man anally pound you?

Seems like the guy getting pounded is just trying to avoid social condemnation over being bi-sexual and having sex with men, by using a woman with a strap-on.

It's kind of like saying, "Yeah, I get pounded in the ass and like it, but at least it was by a woman".
swarovski22

Lincoln, NE

#154 Oct 22, 2008
so, i would kinda dig a woman with a strap on. I'm a chic. what does THAT say? We're all fucked up?
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#155 Oct 22, 2008
swarovski22 wrote:
so, i would kinda dig a woman with a strap on. I'm a chic. what does THAT say? We're all fucked up?
Well we could reverse the questions for you, but it is not exactly the same for women and men.

When you f*ck a woman with a strap on, do you have imagine that it was a guy?

If you are a lesbian that only has sex with women that use strap ons, what is the difference between a strap on and a real penis?
swarovski22

Lincoln, NE

#156 Oct 22, 2008
I seriously think u r all reading way too much into it. Sex & the motivations behind orgasm have become way too complex. We should all just chill the hell out and enjoy. It shouldn't be this friggin' complicated.
bluebird

Hamilton, OH

#157 Oct 22, 2008
would a female be up for some cyber action? My msn is bluebirdnamedjay@yahoo.com

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