I love to have sex with other men than my husband. He is supporting of my need to explore my sexuality. I am curious how it is with the other wives who post here. Do you go out with other men for sex and does you husband give the support you need? how happy are the ones that do? I am looking forward to your responses. Husbands who want to tell how they support their wives activities, I want your stories too.

well i have had sex with a couple of wives but most of them have been white and iam a black man. it just seems that they wanted to try a black man, which was something that i enjoyed

maria, i need your coaching here in los angeles. my wife needs a friend that lets her know how OK it is to have other men. kevinshotwife@yahoo.com if you would like to say hello

Once a month I have sex with other men. Every fourth Wednesday I take my afternoon off and go for my monthly indulgence. I get every inch of my body massaged. Butt and thighs are my favorite though. I am taken to orgasm before and during intercourse. It is quite a satisfaction and relief of the tensions of daily routine. No doubt it is keeping my marriage alive!

It took us a little while to get to the point where my wife and I both realized that rules were silly. There either was trust or not. That meant we both had to be completely honest with each other. If something bothered me, I needed to say so, otherwise she would pick up on that and then be doubtful if she could trust me when I said something was OK. Now she has complete sexual freedom. I trust that she loves me and has our best interests at heart. She can do whatever she wants, including spending a weekend with a lover. This has turned her from a somewhat inhibited woman who had OK sex with me into a fantastic, hot lover who blows my mind on a regular basis. I did have to work through some jealousy, but by admitting it, we developed trust. Interestingly, I have no desire to have sex with other women, just her.

Heidi Hensley wrote:

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I would love to try you :D

Sounds like u need a big vibrator ;)

I have told my wife that I am ok with having sex with other guys but she wont go for it. I am not interested in having sex with other women but would love her to experience some new cock. She has only had three in her whole life including me. She had never given a guy a bj or had her pussy licked before me. I really feel she has missed out and I would love her to be able to go out and date other guys and develop her sexuality. I will just have to keep trying.

HappyHubby wrote:

It took us a little while to get to the point where my wife and I both realized that rules were silly. There either was trust or not. That meant we both had to be completely honest with each other. If something bothered me, I needed to say so, otherwise she would pick up on that and then be doubtful if she could trust me when I said something was OK. Now she has complete sexual freedom. I trust that she loves me and has our best interests at heart. She can do whatever she wants, including spending a weekend with a lover. This has turned her from a somewhat inhibited woman who had OK sex with me into a fantastic, hot lover who blows my mind on a regular basis. I did have to work through some jealousy, but by admitting it, we developed trust. Interestingly, I have no desire to have sex with other women, just her.

yes rules are not what makes it fun , good part is if the hotwife gets the full controll what she wants and how she wants.

Much like HappyHubby my wife has the freedom. The important thing for us is that she is home for our children. So during school hours she has her free time to do with as she pleases. Only a few times has she had the luxury to taking a weekend with her lover, as we can only accomplish this when the kids goto the grandparent's for the weekend, but she is eager to be able to do more weekends in the future.

Question for HappyBubby, She went from having OK sex with you to a fantastic hot lover who blows your mind. Doesn't exactly tell us what she thinks about how sex with you has changed FOR HER.

Heidi, is it soley a frequency issue for you, or are you looking for something different then hubby in those extra experiences? If hubby was willing to do it 3 times a day, would you, or would you do it once a day with him and twice a day with other guys because of differences?

My wife has been shared since the day we met. She rarely say no to a hard c@ck weather I am there to watch or not.