I Hate Huge Penises, What About You Other Ladies?

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What is the deal with women loving huge penises, 1. they hurt like hell 2. they are very dissatifying 3. they stretch you out, beyond normal. 4. they tear can tear up your insides.
What is wrong with a nice normal size penis,(6 inches, or 6 1/2 inches) they feel much better,and they are not painful at all. I like it when i can have a great time in bed, without having to worry about the pain in my gut when its over. Are there any other women out there who are not obsessed with a huge 9,10 inch dong?

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There are ways that you can control how deeply they penetrate, but I agree with you. If I were with a man with a large penis, he'd have to be careful with penetration, and frankly, sometimes I just want to be pounded...and it aint happening with a large guy. It is why I really wonder about these guys who wish they had a huge penis.

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Ditto, a vagina is can only stretch so deep. The rest is a waste. Yet try telling it the numskulls that think there's a correlation b/w manliness and size.

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so many typos in my previous post; I'm drunk and going now. PLUR

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all I can say is, Amen.

It's so sad that men are so hung up on the idea that it's gotta be big when there are so many actual downsides to big. And there's no convincing them of that sometimes. I want to feel his body slamming into me and a big penis is going to hurt me if he does that - even one in the range of average if he does it in the wrong position!
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This topic makes me smile :)*thinks in my mind "OH YES!!! it's true, it's true!!"*

Thank you. I've always thought the bigger the penis, the better, for women.
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Funny thing is that nature deemed it appropriate to match avg sized vaginas with avg sized penis.At the rate of 87-90% of the human race.You think nature knows something we don't?
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to get scientific on y'all an average women vagina goes bout 8 inches deep but i am 6 inches and got a good girth. but guys like me don't give a u know what bout size i can screw like a demon and i love sex so deal with it but some women are horrible and all they care bout is size and it just pisses me off...some women won't even allow them selves to be turned on
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Cod wrote:
This topic makes me smile :)*thinks in my mind "OH YES!!! it's true, it's true!!"*
Thank you. I've always thought the bigger the penis, the better, for women.
Not at all! It really, truly doesn't matter, with the exception of extremes. I was all ready to go with a guy, he dropped his pants, and he was at least 8 inches. I told him to pull his pants up and go. I knew he was not the kind of man who would go easy on me, and I wasn't about to be in pain for him.

The smallest man I've been with was probably 5 inches, and it was wonderful. 6 is nice, 7 is getting too large for me personally. If a larger man went easy and used positions that minimize penetration, then it could work, but sometimes I just wanna be pounded.

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to get scientific on y'all an average women vagina goes bout 8 inches deep but i am 6 inches and got a good girth. but guys like me don't give a u know what bout size i can screw like a demon and i love sex so deal with it but some women are horrible and all they care bout is size and it just pisses me off...some women won't even allow them selves to be turned on
To get scientific on you, that's not true. It varies widely, and depends on arousal. The vagina is not a continuously open space, it is potential space. When I am not aroused, I can put my middle finger inside my vagina and touch my cervix. It is a common way that women test to see if they are ovulating. If they were 8 inches constantly, they couldn't reach it.
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see i was going what i heard but thank u for telling me that cause i just heard it somewhere but it was on some sex show i guess they where wrong

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The smallest man I've been with was probably 5 inches, and it was wonderful. 6 is nice, 7 is getting too large for me personally. If a larger man went easy and used positions that minimize penetration, then it could work, but sometimes I just wanna be pounded.
What was wonderful about the 5" guy?

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wilted calluna wrote:
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To get scientific on you, that's not true. It varies widely, and depends on arousal. The vagina is not a continuously open space, it is potential space. When I am not aroused, I can put my middle finger inside my vagina and touch my cervix. It is a common way that women test to see if they are ovulating. If they were 8 inches constantly, they couldn't reach it.
I just recently had a "blinding flash of the obvious." If I use my vibrator in a situation where I've gotten aroused very quickly and I'm too enthusiastic with it, I sometimes hurt myself. I'm pretty sure I'm beating the hell out of my cervix. lol (there's no such thing as tmi on this forum, right??)

I finally figured out what was going on - I was using it the same way I do when my vagina has had time to do it's lengthening thing. Normally, my cervix is a safe distance away... not so if it all happens very fast! Owwwwiiieeeee!

Wilted, you seem pretty savvy about things things. Does that make sense to you? Do you think I could be right?

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Glad to know that I'm not the only female that feels this way, I was beginning to think that I was a weirdo or something. LOL !!!!
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wilted calluna wrote:
There are ways that you can control how deeply they penetrate, but I agree with you. If I were with a man with a large penis, he'd have to be careful with penetration, and frankly, sometimes I just want to be pounded...and it aint happening with a large guy. It is why I really wonder about these guys who wish they had a huge penis.
your two posts here reveal something that has not been said clearly enough before ....

you are right .. all my past GF's loved it best when I pounded so that our pubic bones banged together ... and now we learn that too much length prevents that ... hmmm.

BUTT, I still hear that thickness is good ... hmmmm.

How thick is too thick? A woman's wrist is about 6 to 6.5 inches around. A man;s wrist is between 7 to 8 inches circumference depending on how big his bones are...
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all I can say is, Amen.
It's so sad that men are so hung up on the idea that it's gotta be big when there are so many actual downsides to big. And there's no convincing them of that sometimes. I want to feel his body slamming into me and a big penis is going to hurt me if he does that - even one in the range of average if he does it in the wrong position!
you;re right about that. I guess mother nature knew what she was doing when she determiend the AVERAGE size and made more than 75% of men within 5 to 7 inches.

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TriciaThePhoneSexOperator wrote:
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What was wonderful about the 5" guy?
He was an incredible lover, overall. His penis felt nice, yes, but he took his time and really made sure I enjoyed everything.

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I just recently had a "blinding flash of the obvious." If I use my vibrator in a situation where I've gotten aroused very quickly and I'm too enthusiastic with it, I sometimes hurt myself. I'm pretty sure I'm beating the hell out of my cervix. lol (there's no such thing as tmi on this forum, right??)
I finally figured out what was going on - I was using it the same way I do when my vagina has had time to do it's lengthening thing. Normally, my cervix is a safe distance away... not so if it all happens very fast! Owwwwiiieeeee!
Wilted, you seem pretty savvy about things things. Does that make sense to you? Do you think I could be right?
Yes. Your vagina elongates as you are aroused. Most people think of the vagina as a tube that stays open as a constant space. It is a potential space, meaning that the walls touch each other when not in use. During arousal, the vagina elongates and the cervix and uterus ascend to make more room. Even still, you can hit the cervix, and it can hurt. Some women like it, some don't. Personally, if a penis is grazing my cervix, I don't mind. If it is pounding it, it really hurts.

So go slow and tease yourself some more. ;)

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Franko wrote:
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your two posts here reveal something that has not been said clearly enough before ....
you are right .. all my past GF's loved it best when I pounded so that our pubic bones banged together ... and now we learn that too much length prevents that ... hmmm.
BUTT, I still hear that thickness is good ... hmmmm.
How thick is too thick? A woman's wrist is about 6 to 6.5 inches around. A man;s wrist is between 7 to 8 inches circumference depending on how big his bones are...
Behind the mons is the clitoris, so no surprise there. Many women can become very aroused by massage and rhythmic pressure on the mons because it indirectly stimulates the clitoris.

As far as girth, it is far more important than length, but here again, average is perfect. If a man with large girth enters a woman who is not fully aroused, he can tear her. She may not feel it then, but later....ouch.

I wish men would understand...most women want you for who you are anyway. She's not going to run off with the well hung guy next door, if she's a real woman. Not to mention that there is so much more to sex than penetration. I personally prefer a man who is 5-6 inches with a circumference of 4-5 inches. HOWEVER...if I was in love with a man of smaller or larger size, I would still enjoy sex with him. If he was larger, he'd have to understand that he couldn't fully penetrate.

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Yes. Your vagina elongates as you are aroused. Most people think of the vagina as a tube that stays open as a constant space. It is a potential space, meaning that the walls touch each other when not in use. During arousal, the vagina elongates and the cervix and uterus ascend to make more room. Even still, you can hit the cervix, and it can hurt. Some women like it, some don't. Personally, if a penis is grazing my cervix, I don't mind. If it is pounding it, it really hurts.
So go slow and tease yourself some more. ;)
Okay, that's always been my understanding, as well. Thanks for the confirmation and information. FWIW, I'm one of those that is NOT a fan of having my cervix touched at all.

As far as going slower and teasing, lol, I do enjoy when it happens all fast and hot like that sometimes. I just have to remember to choke up on the vibe a lil bit, I guess. tee hee.(Realize that I'm not exactly alone when I'm doing this so sometimes the moment is just right... you know how that goes :-D )

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