If the person still has their "equipment" (many people prefer to live this way. I know because I lived with a person and was engaged to a person like this, and also also dated many), then I would say they are gay. I'm gay and know this from personal sexual experience. And I LOVE semi-transgendered people.Hi everyone, i'm a female currently engaged to a man. I just recently discovered that he was talking to people on a transsexual dating site. I have nothing against transsexuals, for one, one of my very good friends is a transsexual. But I am completely shocked and dont know how to go about asking him about it. I'm lost. and heart broken. please someone give me some advice. does this mean hes gay? or bi-sexual?
Hope this helps.