how to make anal sex more pleasurable

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Since: May 07

Nowhere

#1 May 29, 2007
allright, my girlfriend and I have had anal sex, i do everything right, we take our time, slowly stretch her open, use lots of lube, all that jazz, it doesnt cause her pain but she says she just feels like she has to take a shit the whole time. Is this normal, and is there any way to make this sensation not so strong so she can enjoy it more. thanks for the advice, but to those of you trying to hook up on here go to another forum. your pathetic.
Nancy

Jersey City, NJ

#2 May 29, 2007
Did she pleasure her self while you did it? The nerve endings n the bum do not produce orgasms.

“So where's the PARTY!!!”

Since: May 07

Golden CO

#3 May 29, 2007
Suggest to her to go ot the bathroom prior to anal sex next time or try an enema so that she knows she is cleaned out.
CIA

Since: May 07

Midland, Texas

#4 May 29, 2007
it kinda scares me that you guys know so much.. haha

“So where's the PARTY!!!”

Since: May 07

Golden CO

#5 May 29, 2007
A wealth of USELESS information is sometimes a good thing!!!
pablo

Victoria, Canada

#6 May 29, 2007
So why do it?
Is this 'craze' re anal' simply a rejection by adults of their parents making them suffer the indignity of 'toilet training'!
Are they adults still suffering 'mental' constipation?

I recall, the jokes we told as kids of "Sammy the Sperm".... the alarm bells ringing as the penis was excited and ready to explode ...., "lets go" screamed the lead sperm....( visions of firefighters pouring down poles/submariners rushing forwards to help the dive ( a la Das Boot)...lets GO!!! he yelled to all
the little spermies... lets go get that EGG!
THEN...the cry !!!!
BACK OFF, BACK OFF
or WE'll all be in the SHIT!

I mean, unless you are gay .... why opt for a smelly waste place when a sweet pussy, naturally lubricated ( if you know what you are doing AND she is turned on by you and the 'happening') is waiting for your pleasure?
Nancy wrote:
Did she pleasure her self while you did it? The nerve endings n the bum do not produce orgasms.

“Its a little known fact that..”

Since: May 07

Nowhere

#7 May 30, 2007
pablo wrote:
So why do it?
Is this 'craze' re anal' simply a rejection by adults of their parents making them suffer the indignity of 'toilet training'!
Are they adults still suffering 'mental' constipation?
I recall, the jokes we told as kids of "Sammy the Sperm".... the alarm bells ringing as the penis was excited and ready to explode ...., "lets go" screamed the lead sperm....( visions of firefighters pouring down poles/submariners rushing forwards to help the dive ( a la Das Boot)...lets GO!!! he yelled to all
the little spermies... lets go get that EGG!
THEN...the cry !!!!
BACK OFF, BACK OFF
or WE'll all be in the SHIT!
I mean, unless you are gay .... why opt for a smelly waste place when a sweet pussy, naturally lubricated ( if you know what you are doing AND she is turned on by you and the 'happening') is waiting for your pleasure?
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pablo your an idot, and at no time in that incoherant response, did you remotly answer my question. may god have mercy on your soul.
and because some people are more adventuous and want to try something other than missionary sex, at some time during the course of a relationship
pablo

Victoria, Canada

#8 May 30, 2007
Now now, if you are going use big words, use them correctly ~

And by the way, there are other positions beyond 'missionary'... or were you referring to the sexual appetites of missionaries?

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Since: May 07

Granada Hills

#9 May 30, 2007
cliff claven wrote:
allright, my girlfriend and I have had anal sex, i do everything right, we take our time, slowly stretch her open, use lots of lube, all that jazz, it doesnt cause her pain but she says she just feels like she has to take a shit the whole time. Is this normal, and is there any way to make this sensation not so strong so she can enjoy it more. thanks for the advice, but to those of you trying to hook up on here go to another forum. your pathetic.
I will suggest like someone before me that she should go to the restroom before hand. But a HUGE part of it is her being relaxed. If she's thnking about how unconfortable its going to be and how much its going to hurt then she can't enjoy it. Tell her to lay on her stomach and relax..it helps if shes extremely turned on..also have her touch herself while you're entering her.

Look for "Anal Ease" at any sex shop. This stuff is amazing. It numbs her a little bit but once you go inside her it feels great...try it and let me know wat happens ; )

"Vicodin" will also help her relax a bit.

“So where's the PARTY!!!”

Since: May 07

Golden CO

#10 May 30, 2007
The problem partners and I have run into with anal ese is that it nums the penis as well if you get any on it

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Since: May 07

Granada Hills

#11 May 30, 2007
Airjammer1966 wrote:
The problem partners and I have run into with anal ese is that it nums the penis as well if you get any on it
really? That's never happened to my b/f...

Probably because i put it on about 10 min before....maybe that will help.
zman

Cambridge, Canada

#13 Apr 4, 2008
Get her close to finishing with whatever you two are into then try it with her or you finishing her off from the front while you're from behind. Works like a charm.
sugarbabee

Corvallis, OR

#14 Feb 14, 2009
pablo wrote:
So why do it?
Is this 'craze' re anal' simply a rejection by adults of their parents making them suffer the indignity of 'toilet training'!
Are they adults still suffering 'mental' constipation?
I recall, the jokes we told as kids of "Sammy the Sperm".... the alarm bells ringing as the penis was excited and ready to explode ...., "lets go" screamed the lead sperm....( visions of firefighters pouring down poles/submariners rushing forwards to help the dive ( a la Das Boot)...lets GO!!! he yelled to all
the little spermies... lets go get that EGG!
THEN...the cry !!!!
BACK OFF, BACK OFF
or WE'll all be in the SHIT!
I mean, unless you are gay .... why opt for a smelly waste place when a sweet pussy, naturally lubricated ( if you know what you are doing AND she is turned on by you and the 'happening') is waiting for your pleasure?
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You are obviously someone who has no idea what a good time is, or how to be fun in the sac. As a female I have to say I enjoy anal sex as it can be very pleasurable when done right.
Someone

Loomis, CA

#15 Feb 14, 2009
I'm with Pablo on this one. If she gets no pleasure from it and it takes so much preparation just to do it, why do it?

The OP's girlfriend doesn't find it pleasurable sugarbee, so I guess she doesn't know "what a good time is or how to have fun in the sac."
unknown

Charlotte, NC

#16 May 28, 2009
I have tried anal with my husband once before and it was very pleasurable, but I had to stop in the middle of things because it began to hurt. I want to try it again but I am too scare. As soon as we get in the right position, I lock-up and refuse to allow him to continue. What advise do u have for my situation?

As for this Pablo person, when u have a faithful and loving man, u do whatever is in your power to keep him that way. You do not have to do it but don't knock some one else for trying it.
happy with my 6

Arlington, VA

#17 May 28, 2009
Have someone liquor in the front while you poker in the rear. (:
flyboy

Richmond, VA

#18 Jun 15, 2009
1. Use desensitizing lube.
2. LOTS of foreplay, like sex toys, rimming, oral, to relax the person getting f**ked.
3. LOTS of lube, preferable thicker, water based.
4. Go SLOW and start in a position where the receiver/giver can control penetration easier.
flyboy

Richmond, VA

#19 Jun 15, 2009
Also, use a fleet enema beforehand so you knows shes cleaned out before sex.

Since: Nov 08

Morrow, GA

#20 Jun 15, 2009
flyboy wrote:
Also, use a fleet enema beforehand so you knows shes cleaned out before sex.
I always see where people ask about anal and seems like no one tells them it all has to start in the shower. At least If I know I am going to play that way thats where it starts. To enjoy yourself or with someone all has to be cleaned real good inside or its off for me. I also think anal is not like a BJ where you enjoy or get off the first time but over a few times you find out how good/great it can be.
sichi

Dammam, Saudi Arabia

#21 Jun 10, 2011
anal sex for the first time is hurting but when it comes in and out it feels so great and exiting, men loves it because they feel tighter than the original vaginal sex.. try it you feel great...

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