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#1 Feb 18, 2012
I'm so confused and could really do with some advice! I'm 24 and have been engaged to my partner of the same age for a year now. We're very much in love but he has a low sex drive so the physical side is very hit and miss.
I run a shop that uses volunteers and a guy started about two months ago, really helpful, gets on with everyone and happily married, voluntarily doing six days a week.
Any way, three weeks ago he admitted he's been doing six days to spend time with me, says he's in love with me and would do anything for me. He's also said he'd do anything to be with me sexually, he gets hard every time i bend over and has to go calm down! He has a huge Bbw fetish and seems to be constantly fully aroused when I'm around, he's 13yrs older then me and his member is huge, so much so he can't hide it!
I just don't know what to do about the whole thing! It excites me but is so wrong!

Since: Feb 12

Dubai, UAE

#2 Feb 18, 2012
Hes married, u r engaged, as long as he dosent want to leave his wife, and u need to be sexually satisfied, then go for it, I had a fling at work once and it was awesome, as long as u r clear about what u r getting out of it, maybe the sex will be mind blowingly awesome and will be perfect to scratch your itch on an ongoing basis, u never know, maybe your fiancee will want to watch!!!!!!!!!

Mansfield, OH

#3 Feb 18, 2012
I never played where I worked.


#4 Feb 18, 2012
My fiancee absolutely hates the sight of him lol! He sent me texts declaring his love, my fiancee saw them and practically growls at him every time he see's him >.<

Since: Feb 12


#5 Feb 18, 2012
Well scratch that last idea off, he sounds a bit over the top, if u sleep with him he is gonna want it all, divorce his wife and marry u, is that what u want???? But maybe that monster if his is gonna tame u and u r gonna want him always! U can't have your cake and eat it every time.......... Or can u???

How r u gonna play it? U aint married yet!!!!!


#6 Feb 18, 2012
I think he wants his cake and eat it as you say! He's been married 11yrs and obviously loves his wife but she has mood swings, so he's always more 'into' me when they have had issues. He's told me they had a big row because he couldn't get fully hard for her- he says because he wants me and to be fair he never seems to have that issue at work!
I don't think we'd make a great couple but sexually i can tell sparks would fly! But its a slippery slope if i plan to get married!

Since: Feb 12


#7 Feb 18, 2012
Slipperey slope is getting married when u aint seeing stars every day when u r in the sack! Sex isn't everything but it is part of it, try your work colleague, maybe it will show u what ur missing in he sack, if fiancee isn't making u cum every time in bed before u r married what's gonna happen after. Marriage usnt about babies and cake sales! Its about wild intimate moments as well!


#8 Feb 18, 2012
Babies and cake sales lmao don't get me wrong when me and my fiancee have sex its fantastic but its once maybe every two weeks- I'm more a twice a day girl and this guy at work is hard and horny every time i turn around!
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Since: Feb 12

Portland, OR

#9 Feb 18, 2012
agreed ,if your not getting the whole package why marry him , a husband is your best friend in everything and your greatest source of pleasure

United States

#11 Feb 18, 2012
Your not married horny neglected so give the dude some and get all he can give while you can, will regret it later when he's gone and new hubby cuts you down to once a month

Since: Feb 12

Winnipeg, Canada

#13 Mar 3, 2012
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People dating in couples or with their spouses consent
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Fairfax, VA

#15 Mar 3, 2012
Years ago, a wise old guy gave me a bit of advice. I'll pass it on in hopes it does you some good:
"Don't get your meat where you get your bread."

In my humble opinion, if you do give in, you might as well kiss your engagement good-bye.

In any event, maybe you really aren't ready to get married after all. Sounds to me like you still need to sew a few wild oats.
Loveandofficespa ce

United States

#16 Mar 3, 2012
Dont do it. Not worth it. I was married for 6 yrs. My boss and i flirted on and off for a yr before anything happened. I had a troubled marriage. So it was easy to sray. My boss had a girlfriend. We agreed on nsa fwb after the first time we fooled around. I agreed to that cuz i figured it was a 50/50 chance we could be more out of it. I was in love with him. So it was doomed from the start. After a few hook ups i got pregnant. People at work found out. His gf found out. It all turned to shit. He lost his job. My husband found out.
Moral to the story if you want to fuck someone be single. Make sure they are too. Too many people get hurt.

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