Ladies or Men...briefs or boxers...Pl...

Ladies or Men...briefs or boxers...Please help me settle an argument.

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Since: Mar 12

Leicester, UK

#1 May 16, 2012
Ladies what do you prefer to see men in Briefs,Pants or Boxer shorts?

My wife says im old fashioned wearing pants,i say im not....
Can you settle the argument for us...

Men .what do you prefer to wear?
achyfi

Dedham, MA

#2 May 17, 2012
Nobody on our side of the pond has any idea what you mean by "pants". To us, "pants" are trousers.

My advice is to wear whatever kind of underwear your wife wants you to wear. It doesn't matter what the rest of us think, we are not the ones you're going to be sleeping with for the rest of your life.

Since: Mar 12

Leicester, UK

#3 May 17, 2012
achyfi wrote:
Nobody on our side of the pond has any idea what you mean by "pants". To us, "pants" are trousers.
My advice is to wear whatever kind of underwear your wife wants you to wear. It doesn't matter what the rest of us think, we are not the ones you're going to be sleeping with for the rest of your life.
.
Argh Yes i forgot you think pants are trousers.
Thats the point i want to wear what i want not what my mrs wants...lol....i just dont like to think that im old fashioned.
Carpe Diem

Las Vegas, NV

#4 May 17, 2012
I grasp that you are using the word pants to refer not to trousers, but to some sort of an undergarment. But like Achyfi I'm confused about how that might be a third choice differing somehow from both boxers AND briefs. I'm guessing possibly what we call "tighty-whiteys" (?).

In any event, I wear both boxers and briefs (but not tighty-whiteys). My wife has actually used the word "sexy" when I wear my black briefs, but she also keeps buying me boxers.
Carpe Diem

Las Vegas, NV

#5 May 17, 2012
cunny wrote:
<quoted text>.
i want to wear what i want not what my mrs wants...lol....i just dont like to think that im old fashioned.
I think you should wear whatever SHE likes. At least if you want to have any say in what kind of undies she wears.
Allyson

New York, NY

#6 May 17, 2012
Too be honest I like different kinds on different guys. If a guy is very fit, I love the look of briefs the show off his muscular thighs and abs, and if I can see the outline of his stuff, even better. Calvins are the best. If he's stockier, then boxers or boxer briefs. I did have a bf once that only wore briefs, because he said he hated the lack of "support" for his testicles. They were ridiculously low hangers though, so I guess I got his point.
Objective

Selma, AL

#7 May 17, 2012
Women tend to prefer the look of boxer briefs on guys. Tighie whities (briefs) tend to be the least favorite. If a guy has low hanging balls or an above average long flaccid (soft) penis then boxers are not going to work so well as there is no control. Briefs (tight whities) work good for controlling low hanging balls but they crunch up a long flaccid penis. I don't have low hanging balls, I have a longish flaccid penis and boxer briefs work best for me, control without the wadding upward crunch.
Objective

Selma, AL

#8 May 17, 2012
Allyson wrote:
Too be honest I like different kinds on different guys. If a guy is very fit, I love the look of briefs the show off his muscular thighs and abs, and if I can see the outline of his stuff, even better. Calvins are the best. If he's stockier, then boxers or boxer briefs. I did have a bf once that only wore briefs, because he said he hated the lack of "support" for his testicles. They were ridiculously low hangers though, so I guess I got his point.
He must not have had much (flaccid) penis length.
Allyson

New York, NY

#9 May 17, 2012
Objective wrote:
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He must not have had much (flaccid) penis length.
Cant say I ever measured it,(it wouldnt have stayed flaccid long enough for me to pull out the tape measure, I'm sure!) But I would say it was pretty good length. Maybe 4"? Off the subject, but I love watching them go from flaccid to erect, and from erect to flaccid. Amazing guys those penises!

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Since: Feb 12

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#10 May 17, 2012
cunny wrote:
Ladies what do you prefer to see men in Briefs,Pants or Boxer shorts?

My wife says im old fashioned wearing pants,i say im not....
Can you settle the argument for us...

Men .what do you prefer to wear?
my preference is to go commando. Can't remember theist time I wore underwear

“16 is NOT my age. ”

Since: Mar 11

KC MO

#11 May 17, 2012
Boxer briefs or briefs.
Objective

Selma, AL

#12 May 17, 2012
Allyson wrote:
<quoted text>
Cant say I ever measured it,(it wouldnt have stayed flaccid long enough for me to pull out the tape measure, I'm sure!) But I would say it was pretty good length. Maybe 4"? Off the subject, but I love watching them go from flaccid to erect, and from erect to flaccid. Amazing guys those penises!
4" flaccid is on the high side of average for a white guy, but not so long that it can't be worn comfortably enough in briefs. I hang 5.5" flaccid and boxer briefs do better. Can't wear boxers and expecially can't go commando, is too indecent in public. I'd like to go commando but that requires a much shorter flaccid.
Allyson

New York, NY

#13 May 17, 2012
Objective wrote:
<quoted text>
4" flaccid is on the high side of average for a white guy, but not so long that it can't be worn comfortably enough in briefs. I hang 5.5" flaccid and boxer briefs do better. Can't wear boxers and expecially can't go commando, is too indecent in public. I'd like to go commando but that requires a much shorter flaccid.
How big are you erect? Had a boyfriend for a while that was probably that size, but erect he was only about 7.5 or 8" i guess.
always liked the way he peed without having to hold it.
One thing I like about boxers is being to slide a hand in the front opening and fish around for the fella.
Objective

Selma, AL

#14 May 17, 2012
Allyson wrote:
<quoted text>
How big are you erect? Had a boyfriend for a while that was probably that size, but erect he was only about 7.5 or 8" i guess.
always liked the way he peed without having to hold it.
One thing I like about boxers is being to slide a hand in the front opening and fish around for the fella.
"Only" 7.5" to 8? That's a 3 to 3.5" increase. That's more of an increase than there tends to be, the typical increase being about 2.5". Long flaccids in general tend to grow about 1.5 to 2" of an increase, the short flaccids in general tend to grow about 3" to 3.5" of an increase. I say in general because there are plenty of exceptions, these typical increases don't apply to everyone. The chances were he would grow to be about 7 to 7.5 (5.5" plus 1.5 to 2"), so he beat the odds. Long flaccids do tend to be longer when erect than smaller flaccids or everage flaccids tend to be upon erection, but there is some catching up that occurs. In my case I I only grow about 1", making mine 6.5" when erect. However, I'm about 25 pounds overweight and if I were to lose that 25 pounds I'd probably gain back at least 1.4" in length, making it 6.75" at least. Weight adds pubic fatpad which hides the penis at the base. That would still only be a 1" inch gain though, as my flaccid length would also increase by 1/4".
Objective

Selma, AL

#15 May 17, 2012
typos

everage - average

1.4" = 1/4"
Objective

Selma, AL

#16 May 17, 2012
My bad, tired tonight and just now dawned on me that 7.5 to 8 was a 2 to 2.5 increase for your ex bf. That still just about the norm for an increase, perhaps just a bit below, so he was doing good to have that much increase when 5.5 tends to grow more like 1.5 to 2.
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