WHAT's the longest a man can stay erect during Intercourse?

Created by franko on Nov 22, 2011

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“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#1 Nov 22, 2011
There seems to be some debate as to how long a man can maintain an erection during intercourse.

For the purposes of this survey, the conditions are that the man stays erect and hard enough to stay inside the vagina for the full duration. So it has to be a quality erection, not semi-limp for any time.

The goal here is to have intercourse for the longest time possible, so this is not about going hard and fast, which shortens the time to orgasm considerably. This is about taking your time and doing only enough to maintain the erection without coming.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#2 Nov 22, 2011
By the way, both men and women can reply. Honesty is desirable, exageration is not allowed. Also, this should be based on personal, first hand knowledge, not based on what anyone claimed, but on what has actually been achieved by yourself (as a male) or if you are a woman, one of your male partners.

“Bring Back the Bush!”

Since: Jul 10

Ventura

#3 Nov 22, 2011
What about in a situation where a man cums but continues without losing his erection?

My personal experiences, not counting what I've asked above, involve me remaining erect in consistent intercourse for a period of approximately 3 1/2 hours. I'm still surprised to this day. It has only happened once and I have never attempted a repeat. Even those occasions where I have climaxed twice or more haven't lasted more than 75 minutes that I can recall.
Jeff

Greensboro, NC

#4 Nov 22, 2011
The longest I've gone is about 3 1/2 hours. This was limited due to time constraints. My wife and I normally go for about an hour at a time, often 2 hours.

If there were no time constraints and if neither gets sore, I could probably go 4-5 hours.
Joe

Washington, DC

#5 Nov 22, 2011
Depends on age.....several hours at age 20.
At age 50 maybe less but it depends on how hot the girl is. Keep bringing in new young beautiful girls and I could go days I'm sure.
Been Around The Block

Columbus, GA

#6 Nov 22, 2011
My ex husband was pretty consistent at about 10 minutes with one exception. For some reason he could wake up from a sound sleep, roll over on me and go for 30 minutes or more. I never could figure out why there was such a difference but I didn't complain.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#7 Nov 22, 2011
Its Tim wrote:
What about in a situation where a man cums but continues without losing his erection?
My personal experiences, not counting what I've asked above, involve me remaining erect in consistent intercourse for a period of approximately 3 1/2 hours. I'm still surprised to this day. It has only happened once and I have never attempted a repeat. Even those occasions where I have climaxed twice or more haven't lasted more than 75 minutes that I can recall.
if you tried , what is the longest you think you can stay erect on purpose on a regular basis while inside the woman?

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#8 Nov 22, 2011
Been Around The Block wrote:
My ex husband was pretty consistent at about 10 minutes with one exception. For some reason he could wake up from a sound sleep, roll over on me and go for 30 minutes or more. I never could figure out why there was such a difference but I didn't complain.
Men often have nocturnal erections or wake up with a woody ... our testosterone actually builds up as we sleep, so that is why men are more honey when they wake up in the morning ... I used to do the same with some of my GF's
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“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#9 Nov 22, 2011
I'm hoping to get a "reality check" from more of the female posters ... LOL!!!
jolene

Denton, TX

#10 Nov 22, 2011
A very interesting survey, Franko.

Based, on my personal experience with several partners, the time from penis insertion to ejaculation and softening is about 5 to 15 minutes, with and average time being 10 minutes. There have been a couple of times that a man has lasted close to 30 minutes, but in my experience that is very rare, nor would I care for it lasting any longer!

It will not surprise me that because of the male ego which will not let a guy be truly honest and most often leads to exaggeration that the majority of answers will be in the longer durations you have mentioned as most guys will include the whole session including foreplay and any after-play and not just the time of actual vaginal intercourse, which many will exaggerate that as well. Any women who reply will most likely report shorter times than the men will.
jolene

Denton, TX

#11 Nov 22, 2011
Jeff wrote:
The longest I've gone is about 3 1/2 hours. This was limited due to time constraints. My wife and I normally go for about an hour at a time, often 2 hours.
If there were no time constraints and if neither gets sore, I could probably go 4-5 hours.
Jeff, I call BS on your exaggerated statements. If you think you can last for up to 4 to 5 hours then you need to see a Doctor immediately as this indicates a serious medical problem and needs treatment. If a man's erection lasts for more than four hours (on average) this is a medical problem called priapism An erection lasting that long becomes extremly painful, and is a medical emergency because the blood stuck in the penis can become thick and form clots. This can damage the blood vessels of the penis and lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). In serious cases the tissues of the penis can die, and the penis may have to be amputated so that the tissue death does not spread to the rest of the body. This is the reason for all the medical warnings from the manufactures of drugs such as Viagra.

Since: Apr 10

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#12 Nov 22, 2011
The duration of my erections are related to my desire to please my partner.
> Which means I must exercise some degree of control. Sorry buddy but this is as
> definitive as I dare to be here, I'm sure you understand...However written
> testimonials are available on request...

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#13 Nov 22, 2011
jolene wrote:
A very interesting survey, Franko.
Based, on my personal experience with several partners, the time from penis insertion to ejaculation and softening is about 5 to 15 minutes, with and average time being 10 minutes. There have been a couple of times that a man has lasted close to 30 minutes, but in my experience that is very rare, nor would I care for it lasting any longer!
It will not surprise me that because of the male ego which will not let a guy be truly honest and most often leads to exaggeration that the majority of answers will be in the longer durations you have mentioned as most guys will include the whole session including foreplay and any after-play and not just the time of actual vaginal intercourse, which many will exaggerate that as well. Any women who reply will most likely report shorter times than the men will.
I'm not sure how many men do this, but I have actually looked at the clock and timed myself .. without her knowing ...

For me, anything under 15 minutes qualifies as a quickie ..

WHen I READ THE Hite report when I was 19, it became apparent to me that men not lasting long enough was a common complaint by women. Not long after I met my first love ... and she had tremendous orgasms from mutual masturbation and oral sex .. but she could not orgasm from intercourse, although she enjoyed it tremendously. I practised keeping myself hard as possible while going fast as possible .. she often came very close to orgasm and it often took over 20 minutes and sometimes more than 30 minutes. I finally learned the simple technique of stimulating her clit during intercourse and voila .. she came in ten to 15 minutes ....

WIth subsequent experiences I learned that some women like a long slow screw, alternating times of higher activity with slow periods, and staying hard inside her for much longer than 30 minutes , sometimes giving her 2 or 3 orgasms every 10 minutes or so ..... not all women like this but some do ... over an hour is uncommon but not impossible.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#14 Nov 22, 2011
Doug77 wrote:
The duration of my erections are related to my desire to please my partner.
> Which means I must exercise some degree of control. Sorry buddy but this is as
> definitive as I dare to be here, I'm sure you understand...However written
> testimonials are available on request...
As long as you gave the answer in the anonymous poll ...

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#15 Nov 22, 2011
So far over 50% are claiming they can last over 75 minutes ...

SO are the male posters really being honest??? Are they counting the time from penetration to the time they lose their erection during continuous intercourse, and not counting the foreplay? If they lose erection and stop and then regain erection 10 minutes later, that becomes a second session, it is not one continuous erection ....

Since: Sep 11

MN

#16 Nov 22, 2011
My record is six hours. After she couldn't take it anymore we did anal.
jolene

Denton, TX

#17 Nov 22, 2011
Franko, I see your troll is giving you a lot of unfair negative judgments working overtime to out do the positive judgments you had before. Some people are just truly ridiculously mean and nasty and need to get a life!
jolene

Denton, TX

#19 Nov 22, 2011
Mbis11 wrote:
My record is six hours. After she couldn't take it anymore we did anal.
Six hours with a continuous erection? ROFL... wow, what an exaggeration! At six hours the last thing on your mind would be having sex of any kind as you would have found yourself in an ER in excruciating pain as the tissues of your penis were dying and you most likely would never get an erection again provided they did not have to amputate it!

head/desk
jolene

Denton, TX

#21 Nov 22, 2011
franko wrote:
So far over 50% are claiming they can last over 75 minutes ...
SO are the male posters really being honest??? Are they counting the time from penetration to the time they lose their erection during continuous intercourse, and not counting the foreplay? If they lose erection and stop and then regain erection 10 minutes later, that becomes a second session, it is not one continuous erection ....
No, the men are not being honest and at this point 19 have stated 75 mins or more; male ego is truly showing here and these guys are exaggerating. If you were to get an honest answer from their partners the times would be a lot less! My academic studies have shown that the research into this topic is a lot less than most men will admit!

Since: Nov 11

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#22 Nov 22, 2011
i was erect for 5 hours one time, no pills

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