why do guys not like chubby girls?

[Melissa]

im a chubby girl and I know 2 guys out of my whole school that like chubby girls. Then all the other guys make fun of us. Wth. We are just like any other chicks, we just have more meat on our bones.
What do you guys think?

[Bree]

I know! They talk about us chubby girls behind our backs and make fun of us and everything! Well I think they should get used to us because were gonna be here for a long time. And if men dont like it than its thier problem. Because Im a chubby girl I have only had 3 boyfriends because of my weight. I think its just plain unfair. I dont want to have problems because I want a guy.

[RealMusicFan]

Melissa wrote:

im a chubby girl and I know 2 guys out of my whole school that like chubby girls. Then all the other guys make fun of us. Wth. We are just like any other chicks, we just have more meat on our bones.
What do you guys think?

How much extra "meat" are we talking about? 25lbs, 50lbs, 100lbs...more? There is a point where you move from meaty to disgusting.

[JohnnyBeGood]

How chubby are you girls? I prefer a woman with some meat on her bones, but not fat!

[mr fab]

fat chicks need love too

[bumpkin]

nothing wrong with a girl that has a nice plump booty and big set of boobs. im a chubby girl and i havent had a problem my man likes all of what i got. but i think if your boobs are kinda big it makes you look a little bigger than what you are. who wants bones sticking you in the stomach while having sex? not me thats a turn off. i prefer meaty men some thing i can hold on to,not a broom handle :)

[Divnity]

My observation, the overweight people tend to put more emphasis on their weight than ANYONE else could.

It seems a bit self absorbed and that is a major turn off for me, along with lack of confidence. Confidence is the single biggest turn on for men or women.
It's not their weight at all. I prefer meat on the bones and despise the little models with stick figures. Skinny women are ugly IMO. The worst thing on a womans figure is if I see her ribcage. Doesn't even have to see ribs just the lower part of the cage. It's so gross to me!

[Ronnnie]

Its all good if you are healthy. It becomes a problem when some one reaches a obese zone. I think guys and girls generally prefer healthy fit people. Considering that over 60% of people fall in the overweight category there is a lot of hypocrites out there.

[Melissa]

Well I have some sort of confidence. And I hate it when ppl call us "fat chicks" that's just plain rude. But w/e ppl have there opinions.
And right on bree!

[Ronnnie]

Melissa wrote:

Well I have some sort of confidence. And I hate it when ppl call us "fat chicks" that's just plain rude. But w/e ppl have there opinions.
And right on bree!

Is calling somebody chubby better than calling them fat?

[JohnnyBeGood]

Ronnnie wrote:

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Is calling somebody chubby better than calling them fat?

I would think so. Which would you rather be called.

[bumpkin]

JohnnyBeGood wrote:

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I would think so. Which would you rather be called.

johnny are you a chunky man since you like a little meat on your womans bones? cause i always noticed alot of skinny guys dont like women of curves.(like me).any way have a good night...

[Emily1081]

I hate when people call "chubby" girls "BIG GIRLS." I think that is the most idiotic way to sound politically correct. I would rather be called a fat ass than a "big girl." LMAO!

[COMMON1]

i like women of a variety of sizes, shapes, and colors. to be completely honest, i am not that attracted to women who are just plain fat. i do like curvaceous, voluptuous women who may be considered a little chubby pretty much just as much as i like more skinny women. i do think there is something as too far on either extreme. but i also care about more than just looks, like personality, intelligence, sense of humor, priorities in life etc. i think having the complete package is more important than just weighing a certain amount on a scale.

[Ronnnie]

JohnnyBeGood wrote:

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I would think so. Which would you rather be called.

I don't think anybody will ever call me them names and it would bother me to be called either. I think there both equally disrespectful and wouldn't use them on anybody. I just asked because the girl was calling herself chubby.

[jojo]

black men luv obese women, go for them

[CurvedHorn]

The only thing I don't like about chubby girls is if they have a big gut. Seems it gets in the way of a few things.

[Eagle1]

I love chubby girls, any guy that doesn't like them doesn't know what they are missing!

[Melissa]

Well at least some ppl like chubby girls..
www.myspace.com/bellocuoremelly

There is me

[Haahvad]

I think the problem is that guys who like chubby girls will get so much shit from other people about it that they just don't admit it.

The best thing to do is remember that you are your own person. Don't define yourself based upon the guy you are with. Don't look to a guy to complete you or as a solution to the problems in your life. Be independent and self-sufficient. When you get a little older you'll be able to pick and choose to find the best guy because you won't be stuck having to depend upon one.