curious

Piedmont, SC

#21 Mar 8, 2008
juicygal wrote:
<quoted text> it's allabout comm. we always did anal play but i would say it was my idea to buy the strap on. iknew he always wanted it but i had to be ready. that could be a very sensitive subject to bring up with your wife but i would say we have done this several times now and it's better than i would have expected. while doing this from behund and my hands are free to grab hjs waist it turns me on so much i squirt very far. but your wife needs to have an open mind. i think if he would have approached me on this like a year ago i might have gotten dedensive but now i'm not going back, it's great for both. good luck and let me know if i can help you all along
she has done some anal play in the past just with fingers (totally initiated by her) that alone was really awesome Just afraid asking about the strap on might really freak her out. If this isn't too personal How big of a dildo do you use?? Or better yet how big of one did you start out with?? Do you use anything to stimulate yourself while wearing the strapon??

“Nothing to see here,keep movin”

Since: Mar 08

Sycamore, IL

#22 Mar 8, 2008
I guessing there many straight guys like anal play but won't admit to it in fear of sounding gay. Asking to being on the receiving end of a strap-on is a difficult request to make to any wife/girlfiriend.

might have to keep this as just a fantasy.
juicygal

United States

#23 Mar 8, 2008
first we started with him wearing a butt plug while we were doing it. then i saw how much he was turned on so it was my idea to put a vibrator in him while i was behind it really starte turning me on more than i thought, i started squirting. so then i suggested we go to the toy store and buy a strap on so my hands are free and my strap on does stimulate me also so its not just him. now the size is quite longer than my husband, it might be 12 inches. he does take it all the way and loves it and so do i. if you want my email so we can talk further let me know. you have to be really careful how you approach your wife on this cuz it could really freak her out and she might think she is not doing for you. she will love it and if you 2 are happy itss ok to do these nasty things. keep i touch
curious

Piedmont, SC

#24 Mar 9, 2008
juicygal wrote:
first we started with him wearing a butt plug while we were doing it. then i saw how much he was turned on so it was my idea to put a vibrator in him while i was behind it really starte turning me on more than i thought, i started squirting. so then i suggested we go to the toy store and buy a strap on so my hands are free and my strap on does stimulate me also so its not just him. now the size is quite longer than my husband, it might be 12 inches. he does take it all the way and loves it and so do i. if you want my email so we can talk further let me know. you have to be really careful how you approach your wife on this cuz it could really freak her out and she might think she is not doing for you. she will love it and if you 2 are happy itss ok to do these nasty things. keep i touch
12 inches!! you must reaaly wear him out! That is huge. The dido doesn't happen to be a black one??(ha ha)Am sure you use lots of lube. butt plug might be a good start in our case?? would love to get your email and talk further.
succs_

Greece

#25 Mar 14, 2008
i'd like to know ur emil juicygal....i want to discuss it with a woman cause it turns me on and i dont know how to say it....if u want contact me plz
juicygal wrote:
first we started with him wearing a butt plug while we were doing it. then i saw how much he was turned on so it was my idea to put a vibrator in him while i was behind it really starte turning me on more than i thought, i started squirting. so then i suggested we go to the toy store and buy a strap on so my hands are free and my strap on does stimulate me also so its not just him. now the size is quite longer than my husband, it might be 12 inches. he does take it all the way and loves it and so do i. if you want my email so we can talk further let me know. you have to be really careful how you approach your wife on this cuz it could really freak her out and she might think she is not doing for you. she will love it and if you 2 are happy itss ok to do these nasty things. keep i touch
Low Rider

Miami, FL

#26 Mar 14, 2008
juicygal wrote:
first we started with him wearing a butt plug while we were doing it. then i saw how much he was turned on so it was my idea to put a vibrator in him while i was behind it really starte turning me on more than i thought, i started squirting. so then i suggested we go to the toy store and buy a strap on so my hands are free and my strap on does stimulate me also so its not just him. now the size is quite longer than my husband, it might be 12 inches. he does take it all the way and loves it and so do i. if you want my email so we can talk further let me know. you have to be really careful how you approach your wife on this cuz it could really freak her out and she might think she is not doing for you. she will love it and if you 2 are happy itss ok to do these nasty things. keep i touch
i would like to talk as well! you have a lot of admirers!
Some call me _ Tim

Birmingham, UK

#27 Mar 14, 2008
me and the wife have got a deal: she uses a strap on on me and i get either a threesome or get to use toys to give her double penetration
scott

Cypress, TX

#31 Mar 17, 2008
I've been happily married to a woman and 100 percent monogamous for 20 years, yet I crave backdoor attention. In fact, I love getting pounded REALLY hard by a vibrator or other object. The orgasm is unlike any other!
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im-luvin-it

O Fallon, IL

#32 Mar 18, 2008
My gf and I started with her licking me a little. Then we did fingers. Then we did a vibrator. In the past few months we did buy a strap on. I love it. So many things I'd like to do with her still!
Problem is she doesn't wear it as often as I'd like...
Natasha

New York, NY

#33 Mar 18, 2008
wow...I feel intimidated to respond because I don't like all the talk about "drilling" into a partner or giving it to him rough, or being dominant to him. I hope men don't think about penetrating women like that (I guess most men probably do...). All that sounds like a script people learn from pornography--that force and domination are sexy, but to me, that seems really empty and fake and I'd like strap on to be totally different. I'd like to use a strap on with a guy, because I think it's wrong that women are forbidden to enter men's bodies. Prostate stimulation is supposed to feel good too, and I'd like it to be more about making love to a man, using the strap on to rub and caress the inside of his body, not "making him deep throat me" or violent, humiliating stuff like that:( People's sexuality seems so warped now days. I don't see it as me taking on the man's role, because men can be penetrated just as easily as women--I guess I'd like all the gender roles to just go away, to just have egalitarian sex using a strap on with a male partner (I'd have no interest in using it on a woman, or having one used on me, and to me it seems like it would ruin it if I were using the dildo inside the guy I was with, but things had to end with him fucking the woman anyway as usual--that's just more of the same...)
John

Australia

#34 Mar 18, 2008
Natasha wrote:
wow...I feel intimidated to respond because I don't like all the talk about "drilling" into a partner or giving it to him rough, or being dominant to him. I hope men don't think about penetrating women like that (I guess most men probably do...). All that sounds like a script people learn from pornography--that force and domination are sexy, but to me, that seems really empty and fake and I'd like strap on to be totally different. I'd like to use a strap on with a guy, because I think it's wrong that women are forbidden to enter men's bodies. Prostate stimulation is supposed to feel good too, and I'd like it to be more about making love to a man, using the strap on to rub and caress the inside of his body, not "making him deep throat me" or violent, humiliating stuff like that:( People's sexuality seems so warped now days. I don't see it as me taking on the man's role, because men can be penetrated just as easily as women--I guess I'd like all the gender roles to just go away, to just have egalitarian sex using a strap on with a male partner (I'd have no interest in using it on a woman, or having one used on me, and to me it seems like it would ruin it if I were using the dildo inside the guy I was with, but things had to end with him fucking the woman anyway as usual--that's just more of the same...)
Natasha, as lng as you are open to explore, I think your attitude is perfect, dont want to hurt, but, wow, how hot would that be to have a partner who is so keen, and open to do those things. I like anal play, but gentle! To me, analwith a woman is almost like one of the most specil things she can do fo me! That, and allowing me to c*m in her mouth. I think those things are so hot, and takes the sex to the next level!
versaman

Durham, NC

#35 Mar 20, 2008
delightful daisys wrote:
well since your ip is snowhill nc you must be close by want me to show you what all the talk is about?lol theres only one way to really find out and thats bend yourself over for your lady and let her do the driving.i love to do this to my guys and some have loved it and i dont date gay guys.
In Durham, NC here. Wouldn't mind possibly taking you up on that! Would love to hear about your experiences. We are thinking of trying it here. versaman@hotmail.com
Anna-Lee

Modbury, Australia

#36 Mar 20, 2008
Ive done women and men with strap-on's. i love f*****g women with it because it is very sexy to watch the girl moan and squirm. However guys is a power thing. If u f**k a guy in the ass it does give u a sense of empowerment and the guy does get off a lot faster from it
JRD

Barnesville, OH

#37 Mar 20, 2008
sounds pretty hot to me. I would guess women love it because the man is yielding power to her, and she now has the big stick so to speak.
Anna-Lee

Modbury, Australia

#38 Mar 20, 2008
yep thats it excatly. and i like to hear them scream lol
juicygal

United States

#39 Mar 20, 2008
John wrote:
<quoted text>
Natasha, as lng as you are open to explore, I think your attitude is perfect, dont want to hurt, but, wow, how hot would that be to have a partner who is so keen, and open to do those things. I like anal play, but gentle! To me, analwith a woman is almost like one of the most specil things she can do fo me! That, and allowing me to c*m in her mouth. I think those things are so hot, and takes the sex to the next level!
hey john...we are on the same page as you. It is awesome when the strap on comes out and we satisfy each other in great ways and I also like to finish my man off with swallowing his load after he has taken it up the rear. We wish more people where more open minded and not set in the old days when women werent allowed to express themselves and truley enjoy sex.

“My inner child needs spanking!”

Since: Jan 08

Independence, La

#40 Mar 20, 2008
onewithall wrote:
Im not condeming anything about a woman using one on a man,hell i might try it myself for the right woman,lol.(no im not gay and have no intentions of being so,i love female parteners way too much)What is it that women and men like so well about it ? would like the input from your sexual genders side being male or female.Thanks
Husband tells me all the time he isn't gay!
Although I doubt him sometimes when he goes on his fishing trips with his best bud.

We have a pretty interesting lifestyle in bed. Kind of creeps me out a little.
gb lover

White Plains, NY

#41 Mar 20, 2008
Cant say why I like strapon so much, but the feeling of sharing that with my wife is the greatest turnon ever. Love "normal" sex," expecially giving face, but getting a large realistic strapon from my wife is the best sex there is. Maybe once a month for many years, nothing but pure enjoyment. She is not into it as much as I am, or I would want it more often, but I'm not complaining! Thought I was weird, but the internet has shown that this practice is more widespread (sorry!) than I had imagined, with many guys only fantasizing, never having had the pleasure of trying.
Don't be afraid to ask your mate about it if you really are curious...you won't regret it. Don't waste any more time...life is short. There is nothing like the feel of your woman behind you, with her hands on your hips, pulling your upturned butt towards her until her big thing is burried deep inside you.
juicygal

United States

#42 Mar 21, 2008
gb lover wrote:
Cant say why I like strapon so much, but the feeling of sharing that with my wife is the greatest turnon ever. Love "normal" sex," expecially giving face, but getting a large realistic strapon from my wife is the best sex there is. Maybe once a month for many years, nothing but pure enjoyment. She is not into it as much as I am, or I would want it more often, but I'm not complaining! Thought I was weird, but the internet has shown that this practice is more widespread (sorry!) than I had imagined, with many guys only fantasizing, never having had the pleasure of trying.
Don't be afraid to ask your mate about it if you really are curious...you won't regret it. Don't waste any more time...life is short. There is nothing like the feel of your woman behind you, with her hands on your hips, pulling your upturned butt towards her until her big thing is burried deep inside you.
Man you are so right. Life is to short to miss out on these great pleasures. I enjoy the strap on just as much as my man does and I love to bury it deep inside him the way he likes it.
yes please

AOL

#43 Mar 22, 2008
during a casual cyber, got on the topic somehow. I can't believe how casually she offered... and how incredibly turned on I immediately felt. I am totally into doing it - eager, even, to my surprise... yeah I want it pretty bad, lol wow.

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