Are you embarrased to be naked in front of your mate?

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female that needs advice

Pompano Beach, FL

#1 Mar 31, 2008
My boyfriend always tries to go down my bra and look at my boobs and i am scared to see what he thinks of them or say i have big Bs and im only 13, so idk what he would think. and ive gaven him head and i almost chocked cause its so big hahaha! and he always wants to eat me out but im scared what he will think or say, has that ever happend to you or something like that?
Justtryingtohelp

Elliot Lake, Canada

#2 Mar 31, 2008
You are 13, you shouldn't be at that kind of stuff, after all, you are only a child. You are trying to grow up too fast, don't let him eat you out.
Panty Sniffer

Los Angeles, CA

#3 Mar 31, 2008
You really don't need to be doing any of that, I waited until I was 20 & I almost regret not waiting longer (and I'm a guy). There's no rush, accidents happen, are you ready for a baby. If you're having sex you better be even with protection.

Since: Feb 08

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#4 Apr 1, 2008
female that needs advice wrote:
My boyfriend always tries to go down my bra and look at my boobs and i am scared to see what he thinks of them or say i have big Bs and im only 13, so idk what he would think. and ive gaven him head and i almost chocked cause its so big hahaha! and he always wants to eat me out but im scared what he will think or say, has that ever happend to you or something like that?
I know someone who started sex early and got a temporary growth spurt...that has left a beautiful , young, woman with stretch marks that she is scared for people to see. She dun regret the sex but I think she would like her proper body back :(

I can't believe that he has not seen your titties but you have given head....you be careful girl...males are very manipulative...he will have you in threesomes and doing bum tricks in no time :(

You are too young IMHO
female that needs advice

Pompano Beach, FL

#5 Apr 1, 2008
when is the right age then because were deeply in love and he wants to marry me.
i trust him, and ill deff use protection but we are so close to having sex its crazy. my mom said keep sex till marriage and just have oral until then other than that... idk. im also embarrased what he will think but he says he loves me for me and he could care less about what i look like, but i need to know things before i do stuff or ill look like an idiot. provide info please?
female that needs advice

Pompano Beach, FL

#6 Apr 1, 2008
im a virgin and im 13. My boyfriend is 14. We have been together for 4 months and 2 weeks. He claims he wants to marry me, or at least stay engaged until college.(which is another 10 years). But anyways, we have been really close to having sex and i think im ready for it but im a virgin so i need to know some things for experience so i dont look like im a fool not knowing what to do. he has a 8 in and im scared its going to hurt my first time, can someone give me good advice for the first time i have sex, and how to start it and what i need and what to do. please and thanks!=)
Heather

Warren, OH

#7 Apr 1, 2008
female that needs advice wrote:
im a virgin and im 13. My boyfriend is 14. We have been together for 4 months and 2 weeks. He claims he wants to marry me, or at least stay engaged until college.(which is another 10 years). But anyways, we have been really close to having sex and i think im ready for it but im a virgin so i need to know some things for experience so i dont look like im a fool not knowing what to do. he has a 8 in and im scared its going to hurt my first time, can someone give me good advice for the first time i have sex, and how to start it and what i need and what to do. please and thanks!=)
ur too yung to have sex but not really my mom got pregant wen she was 13 and had my 1st sister wen she was 14 but yea u will hurt 4 bout a week, is ur bf a virgin? well it just happen u start kissin and 4um der. i didnt do all da work. i was scared wat 2 do at 1st too so u dont have 2 worry.
female that needs advice

Pompano Beach, FL

#8 Apr 1, 2008
yea we are both virgins. and we have came so close to having sex, but im scared what it will feel like or if ill get something, or if the condom breaks and ill get pregnat, my mother even wants to put me on birth control in case but i think that is too young to be on it but i need advice??
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will1990

Cambridge, UK

#9 Apr 1, 2008
female that needs advice wrote:
yea we are both virgins. and we have came so close to having sex, but im scared what it will feel like or if ill get something, or if the condom breaks and ill get pregnat, my mother even wants to put me on birth control in case but i think that is too young to be on it but i need advice??
if you think you are too youngfor birth control then aren't you too young for sex???

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#10 Apr 1, 2008
I'm downright petrified to be naked in front of a mirror by myself, forget about any mate............

Since: Sep 07

Bridgeville, PA

#11 Apr 1, 2008
I think you should be getting advice from an adult you know and respect or a professional instead of an annonymous forum.

My opinion....hold off. 4 months and 2 weeks is a blip in your life. If he loves you...he'll wait too.

But as I said first...don't get your sexual advice from an internet human sexuality forum.

“And tell me he's not comfy...”

Since: Feb 08

Rehoboth Beach, DE

#12 Apr 1, 2008
I used to hate the way i looked and once my girl go to talking to me she got me so comfy being naked around her

it didn't raise my confidence around majority of people but around her i have no problems

I walk around with her in the nude and it doesn't take long for one of us to grab the other and go at it but we can walk around and feel nothing weird between each other or with ourselves
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for the original question i was around 14 when i had sex and that relationship wound up in the gutter

I wound up with my friend at 15 about to turn 16

My opinion is to do what u feel
but just think it through

Realize hes probably gonna tell ppl and gossip...well most people do

2 things
1. trust him more then u can trust any1 else
2. if things go sour prepare for the rumor mill to revolve around you (thus trust him)
0311 USMC

Oceanside, CA

#13 Apr 1, 2008
Hell no. I love being naked.

“solo quiero tu amor corazon ”

Since: Mar 08

jersey city

#14 Apr 1, 2008
0311 USMC wrote:
Hell no. I love being naked.
I love being naked too, but that don't change the fact that I won't let my bf see me naked. I wonder, if I will ever let a guy eat me out. I'm so scare what he might say about my p*ssy, but about everything else I don't care, but is not like I'm going to be walking naked when he is around, but I won't mind him seing my boobs.

“solo quiero tu amor corazon ”

Since: Mar 08

jersey city

#15 Apr 1, 2008
female that needs advice wrote:
My boyfriend always tries to go down my bra and look at my boobs and i am scared to see what he thinks of them or say i have big Bs and im only 13, so idk what he would think. and ive gaven him head and i almost chocked cause its so big hahaha! and he always wants to eat me out but im scared what he will think or say, has that ever happend to you or something like that?
honey, I would say stay a virgin as long as you can. I'm 19, and I regret losing my virginity every day. maybe because it didn't happen how I was expecting it to be, but I would do anything to have it back.

I know at that age we are rebel, and curious, but I advised you to leave your curiosity for a later. guys are smart, and they know exactly what to tell us when they want something. moreover I think 4 months is nothing, if you are really thinking on taking that step you should give yourself more time. it brakes my heart to see all these youngs girls having sex maybe because I'm one still, or because I have a younger sister who is 15 who has a boyfriend, and probably is in the same situation but, she won't tell me because she knows I wouldn't approve that, but please wait longer he will promise you the moon the stars and the whole universe just to get what he wants. don't believe he is going to be with you that long I don't want to be a party pooper, but just tell him that, if he wants to marry you 10 years from now he could wait at least 5 more years to have sex and lets see how much he loves you now.

if you decide to have sex after all please take care of youself because if don't nobody else will. get the pills, if you need so use condons. nothing is ever too much do everything you can to protect youself from a pregnancy STD and even HIV.

Since: Dec 07

Brisbane, Australia

#16 Apr 1, 2008
drshorty1 wrote:
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honey, I would say stay a virgin as long as you can. I'm 19, and I regret losing my virginity every day. maybe because it didn't happen how I was expecting it to be, but I would do anything to have it back.
I know at that age we are rebel, and curious, but I advised you to leave your curiosity for a later. guys are smart, and they know exactly what to tell us when they want something. moreover I think 4 months is nothing, if you are really thinking on taking that step you should give yourself more time. it brakes my heart to see all these youngs girls having sex maybe because I'm one still, or because I have a younger sister who is 15 who has a boyfriend, and probably is in the same situation but, she won't tell me because she knows I wouldn't approve that, but please wait longer he will promise you the moon the stars and the whole universe just to get what he wants. don't believe he is going to be with you that long I don't want to be a party pooper, but just tell him that, if he wants to marry you 10 years from now he could wait at least 5 more years to have sex and lets see how much he loves you now.
if you decide to have sex after all please take care of youself because if don't nobody else will. get the pills, if you need so use condons. nothing is ever too much do everything you can to protect youself from a pregnancy STD and even HIV.
WOW!! I'm so Impressed! You give good advice! I hope you come and post here on a regular basis.:)
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Grant, AL

#17 Apr 1, 2008
Everyone may think I'm an ass, but thirteen & mate whats wrong with this or is it just me she is not old enough to even know wat the hell she's talking about and you friggin nuts are giving her advice the thing that comes to mind perverts. What the hell are you thinking giving A KID ADVICE ABOUT SEX????!!!!She don't belong on this thread.......
Jenny Four Eyes

AOL

#18 Apr 1, 2008
How about being naked in front of your significant other and four of his buddies (who will probably be naked too).

I'm trying to decide if I should do this, and I started a Topix about it.

Come lay your advice upon me:

http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/TORQ9LLF9...

“solo quiero tu amor corazon ”

Since: Mar 08

jersey city

#19 Apr 2, 2008
Ronnnie wrote:
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WOW!! I'm so Impressed! You give good advice! I hope you come and post here on a regular basis.:)
hey! thanks...I'm trying my best. is it working?
Heather

Warren, OH

#20 Apr 2, 2008
female that needs advice wrote:
yea we are both virgins. and we have came so close to having sex, but im scared what it will feel like or if ill get something, or if the condom breaks and ill get pregnat, my mother even wants to put me on birth control in case but i think that is too young to be on it but i need advice??
it hurts 4 a while but yea u should take birth control.im takin birth control pills til im 18. 4 bout 3 more weeks im stop takin dem

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