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CarolinaKim

AOL

#1 Dec 27, 2007
Here is the one downside to experiencing a man that has a large penis: Many bf's after him are insecure and ask questions about past lovers. A topic that they invariably inquire about is size. So, that would be the one drawback to having the experience - having to lie, lol. I have told the truth about it a couple times and that seemed to be a bad idea (yes, he was very big, yes it was very good) given in spite of fact that I was in love with the new boyfriend and enjoyed them in bed (and was satisfied and did feel "filled" up by them!) they seemed fixated on fact that someone had been where they can't go or whatever goes on in a man's head in regards to their insecurities. So, I think it is best that we as women continue to say things like "the g-spot is only two inches in", "oral is best" or whatever like the threads to related questions do. After all, it does not matter in real sense. I am more than pleased by my current, wonderfully normal sized man, he gets really erect and is very tender and attentive. He is great. He has not asked me about my past much - basically seemed content to know he was my 11 lover apparently to him, me being 31, that was an acceptable number. I am hoping he does not get specific about my second lover, the "big one" guy since if I tell the truth (that it was awesome, the size did make a difference) then he might get insecure when he should not feel so and if I lie then I will feel badly for said.

Are we on the right track women? Keep telling the men it does not matter? And I see the angle in the threads too about how if I admit it felt awesome, that the size of him was a turn on I also feel "guilty" when talking to gf's since it is like I am implying that I am loose. This is not the case, see I feel compelled to say it! But it is true, I am snug, I have been told by more than one lover that I feel noticably tight. Yet, the "big guy" was a wonderful experience that is likely best kept a secret.
Right on

AOL

#2 Dec 27, 2007
It's about time someone told it the way it was. I feel totally secure with my average 8 inches and wide girth and it always fits perfectly. My tongue is talented and I usually can give a woman a mind orgasm as well as a vaginal/clitoral orgasm. So, size doesn't matter. It's the old saying, it's not how much you have, it's how you use it.
Tracey

United States

#3 Dec 27, 2007
LOL, please remove this post Kim.

We need to keep guys insecure about their units... in addition, we can't let the guys with big units know the truth. They already have an ego about it. Remember, we as women are the "gatekeepers" - lol. Let's keep it that way. And did you ever notice just how arrogant guys with big units are? We need the truth about size to continue to be unknown... the big unit guys already seem to have an idea, thus, the way they act about their gift!!!!

Let's get back to that "it is not the size of the wave..." or whatever that one about the boat floating.

I like your honesty about what your girlfriends might think. I dated a black man once in college and that actually crossed my mind. He was not what the myth says he was with his dick. He just happened to be nice to me, funny and handsome. We dated for about six months. It crossed my mind to say to my closest girlfriends that he was not really large so they would not think I am all stretched out - lol. But I kept that to myself figuring his penis size was no one else's business. But I understand your thoughts on that point.
wisenhighmeer

AOL

#5 Dec 27, 2007
do not tell them about it... i listen to show called loveline and one of their mantras is "less history, more mystery"... it is best for a dude to keep trying to be the best he can be with you in bed, if he knows that there was someone in your past that was packing then he will initially try very hard to make up for what he is lacking by comparison but eventually give up and you do not want that... of course bigger is better but it is not the only thing and keeping this experience to yourself will keep your dude from focusing on something he can not overcome anyway
Franko

Canada

#6 Dec 27, 2007
CarolinaKim wrote:
Here is the one downside to experiencing a man that has a large penis: Many bf's after him are insecure and ask questions about past lovers. A topic that they invariably inquire about is size. So, that would be the one drawback to having the experience - having to lie, lol. I have told the truth about it a couple times and that seemed to be a bad idea (yes, he was very big, yes it was very good) given in spite of fact that I was in love with the new boyfriend and enjoyed them in bed (and was satisfied and did feel "filled" up by them!) they seemed fixated on fact that someone had been where they can't go or whatever goes on in a man's head in regards to their insecurities. So, I think it is best that we as women continue to say things like "the g-spot is only two inches in", "oral is best" or whatever like the threads to related questions do. After all, it does not matter in real sense. I am more than pleased by my current, wonderfully normal sized man, he gets really erect and is very tender and attentive. He is great. He has not asked me about my past much - basically seemed content to know he was my 11 lover apparently to him, me being 31, that was an acceptable number. I am hoping he does not get specific about my second lover, the "big one" guy since if I tell the truth (that it was awesome, the size did make a difference) then he might get insecure when he should not feel so and if I lie then I will feel badly for said.
Are we on the right track women? Keep telling the men it does not matter? And I see the angle in the threads too about how if I admit it felt awesome, that the size of him was a turn on I also feel "guilty" when talking to gf's since it is like I am implying that I am loose. This is not the case, see I feel compelled to say it! But it is true, I am snug, I have been told by more than one lover that I feel noticably tight. Yet, the "big guy" was a wonderful experience that is likely best kept a secret.
I think this is where one of those "white lies" does enter the picture as valid to use.

After 11 sexual partners I think it would be unwise to claim non of them was bigger than your BF .. he just won;t believe it.

BUt, tell him the biggest was maybe 8 inches and tell him that it ws annoying because he kept hitting bottom and it hurt (unless your current BF hits bottom and it does not), or he did not get totally hard and you like it better when a man gets really hard, or he did nto last long enough and you hardley had any orgasms with him ..... Somthing that downplays the truth, because yes, unfortunatley men can have ego related issues on this matter. YOUr BF might not ... he might be totlaly secure, but you can't tell for sure.
i dunno

Middleboro, MA

#7 Dec 27, 2007
i just never believe it when im told 'o your the biggest ive ever had' blah blah blah
Ken

United States

#8 Dec 27, 2007
My ex wife told me about a previous lover who was so big she could put both hands around it and still have some left over. She said he was too much for her then sometime later accidently let it slip that she had gone to bed with him several times.
Yuppers

AOL

#9 Jan 8, 2008
I love it Ken. At least you got the truth out of her. Most women keep their best experiences to themselves and settle for what they think they can get.
If a woman admits to liking size then she has confidence that she is worthy of it!
I had a gf, as in female friend - never slept with her probably my loss, that over a beer spoke of how size does not matter. I asked her to try it. She said she had dated a guy and got into bed with him first night that was very very large. She said she turned him down. Being just a friend she admitted she did try him the second date and was "on call" until she moved out of state. I loved her honesty.
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#10 Jan 10, 2008
CarolinaKim wrote:
Here is the one downside to experiencing a man that has a large penis: Many bf's after him are insecure and ask questions about past lovers. A topic that they invariably inquire about is size. So, that would be the one drawback to having the experience - having to lie, lol. I have told the truth about it a couple times and that seemed to be a bad idea (yes, he was very big, yes it was very good) given in spite of fact that I was in love with the new boyfriend and enjoyed them in bed (and was satisfied and did feel "filled" up by them!) they seemed fixated on fact that someone had been where they can't go or whatever goes on in a man's head in regards to their insecurities. So, I think it is best that we as women continue to say things like "the g-spot is only two inches in", "oral is best" or whatever like the threads to related questions do. After all, it does not matter in real sense. I am more than pleased by my current, wonderfully normal sized man, he gets really erect and is very tender and attentive. He is great. He has not asked me about my past much - basically seemed content to know he was my 11 lover apparently to him, me being 31, that was an acceptable number. I am hoping he does not get specific about my second lover, the "big one" guy since if I tell the truth (that it was awesome, the size did make a difference) then he might get insecure when he should not feel so and if I lie then I will feel badly for said.
Are we on the right track women? Keep telling the men it does not matter? And I see the angle in the threads too about how if I admit it felt awesome, that the size of him was a turn on I also feel "guilty" when talking to gf's since it is like I am implying that I am loose. This is not the case, see I feel compelled to say it! But it is true, I am snug, I have been told by more than one lover that I feel noticably tight. Yet, the "big guy" was a wonderful experience that is likely best kept a secret.
Well maybe a younger man would get upset about a former lover but a mature man would know unless your a virgin that he’s not your first and no matter who you are there’s always someone out there with a bigger one . When I met my girl I knew I wasn’t her first and if im not the biggest it wouldn’t bother me , im ‘’big enough’‘ and above average so im fine with that and I am very good in the sack so I have no problem with a guy being bigger than me . But that’s me and my point of view some guys are more sensitive to things like that and either they can grow out of it or you can just not answer the question . I mean if a guy meets a girl who is say 25 years old and he’s not 12'’ long he should just assume he’s not the biggest she’s ever had :)

Since: Dec 07

United States

#11 Jan 10, 2008
I wouldn't worry about it and just be glad I had you. I myself don't ask girls how big of dicks they have had in them. It's a dumb qestion.imo

Since: Dec 07

Willemstad, Netherlands Antilles

#12 Jan 11, 2008
I'm not giffted with a "SHAFT" but when I fuck my partner I can feel that a few inches more would do her very good. She told a friend of ours that was saying that girls tell him that size don't matter that that was B.S. and all woman like big dicks. My ex girlfriend on the other hand my tool use to fit nice & tightly in her and I could feel every inch sliding and slipping.
I gues maybee it's compatibility. A hooker friend I knew once told me that it has to do with how the penis is shapped and how it twists and angles, she says sometimes a customer she has never seen before or fucked before would get on her and his penis would just rub her inside on the right spot and she would climax, without wanting to.
Also one time I experienced a groep sex and the woman would all jump on the guy with the big dick.
So I guess just keep using what you have and think of all these people that can't get it up.
dysha

AOL

#13 May 4, 2008
size does matter for visual purposes only.a few more inches of dick isn't going to make or break the best sexual experience you can give her. you gotta work her the best you can. and if you dont know how then learn. if she loves you then it really does not matter,honestly.
Kanko1387

Harrison, OH

#14 Nov 5, 2009
This is something that's never bothered me. I'm comfortable enough with my size (just a shade under 7"), and have never struggled to get my fiancee off. My fiancee had over 15 partners during her freshman year in college, so the odds are pretty good that she's encountered at least one or two guys that were really hung. In fact, it's a turn on thinking about her encountering a 10-incher during her "campus slut" stage and trying to stroke it with both hands, struggling happily to fit it all in her mouth or screaming in pain and pleasure as she was fucked by it.
Ben

Lehigh Acres, FL

#15 Nov 5, 2009
CarolinaKim wrote:
Here is the one downside to experiencing a man that has a large penis: Many bf's after him are insecure and ask questions about past lovers. A topic that they invariably inquire about is size. So, that would be the one drawback to having the experience - having to lie, lol. I have told the truth about it a couple times and that seemed to be a bad idea (yes, he was very big, yes it was very good) given in spite of fact that I was in love with the new boyfriend and enjoyed them in bed (and was satisfied and did feel "filled" up by them!) they seemed fixated on fact that someone had been where they can't go or whatever goes on in a man's head in regards to their insecurities. So, I think it is best that we as women continue to say things like "the g-spot is only two inches in", "oral is best" or whatever like the threads to related questions do. After all, it does not matter in real sense. I am more than pleased by my current, wonderfully normal sized man, he gets really erect and is very tender and attentive. He is great. He has not asked me about my past much - basically seemed content to know he was my 11 lover apparently to him, me being 31, that was an acceptable number. I am hoping he does not get specific about my second lover, the "big one" guy since if I tell the truth (that it was awesome, the size did make a difference) then he might get insecure when he should not feel so and if I lie then I will feel badly for said.
Are we on the right track women? Keep telling the men it does not matter? And I see the angle in the threads too about how if I admit it felt awesome, that the size of him was a turn on I also feel "guilty" when talking to gf's since it is like I am implying that I am loose. This is not the case, see I feel compelled to say it! But it is true, I am snug, I have been told by more than one lover that I feel noticably tight. Yet, the "big guy" was a wonderful experience that is likely best kept a secret.
You've been told you're tight as a nice thing to say, like women tell men they're big. It doesn't mean it's necessarily true.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#16 Nov 5, 2009
I don't trust the OP, seemed contrived, and notice the high frequency of AOL posters.
Ashley

Charlotte, NC

#17 Nov 8, 2009
CarolinaKim wrote:
Here is the one downside to experiencing a man that has a large penis: Many bf's after him are insecure and ask questions about past lovers. A topic that they invariably inquire about is size. So, that would be the one drawback to having the experience - having to lie, lol. I have told the truth about it a couple times and that seemed to be a bad idea (yes, he was very big, yes it was very good) given in spite of fact that I was in love with the new boyfriend and enjoyed them in bed (and was satisfied and did feel "filled" up by them!) they seemed fixated on fact that someone had been where they can't go or whatever goes on in a man's head in regards to their insecurities. So, I think it is best that we as women continue to say things like "the g-spot is only two inches in", "oral is best" or whatever like the threads to related questions do. After all, it does not matter in real sense. I am more than pleased by my current, wonderfully normal sized man, he gets really erect and is very tender and attentive. He is great. He has not asked me about my past much - basically seemed content to know he was my 11 lover apparently to him, me being 31, that was an acceptable number. I am hoping he does not get specific about my second lover, the "big one" guy since if I tell the truth (that it was awesome, the size did make a difference) then he might get insecure when he should not feel so and if I lie then I will feel badly for said.
Are we on the right track women? Keep telling the men it does not matter? And I see the angle in the threads too about how if I admit it felt awesome, that the size of him was a turn on I also feel "guilty" when talking to gf's since it is like I am implying that I am loose. This is not the case, see I feel compelled to say it! But it is true, I am snug, I have been told by more than one lover that I feel noticably tight. Yet, the "big guy" was a wonderful experience that is likely best kept a secret.
LOL Im like you I cant lie and I dont its to obvious when I do but I have to admit some guys get pissed or insecure and some have gotten off LOL. Wanted to know the details of my experience.If I feel comfortable I'll tell the the details my current boyfriend gets off go figure lol.
Brian

Jefferson City, MO

#18 Nov 9, 2009
My ex wife used to like me to have talk about an ild b/f who is well hung.She wouod get rel horny when she would talk about his big hard c*ck.I have 7 inches whic she said was nicw but he has 9.5 which is big.I got her a realistic looking dildo and loved to wtch her get herself all ready for me.
Louisa DaG

Hawthorne, NJ

#19 Nov 9, 2009
Ken wrote:
My ex wife told me about a previous lover who was so big she could put both hands around it and still have some left over. She said he was too much for her then sometime later accidently let it slip that she had gone to bed with him several times.
Girls are in a hard place with you guys. We know guys are sensative so we say size is not a big deal or whatever will make you happy. Does your Ex wife have big hands? 2 hands plus a little isnt that big! Im a small girl but my 2 hands (or 8 fingers), is about 5 inches!! Very few men are "too big". Im very petite just 5'2" 105 lbs. One of my former BFs has about 7-1/2 inches and It wasnt too big for me in any position. You should just accept your size and find a nice girl who doesnt put size as top priority.
Brian

Jefferson City, MO

#20 Nov 9, 2009
Louisa DaG wrote:
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Girls are in a hard place with you guys. We know guys are sensative so we say size is not a big deal or whatever will make you happy. Does your Ex wife have big hands? 2 hands plus a little isnt that big! Im a small girl but my 2 hands (or 8 fingers), is about 5 inches!! Very few men are "too big". Im very petite just 5'2" 105 lbs. One of my former BFs has about 7-1/2 inches and It wasnt too big for me in any position. You should just accept your size and find a nice girl who doesnt put size as top priority.
My ex wife said her old b/f had a real 9.5 inches.Which she said was really nice to feel inside her.
Jake

Syracuse, NY

#21 Nov 9, 2009
Louisa DaG wrote:
<quoted text>
Girls are in a hard place with you guys. We know guys are sensative so we say size is not a big deal or whatever will make you happy. Does your Ex wife have big hands? 2 hands plus a little isnt that big! Im a small girl but my 2 hands (or 8 fingers), is about 5 inches!! Very few men are "too big". Im very petite just 5'2" 105 lbs. One of my former BFs has about 7-1/2 inches and It wasnt too big for me in any position. You should just accept your size and find a nice girl who doesnt put size as top priority.
Smiling, very well said. Like I said,, u have class. BTW, I have never asked my wife how I compared to her prior lovers. It just doesn't interest me at all. Also - I love those petite hands, nice contrast.

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