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Father to be

Sydney, Australia

#1 Dec 23, 2011
I am an experienced Dominant male looking for a submissive girl who wants to try a genuine online Master/Slave relationship.

Applicants must be literate, intelligent and serious about giving it trying this out in the long term. I am open to any suggestions you might have and expect the same from you.

Email guileastos24@hotmail.com to apply. Include your Name, Age, Location and Picture if you have one.

Looking forward to speaking to you.
123Chick

London, UK

#2 Dec 23, 2011
I would be willing to apply. Reply to this if you'd like my application.
Gui

Sydney, Australia

#3 Dec 23, 2011
Id love for you to apply.

Since: Dec 11

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#4 Dec 23, 2011
Father to be wrote:
I am an experienced Dominant male looking for a submissive girl who wants to try a genuine online Master/Slave relationship.
Applicants must be literate, intelligent and serious about giving it trying this out in the long term. I am open to any suggestions you might have and expect the same from you.
Email guileastos24@hotmail.com to apply. Include your Name, Age, Location and Picture if you have one.
Looking forward to speaking to you.
Experienced??? Taking applications???? BS! Another clueless pretender who has it all wrong.. does not say a thing about himself and offers no incentive!!!!!

The majority of these guys posting here on Topix are fakes! a Dom has to prove themselves worthy of another's submission!

Since: Dec 11

Liverpool, UK

#5 Dec 23, 2011
jolene1985 wrote:
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Experienced??? Taking applications???? BS! Another clueless pretender who has it all wrong.. does not say a thing about himself and offers no incentive!!!!!
The majority of these guys posting here on Topix are fakes! a Dom has to prove themselves worthy of another's submission!
And understand who the real boss is! ;)
Andrew

El Monte, CA

#6 Dec 23, 2011
jolene1985 wrote:
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Experienced??? Taking applications???? BS! Another clueless pretender who has it all wrong.. does not say a thing about himself and offers no incentive!!!!!
The majority of these guys posting here on Topix are fakes! a Dom has to prove themselves worthy of another's submission!
I bet ur dominant. every time I c u u tell it like it is I love it

Since: Feb 09

Charlotte, NC

#7 Dec 23, 2011
Andrew wrote:
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I bet ur dominant. every time I c u u tell it like it is I love it
Everyone has dominant tendencies. But based on Jolene's post I have noticed she is passionate about protecting submissives. Too many of them go through sub frenzy when they just get into the lifestyle and they are very vulnerable at that time. Any Sub/slave that has been on the receiving end of a newbie Dom "so called MASTER" understands how dangerous things are. It is not only the physical aspect but the mental. BDSM is something that can damage the Sub mentally for years if not the rest of their lives if the Dominant does not have a Clue on what he is doing mentally.

I have had to retrain several subs to show them how to embrace life instead of shutting down during sex or any other play.
123Chick

London, UK

#8 Dec 24, 2011
xanthot wrote:
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Everyone has dominant tendencies. But based on Jolene's post I have noticed she is passionate about protecting submissives. Too many of them go through sub frenzy when they just get into the lifestyle and they are very vulnerable at that time. Any Sub/slave that has been on the receiving end of a newbie Dom "so called MASTER" understands how dangerous things are. It is not only the physical aspect but the mental. BDSM is something that can damage the Sub mentally for years if not the rest of their lives if the Dominant does not have a Clue on what he is doing mentally.
I have had to retrain several subs to show them how to embrace life instead of shutting down during sex or any other play.

It's only online darling.
Join Free

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#12 Dec 24, 2011
xanthot wrote:
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Everyone has dominant tendencies. But based on Jolene's post I have noticed she is passionate about protecting submissives. Too many of them go through sub frenzy when they just get into the lifestyle and they are very vulnerable at that time. Any Sub/slave that has been on the receiving end of a newbie Dom "so called MASTER" understands how dangerous things are. It is not only the physical aspect but the mental. BDSM is something that can damage the Sub mentally for years if not the rest of their lives if the Dominant does not have a Clue on what he is doing mentally.
I have had to retrain several subs to show them how to embrace life instead of shutting down during sex or any other play.
You are one who understands... I have seen too many of my sister subs get hurt. Thanks for your support and have a Merry Christmas!

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#13 Dec 24, 2011
123Chick wrote:
I would be willing to apply. Reply to this if you'd like my application.
Be very careful! It is easy for anyone to state they are an experienced Dom and already this guy has posted using two different names which is a Red Flag! His original post does not state a thing about himself; he does not offer his age, how much experience he has or even a brief description of himself; that is 3 more Red Flags! He is having you “apply” and requesting a pic; he is treating subs as if they are applying for a job. So there is another 2 Red Flags! A decent experienced Dom always puts a submissive's well-being first and knows that he must prove himself worthy of a sub’s submission and will take the lead by first posting more information about himself, will not request a picture until you both have chatted first and established initial trust and will never give commands or issue orders till you have had plenty of time to get to know well, established mutual trust and you have freely decided to submit to him. He now has 6 Red Flags; this shows he is either very inexperienced or being deceptive!

Since: Feb 09

Charlotte, NC

#14 Dec 24, 2011
jolene1985 wrote:
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You are one who understands... I have seen too many of my sister subs get hurt. Thanks for your support and have a Merry Christmas!
You are quite welcome. And I hope you have a Merry Christmas as well.

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#16 Dec 24, 2011
123Chick wrote:
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It's only online darling.
Online M/s is not a game and can be just as real as being in the same room together! The psychological aspects of online BDSM are very real, intense and easy to get caught up in; they are physical as well! Too many subs have paid a high price as they learn the hard way just how dangerous it can be. Online relationships must be entered into cautiously and taken serious!

Since: Feb 09

Charlotte, NC

#19 Dec 24, 2011
Jolene you are correct the desire to please a "master" in a sub is strong if that is the center of their thoughts. They will put themselves into that role and it can consume them beyond reasoning.

If a Dom commands a sub to do certain things. Such as checking in a time, orgasm denial, self inflection of pain and a various other tasks as far as teaching. What the Dom doesn't see or think about in most cases is that the sub has a choice upon being given that command. Brush it off and do it when they think about it. The other which is typically the case Embrace the command and do as her "Master" commands. The problem with the later is those commands start to mold and consume the sub into the person she will become. This is not a problem if the Dominant knows this and guides her through the steps but if he does not then the sub starts second guessing her/himself that they are not worthy. The unworthy feeling causes them to try even harder and if not noticed for the work they are doing behind the scenes it spirals them down even more.

Yes I know that seems unlikely but believe it or not it is more common than you may think. You have someone that has read you give your all to your dominant and they know what is best for you. The mind plays a lot of tricks especially if you are truly wanting something.

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#20 Dec 24, 2011
xanthot wrote:
Jolene you are correct the desire to please a "master" in a sub is strong if that is the center of their thoughts. They will put themselves into that role and it can consume them beyond reasoning.
If a Dom commands a sub to do certain things. Such as checking in a time, orgasm denial, self inflection of pain and a various other tasks as far as teaching. What the Dom doesn't see or think about in most cases is that the sub has a choice upon being given that command. Brush it off and do it when they think about it. The other which is typically the case Embrace the command and do as her "Master" commands. The problem with the later is those commands start to mold and consume the sub into the person she will become. This is not a problem if the Dominant knows this and guides her through the steps but if he does not then the sub starts second guessing her/himself that they are not worthy. The unworthy feeling causes them to try even harder and if not noticed for the work they are doing behind the scenes it spirals them down even more.
Yes I know that seems unlikely but believe it or not it is more common than you may think. You have someone that has read you give your all to your dominant and they know what is best for you. The mind plays a lot of tricks especially if you are truly wanting something.
i agree and i am very aware of the positives, negatives and influences of BDSM and how the mind works as i study Psychology at the graduate level. i am 26 and have been in the lifestyle for 8 years; i first started learning about BDSM in my teens, but did not practice anything until i turned 18 under the guidance of an older submissive who was my mentor and looked after me. i have been living in a 24/7 M/s relationship for the past two years. Master is older (and wiser) and been in the lifestyle for as long as i have been alive. Master is a very loving and caring and knows me as well as i know myself, respects all my boundaries, offers excellent guidance, keeps us grounded in reality and is fully supportive of my academic and career pursuits.

Since: Feb 09

Charlotte, NC

#21 Dec 24, 2011
Jolene It sounds as though you have been very lucky through your experience.

My experience started with trial and error and being very observant with who ever I was with. This started 18 years ago with bondage and telling them to hold back their orgasms and such. After about ten years I started coming in my own and understanding that in some of my aspects I was hypnotizing my subs and such. Over the past 5 years I have become an active person in the BDSM community and currently mentor a few Doms and subs helping them get through the mental aspect and understand the power that both hold.

It has not been a smooth learning experience and I am sure most other dominants go through this learning curve. When I started the internet was just starting and finding information about the lifestyle was very limited.

The problem that most people starting in the lifestyle is that they are seeing all the great things that can be done with the rigging, impact play, fire play and such but there isn't anything about the mental conditioning that has to happen. It is a slow process and should be treated that way.

As far as your statement about interviews earlier. I do interview my subs but to find out if I think they can handle things mentally and have turned away a few with instructions to help work on themselves for the mental journey they want to embark on.
TOM

Bellmawr, NJ

#22 Tuesday Aug 5
I am a married man married to a strong dominant wife.My wife has taken to humiliate me all the time.I have always been on the feminine side she says i am to pretty to be a man.She makes fun of my small co%k and has said i should have had a clit. She has taken to make me in to a women.She has my hair nails and make up done as well all my hair removed.One day she dressed me in a bra breast forms thong garter belt stockings and a short dress.When her women friends came over they all wanted to see the new women she made.She called me down and made me walk around so they all could see me.The humiliation was the least of my problems.the women would feel me up making fun of my tiny co%k.One women pull out a strap on and said it was time i became a real women.They removed my dress and thong held me down and she slid the strap on deep into my butt.They took turns doing me and each other.

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