Wife out of town drunk gets laid? your reaction?

Created by caraven on Jun 21, 2009

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Divorce her

go to marriage counselor

cheat on her make it even

want to know every detail

get really hard an do her

ask her to do a mfm

hate her forever

its cool only one time no prob

find her more sexy then ever

tell her your glad she told u

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caraven

Dayton, OH

#1 Jun 21, 2009
if your wife went out of town came back an told you , "i got really drunk and this guy "f--ked me" how would you feel what would your reaction be? i would bbe ok with it, 1 time deal stranger she will never see again, i would really wanna do her, how would you re act?

“Alejandro.”

Since: Nov 08

London, silly

#2 Jun 21, 2009
i dont know. i would always say ditch her if she cheated... but now im thinkin if my girlfriend did that i would probably forgive her as long as it was just a drunken mistake and she regretted it... cause i love her so much and wouldnt want her to not be in my life... it would kill me though if she cheated
caraven

Dayton, OH

#3 Jun 21, 2009
well it wouldnt be romantic just that she got drunk and was out of town resistance down and got banged

“Alejandro.”

Since: Nov 08

London, silly

#4 Jun 22, 2009
then yeahh would be extremely upset but would forgive her. cause im too crazy about her not to.
caraven

Dayton, OH

#5 Jun 22, 2009
would it make u wanna do her?

“Alejandro.”

Since: Nov 08

London, silly

#6 Jun 23, 2009
i guess in a way. sort of to put me back in charge. haha. i always want to do her anyway lol.
Ami

Sarasota, FL

#7 Jun 23, 2009
I would encourage her to press charges.

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#8 Jun 23, 2009
What the rest of the story, honey? No more story. That's it? You're sure? Why did you tell me then? Oh, there was a reason. Please, explain.

Something is way messed up if you ever get a story like this. Rape, partying, got drunk with the guy and she didn't participate he did, dying to tell you, pregnant, HIV-positive - could be so many things. Hold on tight cause it'll be a tough ride. But it's not your ride yet. Before you go into it, put on a gentle pause. "Se ya in a little bit." "Where ya going?" "It's better if I breath a little bit then I can hear you better. Give me a little time."

Where are you really going? With your cell phone to the car and calling your banks while driving to the bank. Relocate your assets for at least a few days until this whole thing is figured out. If it takes more than a few days, it's over. If it takes 10 minutes and there was a good reason and she says, "Hey why did you move the money, you didn't trust me?" Your answer is based on a mutual vision - no specific words but you have a family, right!? Money goes all back if she's totally innocent. What if she broke the bank during the out-of-town binge? Start over elsewhere the best you can. Intolerable to imagine crawling upward through the trials of life where there will need to be understanding for all the things you don't have (money) again, beside someone you don't trust. Split 100% and git down the road.
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Julia

Melbourne, Australia

#9 Jun 23, 2009
My Andrew would love me to do that. If we could. Julia X

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#10 Jun 23, 2009
Drunk, start over with no money, or leg splits?
Ken

Van Nuys, CA

#11 Jun 23, 2009
This happened with my wife, visiting her family in her home town. She had drinks with her ex-bf and they did it like old times. She woke up in his apartment.

She told me about it, somewhat embarrassed. It turned me on but I acted angry and she became so eager to make it up to me. I made her tell every detail (because I supposedly "had to know" and "no secrets, no lies"). Her "punishment" was to be sex slave for a month so we could do certain things that (she says) she never did with him.
Julia

Melbourne, Australia

#12 Jun 23, 2009
Ken wrote:
This happened with my wife, visiting her family in her home town. She had drinks with her ex-bf and they did it like old times. She woke up in his apartment.
She told me about it, somewhat embarrassed. It turned me on but I acted angry and she became so eager to make it up to me. I made her tell every detail (because I supposedly "had to know" and "no secrets, no lies"). Her "punishment" was to be sex slave for a month so we could do certain things that (she says) she never did with him.
So Ken, when is she going to do it again for you ? Julia X X X
Blond Prince

Chattanooga, TN

#13 Jun 23, 2009
Divorce
Julia

Melbourne, Australia

#14 Jun 23, 2009
Blond Prince wrote:
Divorce
Blonde Prince, you are joking surely ? Can't be much of a marrage if it can't ride out one very big mistake. If it were you and not your wife who had the stray fu-k would you still say "divorce" ? Julia X
Blond Prince

Chattanooga, TN

#15 Jun 23, 2009
Julia wrote:
<quoted text>Blonde Prince, you are joking surely ? Can't be much of a marrage if it can't ride out one very big mistake. If it were you and not your wife who had the stray fu-k would you still say "divorce" ? Julia X
The only way I would not divorce her would be if she brought the guy back for a three way and he better look like Brad Pitt!
Ami

Sarasota, FL

#16 Jun 23, 2009
Blond Prince wrote:
<quoted text>
The only way I would not divorce her would be if she brought the guy back for a three way and he better look like Brad Pitt!
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tex with black hat

United States

#17 Jun 23, 2009
she would be over my knee for a session with the lexan paddle........then she would get eaten and fecked and all would be forgiven.......
its me

Charlotte, NC

#18 Jun 23, 2009
I couldn't do anything other than forgive - I have strayed myself and that is the least I could do
Paul

Van Nuys, CA

#19 Jun 23, 2009
I'd want to hear all about it: why was she drinking, how did she meet him, what did he think about her, why did she like him, who made the first sexual move, how did they leave together, how was he in bed, what did she do different than with me, how big was he, what did they say when she woke up, would she see him again.

Then I'd decide if this was an accident, or a sign of a bad marriage, or do I want more sexual freedom too. And how do I feel about what she did -- a turn-on, or scared she will leave me, or angry at him for seducing her, or mad at her for being weak.

IN my case, I wouldn't do anything drastic because I've already done the same, although I wasn't that drunk (a guy can't be and still be any good for sex). She doesn't know, though, so I have the high moral ground.

“Men should be submissive”

Since: Nov 07

Location hidden

#20 Jun 23, 2009
AlanE wrote:
What the rest of the story, honey? No more story. That's it? You're sure? Why did you tell me then? Oh, there was a reason. Please, explain.
Something is way messed up if you ever get a story like this. Rape, partying, got drunk with the guy and she didn't participate he did, dying to tell you, pregnant, HIV-positive - could be so many things. Hold on tight cause it'll be a tough ride. But it's not your ride yet. Before you go into it, put on a gentle pause. "Se ya in a little bit." "Where ya going?" "It's better if I breath a little bit then I can hear you better. Give me a little time."
Where are you really going? With your cell phone to the car and calling your banks while driving to the bank. Relocate your assets for at least a few days until this whole thing is figured out. If it takes more than a few days, it's over. If it takes 10 minutes and there was a good reason and she says, "Hey why did you move the money, you didn't trust me?" Your answer is based on a mutual vision - no specific words but you have a family, right!? Money goes all back if she's totally innocent. What if she broke the bank during the out-of-town binge? Start over elsewhere the best you can. Intolerable to imagine crawling upward through the trials of life where there will need to be understanding for all the things you don't have (money) again, beside someone you don't trust. Split 100% and git down the road.
Hi AllanE,

I bet some who read your post feel it is a bit harsh or over-reacting. I happen to agree with you! My marriage ended when the husband I trusted emptied all my accounts and maxed out my credit cards to pay for his seduction of other women. I lost everything and when the divorce was over, I even ended up paying him maintenance! Unfortunately, I never saw it coming; I would have taken steps to protect my finances had I known.

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