why do guys not like chubby girls?

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Melissa

Trenton, NJ

#1 May 13, 2008
im a chubby girl and I know 2 guys out of my whole school that like chubby girls. Then all the other guys make fun of us. Wth. We are just like any other chicks, we just have more meat on our bones.
What do you guys think?
Bree

AOL

#2 May 13, 2008
I know! They talk about us chubby girls behind our backs and make fun of us and everything! Well I think they should get used to us because were gonna be here for a long time. And if men dont like it than its thier problem. Because Im a chubby girl I have only had 3 boyfriends because of my weight. I think its just plain unfair. I dont want to have problems because I want a guy.

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Since: Dec 07

Wasilla

#3 May 13, 2008
Melissa wrote:
im a chubby girl and I know 2 guys out of my whole school that like chubby girls. Then all the other guys make fun of us. Wth. We are just like any other chicks, we just have more meat on our bones.
What do you guys think?
How much extra "meat" are we talking about? 25lbs, 50lbs, 100lbs...more? There is a point where you move from meaty to disgusting.

Since: May 08

United States

#4 May 13, 2008
How chubby are you girls? I prefer a woman with some meat on her bones, but not fat!
mr fab

Oakland, CA

#6 May 13, 2008
fat chicks need love too

“TRUTH HURTS HUH?”

Since: Nov 07

United States

#7 May 13, 2008
nothing wrong with a girl that has a nice plump booty and big set of boobs. im a chubby girl and i havent had a problem my man likes all of what i got. but i think if your boobs are kinda big it makes you look a little bigger than what you are. who wants bones sticking you in the stomach while having sex? not me thats a turn off. i prefer meaty men some thing i can hold on to,not a broom handle :)

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Since: Apr 08

Earth, mostly

#8 May 13, 2008
My observation, the overweight people tend to put more emphasis on their weight than ANYONE else could.

It seems a bit self absorbed and that is a major turn off for me, along with lack of confidence. Confidence is the single biggest turn on for men or women.
It's not their weight at all. I prefer meat on the bones and despise the little models with stick figures. Skinny women are ugly IMO. The worst thing on a womans figure is if I see her ribcage. Doesn't even have to see ribs just the lower part of the cage. It's so gross to me!

Since: Dec 07

Brisbane, Australia

#9 May 13, 2008
Its all good if you are healthy. It becomes a problem when some one reaches a obese zone. I think guys and girls generally prefer healthy fit people. Considering that over 60% of people fall in the overweight category there is a lot of hypocrites out there.
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Melissa

Trenton, NJ

#10 May 14, 2008
Well I have some sort of confidence. And I hate it when ppl call us "fat chicks" that's just plain rude. But w/e ppl have there opinions.
And right on bree!

Since: Dec 07

Brisbane, Australia

#11 May 14, 2008
Melissa wrote:
Well I have some sort of confidence. And I hate it when ppl call us "fat chicks" that's just plain rude. But w/e ppl have there opinions.
And right on bree!
Is calling somebody chubby better than calling them fat?

Since: May 08

United States

#12 May 15, 2008
Ronnnie wrote:
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Is calling somebody chubby better than calling them fat?
I would think so. Which would you rather be called.

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Since: Nov 07

Watseka, IL

#13 May 15, 2008
JohnnyBeGood wrote:
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I would think so. Which would you rather be called.
johnny are you a chunky man since you like a little meat on your womans bones? cause i always noticed alot of skinny guys dont like women of curves.(like me).any way have a good night...

Since: Jul 07

Washington, DC

#14 May 15, 2008
I hate when people call "chubby" girls "BIG GIRLS." I think that is the most idiotic way to sound politically correct. I would rather be called a fat ass than a "big girl." LMAO!

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Since: Apr 08

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#15 May 15, 2008
i like women of a variety of sizes, shapes, and colors. to be completely honest, i am not that attracted to women who are just plain fat. i do like curvaceous, voluptuous women who may be considered a little chubby pretty much just as much as i like more skinny women. i do think there is something as too far on either extreme. but i also care about more than just looks, like personality, intelligence, sense of humor, priorities in life etc. i think having the complete package is more important than just weighing a certain amount on a scale.

Since: Dec 07

Brisbane, Australia

#16 May 16, 2008
JohnnyBeGood wrote:
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I would think so. Which would you rather be called.
I don't think anybody will ever call me them names and it would bother me to be called either. I think there both equally disrespectful and wouldn't use them on anybody. I just asked because the girl was calling herself chubby.
jojo

Paramount, CA

#17 May 16, 2008
black men luv obese women, go for them
CurvedHorn

Hartford, CT

#18 May 16, 2008
The only thing I don't like about chubby girls is if they have a big gut. Seems it gets in the way of a few things.

Since: Jun 07

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#19 May 16, 2008
I love chubby girls, any guy that doesn't like them doesn't know what they are missing!
Melissa

Trenton, NJ

#20 May 16, 2008
Well at least some ppl like chubby girls..
www.myspace.com/bellocuoremelly

There is me
Haahvad

Sahuarita, AZ

#21 May 16, 2008
I think the problem is that guys who like chubby girls will get so much shit from other people about it that they just don't admit it.

The best thing to do is remember that you are your own person. Don't define yourself based upon the guy you are with. Don't look to a guy to complete you or as a solution to the problems in your life. Be independent and self-sufficient. When you get a little older you'll be able to pick and choose to find the best guy because you won't be stuck having to depend upon one.

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