aussieboi

Australia

#22 Nov 26, 2008
Hey tomeka, forgot 2 ask do you kno of any sites I can check? out as I hav a lot of questions to ask I really want to meet somone special like you......nd how should I aproche the matter of sexual contact with a tranny do I jus say stuff that chicks have said to me like 'hey wanna heady' or ill pull you off till you sack splats lol...?idk I guess im 'gay' but I dnt consider myself like that I don't look at other men, im not aroused by other men'yes I hav tried'but remaind flacid but the thoght of a tranny 'heaven' in my opinion I think theres 2 reasons y straight men like trannys...(1)some guys like me -im 20 btw- hav a fasination with dicks!!! notice how we always touch them whilst in the middle of a convo , But (2) don't want to be seen as being gay by there peers so most men would then fantasise about a tranny,

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#23 Nov 26, 2008
Tomeka wrote:
Hi I am Tomeka. I am a transexual, which some of you already know. Personally I feel that if a man likes a transexual does not make him gay. But I do not want to steal the thunder from these two videos made by a transeuxal friend of mine explaining this perfectly as she always do.
www.youtube.com/watch...
www.youtube.com/watch...
This is a more complex question than I tink most people would think. I think, part of it at least depends on if you still have a penis and testicles. If you can be more specific, I think I can give you my answer from personal experience from living with someone for many years who was like that.

PEACE !

:)
aussieboi

Australia

#24 Nov 26, 2008
Nd don't kno why it says that I live in the states coz I don't I live in (nsw) newcastle check it out on google earth maps see wot you missing out on... or don't your call itd take 5 mins

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#25 Nov 26, 2008
aussieboi wrote:
Nd don't kno why it says that I live in the states coz I don't I live in (nsw) newcastle check it out on google earth maps see wot you missing out on... or don't your call itd take 5 mins
It's a shame they don't speak or teach English there.

:(
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#26 Nov 26, 2008
It depends if the woman/man is transgender 100% of not. If not 100%, then your not straight sexually. Even if 100% transgender, your not 100% straight. Maybe 70-80%, but not 100.

P.S. Most people are said to be bi-sexual anyway, so dont worry. Your perfectly normal and healthy and theres little to worry about. Love yourself and live life to the fullest.
aussieboi

Australia

#27 Nov 26, 2008
Thank you flyboy for your imput wen its get said like that I spose I have a choice of wot I want to call myself n trust me my life gets lived to the fullest..!!everyday except sundays...some days its good to chill out n watch the world go by.....

(daneil p from long island) get a life if your only on here to bag out ppl for their spelling and gammar......do you hav n opinion for my question or not??

P.s. So if im not gay,nor completly straight , because I think about dicks a lot just not on a man tho, I want to kno is there any one out there with both?? Because I think that would b a real turn-on rooting doggie-style n wanking them off too at the same time..!!!!! Do I need help???n y do I sometimes wish that I had a vagina for for a day? I dnt want a sex changed tho ever....

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#28 Nov 26, 2008
mussie600 wrote:
yep yep
tomeka would it be to much to ask if u have aim,msn, or yahoo
i would like to keep talkin to u
Actualy I just got my computer, so I have not set anything up as of yet. The only thing I did was set up my e-mails. One through a private account with the Washington Redskins, and the other was through Verizon. But I would love to continue talking with you.

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#29 Nov 26, 2008
Missy C_Lady wrote:
<quoted text>
Are you a transexual? If you are, you are beautiful! Put a lot of us regular women to shame!:)
Yes I am a transexual, and thanks for the compliment. At times I am self conscious, and worry about how I look. I just hope that I can blend in.
Join Free

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#30 Nov 26, 2008
aussieboi wrote:
Hey tomeka, forgot 2 ask do you kno of any sites I can check? out as I hav a lot of questions to ask I really want to meet somone special like you......nd how should I aproche the matter of sexual contact with a tranny do I jus say stuff that chicks have said to me like 'hey wanna heady' or ill pull you off till you sack splats lol...?idk I guess im 'gay' but I dnt consider myself like that I don't look at other men, im not aroused by other men'yes I hav tried'but remaind flacid but the thoght of a tranny 'heaven' in my opinion I think theres 2 reasons y straight men like trannys...(1)some guys like me -im 20 btw- hav a fasination with dicks!!! notice how we always touch them whilst in the middle of a convo , But (2) don't want to be seen as being gay by there peers so most men would then fantasise about a tranny,
Yeah that is why it is not as simple as liking to see a human with a dick and then saying.....oh I must be gay. It is deeper than that. I feel that as long as you are attracted to the female form, then a man is straight. When you are attracted to the masculine form, such as Mike Tyson, or Michael Jordon, then you are gay, or in the very least bi-sexual. But that is just my opinion.

Oh and here is a site on topix where you can converse with many trannys. Some of them prefer the term transgendered. I am not anal when it comes to terms and terminologies. But some can give you a rough way to go about that.

Personally I feel that a transexual should not bite a guy's head off, if he does not call you by the righ term. Many are just getting to know us, let alone know everything about us. But some girls just don't get it.

Anway, you can start with this site. I have more, but the other forums have some crazy rules, and can become frustrationg if you are looking to date.

www.topix.com/forum/news/transgendered

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#31 Nov 26, 2008
Daniel P from Long Island wrote:
<quoted text>
This is a more complex question than I tink most people would think. I think, part of it at least depends on if you still have a penis and testicles. If you can be more specific, I think I can give you my answer from personal experience from living with someone for many years who was like that.
PEACE !
:)
This question is based upon if a tranny still have a penis and testicles.

Also it could be based on the tranny having the female organs after her surgery.

If you like, you can answer both questions. I like to see how you think in relation to both.
Brian V

Fort Worth, TX

#32 Nov 27, 2008
Tomeka,
You are a beauty and I consider myself straight.
This thread caught my eye because I recently discovered TGirls. Wow they are so hot. You and this beautiful T in the youtube video are my type. I imagine making out with one of you… kissing you like I would kiss a normal woman, but when I discover the cock I sneak a suck and it is my secret.
All in all I have never been with or desire a man, but I would suck a beautiful TGirl. Not F*** mind you, but just suck away.
I am glad I finally admitted this too.

Since: Oct 08

Kent, WA

#33 Nov 27, 2008
sell tomeka if u really want to keep talking email me at Sumay600@aol.com

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#34 Nov 27, 2008
Brian V wrote:
Tomeka,
You are a beauty and I consider myself straight.
This thread caught my eye because I recently discovered TGirls. Wow they are so hot. You and this beautiful T in the youtube video are my type. I imagine making out with one of you… kissing you like I would kiss a normal woman, but when I discover the cock I sneak a suck and it is my secret.
All in all I have never been with or desire a man, but I would suck a beautiful TGirl. Not F*** mind you, but just suck away.
I am glad I finally admitted this too.
Thanks

I love your honesty. Basicaly you sound like a straight man who like transexuals. Oh and there is nothing wrong with sneeking in a suck, here and there. It just adds to the thrill.

Hey I'm glad that I was the first you told this too.

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#35 Nov 27, 2008
mussie600 wrote:
sell tomeka if u really want to keep talking email me at Sumay600@aol.com
Is the "S" in Sumay typed in caps for your e-mail?

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#36 Nov 27, 2008
Tomeka wrote:
<quoted text>This question is based upon if a tranny still have a penis and testicles.
Also it could be based on the tranny having the female organs after her surgery.
If you like, you can answer both questions. I like to see how you think in relation to both.
well, I identify as 100% gay and have been out for about 30 years. I came out when I was i college in Huntington, West Virginia. I did not know at the time that Huntington was known as "Drag City, USA". LOTS of drag queens there. VERY beautiful too. So I date a lot of drag queens when I was in college.

I am attracted to people who are semi-transgendered (still having a penis and testicles), but I am not would not get involved with someone who does not have all of their "equipment", because I am gay.

While I am attracted to dq's and stg's, that is not exclusive. But I do prefer guys who are "pretty" and fem much more so that someone who is real butch.

Does that answer make sense to you ?

PEACE !

:)
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#37 Nov 27, 2008
aussieboi wrote:
Thank you flyboy for your imput wen its get said like that I spose I have a choice of wot I want to call myself n trust me my life gets lived to the fullest..!!everyday except sundays...some days its good to chill out n watch the world go by.....
(daneil p from long island) get a life if your only on here to bag out ppl for their spelling and gammar......do you hav n opinion for my question or not??
P.s. So if im not gay,nor completly straight , because I think about dicks a lot just not on a man tho, I want to kno is there any one out there with both?? Because I think that would b a real turn-on rooting doggie-style n wanking them off too at the same time..!!!!! Do I need help???n y do I sometimes wish that I had a vagina for for a day? I dnt want a sex changed tho ever....
No, you dont need help. Your just a guy with a really high libido. Its perfeclty OK. Like I said, i would consider you sexually ambiguous. Not totally straight and not totally gay.

P.S. There are people like that; they are called she-males. Oh, and all I hvae to say in ending is:

THE REAL THING IS BETTER THAN ANY SUBSITUTE. Thats all I got to say.

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#38 Nov 27, 2008
Daniel P from Long Island wrote:
<quoted text>
well, I identify as 100% gay and have been out for about 30 years. I came out when I was i college in Huntington, West Virginia. I did not know at the time that Huntington was known as "Drag City, USA". LOTS of drag queens there. VERY beautiful too. So I date a lot of drag queens when I was in college.
I am attracted to people who are semi-transgendered (still having a penis and testicles), but I am not would not get involved with someone who does not have all of their "equipment", because I am gay.
While I am attracted to dq's and stg's, that is not exclusive. But I do prefer guys who are "pretty" and fem much more so that someone who is real butch.
Does that answer make sense to you ?
PEACE !
:)
Hi Daniel, thanks for your answer. Yes it does make perfect sense to me, becuase that pertains to you. I have learned in my life, that there is so much diversity when it comes to transexual attraction. However I will say(from a transexuals point of view) that gay men who admire us, are extremely rare. That is why I do not put people in nice little neat boxes, becuase that never works.

So anyway, do you still love t-girls, and are you in a relationship with one?

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#39 Nov 27, 2008
flyboy wrote:
<quoted text>
No, you dont need help. Your just a guy with a really high libido. Its perfeclty OK. Like I said, i would consider you sexually ambiguous. Not totally straight and not totally gay.
P.S. There are people like that; they are called she-males. Oh, and all I hvae to say in ending is:
THE REAL THING IS BETTER THAN ANY SUBSITUTE. Thats all I got to say.
Also I am glad that you brought that up. I say that, because alot of t-girls hate the term she-males. They say that it is from the porn industry. However I am not so up tight about the term she-male, and I know plenty of my friends who identitfy as being she-males.

Your definition of she-male was 100% accurate. I could not of said it better myself. You see a she-male is a t-girl who is a lady, but at the same time can go outside and play flag football with you as well. A she-male can look just as feminine as any other t-girl. It is their behavior and outlook on life that is different.

I see that you know what you are talking about. Have you dated any t-girls before?
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#40 Nov 27, 2008
Tomeka wrote:
<quoted text>Hi Daniel, thanks for your answer. Yes it does make perfect sense to me, becuase that pertains to you. I have learned in my life, that there is so much diversity when it comes to transexual attraction. However I will say(from a transexuals point of view) that gay men who admire us, are extremely rare. That is why I do not put people in nice little neat boxes, becuase that never works.
So anyway, do you still love t-girls, and are you in a relationship with one?
I love you guys. Your so fierce and really tough and keep it real. I KNOW a t-guy and as a gay man I think he is REALLY hot. And he identifies as BI too! But, alas, he has a boyfriend. But yeah, people are people and hot people are hot people. And transgendered girls and boys can def keep it hot.

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#41 Nov 27, 2008
Tomeka wrote:
<quoted text>Hi Daniel, thanks for your answer. Yes it does make perfect sense to me, becuase that pertains to you. I have learned in my life, that there is so much diversity when it comes to transexual attraction. However I will say(from a transexuals point of view) that gay men who admire us, are extremely rare. That is why I do not put people in nice little neat boxes, becuase that never works.
So anyway, do you still love t-girls, and are you in a relationship with one?
Yes, I still love T-girls, and no, I am not presently in a relationship.

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