Appropriate Punishment For Masturbating

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mom_34

Hubbard, OR

#1 Jul 1, 2011
When I was a young teen my mother walked in on me once when I was masturbating, and my God you'd have thought she witnessed a murder! She completely freaked out and ran and told my father what I was doing. They were both very old-fashioned uptight and strict, and as punishment that night they took my pants off stripping my bottom half naked and with my father holding my legs wide apart so strong I could not fight him my mother began an open hand spanking between my legs. That was where I had committed the crime, that was where the punishment should be, she said. She did not stop until the area was red and inflamed and I was crying openly and saying how sorry I was and said I would never do it again. They stood and watched as I pulled my pants back on, and then forbid me to touch myself there ever again. It was three or four years before I could get any pleasure from masturbation again, and even to this day I remember it when my husband is pleasuring me there except now it excites me. Is this unusual, does anybody else think punishing for pleasuring themselves is appropriate? I know my two children (a boy and a girl) do that but I will never stop them because I think it's normal and natural and okay to do. Am I failing them by not stopping them?
17 Year Old Blonde Female

Canton, OH

#2 Jul 1, 2011
NO Dont stop your kids. let them masterbait. Its very natural. I do it 3 times a day myself. Your Parents were wrong. Im so sorry you had to go through that hun. its like they were raised during the Salem with trials. you know when we used God as a reason to make others suffer. Every one masterbaits, its good for you. please let your kids grow up normal.
kenton

Riverside, CA

#3 Jul 1, 2011
17 Year Old Blonde Female wrote:
NO Dont stop your kids. let them masterbait. Its very natural. I do it 3 times a day myself. Your Parents were wrong. Im so sorry you had to go through that hun. its like they were raised during the Salem with trials. you know when we used God as a reason to make others suffer. Every one masterbaits, its good for you. please let your kids grow up normal.


Ur totally right.
Ps 3 times a day niiice :) good 4u :)
17 Year Old Blonde Female

Canton, OH

#4 Jul 1, 2011
thank you sweety
kenton

Riverside, CA

#5 Jul 1, 2011
17 Year Old Blonde Female wrote:
thank you sweety
Your welcome :)

Since: Jul 11

Mount Morris, MI

#6 Jul 1, 2011
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Since: Feb 11

Mount Laurel, NJ

#7 Jul 1, 2011
17 Year Old Blonde Female wrote:
thank you sweety
Blonde is right there is no reason to punish a child, everyone has these urges because they are natural

also blonde that's hot lol
kenton

Riverside, CA

#8 Jul 1, 2011
ArmyShawn wrote:
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Blonde is right there is no reason to punish a child, everyone has these urges because they are natural
also blonde that's hot lol
Amen
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Oldtimer

Charleston, WV

#9 Jul 2, 2011
Mom_34, you are an only child, I presume!
thor

Peru

#10 Jul 2, 2011
brownbear19 wrote:
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had as a rock? then get laid; lose your virginity.
zachary utakushima

San Antonio, TX

#12 May 18, 2012
i,ll do it for yah buddy
tim

United States

#13 Dec 8, 2012
When I was 13 my mom walked in on me masturbating once and freaked out. She was very old fashioned, and belived that masturbation was wrong and only "losers did it". She made me take my clothes off and lay across her lap while she spanked me with a hairbrush. She then made me stand up and said u want to play with that tiny little thing so bad go a head. I was allready crying from the spanking, but when she made me touch myself I started bawling like a baby. I rubbed it for a few minutes but could barley get hard let alone cum. She kinda chuckled and said what doesn't it work? Stop crying, you're acting like a little girl. She then grabbed my penis and balls and jerked me off. The whole time I really was crying like a girl. I was begging her to stop. When I came I felt so humiliated. She just laughed and said "aww did mummies little girl wet?" It took a while for me to masturbate after that. I didn't even get an erection for about a yr afterwards. Nowadays I do sometimes masturbate but sometimes I tear up while I do it.

Since: Oct 12

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#14 Dec 8, 2012
yea see masturbation is natural and in those that can't or shouldn't be having sex it can be a way to relieve stress. now as for punishment I would say only if it was like they start trying to use something that wasn't safe to use or healthy to use. but don't beat them especially in the area. might give them weird kinky fantasys or scar them. talking it out would be better. but good luck... with that...
John

Concord, NC

#15 Dec 8, 2012
My grandma caught me when I was 13, she was not upset at all. She did laugh a bit cause I was doing it wrong way, she showed me better way, I'm now 24 she gives me hand jobs.
polly

London, UK

#16 Feb 26, 2013
wat a guy
jonny

London, UK

#17 Feb 26, 2013
any girls wana leave me their mobile number . im a 15year old in yr 11
jhon

Sri Lanka

#18 Mar 14, 2013
that's very good of you
maria

Lima, Peru

#19 Mar 14, 2013
a good spanking is the correct antidote for masturbation:bare butt spanking with a lexan paddle with holes:buuts get red and boy cant sit nor lay on them,he has to sleep sidewise!
Irish man

Ireland

#20 Apr 25, 2013
I'm a 19 year old male and today my uncle caught me masturbating in the shower. He gave me 40 whacks with this heavy leather strap he has. My butt was throbbing and I cried a bit. He hasn't used that thing on me in over two years.That was three hours ago and I still can't sit comfortably.
dannyboy1264

Australia

#21 Apr 25, 2013
Correct punishments is let them climax if they do something wrong with it that needs punishment then i suggest time out an talking

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