Strap on ? women and men?
rednek

Hubert, NC

#470 Jan 8, 2009
Oh, my comment above was for RealityDealer.
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#471 Jan 8, 2009
rednek wrote:
Well I guess any guy that enjoys getting a BJ or practicing anal sex with a receptive female is also secretly gay.
Actually, you are talking about different sex acts. What sex acts people consider to be "gay" is very subjective.

However, different sex acts are viewed differently by various percentages of people.

We are specifically talking about male anal receptive sex.

This would be considered a different act from a male penetrating a female anally, as that would be female anal receptive sex.

How people view male anal receptive sex, would be more to the point in this thread, and not necessarily female anal receptive sex or men getting blow jobs.

A male that "submits" to receptive anal sex, would arguably be considered gay or bi-sexual to many people, regardless if the penetrator was a male with a real penis or female with a strap-on and fake penis.

Others would say male anal receptive sex is not indicative of being bi-sexual. However, it is interesting to see both points of view and the thinking behind them.
rednek

Hubert, NC

#472 Jan 8, 2009
Well, if the Sopranos are to be believed, some people consider cunnilingus to be gay behavior.
Nyx

Since: Oct 08

Bolton, Canada

#473 Jan 8, 2009
rednek wrote:
Well, if the Sopranos are to be believed, some people consider cunnilingus to be gay behavior.
... what?

Never watched the show... would like to hear the explanation of that.
rednek

Hubert, NC

#474 Jan 8, 2009
Nyx wrote:
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... what?
Never watched the show... would like to hear the explanation of that.
One of the episodes revolved around Uncle Junior's longtime girlfriend disclosing that he was great at oral, to one of her friends. Word got back to Junior's mob buddies, and they gave him a ton of s--- about it. He got so incensed he dumped her, violently. Suposedly among that crew (Italian mobsters) it's considered gay. Who knows, may be total Hollywood fiction.
Agent X

Chicago, IL

#475 Jan 8, 2009
RealityDealer wrote:
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However agent_X, you can't separate the issue so easily.
In the case of the gay man or straight man, they are both dealing with dominance, submissiveness, and anal receptive sex.
The debate about sexual orientation becomes fuzzy too.
Is the anal receptive straight man trying to hide or deny his bi-sexuality or not?
Is he using the woman as a substitute for gay sex, in order to feel he has not stepped passed society's line and condemnation of homosexuality?
These are questions that are not easily answered, but very obviously come to mind.
Nope, at least not in my case. I love it when a lovely women make anal love to me. Its her feminine ways that turns me on and the thought of her getting off on pounding me with my face in the pillow is even more arousing. To me its all about girls giving it to guys.
Agent X

Chicago, IL

#476 Jan 8, 2009
Nyx wrote:
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More for me then XD
Nyx, would you use your biggest strap on on me and pound me deep and hard until my face is buried in the mattress? I think I need it.
Nyx

Since: Oct 08

Bolton, Canada

#477 Jan 9, 2009
rednek wrote:
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One of the episodes revolved around Uncle Junior's longtime girlfriend disclosing that he was great at oral, to one of her friends. Word got back to Junior's mob buddies, and they gave him a ton of s--- about it. He got so incensed he dumped her, violently. Suposedly among that crew (Italian mobsters) it's considered gay. Who knows, may be total Hollywood fiction.
Wow. Odd.
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thkdck4u

Wisconsin Rapids, WI

#478 Jan 9, 2009
YES. I haven't done it that much, but i've been ridden by two different women in the past. Be patient guys, and it helps to practice on yourself with a dildo and lube to get the hang of relaxing and "taking it", but let me tell you, there is nothing hotter than an aggressive woman giving it to you hard from behind while slapping your ass. Better yet is when you are on your back with your legs up, and she is really fucking you and holding on to your hard cock like the horn of a saddle on a bucking bronco!!!. It's fun to get fucked and jacked at the same time.
Brian

Jefferson City, MO

#479 Jan 9, 2009
thkdck4u wrote:
YES. I haven't done it that much, but i've been ridden by two different women in the past. Be patient guys, and it helps to practice on yourself with a dildo and lube to get the hang of relaxing and "taking it", but let me tell you, there is nothing hotter than an aggressive woman giving it to you hard from behind while slapping your ass. Better yet is when you are on your back with your legs up, and she is really fucking you and holding on to your hard cock like the horn of a saddle on a bucking bronco!!!. It's fun to get fucked and jacked at the same time.
My g/f and i were just in area last weekend snowmobiling. We were at a best western. Anyway she did me with our strap-on with my legs up and holding my c*ck. It is great that way.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#480 Jan 12, 2009
thkdck4u wrote:
YES. I haven't done it that much, but i've been ridden by two different women in the past. Be patient guys, and it helps to practice on yourself with a dildo and lube to get the hang of relaxing and "taking it", but let me tell you, there is nothing hotter than an aggressive woman giving it to you hard from behind while slapping your ass. Better yet is when you are on your back with your legs up, and she is really fucking you and holding on to your hard cock like the horn of a saddle on a bucking bronco!!!. It's fun to get fucked and jacked at the same time.
Sounds like a great time had by all.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#481 Jan 12, 2009
Brian wrote:
<quoted text>
My g/f and i were just in area last weekend snowmobiling. We were at a best western. Anyway she did me with our strap-on with my legs up and holding my c*ck. It is great that way.
Very hot and fun.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#482 Jan 12, 2009
RealityDealer wrote:
<quoted text>
Actually, you are talking about different sex acts. What sex acts people consider to be "gay" is very subjective.
However, different sex acts are viewed differently by various percentages of people.
We are specifically talking about male anal receptive sex.
This would be considered a different act from a male penetrating a female anally, as that would be female anal receptive sex.
How people view male anal receptive sex, would be more to the point in this thread, and not necessarily female anal receptive sex or men getting blow jobs.
A male that "submits" to receptive anal sex, would arguably be considered gay or bi-sexual to many people, regardless if the penetrator was a male with a real penis or female with a strap-on and fake penis.
Others would say male anal receptive sex is not indicative of being bi-sexual. However, it is interesting to see both points of view and the thinking behind them.
I think that sex with a female is heterosexual sex no matter what sexual practice is being done.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#483 Jan 12, 2009
justaguywholoveshisgal wrote:
my gal has a large and fat strapon.how do i get past the initial shock and pain?she wants to give it to me so bad.once she tied me to a tree and gave me a whipping then she bent me over and told me she was going to f**k me like a virgin hard and long.for now she just makes me get on my kness and suck it.am i to just let her have her way and let her f**k me?<quoted text>
Well, you should use a smaller anal toy first to loosen up your hole, and then she should probably rim you to loosen your hole. And LOTS of lube, petrolium or water based.
BlondandBraided

United States

#484 Jan 13, 2009
All you gays, git yo fruity azzes of this page. right now.

Since: Sep 08

Saint Louis, MO

#485 Jan 13, 2009
BlondandBraided wrote:
All you gays, git yo fruity azzes of this page. right now.
lol learn correct grammar before you try gaining any authority over anyone online,

because until then you just look silly.

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#486 Jan 13, 2009
Donna Dilldoe wrote:
Once a week I strap one on and drill the dickens out of my husband. As I'm doing him from behind, we are in front of a mirror and I make him jerk off. It's too hot for words. He loves it as well. We will reverse roles and I will let him drill me with his c0ck then finish me with the strap on.
Try it, you'll like it.
my b.f (whos straight) recently bought me a stap on; i always used to joke about having anal with him. well, he fianlly gave in a bought one. we tried it out and he loves it! which proves that u can be a straight man and like anal....
Dean

Sanford, ME

#488 Jan 14, 2009
Vince wrote:
My wife comes home from work all worked up all the time,walks in bedroom and puts on her strapon and makes me take it in my ass cause she says it relieves tension
Your a lucking guy if you like that. I do. does your wife looking to relieve more stress?
jabama

Korea

#489 Jan 17, 2009
Nyx wrote:
I've actually done a lot of research on this topic over the past week... it's been VERY intriguing.
So what did you find out...intriguing must be interesting.

Since: Nov 08

Hemel Hempstead, UK

#490 Jan 17, 2009
i would love to see my mrs being taken by another female with a strap on, it may be one of my biggest fantasies

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