Since: Dec 07

Leichhardt, Australia

#249 Dec 25, 2007
violetlove22 wrote:
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I like to sit around and study porn...lol...
lol

I'm sure you do.
Franko

Canada

#250 Dec 27, 2007
Ronnnie wrote:
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I always wonder if these women that post the size of their guys cocks, really measure them or just take by what there told. I always thought 6 inches was small myself because I'm a small guy and thought I would be below average. I still find it unbelievable that 6 inches is average, I used to think it was probably 8 inches. Porn doesn't help because all the guys in porn have large cocks. Really there isn't that much difference between 5-7 inches. So I find it hard to believe a girl would be able to feel the difference. Idk, I'm not a women. lol
There have been several studies, the most famous doen by KINSEY in the 1950's. Most of them come up with 6 inches, give or take 1/3 of an inch, as the average. They also indicate that more than 85% of men are between 5 to 7 1/2 inches. So, most women experince something within 1 1/4 inches of the middle average anyhow.

Although, if a woman randomly chooses 10 men, she will find one in that group that is over 7.5 inches.

A problem with several studues was that they relied on a large number of "reported sizes" rather than actually measuring.

According to someone I know that works in the medical feild, the true sizes are about 1/2 iless than the claimed average. SO, yes, given the chance to exagerate, men will do so.
Cindy

Manassas, VA

#251 Dec 27, 2007
Lona wrote:
What is the deal with women loving huge penises, 1. they hurt like hell 2. they are very dissatifying 3. they stretch you out, beyond normal. 4. they tear can tear up your insides.
What is wrong with a nice normal size penis,(6 inches, or 6 1/2 inches) they feel much better,and they are not painful at all. I like it when i can have a great time in bed, without having to worry about the pain in my gut when its over. Are there any other women out there who are not obsessed with a huge 9,10 inch dong?
So true! 6 inches is the perfect size! When you start getting into 9 or 10 inches (or beyond) that is just ridiculous. I don't enjoy pain nor gagging either.

“He's 3 1/2 lbs. of fury!!!”

Since: Sep 07

Hampton Roads, VA

#252 Dec 27, 2007
You know, I hadn't had sex with a guy who had, what I thought to be a large penis, until about 5 years ago. It was a good 9 inches long and I thought it would be painful, but it wasn't. However, it didn't really make a difference. What was god was that he was a great lover. Gawd, I hate saying the word "lover"...how cheesy...but that is my only experience with someone of that size...

Since: Dec 07

Leichhardt, Australia

#253 Dec 27, 2007
violetlove22 wrote:
You know, I hadn't had sex with a guy who had, what I thought to be a large penis, until about 5 years ago. It was a good 9 inches long and I thought it would be painful, but it wasn't. However, it didn't really make a difference. What was god was that he was a great lover. Gawd, I hate saying the word "lover"...how cheesy...but that is my only experience with someone of that size...
9 inches, thats make me feel like a little boy.

“He's 3 1/2 lbs. of fury!!!”

Since: Sep 07

Hampton Roads, VA

#254 Dec 27, 2007
Ronnnie wrote:
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9 inches, thats make me feel like a little boy.
I doubt you are such a "little boy" =)
Hou Tex

South Padre Island, TX

#255 Dec 27, 2007
I need something to hang my hat on, which means I'm not cutting two inches off for anybody!
Hou Tex

South Padre Island, TX

#256 Dec 27, 2007
Frankly, I think there are BIGGER and better things to accomplish in this small minded world.
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Hou Tex

South Padre Island, TX

#257 Dec 27, 2007
Haven't heard back from out there. Good, guess everyone went and found a job. My business here is finished.

“Family,Health,$$ bump the rest”

Since: Nov 07

NUNYA

#258 Dec 27, 2007
do u women kno exactly what a 6 or 10 inch penis looks like. Is your eye that good or u just assuming wat 6 inches would "probably" be
Franko

Canada

#259 Dec 27, 2007
EcuasionZ wrote:
do u women kno exactly what a 6 or 10 inch penis looks like. Is your eye that good or u just assuming wat 6 inches would "probably" be
good question. Out of 25 women I was with, only one ever actually asked to measure it ... in fact only about 6 or 7 of them even asked me what it measured. I had them guess and most of them estimated an inch more than it really was ... they did not seem clear on it ..
Anxiety

Kingsford, MI

#260 Dec 27, 2007
Broski wrote:
I don't know if a lot of guys want a 9 inch dick, but most want to be adequate. For example, I don't want to be 9, but I would like to be 6 or 7, which seems to be the size most girls prefer. I'm only 5, and although some of you say "that's fine, it's average" that's not really true, its smaller than average and you'll rarely see a girl say 5 is there ideal size, because it is small. It's the guys who are small who want to be average, not necessarily 9 inches.
Yeah I think I'd actually rather be a little small then too large. But I think I might be more then a little small. I'm only a little over 4 inches. I'm envious of these guys with 5 inches to boast lol The main problem with me is I'm one of those rare to non-existant guys that still plans to wait until after marriage to have sex. But I don't want to trap a girl in marriage and then not be able to satisfy her on our wedding night. Isn't there a size below which it would be too small to please even a "tight" virgin girl?
Cindy

Manassas, VA

#262 Dec 28, 2007
Wow, you guys have a lot to say about this subject. I've measured an ex-boyfriend and have read and seen enough to know what a 6 inch and 10 inch penis looks like. A man's endowment is what it is, whatever that may be. A man might think a C cup is the perfect breast size, but if the woman he loves is an A or a DD, he won't love her any more or less. But if asked what his favorite (or the "perfect") size is he'd answer a C cup. No offense meant to women of other sizes. And that's all I'm saying. If I had to give a favorite size I'd say 6 inches. So I would have been in the majority regarding the show about the three men.

Also, Anxiety, I want to commend you for waiting until marriage to have sex. But don't get too caught up in the size issue. Your wife will love you for you. A man can satisfy a woman at any size. It's more about how he treats her. If you are into finding out what makes her happy (including sexually) then it will be all good trust me. One more tidbit, 4 inches is not really small to me. I saw a picture of a guy who was probably an inch at most. Really. Now that is what I call small. But, again, he has no control over how he's endowed. So he's got to work with what he's got. And that could be mighty good, who knows!:)
Franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#263 Dec 28, 2007
Cindy wrote:
Wow, you guys have a lot to say about this subject. I've measured an ex-boyfriend and have read and seen enough to know what a 6 inch and 10 inch penis looks like. A man's endowment is what it is, whatever that may be. A man might think a C cup is the perfect breast size, but if the woman he loves is an A or a DD, he won't love her any more or less. But if asked what his favorite (or the "perfect") size is he'd answer a C cup. No offense meant to women of other sizes. And that's all I'm saying. If I had to give a favorite size I'd say 6 inches. So I would have been in the majority regarding the show about the three men.
Also, Anxiety, I want to commend you for waiting until marriage to have sex. But don't get too caught up in the size issue. Your wife will love you for you. A man can satisfy a woman at any size. It's more about how he treats her. If you are into finding out what makes her happy (including sexually) then it will be all good trust me. One more tidbit, 4 inches is not really small to me. I saw a picture of a guy who was probably an inch at most. Really. Now that is what I call small. But, again, he has no control over how he's endowed. So he's got to work with what he's got. And that could be mighty good, who knows!:)
I had read a study that claimed to have measured women's physuical and personal responses (ie. they said what they thought) by using differnt sized artificual phallusses.

First of all they could barely tell the differnce betwen two lengths if there was less than an inch between them (ie. 6 inch versus 7 inch) when it was inside them. They could feel difference in girth more readily.

Only Some of them seemed to clearly get more enjoyement from more size, althuogh very few felt that anything over 8 inches and 6.5 inch girth was enjoyable .. the size was getting too much except for maybe 15% of the women in the study.(most women;s wrist measures between 6 to 6.5 inches girth, as a comparison)

There did seem to be an optimal size where most women said "that gives me the greatest over all pleasure .. and that was between 7 to 7.5 inches and 5.5 to 6 inch girth.(the electronic measurements concurred)

However, when asked about the difference in level of pleasure between that "optimal" size and someone with a 4 or 5 inch penis, they said the difference was not very much (the "optimal size" feels maybe 10% better)... the penis still gave pleasure despuite the smaller size, because it was the friction and pressure at the opening or G-spot that seemed to have the most impact, and that depended as much on how the guy applied stimulous as on the size alone. Thus a 4 inch guy who knows what he is doing can give a woman as much pleasure, or more, than a 7 inch guy who does not think about how to stimulate the woman.

In fact, some women said that a large guy who "missed" the most sensitive areas when stroking could be said to be a poor lover.
Marcus

Rock Hill, SC

#264 Dec 29, 2007
Maybe because some women and most of women have never felt a true 8 incher inside with a guy doing it the right way... I know how to hit the G spot and A spot... and from what girls say the A spot is even more intense! very intense as to past out or just rest there in bed no doing anything as from satisfaction!
And I am ot saying all women like this, most them do... for reference the best spots are below or over the cervix... also a bigger penis hits the g spot even better.. but I dont even bother to hit it since the explotion is much better hitting bottom! is this what girls say/ omg omg i love you, i love you, i so love you, I want you to do this everyday" something like that is how it goes.( also for reference, nothing like this have had happened in a one night stand!:) is knowing ur partner!
Alpha Omega Game

United States

#265 Dec 29, 2007
Yeah, I'll have to say When a woman says " size doesn't matter" shes either lying to protect feelings or she has never experienced a big one or a big one wielded by a skilled lover.
Alpha Omega Game

United States

#266 Dec 29, 2007
Franko wrote:
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I had read a study that claimed to have measured women's physuical and personal responses (ie. they said what they thought) by using differnt sized artificual phallusses.
First of all they could barely tell the differnce betwen two lengths if there was less than an inch between them (ie. 6 inch versus 7 inch) when it was inside them. They could feel difference in girth more readily.
Only Some of them seemed to clearly get more enjoyement from more size, althuogh very few felt that anything over 8 inches and 6.5 inch girth was enjoyable .. the size was getting too much except for maybe 15% of the women in the study.(most women;s wrist measures between 6 to 6.5 inches girth, as a comparison)
There did seem to be an optimal size where most women said "that gives me the greatest over all pleasure .. and that was between 7 to 7.5 inches and 5.5 to 6 inch girth.(the electronic measurements concurred)
However, when asked about the difference in level of pleasure between that "optimal" size and someone with a 4 or 5 inch penis, they said the difference was not very much (the "optimal size" feels maybe 10% better)... the penis still gave pleasure despuite the smaller size, because it was the friction and pressure at the opening or G-spot that seemed to have the most impact, and that depended as much on how the guy applied stimulous as on the size alone. Thus a 4 inch guy who knows what he is doing can give a woman as much pleasure, or more, than a 7 inch guy who does not think about how to stimulate the woman.
In fact, some women said that a large guy who "missed" the most sensitive areas when stroking could be said to be a poor lover.
Wowzers Franko! You studies sure seem bias twords men packing 7 inches. So a man with a 4 incher is has the ability to better then a 7 but not 8+.

Yeah big girth is good for women but after they get use to the big girth,then what? Then need a bigger girth? bigger is always better either length girth right?

Visually a inch longer is visually an inch longer and would be felt physically I have this evidence,

3/6 women I slept with said I went past thier previous b/f 5-6.5 inches in length,they all say that I'm running deeper, they felt a difference.

I felt a difference too, when i push in hard and kegal i can touch stuff up there.

At any rate bigger is always better for vagina penetration ,no matter how much they try and denie it.

what is it 80% of women don't cum through vaginal penetration and what is it 80% of men are average.
I'm 7x5 women said i've made them cum but they could have been lying.

I was talking to Nina hartley about my girth she said I have no reason to complaine at all,she also told me a long thick penis or a short thick penis doesn't automaticlly spells vaginal orgaism for a lot of women either.

She could have been lying to me ,who knows?
Franko

Canada

#268 Dec 29, 2007
Alpha Omega Game wrote:
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Wowzers Franko! You studies sure seem bias twords men packing 7 inches. So a man with a 4 incher is has the ability to better then a 7 but not 8+.
Yeah big girth is good for women but after they get use to the big girth,then what? Then need a bigger girth? bigger is always better either length girth right?
Visually a inch longer is visually an inch longer and would be felt physically I have this evidence,
3/6 women I slept with said I went past thier previous b/f 5-6.5 inches in length,they all say that I'm running deeper, they felt a difference.
I felt a difference too, when i push in hard and kegal i can touch stuff up there.
At any rate bigger is always better for vagina penetration ,no matter how much they try and denie it.
what is it 80% of women don't cum through vaginal penetration and what is it 80% of men are average.
I'm 7x5 women said i've made them cum but they could have been lying.
I was talking to Nina hartley about my girth she said I have no reason to complaine at all,she also told me a long thick penis or a short thick penis doesn't automaticlly spells vaginal orgaism for a lot of women either.
She could have been lying to me ,who knows?
this was just one study I read. Others may or may not agree.

THere is no hard and fast rule that applies to everything. We can talk about studies, which are based on averaging hundreds or thousands of responses.

Or we can talk about how each individual situaiton is different from the next.

In the end it's what works for yourself and your partner, right?

NO two women feel exaclty the same about the same things.

SO, these discusoins are just hypothetical but I guess we are trying to determine what is the reality most of the time, right?

Men and women in this discusion trying to figure out what they can do or how they compare as indivuals compared to the general population.

MOre specifically, men with average to small penises are looking for something that says "It;s OK to not be blessed with size. There are other things that count for more that make up for it".
Alpha Omega Game

United States

#269 Dec 29, 2007
Franko wrote:
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this was just one study I read. Others may or may not agree.

Alpha, Yes I've read lots all over for anything dealing with this particular topic surveys ,forums,rants,size qestioning ect.

THere is no hard and fast rule that applies to everything. We can talk about studies, which are based on averaging hundreds or thousands of responses.

Or we can talk about how each individual situaiton is different from the next.
In the end it's what works for yourself and your partner, right?

Alpha,Yes.

NO two women feel exaclty the same about the same things.

SO, these discusoins are just hypothetical but I guess we are trying to determine what is the
reality most of the time, right?

Alpha,Yes. The thing is what is the reality of this topic? I have my veiws I base off what i've read.

Like a woman will say 5-6 inches if fine then in the same sentence she will say that her boyfriend is 8.5 inches. I read women making contradicting statements about size.
If you read studies they are all mixed but the highest ammount of women will want above average in both length and girth.( maybe not massive sized but over whats average) It will be her ideal if she could choose.

Men and women in this discusion trying to figure out what they can do or how they compare as indivuals compared to the general population.
MOre specifically, men with average to small penises are looking for something that says "It;s OK to not be blessed with size. There are other things that count for more that make up for it".
Alpha, Well noone wants to be unable to please a woman with their package I think thats the reason men qestion their size in the first place.

Yeah the full package,I guess that means in other words, if your average after shes done getting losend up for years,she'll take average as her man with a 5-7 inch penis just as long as he looks nice,makes 70grand a year,and drives a sports car,pays attention to her,shows her love and will lick her all the time.

But the guy with the big dong, he doesn't HAVE to do that and women will still seek him even its only to use him.
Alpha Omega Game

United States

#270 Dec 29, 2007
Most of my statement's can be read inbetween yours in the tiny gray writing.
I don't know why it came out that way,but it did.

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