Penis size preference ?
Abc

UK

#10287 Dec 27, 2013
I'm 18 with a 4.5-5 inch penis, I've had sex but never asked how it was, could a girl be satisfied by 4.5-5 inches?
brother

Euless, TX

#10288 Dec 27, 2013
Mine is 7 1/2" long and 3" thick round and im cut too.it the truth too.
Winters

Valrico, FL

#10289 Dec 27, 2013
4.5-5 inches is below average from what I understand. I'm assuming that what you measured is the length of your goods when you're hard. Women, as we know, are complicated. Some will jump your bones and will want to get it in without foreplay. I'll go out on a limb and say a lot, if not most, like foreplay before hand to build up the tension before getting into the main act.

Knowing how to go about foreplay is very important. You could say its 1/4 if not 1/3 of the whole act. The rest is actually throwing on a rain coat, or not, and poking her belly button from the inside. How you go about this is very important. Again, each girl is different. Some like it to be sensual, romantic, or rough. Different strokes for different folks. Being in tune with her wants is important. You know what she needs and that's physical contact but in what way is the question.

Last but not least is the positions you get into. Each position is fun in its own way. There are ones where the girl is on top and controls the situation (cowgirl, etc). Others are where either the guy is leading (missionary, doggy). Preference will again play its part. Another is the infamous G-Spot, and some positions are better to hit that more than others.

The whole length and girth does have its place. Some girls want it big (7"-8"+). Like they'd pull down a guys pants and wonder, "are we going to fuck or are we about to play baseball." A lot of women want it average (5"-6"). Others smaller. Now you're just below average and there's nothing wrong with that my friend. You cater to a specific pool of women that would prefer someone of your size. Would be rude to no to any of those women unless it goes against your values to do so.

In the end you've got to educate yourself on this. The more knowledge you have the better. At some point you'll have to put theory in to practice. So go get 'em tiger.
jeff

Winfield, WV

#10290 Jan 29, 2014
Mine is 7.5" long and over 6" around. I'm only 16 and had sex with one girl 2 times. The first time she was a virgin and couldn't take it but the second time with some practice I got the whole thing in but couldn't go too fast cause it hurt her. Idk if all girls are like that because I would like to go faster in sex because I last a pretty long time. Will other girls be this way? Because I would like to find a more experienced girl that will let me put the whole thing in and go as hard and fast as I want.
Falcon

Woodstock, GA

#10291 Jan 29, 2014
Winters wrote:
4.5-5 inches is below average from what I understand. I'm assuming that what you measured is the length of your goods when you're hard. Women, as we know, are complicated. Some will jump your bones and will want to get it in without foreplay. I'll go out on a limb and say a lot, if not most, like foreplay before hand to build up the tension before getting into the main act.
Knowing how to go about foreplay is very important. You could say its 1/4 if not 1/3 of the whole act. The rest is actually throwing on a rain coat, or not, and poking her belly button from the inside. How you go about this is very important. Again, each girl is different. Some like it to be sensual, romantic, or rough. Different strokes for different folks. Being in tune with her wants is important. You know what she needs and that's physical contact but in what way is the question.
Last but not least is the positions you get into. Each position is fun in its own way. There are ones where the girl is on top and controls the situation (cowgirl, etc). Others are where either the guy is leading (missionary, doggy). Preference will again play its part. Another is the infamous G-Spot, and some positions are better to hit that more than others.
The whole length and girth does have its place. Some girls want it big (7"-8"+). Like they'd pull down a guys pants and wonder, "are we going to fuck or are we about to play baseball." A lot of women want it average (5"-6"). Others smaller. Now you're just below average and there's nothing wrong with that my friend. You cater to a specific pool of women that would prefer someone of your size. Would be rude to no to any of those women unless it goes against your values to do so.
In the end you've got to educate yourself on this. The more knowledge you have the better. At some point you'll have to put theory in to practice. So go get 'em tiger.
So is your advice the same for a guy like me, with an erect 3.5" length and 3.5" girth? I find the pool of women that prefer my size to be imposible to find.
Anthony

Manchester, UK

#10292 Jan 31, 2014
Caligula wrote:
My measurements were 5.4 inches in length and 4.5 in girth.
Do you think is very thin?
I've had a surgery a month ago to improve my girth cuz I had a big complex.
Now is 5.1 inches in girth, but I think it will be 4.9-5 later.
I'm reading a lot of posts here people telling their girth is 6in, I think that's a big one. The average is around 5, as I've been told...
I think many people just exaggerate their size. This is internet, so I can say I am 13 years old and I have a 12 inch penis and some people may even believe me. If there were so many 13-14 year olds swinging 10 inch clubs between their legs (as they brag), than there would be pants with 3 legs manufactured for men, when they are just mixing up cm with inches (they are all in the 10-12 range, while 10-12 cm is considered the average for this age). A girth of 6 inches is about the size of a spray tube (I tried a regular-sized condom for the first time when I was 18 and it was tight as hell and I had a pretty modest endowment at that age). So, If all men have spray can penises, then why are the average condoms so small? I once saw a medical website where a group of regular people had their penises flaccid and erect photographed and the vast majority looked rather modest (these penises were natural ones- with untrimmed pubes, darker complexion than the rest of the body, some degree of folding in the skin etc. and not the "perfect" ones you see in porn: hairless, smooth and seemingly full of fluids). I do not think a penis can get as big as a forearm by natural means, because we are humans and not horses.
Finally, a girth of 4.5 inches is the same as a banana, so it is not small.
Charlesmone

Pine Bluff, AR

#10293 Feb 13, 2014
Mine is 10 1/2 but it's a curse because it's hard to get hard than woman can't take it
Pam

Sidney, MT

#10294 Feb 15, 2014
I'm going to say it depends on experience and also the size of the girls vagina they come in different sizes as well. For me I know its both, regardless that I'm a very petite women 5'1" 105 lbs. When I was 14 I started dating a senior in high school I had first had sex at 12 and had been with 4 different guys around 5"-6" average girth. But when my new boy friend pulled out his cock my mouth dropped it was huge longer and twice the thickness. I probably should had been scared lol but I wasn't I was even more excited to have sex with him. When he pushed it into me I could totally tell the difference size makes a big difference!!! Its stretched me and I could feel it going much deeper as well. We dated for 3 years and had sex all the time amazing emotional mind blowing orgasm sex. I got pregnent and had a daughter and we tried to make it last but both weren't ready for marrage and broke up.
I can say one thing as far as when I consider a guy big I'm talking about girth being involved. After we broke up I did date and have sex with a few long ones ;) and while they do reach nicely inside. They don't provide the needed stretch for me and I was with a few while not as thick but nice in girth without the length enjoyed then as well to a point. Getting married to a guy that wasnt what I call the right fit ( too smal for me) I'm not saying he's to small for every girl. I'm sure there are many who would be happy with his size out there I wasn't. I thought I could get use to his size over time but never could I was just sexually flustered and depressed. I began having sex with my ex every chance I got and ended up divorcing my husband. I then got back togeather and married my ex and my depression is completely gone! I've never need more happy in my life I'm with someone who actually fit me ;). Very happy with my MANS 8 3/4" long and 6 1/2" around perfect cock!!!
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BeachGirl

Miami Beach, FL

#10295 Feb 16, 2014
I had a boyfriend once who had a 9 inch one LOL he mad me measure it.. It was horrible. It always hurt. Ya the last girl it stretches you out it hurts like hell. You are always sore down there. He never could go fast always very slow.and never could put it in all the way in. He had a hard time having an orgasm with just sex. I think if you are in good shape I am a Zumba instructor big penises are never any fun. My current boyfriend has a 5 1/2 inch one and it is perfect. We can have sex in all positions and he can go fast which is lot of fun.for me They should put warning stickers on the big packages that they hurt LOL.
Lee

Indianapolis, IN

#10296 Feb 23, 2014
BeachGirl wrote:
I had a boyfriend once who had a 9 inch one LOL he mad me measure it.. It was horrible. It always hurt. Ya the last girl it stretches you out it hurts like hell. You are always sore down there. He never could go fast always very slow.and never could put it in all the way in. He had a hard time having an orgasm with just sex. I think if you are in good shape I am a Zumba instructor big penises are never any fun. My current boyfriend has a 5 1/2 inch one and it is perfect. We can have sex in all positions and he can go fast which is lot of fun.for me They should put warning stickers on the big packages that they hurt LOL.
I am sorry that it hurt you so bad, but yet its kinda funny.... the the really huge guys want to claim they are so good and yet it hurts most women so bad, thats interesting
AlexaXOXO

Oakville, Canada

#10297 Feb 23, 2014
i once had sex with a man who had a large 4 inch penis, it felt so good and when i saw it i was speechless i had never seen anything so huge in my life
BeachGirl

Silver Spring, MD

#10298 Feb 23, 2014
Lee wrote:
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I am sorry that it hurt you so bad, but yet its kinda funny.... the the really huge guys want to claim they are so good and yet it hurts most women so bad, thats interesting
Lee you are right it was pretty funny. All I ever heard from my girlfriends was how a big dick was great so wrong. I actually wanted to laugh when I saw it. I started giggling kind of spoiled the moment. Than he said why dont I measure it. What type of guy says that when you are about to have sex. Than when he went to stick it in I just wanted to laugh and cry it hurt so bad. It was bigger than my forearm and I just wanted to laugh. He was not very good in bed. He thought his big dick was all I needed so wrong. You seem like a caring guy that is more important than the size of your dick. Never again with a big dick if I see whne I am running away LOL.
Mikey

East Weymouth, MA

#10299 Apr 24, 2014
I am 30 she is 28 and I am 5.5 inches and about 2.5-3 in girth although me and my gf have noticed that that i only get that big occasionally prob because of blood flow for what ever reason avg it prob goes to 5 in and is 2 in when soft anyway my gf and I were talking and the subject came up of her past lovers I prob should have let it go but continued on apparently she has had 7 lovers all of whom are bigger than me I am by far the smallest 7-8 is what she has had and I (like an idiot kept it going) and said well what about thickness tho... And she shot back almost with an excitement in her voice oh the guy that was 7.5 was defiantly thicker too... I dunno I guess it kinda made me feel inadequate and actually I was a little turned on that she has had big ones but I dunno I guess I'm just feeling lost and confused
Tyler

Chesapeake, VA

#10302 Jun 19, 2014
I'm 6.5" long and about 5" I'm girth, I'm 14... Is that too small?
Jack

Antiguo Cuscatlán, El Salvador

#10303 Jun 19, 2014
Mikey wrote:
I am 30 she is 28 and I am 5.5 inches and about 2.5-3 in girth although me and my gf have noticed that that i only get that big occasionally prob because of blood flow for what ever reason avg it prob goes to 5 in and is 2 in when soft anyway my gf and I were talking and the subject came up of her past lovers I prob should have let it go but continued on apparently she has had 7 lovers all of whom are bigger than me I am by far the smallest 7-8 is what she has had and I (like an idiot kept it going) and said well what about thickness tho... And she shot back almost with an excitement in her voice oh the guy that was 7.5 was defiantly thicker too... I dunno I guess it kinda made me feel inadequate and actually I was a little turned on that she has had big ones but I dunno I guess I'm just feeling lost and confused
Dude I totally understand you, it's weird but I was kinda turned on myself knowing my ex gf was having it with a bigger guy while I was away (distance relationship)
She said it's kinda addicting, even though the guy wasn't incredibly huge but still bigger than me.
I'm 6.5 inches and from what she said he had like 8 inches, but specially thicker.

In the end size is definitely not everything because she broke up and wanted me back... only 2 weeks later. Even though the story turned me on I also said no way. She'd surely do it with others again if I'd let her back

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#10304 Jun 24, 2014
Jack wrote:
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Dude I totally understand you, it's weird but I was kinda turned on myself knowing my ex gf was having it with a bigger guy while I was away (distance relationship)
She said it's kinda addicting, even though the guy wasn't incredibly huge but still bigger than me.
I'm 6.5 inches and from what she said he had like 8 inches, but specially thicker.
In the end size is definitely not everything because she broke up and wanted me back... only 2 weeks later. Even though the story turned me on I also said no way. She'd surely do it with others again if I'd let her back
You were right not to take her back. Once a girl has had a big p3nis she won't be happy with 6.5 inches. I really love my guy but when I meet a boy with a really nice bulge in hi pants I lose control. 6.5 inches can definitely satisfy me but it is not enough to stop a girl from wandering.
Pam

United States

#10306 Jul 9, 2014
Very true a girl might not find the right man with every thing she likes about him. When you find a great guy but the size is an issue there will be that desire you once had. Some girls never had it so it wouldn't matter to them or had a bad experince with a big one. My experince was amazing and my desire drove me back to him. It was never a lack of the other guys not knowing what to do they tried really hard. My poor ex husband just could never reach the spot or stretch me like my ex big one can. Being remarried to my true love was the perfect decision for me. We are a perfect match or for better words a perfect fit and that where I think it matters. Do the two of you fit like a puzzle piece I know 8 3/4" long and 6 1/2" around fits perfectly inside of my pussy!!!
tom

Chilliwack, Canada

#10307 Jul 10, 2014
My 6 inches and 5 inch girth..... Works good in the sex dept. I discovered....
Mikey

East Weymouth, MA

#10308 Jul 22, 2014
Soo we were trying different positions and she kept changing them cause I would either fall out or I'd only be in a little bit finally the last position before she said to me just to lay down on the bed so she could get on top was me sitting on the chair and her on top after like 3 seconds I fell out and she giggled and said aww well your just too small
She did get off later when we I was laying back and she was on top but I don't think it was the penetration more her engulfing my hole dick and her rapidly rubbing herself against my waist she doesn't like it when I move at all I pretty much stay perfectly still while she goes to town I've been kinda thinking this is prob why we maybe have sex twice a month if I'm lucky...4.5 inches doesn't seem to be enough I guess
julie

Mumbai, India

#10310 Aug 18, 2014
when i hold his big cock it felt like york in my hand & boofing coops huge spurm on my face n hairs. may the ffull size was 12" at the time...yup.

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