How to get wife to go nude in public

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“Be kind to one another.”

Since: Jul 11

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#1 Jul 19, 2011
I'm 41 and my wife is 46. I like to be naked all the time and in front of other people. My wife is a bbw and does not like to have people see her naked. How do I get her to open up?
MelissaB34

Hubbard, OR

#2 Jul 19, 2011
My husband took me to a local nudist beach at the river near our home, we spread a blanket on the beach among all the other people there that afternoon, and then he casually stripped all his clothes off, I said I wasn't going to do that but he made me. He said I wasn't going to embarrass him here in front of everyone by keeping my clothes on, and he began to undress me by helping me off with my shirt and bra. He held my hands down to my sides so I couldn't cover myself, then dropping to his knees slicked my shorts down to my ankles and told me to step out of them – and just like that I was naked in front of everyone! He took me by the hand and we started going for a walk, we never got far away from our blanket and our stuff but we stopped and talked to a few men who were reclining in the sun and we met several married couples that were really nice. It turns out that most everybody you meet on a nude beach or nude area is just fantastic people! Very friendly, and ready to help you discover the fun of the nudism way of life. Now I'm hooked on it and go naked whenever I can so if your wife doesn't want to do it,just push the issue and once that happened she will thank you for it!
Naturist_but new to it

UK

#3 Jul 22, 2011
I took my wife to a naturist beach in Spain 2 years ago. She made out it was just to humour me, but she got undressed quicker than I did!! Since then we've been to 2 different naturist reorts in Spain and she's totally relaxed in a group of people. My wife is slim, but there are loads of larger people and to be fair, no one gives a shit. You'll find that proper naturists really don't care what shape, size, colour or race you are. I've seen women with one or both breasts removed happily relaxing around women with "the perfect figure". We are all just people!
She wont do it

Uttoxeter, UK

#4 Oct 5, 2012
As with Jim 88888 I have tried to get my wife to be naked on a beach where nobody knows her.
i did get her to a beach in fuerterventura some years ago, but now she is very wary of any new beaches on the island.
As with Jim88888's wife, my wife is also BBW and I have told her that nobody gives a damm about how you look.
She said she might go topless and i suppose that is a step in he right direction. By the way my wife if 59 and I am 53

Since: Jun 12

Dayton, OH

#5 Oct 6, 2012
jim88888 wrote:
I'm 41 and my wife is 46. I like to be naked all the time and in front of other people. My wife is a bbw and does not like to have people see her naked. How do I get her to open up?
a few hits of xtc should do it.
she wont do it

Uttoxeter, UK

#6 Nov 2, 2012
further to Friday October 5. I am still trying to talk my wife into going to a nude beach in Feb. She still says NO. I asked her why, she said its ok for men, but at her age (59) she feels vulnerable and its not right. It seems its ok for me to see her naked but that is it. I have tried to tell her that people don't give a damm, they are not looking at you sexually. Its very frustrating.
I remember a time we went on holiday to Tenerife with my first wife and her mum and dad, if they would be offended if she went topless. They said no and off the bikini top came.
But I digress, I must say for a 59 year old woman she is not in too bad shape.
However, being very stupid I just happened to mention the time (a while before we met) that she took a fireman back to her house and had some fun. She said it scratched an itch.
I may have been a little stupid there.
Any suggestions how to make this happen would be nice.

THANKS

Since: Nov 12

Killeen, TX

#7 Nov 2, 2012
If she's 59, you've probably been married for at least a few years, or been in at least one long-term relationship by now. You should have learned that there's no way to manipulate your wife into doing something she sincerely doesn't want to do, without using some form of force or coercion. If it's a deal-breaker for you, then you're just going to have to end the marriage and find someone more your style.
She seems to love an accept you regardless of the fact that you're a nudist, so it would be nice if you could love and accept her regardless of the fact that she's not a nudist.

Since: Oct 12

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#8 Nov 7, 2012
its nearly 4am here and I'm going to walk bare ass naked thru my neighborhood. there's A light rain falling, good it will feel so good on my naked body. i hope I get caught^^
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Since: Nov 12

Killeen, TX

#9 Nov 7, 2012
Cassy93 wrote:
its nearly 4am here and I'm going to walk bare ass naked thru my neighborhood. there's A light rain falling, good it will feel so good on my naked body. i hope I get caught^^
That's not nudism, that's exhibitionism and indecent exposure. There's a time and a place for everything. We nudists have our homes, each others' homes, landed and non-landed clubs, resorts and beaches. That, really, should be enough.
tony

Holyoke, MA

#10 Feb 7, 2013
It took me a while to get my wife to be nude in front of other guys. I came upon a solution to my dilemma when I found out my wife loves to have massages’. She is also a person that liked to help other people, so I combine the two and came up with her helping one of our male friends learn to give an erotic massage’. I found a video on the net that showed how to perform an erotic massage of a female with a manual orgasm.
I showed my wife the video and she wanted to have the massage’. I told her that our male friend wanted to learn how to give the massage’ and after little discussion she reluctantly agreed to have the massage’
The massage’ starts out with my wife nude and on her stomach with a pillow under her middle bringing her bottom up in the air and legs spread she is completely nude. We start with her shoulders one guy on each side and massage’ her from center to each side.
We leave her vaginal area for last and then both of us massage’ her vaginal lips and internally. We each give her an orgasm manually. It is exciting to see another man manually massage’ my wife’s intimate areas.
She turns over after two orgasms on her stomach. We massage her the same way each of us starts at her shoulder and all the way down to her feet we leave her breast and vagina again until last. We go back up to her breast and each of us massage’ one of her breast at the same time down her stomach and we take turns massaging her labia and her internally giving her another two to four orgasms. She gets very excited when we both massage’ her internally at the same time.
She lays spread on the massage table for at least a half hour after the massage enjoying the afterglow of her orgasm whereas afterwards we help her off the table and at the request of our friend she remains nude watching TV with her legs comfortably spread to the delight of our friend. She sometimes casually rubs her vaginal area unconsciously when she is conversing with us or watching TV with us.
She now asked to have a massage and tomorrow she will have her third in the last 6 weeks. My wife would like a massage every week but I limit it to every two weeks claiming our friend is busy.
My wife is also posing nude for erotic sketches for artists. They request her to get into sitting or reclining poses that last a half hour to an hour with her legs spread and the artist seeing her intimately exposed to him and he adjusts her intimate being to his liking. She says she does all this for me but she is very excited about her exposure not bothering with her robe when she has a break she remains nude and ushering the artist to the door she remains nude also.
I have compiled a list of 24 men that want to give her a massage’, take photos of her or sketch her so that she will be nude at least once a week for the near future until we decide to stop or find other exciting adventures to participate in. Both of us are over 60 YO and the men range in age from 41 to 66.
bare469

Rockford, IL

#11 Mar 29, 2014
My wife knew from the onset that I loved to be naked all the time and at first was reluctant to be naked with me.One time she was feeling tense all over and wanted me to rub her back so I suggested in as she was tense all over I suggested she let me give her a full body massage. Surprisingly , she agreed so I got out a fiberglass folding table and folded a quilt over it and had her get out of her clothes. To make things a little more erotic I warmed up some baby oil and as she laid on her stomach I poured some oil on her back and massged it and gradually went down over her ass and then poured some more oil on her legs and started with her feet and worked my way up. Little by little as I worked my way up I also spread her legs and when I reached her ass and pussy I slipped a finger in,then two, and then began finger fucking her. She just loved it and turned over so I could finger fuck her with one hand and massage her tits with the other. By this time she had ahold of my cock and wanted to suck it. I had just moved up to where she could and she was getting with it when the patio door opened and the neighbor was standing there. My wife froze like a deer in the headlights and the neighbor told me howlucky I was to have such a beautiful wife that would not only go naked but would have sex in the middle of the day. He then explained he came over to invite us to a cook out and to come as we were. We laughed and said we thought we better dress and hesaid he would be happier if we didn't, especially my wife. Since then we only wear clothes if we are going some were and the wife is as happy to be naked in front of others as I am.
Bob

Watford, UK

#12 Mar 30, 2014
Naturist_but new to it wrote:
I took my wife to a naturist beach in Spain 2 years ago. She made out it was just to humour me, but she got undressed quicker than I did!! Since then we've been to 2 different naturist reorts in Spain and she's totally relaxed in a group of people. My wife is slim, but there are loads of larger people and to be fair, no one gives a shit. You'll find that proper naturists really don't care what shape, size, colour or race you are. I've seen women with one or both breasts removed happily relaxing around women with "the perfect figure". We are all just people!
Those Spanish beaches are the greatest. My wife and I go there whenever we can. The best is at St Paul deMar a few miles up the coast from Barcelona. There's a slow train that runs by every few minutes and it's great fun to stand there naked and wave to the passengers. My wife has been a show-off since long before we met and there was never a problem getting her to be naked in public. It was she who had to convince me. But now, I'm perfectly comfortable and I will say it's a thrill to watch my wife walking naked in public.
bigp

Houston, TX

#13 Apr 27, 2014
My wife and I go to hippie hollow in Austin, Texas. We love to be naked in the lake. Like another user said you meet very great friends.
yas

South Africa

#14 Thursday Dec 4
I am going out nude

“Redhead Phase”

Since: Apr 13

Scappoose, Oregon USA

#16 Thursday Dec 4
If she's that uncomfortable with her body type, she might not ever want to do it and you shouldn't really pressure her. With that said, have you thought of taking her to a public nudist area and let her see for herself that there are lots of people just like her who do go and enjoy nudism. There's a saying "you meet the nicest people with no clothes on" and if ever there was a group less judgmental about things like that, well I just don't think you'll find one. And if she looks around seeing this, and realizes she's the 'weirdo' because she's the only one with clothes on, well that's all I can suggest! Good luck, and BTW good4U enjoying your nudism and setting the example!
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Orange, CA

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