Anyone had sex with Japanese girls before?

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Jason

Bankstown, Australia

#1 Dec 3, 2009
How are they? Been mostly with Asians but not
japanese as they are not many in new Zealand. Are they just like what u see in movies
Tell The Truth

Japan

#2 Dec 3, 2009
It is silly that you even ask if Japanese women are like what you see in the movies. NO group of women from any country are going to be like what you see in the movies, be it a regular one or porn.

Each Japanese woman is different, how ever there will be common things about them related to culture. Just like the situation in Australia.

The situation of each guy that comes to Japan is also different. Things like:

. What will your job be? English teacher, Banker, Computers, etc...

. Where in Japan will you stay? Osaka, Tokyo, Okinawa?

. Will you stay by yourself, with a room mate, or live with a Japanese family?

. How long will you stay in Japan? 2 weeks or 1 year?

. How well do you speak Japanese? None, a little, some, or a lot?

Just these simple questions will be MAJOR factors in your experience with Japanese women and the type of women you will be meeting.

Each guy coming to Japan often has very different types of experiences. Somethings about their experience can be similar with other guys, while other things can be a huge difference.

If you want to try to get some kind of feel of what Japanese women are like from long distance, than I advise you to join dating sites for Japanese women and get Japanese female Pen Pals. You can then start to interact with them online. HOWEVER women can lie or distort the truth. Make sure to join forum groups of expats/foreign guys living in Japan and get their view too, so you will have a more balanced view.
jimjohn

Foley, AL

#3 Dec 4, 2009
yes, they are very shy at first but tend to love sex, and will try about anything.
Matt

Yorba Linda, CA

#4 Dec 4, 2009
All I can say is you got to love any girl that will submit nearly entirely to the man. Japanese women make the man feel VERY good about himself! They REALLY take care of their men. I was going to have anal sex with one but I could tell it was just too painful and I'm just not that big of an ass to make her go through with it, but she would've just for me. But I've given them facials and gummed on their breasts and in their mouth, they never say no. I had a threesum once with two. Again I could tell they were very awkward and shy but did not say no. But secretly I think they liked it. But kept on giggling and covering their mouths! Even while eating each other out! If you ever get the chance go for it. But go for Japanese visitors. Japanese American can be as controlling as American women.
Handsome26

Singapore, Singapore

#6 Jan 10, 2010
I agreed with both Jimjohn and MAtt. Japanese are shy at first and tend to love sex and will try anything. Most importantly, they will never say NO to you when come to sex. I dunno the reason behind, but i believe that si their culture, to serve us, MAN.

Since: Dec 09

Rayong

#8 Jan 10, 2010
Sad white trash wrote:
HAHAHAHAHA a bunch of ugly losers who cant get women form their own race so they have this Asian Fetish HAHAHAHA.
I bet you have Asian fetish cuz they look like underage girls, I'm a child molester, so I should know!
Why don't you go elsewhere to get your kicks; 'Sad white trash'?
CaptainObvious

Raynes Park, UK

#9 Jan 10, 2010
Most of you talk about certain races of women, particularly asian ones as if they are not human beings but instead entities designed for your pleasure or to be used. Maybe you should try appreciating and respecting an individual on their merits for once instead of grouping them by origin with pointless generalisations.
Tell The Truth

Japan

#10 Jan 10, 2010
Sad white trash wrote:
HAHAHAHAHA a bunch of ugly losers who cant get women form their own race so they have this Asian Fetish HAHAHAHA.
I bet you have Asian fetish cuz they look like underage girls, damn child molesters.
You appear a bit irrational.

1. What about Asian men, with White women or women of other races? Are they all loser too?

2. To say any man that dates a woman of a different race is always a loser is both ridiculous and stupid, combined with being racist.

Because there are very successful and good looking men in interracial relationships.

3. Why would it matter to you what other people do in terms of dating or marriage? Do you think that you are a god or world dictator whose purpose is to control other people? Even god gives people FREE choice.

4. Not all Asian women look like underage girls nor is that their appeal to all men. It is insulting to Asians to think that way.
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Tell The Truth

Japan

#11 Jan 10, 2010
CaptainObvious wrote:
Most of you talk about certain races of women, particularly asian ones as if they are not human beings but instead entities designed for your pleasure or to be used. Maybe you should try appreciating and respecting an individual on their merits for once instead of grouping them by origin with pointless generalisations.
Sexual attraction, can be for women of ANY race.

There is nothing wrong with 2 people of different races finding each other sexually attractive, as would it be with 2 people of the same race.

You should equally condemn men that objectify women of the SAME race, not just point out men of a different race, if you are not being a hypocrite.

There is also a major difference between being attracted to women of a different race or ethnic group and sexually objectify women of that race.

You may want to also contemplate the difference between preference and prejudice as well.
Gaijin in love

Tokyo, Japan

#12 Jan 10, 2010
The thing about Japanese women wanting to serve and being submissive is nonsense, based on a misunderstanding. Japanese - male and female - are much more concerned about making relationships work than people from the West. Therefore, in an intimate situation they tend to try to indulge the other as much possible. This is probably more true for girls than for guys (as it is, again, probably in any culture) but it does not signify submissiveness per se. Speaking of which - I am submissive and for the same reason outlined above I have found Japanese dommes (of which there are many) to be the best in the world. Back to making relationships work: if she does her best you owe her your best.
OK, some generalizations: the vast majority of J-girls are CLEAN and immaculately groomed; their skin is on average much better than western skin; they try to be at their most feminine best; they do not shave their pussies as a rule (which I applaud!); they have the best asses in the world and many of them, contrary to popular belief, shapely breasts of sufficient size. They are experimental and can be quite mischievous. Much more playful than western women with none of the gender hang-ups.
Now for the downside: some want to marry a western guy for all the wrong reasons (because the baby will look cute!) and will pursue this goal with determination. Beware. Some can be rather the opposite of what I described above: passive and sexually challenged. And there are - as everywhere - some nutcases out there that will get you in all kinds of trouble. But I would say that the good far outweighs the bad.
Give it a spin!
Gaijin in love

Tokyo, Japan

#13 Jan 10, 2010
To "Sad White Trash": Sir, this thread is not about "Asian" women but about Japanese women. Japanese women are rather different from Chinese or Thai or Korean. And nobody in this thread has expressed a fetish - for Asian or for Japanese women. Why do you think a fetish is involved here? And why do you think that being open to or interested in sex with Japanese women constitutes being a loser? Lastly, may I just simply ask: what is your problem? Do you need help with anger management, perhaps?
From Japan

Wako, Japan

#15 Dec 25, 2010
Japanese women are taught to be compliant and submissive towards men since childhood. So, they generally have UNPROTECTED SEX with a man on the first night if that's what the man wants. Japanese people are not well educated on STDs, and as I said, condom use depends entirely on the man. So, just beware that although Japanese girls are easy, sleeping with them can be risky. Charisma Men aka LBHs (Losers Back Home) have no choice but to settle for naive and clueless Japanese girls because they can't score back home. But if you're a normal, decent, Western guy, stay where you are and stick to Westernized Asian women who tend to be more intelligent, confident, and don't get used and abused by complete losers.

Since: Dec 10

Location hidden

#16 Dec 27, 2010
Handsome26 wrote:
I agreed with both Jimjohn and MAtt. Japanese are shy at first and tend to love sex and will try anything. Most importantly, they will never say NO to you when come to sex. I dunno the reason behind, but i believe that si their culture, to serve us, MAN.
I am married to a Japanese lady and culture is a BIG difference. If you want to meet Japanese women,it is suggested that you learn the language or try to find one who knows English.The language barrier is the biggest hurdle and getting to know their culture and who they are as a person is very important. Japanese are a very proud people,very polite and considerate.Of course you will always have the riff raff in any culture,but for the most part it is true. They are also fairly reserved and quiet until they get to know you.
Now,about sex. They DO like sex,as do all people and have the same reservations about sex as all others too.What one likes is all determined by the person. However,the statement that they will never say no to sex is not true.Today's Japanese are much different than the Japanese of 50 or more years ago.Today's Japanese are westernized and for the most part have accepted western customs and freedoms as American women do.They are no longer raised to be the quiet,demure childbearer servant that once was custom and basically have the same freedoms that American women enjoy. Some customs remain such as being polite,respectful and being shy/reserved,but do not expect a Japanese woman to act as an obedient servant who follows the man,head down and quiet.With the modernization of Japan after WWII, that has gone to the wayside. I would suppose that in some of the very remote mountain villages in Japan,you might still find old tradition Japanese still in practice,but there won't be a lot.
Trailertrash

Saginaw, MI

#17 Dec 27, 2010
Well, it has been a long time since I dated a "Josan," but I remember it clearly. I darned near married the lady, she was so clean, neat, hygienic, friendly, intelligent, helpful, fun loving, considerate almost to a fault, passionate, adventuresome and she loved dancing (most Japanese do)mostly ballroom dancing, but I left before rock got started, so they may also enjoy that now. She taught me how to swing, rhumba, tango, waltz, samba and "slow dance." Darn!! It almost makes me want to go back and look her up. When she was with me, we were able to enter the most elite Japanese night clubs where G.I.s normally were not admitted....and didn't even know about. How does that sound? She taught me that the Japanese are pretty uniformly very friendly, intelligent and civilized people.....in spite of the fact that they were a savage foe. I really wanted to "take her back home," but she wisely told me that our relationship was done when I went back to the "land of round eyes and high taxes," that she would miss me, but it was over...."Sayonara, G.I.san." I think of her a lot with kind and loving thoughts. How about that.
A Japanese American Male

Seattle, WA

#18 Dec 27, 2010
Are you asking about a Japanese national or simply any person of Japanese heritage. I've been able to experience several of both. Of course I shared much more in common with the Japanese/American girls in terms of experinces and cultural references. No, the girls from Japan weren't a lot more submissive or compliant. Girls from both cultures demanded and deserved a certain amount of respect. How were they in bed? Like all girls in all cultures, each had their own gifts and endearing qualities and some less than desireable qualities. But we're all human and we all come with our own strenghts and weaknesses. Of the 5 girls of Japanese heritage, 2 had vary small breasts, 2 had nice,sizable B cup breasts and 1 had large D cup breasts. Some had very fair complexions and their nipples were brownish pink. The darker skinned girls had more brownish nipples. I don't think ethnicity had anything to do with how tight their vaginas were. I've been with caucasion women who were every bit as snug.
I also have dated women of the following descents: East Indian, Fijian, Phillipino, a mixed heritage black/white/native, a lovely Jewish girl, and several Latina women. Again, each was unique in her own way. Some women seemed unfazed with my relatively small penis - 5 inches while some clearly prefered larger penises. The Fijian woman thanked me for not being so large that I could cause discomfort.
Bartholomew

Santa Monica, CA

#21 Feb 14, 2014
I have been many many women from around the world. I work at a hotel in Culver City, Ca, and if I estimate correctly I have slept with over 60 girls. Easily. My favorites are Koreans, scandanavians and Japanese. I love them cause they are super clean and well mannered. I don't much care for the submissive part, so I always make it a point to encourage them to take the lead or at least I don't force or make them do anything uncomfortable. Japanese women are loving, caring, and really appreciate being treated special. I always make it a point to engage with them about their flight, trip, and their thoughts. Once a personal tone is set I complement them on looking so young compared to their age (I have to chech passports) and finally tell them how pretty they're. At some point later I ask them out for a day to show them around and that's were I make my move, at a turtle's pace because that's how it has to be with them.
Stephen

Rushden, UK

#23 Aug 13, 2014
Jason wrote:
How are they? Been mostly with Asians but not
japanese as they are not many in new Zealand. Are they just like what u see in movies
yeah they are very good in bed i have had quit a few really enjoyed
Rick3

Burlington, VT

#25 Oct 16, 2014
CaptainObvious wrote:
Most of you talk about certain races of women, particularly asian ones as if they are not human beings but instead entities designed for your pleasure or to be used. Maybe you should try appreciating and respecting an individual on their merits for once instead of grouping them by origin with pointless generalisations.
I think that the inquiries are based upon cultural, not racial prefernces. I didn't see any inquiries that specifically mentioned "race".There are definitely some cultural tendencies when it comes to sex....or almost anything else. It should be quite obvious to anyone over the age of 5, that there will be differences in behavior between individuals belonging to any group.

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