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Straight men who enjoy seeing large cocks

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cj n nj

Massapequa, NY

#1 Oct 23, 2008
I'm straight, no desire to have sex with another man. But I admit to getting aroused by pictures and the occasional live look at large cocks, does that mean I really am gay? Do any other straight guys have the same reactions?

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brian

Jefferson City, MO

#2 Oct 23, 2008
cj n nj wrote:
I'm straight, no desire to have sex with another man. But I admit to getting aroused by pictures and the occasional live look at large cocks, does that mean I really am gay? Do any other straight guys have the same reactions?
I don't thinh your gay. I too enjoy pics of large cocks in panties

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

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#4 Oct 25, 2008
Guess what guys: If you get turned on by cocks you're not technically 100% straight. Why don't you guys fess up, be man enough to admit it and figure out not only are large cocks cool to look at but they're ever cooler to blow.

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The Guru
#6 Oct 25, 2008
guy likes to look at other guys cock (large or small) equals guy is gay.

Simple

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#8 Oct 26, 2008
The Guru wrote:
guy likes to look at other guys cock (large or small) equals guy is gay.
Simple
So simple and so narrow minded. Guess them digging chicks, in your opinion, in no way makes them straight at all.
panTsniffr

United States

#9 Oct 26, 2008
yea honestly its always kinda turned me on looking at other guys cocks especially if they are big! i wonder if its cause mine is pretty small or what but looking at big ones does sometimes get me so turned on that I secretly get the urge to umm hold it and jerk it off...shhh!
Reality

Reston, VA

#10 Oct 26, 2008
So simple and so narrow minded. Guess them digging chicks, in your opinion, in no way makes them straight at all.
Ok, so they are BI. Half gay is still gay. Accept the reality.

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#11 Oct 26, 2008
Reality wrote:
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Ok, so they are BI. Half gay is still gay. Accept the reality.
Well half straight is still straight. I'm afraid you're the one who hasn't dealt with much reality.
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panTsniffr

United States

#12 Oct 26, 2008
so I can't get turned on by looking at other guys big cocks and still be straight?
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#13 Oct 26, 2008
For this one, cjnnj and McMike (I think he stated something similar) bring up a very interesting argument.

If men were not aroused or interested in seeing other men with larger penises than why is this case in porn?

The argument would be that a "straight" man would only like to watch girl on girl/lesbian porn.

Furthermore, why are porn movies with men that have larger penises so popular? Many of the buyers and watchers of such porn are MEN that claim to be heterosexual.

The counter to cjnnj and McMike's argument would be:

1. Heterosexual men pretend in their fantasies to be the male with the larger penis or the male having sex with the other (beautiful/sexy/kinky) women.

So the straight male viewer may simply be wishing to be in the place of the male in the video.

2. Wanting to see another male have sex with a woman and identifying with a male in a movie is arguably not indicative or a true indicator of sexual orientation.

In other words being aroused by a sexual act is NOT the same as WANTING to have bisexual or gay sex.

Wanting to have bisexual or gay sex would arguably be the true indicator. But obviously such a desire may be a secret/hidden one of a so-called straight male.

3. Heterosexual porn is not as good as a "litmus test" as say gay porn.

That a so called straight man chooses to watch and is aroused by gay porn at equal or greater levels than heterosexual porn, might be more indicative of his sexual orientation.

This argument goes back into being aroused by what they see versus WANTING and actually acting it out. It then adds the elements of choice.

So the fact that a heterosexual male chooses NOT to watch gay porn or prefers heterosexual porn, might be making a statement.
refuse 2 believe im gay

AOL

#14 Oct 26, 2008
cj n nj wrote:
I'm straight, no desire to have sex with another man. But I admit to getting aroused by pictures and the occasional live look at large cocks, does that mean I really am gay? Do any other straight guys have the same reactions?
I love looking at mens cocks
especially how they sway from side to side
when im in a public bathroom.
or how long thick and juicy it looks beneath the silky briefs.. does that make me gay? LMFAO

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

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#15 Oct 26, 2008
RealityDealer wrote:
For this one, cjnnj and McMike (I think he stated something similar) bring up a very interesting argument.
If men were not aroused or interested in seeing other men with larger penises than why is this case in porn?
The argument would be that a "straight" man would only like to watch girl on girl/lesbian porn.
Furthermore, why are porn movies with men that have larger penises so popular? Many of the buyers and watchers of such porn are MEN that claim to be heterosexual.
The counter to cjnnj and McMike's argument would be:
1. Heterosexual men pretend in their fantasies to be the male with the larger penis or the male having sex with the other (beautiful/sexy/kinky) women.
So the straight male viewer may simply be wishing to be in the place of the male in the video.
2. Wanting to see another male have sex with a woman and identifying with a male in a movie is arguably not indicative or a true indicator of sexual orientation.
In other words being aroused by a sexual act is NOT the same as WANTING to have bisexual or gay sex.
Wanting to have bisexual or gay sex would arguably be the true indicator. But obviously such a desire may be a secret/hidden one of a so-called straight male.
3. Heterosexual porn is not as good as a "litmus test" as say gay porn.
That a so called straight man chooses to watch and is aroused by gay porn at equal or greater levels than heterosexual porn, might be more indicative of his sexual orientation.
This argument goes back into being aroused by what they see versus WANTING and actually acting it out. It then adds the elements of choice.
So the fact that a heterosexual male chooses NOT to watch gay porn or prefers heterosexual porn, might be making a statement.
Sorry but I don't buy that "I like to pretend it's me" crap. That line is a "straight" guy's way of explaining to himself why he likes to see dick in his porn. Let's just put it this way: men are NOT that complicated. We're simple creatures. We watch porn we get turned on visually - we're not thinking "oh yeah, that's me screwing that person". A straight guy NOT watching gay porn doesn't make any kind of statement. I'd rather watch straight porn so does that make me straight? As I've said before we're simple creatures turned on visually and we don't sit there and come up with a back-story to our porn (ie, yeah that's me in that porn actually). A lot of straight guys will tell you lesbian porn is kind of boring. I've said this 1,000 times before but unless you only watch lesbian porn you need to rethink just how much dick turns you on. I think the line between being straight and being gay is when you actually find a man, from head to toe, attractive and just not his member.

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#16 Oct 26, 2008
refuse 2 believe im gay wrote:
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I love looking at mens cocks
especially how they sway from side to side
when im in a public bathroom.
or how long thick and juicy it looks beneath the silky briefs.. does that make me gay? LMFAO
The litmus test to "Am I gay" is "are you turned on by women?". If the answer is "yes" then, no, technically you're not gay because gay men are NOT turned on by women. Bisexual is the best you'll ever be perhaps.

Since: Jul 08

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#17 Oct 26, 2008
McMike wrote:
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The litmus test to "Am I gay" is "are you turned on by women?". If the answer is "yes" then, no, technically you're not gay because gay men are NOT turned on by women. Bisexual is the best you'll ever be perhaps.
There are guys who say they are gay but have had sex with women in the past while they were still discovering their sexuality. If they had sex with women, then they had to be turned on by them to get an erection. Would you argue that they're not really gay?
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#19 Oct 26, 2008
McMike wrote:
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The litmus test to "Am I gay" is "are you turned on by women?". If the answer is "yes" then, no, technically you're not gay because gay men are NOT turned on by women. Bisexual is the best you'll ever be perhaps.
I agree with this point.
Matt

Reading, UK

#20 Oct 27, 2008
Hi i'm straight but turned on by big cocks, anyone interested in seeing mine or showing there's email me [email protected]
RizlaRed

Kinghorn, UK

#21 Oct 27, 2008
The definition of "gay" is for people who are emotionaly attracted to the same sex as well as physically.

The bisexual normally has emotionaly attachments to the opposite sex but also likes to indulge in same-sex activity but without feeling any need for a more meaningful involvement.

If a gay guy likes to indulge in pussy occassionaly then he too is "bisexual" but remains fundamentaly gay as he still has the emotional preference for guys. And same for a straight guy who likes to look at or play with cocks, he remains straight if his emotional commitment is always towards women.
The Guru
#22 Oct 27, 2008
McMike wrote:
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So simple and so narrow minded. Guess them digging chicks, in your opinion, in no way makes them straight at all.
No, guy who has sex with guy is gay. Digging chicks is a cover for his str8 mates.
lilsuzi

Kinghorn, UK

#24 Oct 27, 2008
methinks you protesteth too much guru.i consider myself straight but enjoy some sex encounters with other girls sometimes. i dont think that makes me a lesbian or that i am in a long term relationship with my man as a "cover" for anything. there is much more to being gay or lesbian than just sex. your ignorant assumptions just makes you come across as very naive and inexperienced or maybe you are a "closet" gay yourself?

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#25 Oct 27, 2008
minesweep85 wrote:
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There are guys who say they are gay but have had sex with women in the past while they were still discovering their sexuality. If they had sex with women, then they had to be turned on by them to get an erection. Would you argue that they're not really gay?
Yes. When I was in highschool I, of course, thought being straight would be a lot easier then being gay so I dated girls and ended up with one for 3 years. The sex was great but, IMO, sex with a man is just way more hardcore, better and easier. So, no, even though I consider myself a gay man the fact I can and have gotten it up with a woman technically makes me bisexual. I'm part of the 80% of the population that's "inbetween".

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